so true man
I love my girlfriend but "getting serious" scares the shit out of me
I see to many dudes losing everything and having to give up most of their paycheck to their ex who was probably already fucking another dude on the side for the entire time
scares the fucking shit out of me I tell you
Spot on.Few years ago my best friend at the time and i were constantly partyin,clubbing etc.Then he got all loved up, the girlfriend got pregnant and him being a really good guy towards women ( opposite of me at that time ), he decides to buy a house for his new cosy family.Now this guy makes double what i make from his job, but in the end right now hes skint.Still has the same job, but a few years later she left him for another guy, he still pays the morgage himself , but now his child lives with the mother and hes payin shitloads out.
For a while i thought he had the perfect life for himself while i was just toddling along meetin random women and doing my own thing, going nowhere really.But look where its ended up.Im majorly fussy with any woman, have plenty of money now saved, a sports car, loads of hobbies that take up my time, and generally really fukin happy i dont have to deal with any womans shit.Whereas hes got not alot, except a kid and an ex who controls everything.
The moral of the story? I dont know, but theres as good an argument for the nice guy always finishes last if any.Cos let me tell you, hes the nicest guy any woman could ever meet ( loyal, caring , would never cheat, a bit of a sucker really ).Me, im glad im still single with no kids or ties, but if the right woman came along 1 day thats also fine.Just dont be a pussy TS.This whole loyalty and doing everything for a woman gets you nowhere im afraid.Be in control and theyll not be able to get enough of yu.Ive always been that way and never been short of offers by women ive met.
Just enjoy life man, the worst thing you can do is try too hard