I really would like to meet a nice girl ...

[aesthetics]

you must have gotten beaten daily on the playground in grade school through highschool by a girl or something to be this traumatized by the sheer mention of women. what's wrong with you, bro? how can you call yourself a man when you are so emotionally damaged by a few girls, in your short life history, rejecting you.

[MikMaq]

I find the key with being happy with inter-personal relationships or just with life in general is being happy with yourself and not defining your self-worth based on whether you're in a relationship or not.

I'm 31, single for over a year, and it doesn't bother me at all.  I honestly simply don't care.  I just visited my brother (same age) who's married to a great girl for I think six years now and has a young child.  I came away from the trip thinking "wow they're all doing great, seem really happy, that's great", not "oh no, I'm single, no real prospects for changing that right now, no children, woe is me."  I would like to be in a great relationship with a great girl, but I don't think that's something you can or should have to seek out.  It should come more or less naturally out of the normal dynamics of your life.  Fuck going to the ends of the earth or stressing out on getting some chick to like you, convincing someone who's essentially a stranger that you're worth a damn, etc.  I'd rather spend my time socializing with and visiting friends and family, working on a job that I love, things that make me happy and add to my life rather than subtract from it, like many relationships often do, and yet people cling to them because they lack self-confidence and define their self-worth based on what one other person thinks of them romantically.

Similarly I'm not a big believer in "working" on a relationship.  If you have to work on it constantly you should probably take a step back and reflect on why you're in it in the first place.  It's not supposed to be hard.

I'll agree on the first part, people that are dependent are horrible people to have in a relationship, because they rely on being dominated by agressive personalities to make it work. Which means the bulk of people by defintion head directly into bad relationships.

Just look a what groink sad about his misses, by the sounds of it, he's in the first mutual relationship in his life, no surprise considering his need to dominate the folk at the local redbox.

In the past tradition/the church meant there was a ground work for a mutual relationship, as a man needed a women just to eat, and a women needed a man for money. And the church made it so people had to work with what they got instead of looking for greener pastures.

In the modern day we need to learn to find mutual relationships, and that takes alot of work, a functional mutual relationship takes constant effort and neverending reappraisal at each step along the way.

[Radical Plato]

There's no such thing as prince charming, I am not looking for something which doesn't exist.  Just a guy who has a good heart, whom I enjoy his companionship, has a great sense of humour and is loyal and loving.  I believe that every person can be an asshole when they want to be and that's fine.  As long as they have good intentions and are a good person deep down.  

What a confused woman. You say there is no such thing as prince charming, and then you go on to describe what you want, and lo and behold, it's Prince Charming.  I hate to tell you that a guy who has a good heart, who's companionship you enjoy and has a great sense of humour and is loyal and loving doesnt exist and is the very definition of Prince Charming.  No wonder men give up.  You women are so fuc(ed up you dont even know what mental delusions you suffer from.  As a 38 year old man, let me tell you, we are monsters, the sooner you realise this, the sooner you might be able to settle wth a man and stop projecting BS expectactions on them.

[StanZoLOL]

I find the key with being happy with inter-personal relationships or just with life in general is being happy with yourself and not defining your self-worth based on whether you're in a relationship or not.

I'm 31, single for over a year, and it doesn't bother me at all.  I honestly simply don't care.  I just visited my brother (same age) who's married to a great girl for I think six years now and has a young child.  I came away from the trip thinking "wow they're all doing great, seem really happy, that's great", not "oh no, I'm single, no real prospects for changing that right now, no children, woe is me."  I would like to be in a great relationship with a great girl, but I don't think that's something you can or should have to seek out.  It should come more or less naturally out of the normal dynamics of your life.  Fuck going to the ends of the earth or stressing out on getting some chick to like you, convincing someone who's essentially a stranger that you're worth a damn, etc.  I'd rather spend my time socializing with and visiting friends and family, working on a job that I love, things that make me happy and add to my life rather than subtract from it, like many relationships often do, and yet people cling to them because they lack self-confidence and define their self-worth based on what one other person thinks of them romantically.

Similarly I'm not a big believer in "working" on a relationship.  If you have to work on it constantly you should probably take a step back and reflect on why you're in it in the first place.  It's not supposed to be hard.

good post, couldn't have said it better.

[booty]

What a confused woman. You say there is no such thing as prince charming, and then you go on to describe what you want, and lo and behold, it's Prince Charming.  I hate to tell you that a guy who has a good heart, who's companionship you enjoy and has a great sense of humour and is loyal and loving doesnt exist and is the very definition of Prince Charming.  No wonder men give up.  You women are so fuc(ed up you dont even know what mental delusions you suffer from.  As a 38 year old man, let me tell you, we are monsters, the sooner you realise this, the sooner you might be able to settle wth a man and stop projecting BS expectactions on them.

I am not confused, I know exactly what kind of man I want.  I have had long term relationships and a few short ones too, so with that comes experience and knowing what you need and what you don't need.  Not all men are monsters, so I shouldn't have to "settle" as you put it. 

[Radical Plato]

I am not confused, I know exactly what kind of man I want.  I have had long term relationships and a few short ones too, so with that comes experience and knowing what you need and what you don't need.  Not all men are monsters, so I shouldn't have to "settle" as you put it.  

When I know what I want, I go and get it then move on.  I dont spend years bumbling from one thing to the next and then deciding I now know what I want.  If you want something, take it, otherwise  maybe time to look in the mirror.  So, this is the problem women wont admit they dont have any idea what they want, so women idealise some fictional guy in their head and project it onto every guy they meet, the guy gets sick of being held up to some fictional New Age Man Whore and leaves for a simpler life, some beer and a good porn session.  Keep telling yourself that not all men are monsters, but as a man, I can tell you this is fact - you potentially suspect this deep down but to acknowledge it would ruin every woman's dream of marriage and motherhood.  I dont believe in settling, I am a masculist, and believe women are inferior to men, not in a mean way, just a factual way.  Women should be less masculine and more feminine to attract men, but most women these days are more masculine than men.  Their attitude, the way the back chat men, the way they argue and physically attack men, its sickening.  As a man, I just hunt women, devour them, savour the aftertaste and move on.  Feels natural, Feels right, and I feel like a man.  Now, if only women could learn to feel like women again, the world might set itself right again.

[booty]

So, this is the problem you wont admit you dont have no idea what you want, so you idealise some fictional guy in your head and project it onto every guy they meet, the guy gets sick of being held up to some fictional New Age Man Whore and leaves for a simpler life, some beer and a good porn session.  Keep telling yourself that not all men are monsters, but as a man, I can tell you this is fact - you potentially suspect this deep down but to acknowledge it would ruin every woman's dream of marriage and motherhood.  I dont believe in settling, I am a masculist, and believe women are inferior to men, not in a mean way, just a factual way.  Women should be less masculine and more feminine to attract men, but most women these days are more masculine than men.  Their attitude, the way the back chat men, the way they argue and physically attack men, its sickening.  As a man, I just hunt women, devour them, savour the aftertaste and move on.  Feels natural, Feels right, and I feel like a man.  Now, if only women could learn to feel like women again, the world might set itself right again.

I think you've got a few issues because you seem determined to keep telling me that I don't know what I want, when in fact I do know.  If you can convince women that all men are monsters, then sure they might just settle for a guy like you.  But I know better.  You won't convince me that men are all monsters.  It's like saying that all women are monsters which isn't so.  You can't stereotype everyone to be the same because people are individuals. 

[dyslexic]

It is most definitely a "people" thing, not a male or female issue.

I agree that great people have to be assholes once in awhile. It doesn't mean that they are rotten or that they have bad intentions. Some people keep things bottled up inside, others blow off steam continuously.

If a person realizes that their partner is a good person, but has to let out a little steam once in awhile, there doesn't have to be a big fight or a stereo-typical plastering.

Blanket statements do not apply when speaking on issues of humanity.

Even with medicine a doctor can prescribe the exact same drug and dosage to 20 different people, and each person is going to have differences in their reactions.


Once a male starts hating females, you know that issues have developed. For whatever reason (no blame because it could be a number of things) ~ but, once it starts, the coldness sets in and the walls get built for disaster.


If this is the case in a man's life because of hurt he has been through so many times that he has become callous, does that mean that it is right to pass this attitude then on to his sons?


There are good people in this world. Men AND women. Sometimes they are just hard to find, because in a fallen world like the one we live in, hatred and discontent are predominant. If you don't believe me, just take a closer look at the posts on these forums. They speak for themselves.


People can get so rotten that they become thoughtless and instinctual... like animals. It's a sad state of "affairs" (no pun intended)

[Radical Plato]

I think you've got a few issues because you seem determined to keep telling me that I don't know what I want, when in fact I do know.  If you can convince women that all men are monsters, then sure they might just settle for a guy like you.  But I know better.  You won't convince me that men are all monsters.  It's like saying that all women are monsters which isn't so.  You can't stereotype everyone to be the same because people are individuals.  

Stereotypes are there for a reason, as they help sum up a large proportion of similar groups.  I dont care if women believe Men are Monsters, I am a man, I have two brothers, I have spent a great deal of my life associating involuntarily with men, I know exactly how they think, behave, act deep deep down.  Women need to delude themselves so as to procreate, because if women really accepted what us men knew to be true, no woman would ever sleep with a man again.  And if you knew what you wanted, you would have it.  If I want a woman, I ask myself what type of woman do I want, I take an the appropriate role for said situation and target what I want, i either get it or I dont.  I dont get it and then say, on no, actually, thats not what I wanted or now I know what I really want.  And it is a myth that people are individials, the majority of people, especially women are so alike it is not funny.  Women have become caricatures of themselves, with their shaved genitals, their fake tits, their plastic bodies, their fake tan, their fake color hair, their fake nails, their fake eyelashes, their extreme vanity and narcissism and there identical outlook on life.  Women do all this as they have great void in them (Penis Envy) Sigmund Freuds Term not mine.  No wonder us Men just want to fuck and thats it.

[wes]

good post, couldn't have said it better.

Damn good post!

[wes]

It is most definitely a "people" thing, not a male or female issue.

I agree that great people have to be assholes once in awhile. It doesn't mean that they are rotten or that they have bad intentions. Some people keep things bottled up inside, others blow off steam continuously.

If a person realizes that their partner is a good person, but has to let out a little steam once in awhile, there doesn't have to be a big fight or a stereo-typical plastering.

Blanket statements do not apply when speaking on issues of humanity.

Even with medicine a doctor can prescribe the exact same drug and dosage to 20 different people, and each person is going to have differences in their reactions.


Once a male starts hating females, you know that issues have developed. For whatever reason (no blame because it could be a number of things) ~ but, once it starts, the coldness sets in and the walls get built for disaster.


If this is the case in a man's life because of hurt he has been through so many times that he has become callous, does that mean that it is right to pass this attitude then on to his sons?


There are good people in this world. Men AND women. Sometimes they are just hard to find, because in a fallen world like the one we live in, hatred and discontent are predominant. If you don't believe me, just take a closer look at the posts on these forums. They speak for themselves.


People can get so rotten that they become thoughtless and instinctual... like animals. It's a sad state of "affairs" (no pun intended)

Another great post.................... good thread.

[Radical Plato]

It is most definitely a "people" thing, not a male or female issue.

I agree that great people have to be assholes once in awhile. It doesn't mean that they are rotten or that they have bad intentions. Some people keep things bottled up inside, others blow off steam continuously.

If a person realizes that their partner is a good person, but has to let out a little steam once in awhile, there doesn't have to be a big fight or a stereo-typical plastering.

Blanket statements do not apply when speaking on issues of humanity.

Even with medicine a doctor can prescribe the exact same drug and dosage to 20 different people, and each person is going to have differences in their reactions.


Once a male starts hating females, you know that issues have developed. For whatever reason (no blame because it could be a number of things) ~ but, once it starts, the coldness sets in and the walls get built for disaster.


If this is the case in a man's life because of hurt he has been through so many times that he has become callous, does that mean that it is right to pass this attitude then on to his sons?


There are good people in this world. Men AND women. Sometimes they are just hard to find, because in a fallen world like the one we live in, hatred and discontent are predominant. If you don't believe me, just take a closer look at the posts on these forums. They speak for themselves.


People can get so rotten that they become thoughtless and instinctual... like animals. It's a sad state of "affairs" (no pun intended)

Quite a sensitive and thoughtful post for a man. Props ya big HOMO 

[booty]

It is most definitely a "people" thing, not a male or female issue.

I agree that great people have to be assholes once in awhile. It doesn't mean that they are rotten or that they have bad intentions. Some people keep things bottled up inside, others blow off steam continuously.

If a person realizes that their partner is a good person, but has to let out a little steam once in awhile, there doesn't have to be a big fight or a stereo-typical plastering.

Blanket statements do not apply when speaking on issues of humanity.

Even with medicine a doctor can prescribe the exact same drug and dosage to 20 different people, and each person is going to have differences in their reactions.


Once a male starts hating females, you know that issues have developed. For whatever reason (no blame because it could be a number of things) ~ but, once it starts, the coldness sets in and the walls get built for disaster.


If this is the case in a man's life because of hurt he has been through so many times that he has become callous, does that mean that it is right to pass this attitude then on to his sons?


There are good people in this world. Men AND women. Sometimes they are just hard to find, because in a fallen world like the one we live in, hatred and discontent are predominant. If you don't believe me, just take a closer look at the posts on these forums. They speak for themselves.


People can get so rotten that they become thoughtless and instinctual... like animals. It's a sad state of "affairs" (no pun intended)

Well said. 

[The Grim Lifter]

Thank you.    Look there are still alot of nice decent guys here in Australia...well the ones that I know anyway.  Maybe it's just society as a whole, I don't know but it just appears that rudeness is on the increase.  Like I said, I never had men before being so pushy and taking up my personal space when I was using an atm machine or pushing a trolly into my stomach when shopping at the supermarket.  Things like this just never happened.  
Yes I have been working on herbicepscam since August last year.  Those are my pics from my profile on there.  

Society as a whole is ruder and more fucked up that it was 10-15 years ago.

Your views on getting a guy are nice but lets cut to it. You want a guy who is around your looks and a bit taller than you. Not too bad so that you can do better, not too good so he will look for something better. After that it can come down to not being fucking crazy. Anything else is the 1%.

But it's hard because you are high on the looks food chain, so there are very few guys walking around who can be you're potential mate. Much easier if you were an average 5-6 you would have much more options. You could get lucky, otherwise you are going to get some nutters coming up to you.

[WillGrant]

LOL @ Thread still going 

[booty]

LOL @ Thread still going 

[Palpatine Q]

I've never seen a pic of his face.  But he thinks he's better than everybody else and that's a turn off.  Everybody is more or less on the same level...nobody is better than anybody else. 

You see, that's where you go wrong.

I could give a flying fuck if i turn you "off" , "on" or anything in between.

You're a cheap whore, like Calvin said....Now this may make you some fans around here....there's a lot of hard-up, socially stunted misfits on this board who probably will never be able to score an attractive woman.

But I'm not one of them  and I think your act is pathetic

[booty]

You see, that's where you go wrong.

I could give a flying fuck if i turn you "off" , "on" or anything in between.

You're a cheap whore, like Calvin said....Now this may make you some fans around here....there's a lot of hard-up, socially stunted misfits on this board who probably will never be able to score an attractive woman.

But I'm not one of them  and I think your act is pathetic

I didn't get my question answered.  Were you really saying that you wanted to make love to yourself in that youtube video? 

[newmom]

I didn't get my question answered.  Were you really saying that you wanted to make love to yourself in that youtube video? 

that voice was dubbed over. Groink didn't say that. That voice over was from another video of some dink but I give fuck all to find it.

[booty]

that voice was dubbed over. Groink didn't say that. That voice over was from another video of some dink but I give fuck all to find it.

Okay, cool.  Thanks Runningmom. 

[ipne]

You see, that's where you go wrong.

I could give a flying fuck if i turn you "off" , "on" or anything in between.

You're a cheap whore, like Calvin said....Now this may make you some fans around here....there's a lot of hard-up, socially stunted misfits on this board who probably will never be able to score an attractive woman.

But I'm not one of them  and I think your act is pathetic

everybody look...the moron's getting angry!

[Palpatine Q]

I'll agree on the first part, people that are dependent are horrible people to have in a relationship, because they rely on being dominated by agressive personalities to make it work. Which means the bulk of people by defintion head directly into bad relationships.

Just look a what groink sad about his misses, by the sounds of it, he's in the first mutual relationship in his life, no surprise considering his need to dominate the folk at the local redbox.

In the past tradition/the church meant there was a ground work for a mutual relationship, as a man needed a women just to eat, and a women needed a man for money. And the church made it so people had to work with what they got instead of looking for greener pastures.

In the modern day we need to learn to find mutual relationships, and that takes alot of work, a functional mutual relationship takes constant effort and neverending reappraisal at each step along the way.

my don't we have a big mouth lately    It seems we have another anonymous bigmouth who thinks what he says "matters" in the making here...here's a thought...grow a set of balls and post a pic    or are you the type who's afraid to take a little return fire.....you know........ A PUSSY  

I was married for 13 years you idiot,,,

[Palpatine Q]

everybody look...the moron's getting angry!

HI asif

get those "17's" up to "18's" yet??

Hahahaaahahaahaaaaaaaaaa aaaa.....This is what, your fifth go-round here?  nobody likes you....go away.

It's just a matter of time before you are banned anyway, why waste time

[Palpatine Q]

i'll be making an announcement about your daughter later on. (or should i say "ex"-daughter).

LOL

Enjoy timeout 

[booty]

i'll be making an announcement about your daughter later on. (or should i say "ex"-daughter).

I don't think that anyone can be an ex daughter or son.  I am sure that Groink is still a good father to his daughter even though he is no longer with the mother.