This is a good thread, I have to say Groink and Runningmom have really come along since they havnt been dragged down by Avesher and FatAlice.
Groink hit the nail on the head, every woman has a harem of men, even worse these days with facebook, that they have in the back of their mind incase their "feelings" on the current partner go south, you only have to look at all the asskissing on here of Booty to see how desperate males become at the hint of Vagina.
Problem is love is like a drug, youll get in to a relationship even if its making you more unhappy than being single if you are in love with the woman, because you know the pain (withdrawel) from losing them will be even more miserable, so starts the vicious cycle.Most of the guys I know would probably still be with their first girlfriends, as men value loyalty, if they hadnt been dumped by the woman (isnt this always the way?)