Author Topic: When you meet "the one" who happens to live thousands of miles away. What to do  (Read 5958 times)

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Yeah, sounds like I'm looking for an excuse before just trying it out.  We did talk yesterday after I posted this and she feels the same. Wants to see me again so we're figuring it out.  I'm out in Austin a lot and will be in NY a couple times this summer so either I'll meet her in Iowa or have her come and meet me in NY or Austin again and just extend my work trip.  Fuck you about the hairdo but yes, I love a certain style of hair on a woman.

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I met my wife on Getbig. She lived on Guam at the time (over 7000mi away). We’ve been married over 10 years. Like everything else it’s a matter of how bad do you want it

How often do you get back to Guam to see her?

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2 things concern me 1 you don’t want to go see her, 2 she gives you short answers on Tex which would make me think she has a bf/husband

If those 2 things don’t concern you fly her out to so cal for a long weekend. So much to do there she’ll love it and the chemistry will pick up where it left off. Then reevaluate the situation after she leaves. If it’s right it will just work right from the beginning and all the other stuff will work it self out

Buddy met one he clicked with like you described just chemistry from the get go only problem is she already took a job in another state and sold her place. Thought oh well I’ll just fuck her and that will be that. Long story short he let her move in with him after 1 month  been together 10 years married 8 and still just as happy. Prob one of the few people I know who never fights with his wife/gf.

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2 things concern me 1 you don’t want to go see her, 2 she gives you short answers on Tex which would make me think she has a bf/husband

If those 2 things don’t concern you fly her out to so cal for a long weekend. So much to do there she’ll love it and the chemistry will pick up where it left off. Then reevaluate the situation after she leaves. If it’s right it will just work right from the beginning and all the other stuff will work it self out

Buddy met one he clicked with like you described just chemistry from the get go only problem is she already took a job in another state and sold her place. Thought oh well I’ll just fuck her and that will be that. Long story short he let her move in with him after 1 month  been together 10 years married 8 and still just as happy. Prob one of the few people I know who never fights with his wife/gf.
She is adamant she is single.  Short texts at first but now she’s writing more. She was hesitant like I was about a long distance thing but we’re going to try.  I might just fly her to SF and then Napa.  What better way to see if something is still there.

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Distance wouldn’t matter one bit to Fortress if he met a special lady.

When I lived in Ohio, I dated a gal who lived back home in Toronto. However, I’m a total loner, so lots of time apart doesn’t bug me. Of course, I have to trust the girl, or it’s instant over.

But I know what you mean about being gobsmacked about a woman.

Sometimes I see a chick and it’s just like a colossal punch to the face.

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So I meet all sorts of chicks through my work.  I travel a lot and get the luxury of going to nice restaurants, hotels and bars and meet all sorts of whores.  Most of the time I meet them, leave and never think twice about them until this one woman I met last week. I'm not exaggerating when I tell this story.  I'm in Austin, which I have been going to a lot and walking down Congress around 9:00 PM to the JW and pass this outside patio area and glimpse this woman from the side of my eye and just stop cold in my tracks.  I look at her and she has a friend sitting with her.  I say hi to them both and ask if I can sit and join them for a drink.  I never fucking do this on my own.  Not sure what super power came over me with steel balls to pull that move.  I pull up a chair next to the one chick and ignore her friend.  We start talking about stuff and about 20 minutes in the friend realizes it's her queue to leave and excuses her self.  Now I'm talking to this woman that caught my eye.  Little about her.  She's from Iowa (I'll get back to this) and is in Austin with her coworker (the chick that left) for two days for work.  Her and I just start talking like we've known each other for ages.  Strange conversation because the entire time I'm talking to her like we've known each other for years and finally met back up.  She's just a stunning gorgeous woman.  Dressed super professional but super sexy, like a dirty librarian.  She literally fits every category if I were to list out what I want in my perfect woman.  She has a great career, dog lover, beautiful, funny, sweet, tall, perfect physique, even her hairdo is my favorite style.  No shit we sat at this patio ordering drinks and food from 9:00 until 2:00 when they finally stopped serving.  We stayed on that patio until 5AM talking until we realized It's time to get some sleep since we both had work in a couple hours.  The entire time I never once thought about having sex.  I think about sex 99.99999% of the day but with her I was just enjoying what we were doing.  She was all touchy with me, our legs intertwined, sitting real close, just totally into each other.  She was flying out the next day but we agreed to meet back for a bit before she headed to the airport.  I met back and man,  she was still sweet, but seemed sad to say bye.   We talked for an hour, seemed awkward at times because we both seemed melancholy about the situation and she had to go to the airport but we said we'd keep in touch.   I texted her and get back short quick answers, she seems to want to talk but I can't figure out what's happening.  I want to push it a bit but feel what's the point.  No matter what happens this won't work out.  I'm in SoCal and she's in Iowa.  I'm not going to fly out there often to see her and certainly won't ever move out there but I don't think I want her to come to SoCal.  I want this chick so back but can't seem to push myself to pursue this anymore.  The shitty part is that it's consuming my fucking brain all week.  All I think about is her, wanting to hang out and just be with her.  Something happened when I met her, some chemistry, some connection and I can't let it go.  I know the same thing happened with her. This is not even a situation of seeing other whores to get her off of my mind, been there, done that already this week and it doesn't help.
She did say she was single, not dating blah blah and I totally believe her because that was what we spoke about for a bit the night we met..  

Would you guys pursue a cross country romance?  Aren't these things always destined to fail?  Fuck I had a cross state romance and just going from SoCal to NorCal was too much and we eventually called it off.  You guys can call my pathetic, loser whatever, I don't give a fuck.  Just needed to write this shit down and get it off of my chest.  Getbig is my fucking therapy.  The humor here and some of the actual knowledge from some of the good posters actually does help.  I just kind of want to stop texting and end this because it sucks ass and then part of me wants to go full force but I can't see any way this would logistically work out.  Its totally fucking up my mind.



what does she look like, give us a celeb or someone she resembles

and lol at favorite hairdo, infatuation much  :-\

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I met my wife on Getbig. She lived on Guam at the time (over 7000mi away). We’ve been married over 10 years. Like everything else it’s a matter of how bad do you want it

7000 miles? Then there is also hope for SF1900 and Goodrum <3

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Yes this wall of text crap is Danimal77. I guess that he has moved on from sabotaging his 27 year old ex


Looks like he Using getbig as place to vent because he is single. Pathetic

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Juts for you danima... err.. mr. blanco


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I've met my wife in the city I live in. It took me 10 minutes driving to get from my house to hers.

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Juts for you danima... err.. mr. blanco


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I've met my wife in the city I live in. It took me 10 minutes driving to get from my house to hers.

You are a great help lol


Go for it, it does not happen often, it does not happen at all for many people tbh. It did happen to me once... she thought it was too much (the distance), broke it off, I was really crushed, but got up on my feet fast, used that as a motivation to progress in life (to show her what she has lost). She tried to come back many times over the years, but I was in other relathionship(s) and of a very stubborn nature, it really did affect me in a bad way. One day, when I finally decided enough is eough, we both know it's not going away (the feeling) even tho' quite some years have passed, I contacted her, just to finf out she just gave a birth. Needless to say the guy isnot exactly what she (probably) expected, the child was not planned and she is not even married yet. I've proven my truth in many ways (by becoming succesfull) and she knows it, she is fully aware that the break up was a mistake and probably will hate herself for the rest of her life (or I think too high of myself), she will be a single mom down the road, I am sure, I'd probably take her, but it's a fukkin boy, girld would be ok, but not a boy, idk why..  Anyway... the timing is important, do it while it's hot or it may be too late.

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did not read...but will not work...
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Did not read but the only two reasons to have a woman, sex and housekeeping/cooking ect are not available long distance so it’s not worth the effort

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Remember: the trick to getting in past the thumb knuckle is plenty of lube, patience, and clitoral stimulation.  Use a twisting motion.

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did not read...but will not work...

Exactly

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"The one" hahaha, my ass... All you know about this person is their projection of themselves. You won't know how much they are lying until you live with them about a month.

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When you find her it's like.

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It all comes down to how horny you are.

That airfare gets expensive and the seats in coach are so uncomfortable.

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what does she look like, give us a celeb or someone she resembles

and lol at favorite hairdo, infatuation much  :-\

So yes, I love this hairstyle on chicks.  Something dirty sexy about it.  No she isn't as hot as Taylor Swift but then again who is?


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So yes, I love this hairstyle on chicks.  Something dirty sexy about it. 

No she isn't as hot as Taylor Swift but then again who is?


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The  photoshopped guy holding the level on her pancake ass is f'n hilarious.
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So yes, I love this hairstyle on chicks.  Something dirty sexy about it.  No she isn't as hot as Taylor Swift but then again who is?