i think a lot of the fat so called bodybuilders on here (sarcasm, kiwiol, mos to name but a few) have sex with fat women, if they have sex at all... i mean they dont have a choice do they? when was the last time you heard about a fat guy having sex with non fat women? besides they share the same lifestyle, which is about eating. and their friends are fat too so it's not like it's a secret.