I recently asked out two women: both told me they have boyfriends but were very pleasant and thanked me for asking. That's cool.
I have three sisters with whom I am very close, so I grew up around females and do have high standards. My sisters are good girls who are educated and only mildly insane (a majority of women are full-blown insane, as most of you know).
As far as being a beta male, perhaps in a sense as it pertains to relationships and how I treat women, but in every other sense, no. I am a 290-pound competitive powerlifter who comes by aggression (not violence) naturally and isn't afraid to smash shit up. But, yeah, in a relationship, I tend to be, as I say, affectionate, kind and ... perhaps too helpful/trusting/loyal.
I am far from ugly and despite my bodyweight, do have a decent build (26 years nonstop lifting, after all). But I am no pretty boy, that's for sure. Nor would I want to be one. This metrosexual deal with dudes hunting for fashion and being all femmed out isn't my bag AT ALL.
I like my rock and barbells heavy and my women loyal and intelligent. I tend to go for natural-looking girls without all the caked-on makeup, slutty clothes and bullshit attitudes. A girl-next-door, basically. More cute than gorgeous. As sang in that Journey tune, "the blue jean girl". Very feminine yet very smart and strong, both physically and mentally. I like sporty chicks.
Ah, fuck it. As someone said, if she stumbles into my life, cool; and if not, whatever.
