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w8m8

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270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« on: May 23, 2011, 10:21:05 AM »
from a piece in Esquire



Morning

First thing, take ninety seconds to give her the greatest good morning possible: "Good morning. I love you." And if she's asleep, you can lower your voice and whisper, "I love you. Have an awesome day." She'll hear you anyway.

After work

Right when you get home, focus on her for a full ninety seconds. If she's happy, you go happy; if she's low, you go low, and make sure you look her in the eyes long enough to discern her eye color. This says, I value you, I need you.

Night

Sometime during the last thirty minutes before bed, take ninety seconds to engage fully with her. Do not talk about children, money, or work. Don't talk about the past at all. Look at her, stroke her hair, snuggle up to her, tell her you love her.

Conclusion

Ninety seconds in the morning, ninety seconds after work (or any time you've been away from her for at least two hours), and ninety seconds at night. That's how you bond. After seven to ten days, the marriage will change.







I think those 270 seconds are very well spent and should be reciprocal  :)

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #1 on: May 23, 2011, 10:41:14 AM »
make sure you look her in the eyes long enough to discern her eye color.


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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #2 on: May 23, 2011, 10:46:39 AM »
And if she's asleep,She'll hear you anyway.

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #3 on: May 23, 2011, 12:26:43 PM »
;D



You girls are not kidding me.you love this and pretend you're asleep to see if the guy says's anything.

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #4 on: May 23, 2011, 12:30:16 PM »


You girls are not kidding me.you love this and pretend you're asleep to see if the guy says's anything.

no .. it's because we have excellent listening skills  ;D

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #5 on: May 23, 2011, 12:34:22 PM »
no .. it's because we have excellent listening skills  ;D

Uh?  Did you say something, honey?   ???

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #6 on: May 23, 2011, 12:41:28 PM »
no .. it's because we have excellent listening skills  ;D


Yeah,thats why you give a little smile when you hear it......even though you're sleeping ;) ::)

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #7 on: May 23, 2011, 12:57:53 PM »
Uh?  Did you say something, honey?   ???

lol  :D


Yeah,thats why you give a little smile when you hear it......even though you're sleeping ;) ::)

no

the smile is from the sweet dreams we get from having a man that whispers sweet nothin's to us even if we are sleeping  ;D


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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #8 on: May 23, 2011, 12:59:21 PM »
from a piece in Esquire



Morning

First thing, take ninety seconds to give her the greatest good morning possible: "Good morning. I love you." And if she's asleep, you can lower your voice and whisper, "I love you. Have an awesome day." She'll hear you anyway.

After work

Right when you get home, focus on her for a full ninety seconds. If she's happy, you go happy; if she's low, you go low, and make sure you look her in the eyes long enough to discern her eye color. This says, I value you, I need you.

Night

Sometime during the last thirty minutes before bed, take ninety seconds to engage fully with her. Do not talk about children, money, or work. Don't talk about the past at all. Look at her, stroke her hair, snuggle up to her, tell her you love her.

Conclusion

Ninety seconds in the morning, ninety seconds after work (or any time you've been away from her for at least two hours), and ninety seconds at night. That's how you bond. After seven to ten days, the marriage will change.







I think those 270 seconds are very well spent and should be reciprocal  :)
And what does she do? Last time i checked, a marriage is between two people...It's not like a man can't be neglected either...

w8m8

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #9 on: May 23, 2011, 01:13:28 PM »
And what does she do? Last time i checked, a marriage is between two people...It's not like a man can't be neglected either...

 ???

I said it should be reciprocal

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #10 on: May 23, 2011, 01:23:39 PM »
lol
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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #11 on: May 23, 2011, 01:40:52 PM »
???

I said it should be reciprocal
It should be changed to reflect what a man needs...which is not to have one's hair stroked (what if one doesn't have hair?), and a snuggle...the 270 was written from a woman's perspective on what a man should do

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #12 on: May 23, 2011, 01:48:22 PM »
It should be changed to reflect what a man needs...which is not to have one's hair stroked (what if one doesn't have hair?), and a snuggle...the 270 was written from a woman's perspective on what a man should do

that's a fair statement .. so list what men would like for those 270 seconds .. split into 90 at a time  :)

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #13 on: May 23, 2011, 03:59:21 PM »
wth 270 seconds...that's a freaking marathon

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #14 on: May 23, 2011, 08:21:36 PM »
my buddy does this with his g/f...says "i know you need some attention so Im going to give you 90 secs of uninterrupted eye contact" lmao

always funny as ish

what was the womans list to do for a better marriage? lol

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #15 on: May 24, 2011, 04:23:54 AM »
wth 270 seconds...that's a freaking marathon

HA HA !!  :D


my buddy does this with his g/f...says "i know you need some attention so Im going to give you 90 secs of uninterrupted eye contact" lmao

always funny as ish

what was the womans list to do for a better marriage? lol


lolololerss ... these topics reinforce the reasoning behind me being a single recluse  ;D

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #16 on: May 24, 2011, 06:45:55 AM »
wth 270 seconds...that's a freaking marathon

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #17 on: May 24, 2011, 07:17:09 AM »
???

I said it should be reciprocal


270 seconds of not talking to us sounds great ;D

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #18 on: May 24, 2011, 08:25:09 AM »

270 seconds of not talking to us sounds great ;D

not talking ... "sounds" great


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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #19 on: May 24, 2011, 08:38:57 AM »
not talking ... "sounds" great


 ::)



oh brother


Why yes...yes it does ;D 8)

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #20 on: May 24, 2011, 05:34:53 PM »
lolololerss ... these topics reinforce the reasoning behind me being a single recluse  ;D
LOL these topics and women who buy into them are the reason im single and content ;)

alas but soon I will be the only single guy left in my group of friends and then I will be forced to get into a serious relationship...waaa waaa waaaaaaaaah

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #21 on: May 24, 2011, 05:35:51 PM »
not talking ... "sounds" great


 ::)



oh brother

the "not talking stuff" im thinking about sounds great...and can apparently be done between commercial breaks.


so....


w8m8, got some free time?

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #22 on: May 25, 2011, 12:41:38 AM »
that's a fair statement .. so list what men would like for those 270 seconds .. split into 90 at a time  :)
I have to take my time...I'm thinking


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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #23 on: May 25, 2011, 05:26:08 AM »
that's a fair statement .. so list what men would like for those 270 seconds .. split into 90 at a time  :)

My understanding is that husbands are perfectly satisfied with only two things: sex and quiet.    :-\

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #24 on: May 25, 2011, 07:06:14 AM »
the "not talking stuff" im thinking about sounds great...and can apparently be done between commercial breaks.



lol!  How about you people that wait till we are on the phone to start yapping away!
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