I am a spray tan away a 20 minute sauna and a 2 day diet away from being stage ready
Talking about it on get big and actually doing it, are 2 very different things.
On a serious note, if you really don't want to compete in a contest, fine.
Nothing wrong with being Mr PoolBoy
Ok, on a serious note, let me give you an example we can all understand:
We've all know a guy , who's a stud legend...in his own mind.
He goes to the club, and brags about all the top self pussy he can pull.
He often ridicules other guys for hooking up with "ugly skanks" ( aka real girls) , he'd never touch.
However, you never actually see him pick up a girl and go home with her.
When confronted with that reality, he uses some lame excuse about waiting for a perfect "10".
BHanks, you sound like the bodybuilding version of " That Guy"