I live in a country where feminism hasn't taken off.
My wife doesn't work. She gets up in the AM and takes the kids to school, then goes and fetches me a coffee from Starbucks and when she comes back she cooks my breakfast. I work at home and I just have to call out for a cup of tea or a snack any time (unless she's off @ her yoga class or with friends). There is never any complaint and I usually get a peck on the cheek when it comes. I get lunch & dinner made too and if she's not there she makes sure my food is.
If I go out & get shitfaced, I can call her at 3am and she'll drive into town and pick me up. Same deal if she's out with the girls, I'll do the same.
She considers these 'chores' just a part of helping her man focus on his business which right now is taking a lot of time. That's her role in the relationship.
In return, she expects the weekends to be family time. She expects to be taken out on dates so we can spend time together. She expects me to stay fit as she likes to get pounded hard in the sack, something she considers to be my role in the relationship - making sure she's sexually satisfied. When it's her time of the month, she'll give me BJs without complaint. She expects me to change lightbulbs, fix broken shit and do the driving when we are both in the car.
She has her friends & I have mine. She's free to go out whenever she wants as am I. Sometimes I go out with her friends too - but only with a wingman.
Marriage is not for everyone. I personally like the companionship. We met when I was 36 and I'm 45 on Saturday. She's 33 in June. Of course, we have our moments, heated discussions but that's normal.
In the event of my death - everything goes to her & the kids but in the meantime - offshore bank accounts are way beyond the jurisdiction of courts in this country.
All in all - I am happy to be married and happy that we both have our roles, I support her, she supports me. I think this is the way it used to be a long time ago in the west....