my ex was a bit like my mother = shitty relationship
my current gf is the complete opposite = great relationship
Huh...werent the first times of your relationship with your ex feeling good too ?
she is not different, you ll understand as she ages. You only know a person the more time you spent with her/him. And you end finding out we re all the same, we re all functionning the same way. And we all have to better each others and fight evil together, or let it take over ourselves.
You guys dont get it. You cannot find a woman who s different, you re programmed to always find women who are clones of your mother. Sooner or later you ll find out whatever woman you re with. It's the same for everyone, it's a general principle. What you have to do is to accept it. You can switch from one woman to another as much as you want, they re all copies of your mother.
We re designed to be reassured finding similar traits in our girlfriends and mothers. We re always looking for our mother whatever what we do. You cant change these rules, you re always following them one way or another.
When she gets older she will remind you of your mother more and more, trust me..
boom.
On a side note, all women are the same... And all men are the same... And the more men age the more they ressemble their fathers just like women ressemble their mothers as they age... You guys think you can change the rules...No, you can only understand and accept them , or not. It's like a board game, you cant change the rules, you can only follow them, win, or lose.
Humans are suposed as they age to fight the bad in themselves they inherited from both mother and father, and cultivate the good. To do so they need a moral, spiritual guideline. They need to better themselves, understand what s was wrong and not reproduce it. Both men and women. It s easier when both follow the same guideline. It takes communication and faith in something bigger than ourselves.
Also we all age, one day we ll all be old and playing cards together, no more video games, no more weights, no more porn, we ll need each others physical presence just to keep ourselves entertained, alive, interacting.
Take a look at retirement homes sometimes.
How many of us will still be there, how many will survive life itself, reach the 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s ?
You guys talk about other human beings like they must be perfect from day one, pretend to be perfect yourselves, you have no clue what human life is really about. Spoiled, unrealistic, immature mentality coming from grown ups who are still boys and who ve been raised by a single mother and an absent father.
