I have two split families myself - but you can say whatever you want about me, call me "racist" or "sexist"...but I will never abandon my children as long as I have penny in my pocket. That penny would go to them. I want to be on good terms with the mothers of my children for the rest of my life. I also have a hard time getting close to one woman because I want several women, and I'm just too easy - I always exceed the tables in terms of paying spousal/child support. There is no financial incentive for a woman to bring me to court.
I can handle being called "racist" because the threshold to be called racist is so low...but I would not want to be called a bad dad [mainly because I'm not a bad dad - my kids love me, and the generous support checks keep coming to my baby mothers.