When I was younger I was always running straight into the "fire"
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Boy, those emotions can tear you to parts... this stuff killed many good men e.g. Chuck Sipes.
After the years I've learned to keep a healthy distance and burn off unwanted vagina-stress...
...I go, if needed, through a 24h pressure cooker of just listening to music, stretching, practicing the lifts, guitar and thinking of myself.
After that I again walk the earth as a wanted and newborn man.