Can Rich Cooper save Matt C?

[evacnam]

Hey Josh, sorry I missed this. I just woke up at 5:30pm. Catching up now.

I have friends here, but Ontario is under a full lock-down, and has an 8pm curfew. I don't follow these rules, but probably half of my friends do.

Gyms are still closed.

I have some long-term issues I may not ever be able to resolve.

And I know a lot of people get into a rut, and make excuses for their inactivity.

But I'm not making up the fact that gyms here are closed. YouTube and Big Tech is targeting anyone who supported Trump, or is even simply not an SJW.

Steve Kuclo was banned from Twitter for being openly Republican. Kirstie Alley has 80,000 Twitter followers removed for supporting Trump.

And that's my issue, Josh. I refuse to censor myself. I want to be respectful when I discuss controversial topics - but I refuse to muzzle myself completely, or post behind an anonymous screen name, out of fear of threats by SJW's.

And in the end, it's just frustrating to constantly deal with it - even for those who are tough and have thick skin.

But all that aside...I still have COVID lock-downs to contend with in Thunder Bay / Ontario.

It's not just that things are locked down - it's that we have a LOT of paranoid here.

My sister visited here from England, and told me that she has seen NO CITY as paranoid as Thunder Bay.

I mean, calling the police on someone for not wearing a mask, who is legally exempt?

Have you experienced some of these paranoid people where you are?

If so, do you have any tips to deal with it?

I ignore absolutely everyone, mind my own business and live my life. I cant be bothered with paranoid people or other people.

[wes]

Matt your anxiety is off the chain...........get a good doctor and get some anti anxiety meds ASAP.

[IroNat]

[Matt]

Matt in your post were you talking about social injustice of black vs white and the world we live in OR were you talking about how you can't trust people and you've been lied to so often and women let you down?

I'm more curious why you keep finding the same type of women and blame them instead of yourself for not setting a higher standard.

As far as white cop shooting a black dude I dont see it as simple as that. I saw a cop who was in a fight with a criminal and in the moment he used the force he felt necessary to save his life. Adding in the race of the individuals makes a great headline but if the white guy was a racist the black guy was a dangerous criminal so how much does that change?

Anyhow i'm sorry I asked.

You are right - I brought up two separate matters there.

Ok, so you asked about women, and the potential psychological basis for that:

In 2000, at age 18, I fell deeply in what I thought was love, for the first time ever. It was such a painful experience, my brain shut down my ability to love. I think it impacted my epigenetics. The experience was so painful, my brain wouldn't let me love.

Fast forward another 18 years, and for reasons I just don't understand, I fell in love again.

This woman withheld the fact that she was a 5-year opioid addict. She spent $20,000 of my money, and did not even hold my hand. All the while, I could have been sleeping with my other female friends, but I dedicated entirely to her.

Because I thought I was in love. And all my life, never having any problems getting women - tell me, Dave:

WHAT are the odds that the ONE woman my brain let me love after 18 YEARS of shutting down my ability to love, would my love be given to a woman who I did more for than ANY other, who took advantage of me more than ANY other women, and lied to me about everything?

I kept wondering...what am I doing wrong? I have NEVER done more for a woman in my life, aside from the mothers of my children.

Then what happened when I ditched her? After her initial breakdown on Instagram, guess who she dates?

A 36-year-old man on welfare!

And THAT was the issue - it wasn't that I wasn't good enough - it's that I wasn't BAD enough.

She KNEW there was no way a man who has what I have would keep her. She needed a man that made her comfortable while she remained a drug addict janitor with no post-secondary education, no money, no savings, who lives with her parents at 29 [now 32].

She hinted to me she thought I would move on to another woman - and to be fair, whenever I would have found out she was an opiate addict who slept with over 30 men, I WOULD have left her.

I stayed - but only because she lied to me.

So Dave, to summarize:

My entire experience with women has been wonderful.

But what are the odds that the second woman I felt I "loved", and the first since age 18, would have turned out to be such a wretched, drug-addicted, slutty, lying piece of trash?

The one woman I literally invested everything into - my heart and mind, if not my soul - was also the woman who took advantage of me more than any other, was more wretched to me than any other, and did almost nothing for me, while spending as much of my money she could pressure me into giving her.

Simply knowing there are women out there who see no problem taking $20,000 from a man, and think not even holding his hand is acceptable has made me not even want to know new women - due to the risk of experiencing this again.

After spending the first $10,000 on her, including buying her a queen-sized bed because she told me her boyfriend destroyed her bed when she dumped him, I said "I know you have PTSD from your ex, but I was wondering if we could just hold hands, since I have spent $10,000 on you so far, and it's starting to weigh on me."

This is how she responded:

"Do you think spending money on me entitles you to hold my hand?"

You...FUCKING BITCH. it wasn't "money" that I spent - it was TEN THOUSAND FUCKING DOLLARS at that point. And I spent it on meaningful things, like the queen-sized bed I bought her to replace the one she claimed her boyfriend destroyed, and I paid for counselling sessions to help her heal from her bad relationship. On top of that, I singularly devoted hours of my time to support her, getting NOTHING out of the deal, all the while, I could have been sleeping with female friends.

And when I made the most BASIC REQUEST POSSIBLE - merely HOLDING HANDS - when my financial support hit $10,000, she insinuated my request was out of line. As if expecting the MINIMUM level of physical contact after all the energy I invested into her was somehow akin to exploiting her sexually. Women like her are the ultimate consequence of feminism constantly telling women that men exist only to exploit them. It messes with their minds so much, they literally feel exploited while THEY are exploiting men. Not all women, naturally - but women like the one I suffered through are the direct consequence of feminism forcing a victimization complex on them, while none exist. And it compromises their ability to rationally assess reality so much that they think they are being exploited by men going out of their way for them!

No wonder she lost her mind when I cut ties. That's when she saw our time together for what it was: a man who cared about her deeply, getting nothing in return. And internalized feminism brainwashed her to push me away. Only when she lost me completely, did she fight to get me back.

In what WORLD is asking a woman if we can hold hands on par with sexual exploitation? But this is what feminism trains women to believe - that men are only ever oppressors.

Like a woman saying "Do you think just because you bought me dinner, I owe you sex?"

THAT is a reasonable position to hold.  But simply asking to hold hands so I could get the minimal physical contact necessary TO PREVENT MY MENTAL HEALTH FROM COLLAPSING, after investing $10,000 of my money, and spending all day for two months helping her in every way I could, is a BEYOND REASONABLE request for ANY man to make.

Of course, ANY man would have ditched the bitch way before that point. But what can I say - I was a fool in "love".

And THAT is how feminism poisons women's brains. They think men owe them EVERYTHING, and that men are entitled to expect nothing, as they feel no guilt taking anything they want from men.

Women are culturally trained to believe men owe them.

And by the way:

As an autistic men, I REFUSE to play games. I'm not genetically able to understand body language. I need black and white, objective answers. So what I do is I EXPLICITLY ASK WOMEN: "Are you attracted to me? Because I'm attracted to you, so if the feeling is mutual, I'm interested and prepared to have intercourse with you. After all - it's just fluid exchange."

^ I'm joking. Sort of. But I DO ask women if I have a chance with her. Normally by text.

And I ONLY pursue women who explicitly say yes.

And this woman DID explicitly tell me she was attracted to me and interested - multiple times.

But she knows she can't keep a man with options. She even texted me saying she wouldn't want to be Baby Mommy #3 of 4, or even 5.

That's her way of saying she knows I have options, and that concerns her.

I figured her history of dating only losers should make me a catch.

But no - she WANTS to date losers. So she doesn't feel bad being a loser herself, and so she is the "prize" in the relationship. And to control the breakup.

But Jordan Peterson said [and she HATED HIM for saying this] that women dating weak men is a HORRIBLE strategy.

Ultimately, those men just end up living on the women who go for them.

My doctor said:

Women would rather share a winner than date a loser.

But some women only date losers, in order to have a man they can control. As Jordan Peterson said - it's a horrible strategy.

And I fell for such a woman. But this was only my second time being in "love". So despite my age, I didn't know the signs.

And to be fair - withholding the fact that she was a 5-year opiate addict from me, and that she slept with over 30 men by 29, while purposely giving me the OPPOSITE impression... that's why I fell for her. Based on lies.

Oh...and as for the ex-boyfriend who "abused" her:

She is into BDSM, and asked him engage in BDSM with him.

He took it too far, and she claimed abuse. That was yet a another lie: she REQUESTED he slap and hit her during sex.

Oh...

And I caught her watching rape porn on my computer.

I called her out on it. She denied it. I was like "So when you were using my computer at the time the BDSM porn was being watched, it wasn't you?"

Lying bitch.

So to summarize: I fell for her based on lies. I did more for than any woman in life that I didn't have a baby with, based on irrational feelings of love based on her LIES. Major lies.

And after that experience, with only that ONE woman...I've lost so much trust for women...I just don't see it ever coming back. I CANNOT risk meeting another woman like her.

I had such amazing experiences with the most beautiful woman when it was just casual sex.

Then the ONE woman I did more than anyone for...and I was never treated worse. WHAT ARE THE ODDS? And I am a master at protecting myself from such people. But I failed - and I failed at the worst possible time!

So as I continue to recover from that experience, all I can say about women is:

I can never be their boyfriend or husband. But I can be their own on the side.

Some day, again.

I've only ever been a side boyfriend. That's all I'll ever be. And that's all I want to be.

The pain of a broken heart - and the potential of a broken mind and spirit to go with it. It's just to much for me to bear.

Thanks for asking, Dave.

It was only one woman. While I do think I will recover... it's been a long road so far.

I appreciate your support.

Thank you.

[Walter Sobchak]

You are right - k brought up two separate matters there.

Ok, so you asked about women, and the potential psychological basis for that:

In 2000, at age 18, I fell deeply in what I thought was love, for the first time ever. It was such a painful experience, my brain shut down my ability to love. I think it impacted my epigenetics. The experience was so painful, my brain wouldn't let me love.

Fast forward another 18 years, and for reasons I just don't understand, I fell in love again.

This woman withheld the fact that she was a 5-year opioid addict. She spent $20,000 of my money, and did not even hold my hand. All the while, I could have been sleeping with my other female friends, but I dedicated entirely to her.

Because I thought I was in love. And all my life, never having any problems getting women - tell me, Dave:

WHAT are the odds that the ONE woman my brain let me love after 18 YEARS of shutting down my ability to live, would my love be given to a woman who I did more for than ANY other, who took advantage of me more than ANY other women, and lied to me about everything?

I kept wondering...what am I doing wrong? I have NEVER done more for a woman in my life, aside from the mothers of my children.

Then what happened when I ditched her? After her initial breakdown on Instagram, guess who she dates?

A 36-year-old man on welfare!

And THAT was the issue - it wasn't that I wasn't good enough - it's that I wasn't BAD enough.

She KNEW there was no way a man who has what I have would keep her. She needed a man that made her comfortable while she remained a drug addict janitor with no post-secondary education, no money, no savings, who lives with her parents at 29 [now 32].

She hinted to me she thought I would move on to another woman - and to be fair, once I found out she was an opiate addict who slept with over 30 men, I WOULD have left her.

But only because she lied to me.

So Dave, to summarize:

My entire experience with women has been wonderful.

But what are the odds that the second woman I felt I "loved", and the first since age 18, would have turned out to be such a wretched, drug-addicted, slutty, lying piece of trash.

The one woman literally invested everything into - my heart and mind, if not my soul - was also the woman who took advantage of me more than any other, was more wretched to me than any other, and did almost nothing for me, while spending my money.

Simply knowing women who see no problem taking $20,000 from a man, and not even holding his hand is acceptable has made me not even want to know new women - due to the risk of experiencing this again.

After spending the first $10,000 on her, including buying her a queen-sized bed because she told me her boyfriend destroyed her bed when she dumped him, I said "I know you have PTSD from your ex, but I was wondering if we could just hold hands, since I have spent $10,000 on you so far, and it's just weighing on me."

This is how she responded:

"Do you think spending money on me entitles you to hold my hand?"

You...FUCKING BITCH. it wasn't "money" that I spent - it was TEN THOUSAND FUCKING DOLLARS at that point. And I spent it on meaningful things, like the queen-sized bed I bought her to replace the one she claimed her boyfriend destroyed, and I paid for counselling sessions to help her heal from her bad relationship. On top of that, I singularly devoted hours of my time to support her, getting NOTHING out of the deal, all the while, I could have been sleeping with female friends.

And when I made the most BASIC REQUEST POSSIBLE - merely HOLDING HANDS - when my financial support one hit $10,000, she insinuated my request was out of line.

Like a woman saying "Do you think just because you bought me dinner, I owe you sex?"

And THAT is how feminism poisons women's brains. They think men owe them EVERYTHING, and that men are entitled to expect nothing, as they feel no guilt taking anything they want from men.

Women are culturally trained to believe men owe them.

And by the way:

As an autistic men, I REFUSE to play games. I'm not genetically able to understand them. So what I do is I EXPLICITLY ASK WOMEN: "Are you attracted to me? Because I'm attracted to you, so if the feeling is mutual, I'm interested and prepared to have intercourse with you. After all - it's just fluid exchange."

^ I'm joking. Sort of. But I DO ask women if I have a chance with her. Normally by text.

And I ONLY pursue women who explicitly say yes.

And this woman DID say yes.

But she knows she can't keep a man with options. She even texted me saying she wouldn't want to be Baby Mommy #3 of 4, or even 5.

That's her way of saying she knows I have options, and that concerns her.

I figured her history of dating only losers should make me a catch.

But no - she WANTED to date losers. So she didn't feel bad being a loser herself, and so she is the "prize" in the relationship. And to control the breakup.

But Jordan Peterson said [and she HATED HIM for saying this] that women dating weak men is a HORRIBLE strategy.

Ultimately, those men just end up living on the women who go for them.

My doctor said:

Women would rather share a winner then date s loser.

But some women only date losers, in order to have a man they can control. As Peterson said - it's a horrible strategy.

And I fell for such a woman. But this was only my second time being in "love". So despite my age, I didn't know the signs.

And to be fair - withholding the fact that she was a 5-year opiate addict from me, and that she slept with over 30 men by 29, while purposely giving me the OPPOSITE impression... that's why I fell for her.

Oh...and boyfriend who "abused" her:

She is into BDSM, and asked him engage in BDSM with him.

He took it too far, and she claimed a abuse. That was yet a another lie: she REQUESTED he slap and hit her during sex.

Oh...

And I caught her watching rape porn on my computer.

I called her out on it. She denied it. I was like "So when you were using my computer at the time the BDSM porn was being watched, it wasn't you?"

Lying bitch.

So to summarize: I fell for her based on lies. I did more for than any woman in life that I didn't have a baby with, based on irrational feelings of love based on her LIES. Major lies.

And after that experience, with only that ONE woman...I've lost so much trust for women...I just don't see it ever coming back.

I had such amazing experiences with the most beautiful woman when it was just casual sex.

The one woman I did more than anyone for...and I was never treated worse.

So as I continue to recover from that experience, all I can say about women is:

I can never be their boyfriend or husband. But I can be their own on the side.

Some day, again.

I've only ever been a side boyfriend. That's all I'll ever be. And that's all I want to be.

The pain of a broken heart - and the potential of s broken mind and spirit to go with it. It's just to much for me to bear.

Thanks for asking, Dave.

It was only one woman. While I do think I will recover... it's been a long road so far.

I appreciate your support.

Thank you.

I could easily see where a 36 year old welfare bum is a steep step up from you.

Matt, how often do you think the last girlfriend cheated on you?

While you were at home paying her bills do you think she was out riding cock like a fat kid on a Disneyland ride? I am starting to see why you think all vagina tastes like stale man batter.

[Matt]

I could easily see where a 36 year old welfare bum is a steep step up from you.

Her boyfriend posted on Facebook that he couldn't pay back a $264 tax bill because be spent the money on groceries, lol. He wrote that he should at least be able to pay the money back in two installments, the way he got it.

So I texted her, and said "I noticed your boyfriend can't afford to pay his tax bill. Does he need a hand? Would you like me to lend him some money so that he can afford to buy his groceries? LMAO."

That text made her lose her shit. She replied "OK, I'm calling the cops."

Haha, seriously - these women who date bums in order to control them, and be the "prize" - I have NEVER seen that strategy end well. One woman told me in the end, women who date losers in order to control them always end up with a man who lives off them.

That's what the man who was with the woman I was with before she was with me did - lived off her in her grandma's house, who had just died.

And then she bitched about him constantly. Fucking idiot: you select losers in order to have the upper hand. And then you're SHOCKED when they REMAIN deadbeats?

Women don't seem to grasp that you can't really change people. Yet some take on men as projects to fix.

Matt, how often do you think the last girlfriend cheated on you?

While you were at home paying her bills do you think she was out riding cock like a fat kid on a Disneyland ride? I am starting to see why you think all vagina tastes like stale man batter.

Very good question, Walter.

Again, keep in mind, I was an ATM for her. She was at my house 8-10 hours a day [to get access to my money], and worked full-time as a janitor. And she lived with her mommy and daddy.

Truth be told, there wouldn't have been much time for her to cheat. Not much, anyway.

Also, she had some very bad sexual experiences with her ex of BDSM going to far. SHE requested it, but regardless, it was taken to far.

So I think that the BDSM hitting and choking damaged her sexuality and sex drive a bit - not to mention the masses of Percocets she was  buying with my money. Percocets/opiates reduce sex drive...or prevent/delay orgasm at least [by retaining sexual fluids]

Don't get me wrong - you bring up a valid question. But all things considered, I don't think she was having much sex, if any at all.

By August 2018, I had enough waiting. I fucked four women that month.

That is NOT my style, but WTF benefit was I getting waiting and waiting for NOTHING?

God, what a horrible experience.

Have you ever dated lying piece of trash, Walter?

[Mothballs]

You said you spent $20k on her. I think I speak for everyone when I say we’d like to hear about the 10K you dropped on her AFTER she refused to hold your hand. 

Seriously, with simps like you to be found, it’s a wonder any chick even needs OnlyFans!

[Zillotch]

You are right - I brought up two separate matters there.

Ok, so you asked about women, and the potential psychological basis for that:

In 2000, at age 18, I fell deeply in what I thought was love, for the first time ever. It was such a painful experience, my brain shut down my ability to love. I think it impacted my epigenetics. The experience was so painful, my brain wouldn't let me love.

Fast forward another 18 years, and for reasons I just don't understand, I fell in love again.

This woman withheld the fact that she was a 5-year opioid addict. She spent $20,000 of my money, and did not even hold my hand. All the while, I could have been sleeping with my other female friends, but I dedicated entirely to her.

Because I thought I was in love. And all my life, never having any problems getting women - tell me, Dave:

WHAT are the odds that the ONE woman my brain let me love after 18 YEARS of shutting down my ability to love, would my love be given to a woman who I did more for than ANY other, who took advantage of me more than ANY other women, and lied to me about everything?

I kept wondering...what am I doing wrong? I have NEVER done more for a woman in my life, aside from the mothers of my children.

Then what happened when I ditched her? After her initial breakdown on Instagram, guess who she dates?

A 36-year-old man on welfare!

And THAT was the issue - it wasn't that I wasn't good enough - it's that I wasn't BAD enough.

She KNEW there was no way a man who has what I have would keep her. She needed a man that made her comfortable while she remained a drug addict janitor with no post-secondary education, no money, no savings, who lives with her parents at 29 [now 32].

She hinted to me she thought I would move on to another woman - and to be fair, whenever I would have found out she was an opiate addict who slept with over 30 men, I WOULD have left her.

I stayed - but only because she lied to me.

So Dave, to summarize:

My entire experience with women has been wonderful.

But what are the odds that the second woman I felt I "loved", and the first since age 18, would have turned out to be such a wretched, drug-addicted, slutty, lying piece of trash?

The one woman I literally invested everything into - my heart and mind, if not my soul - was also the woman who took advantage of me more than any other, was more wretched to me than any other, and did almost nothing for me, while spending as much of my money she could pressure me into giving her.

Simply knowing there are women out there who see no problem taking $20,000 from a man, and think not even holding his hand is acceptable has made me not even want to know new women - due to the risk of experiencing this again.

After spending the first $10,000 on her, including buying her a queen-sized bed because she told me her boyfriend destroyed her bed when she dumped him, I said "I know you have PTSD from your ex, but I was wondering if we could just hold hands, since I have spent $10,000 on you so far, and it's starting to weigh on me."

This is how she responded:

"Do you think spending money on me entitles you to hold my hand?"

You...FUCKING BITCH. it wasn't "money" that I spent - it was TEN THOUSAND FUCKING DOLLARS at that point. And I spent it on meaningful things, like the queen-sized bed I bought her to replace the one she claimed her boyfriend destroyed, and I paid for counselling sessions to help her heal from her bad relationship. On top of that, I singularly devoted hours of my time to support her, getting NOTHING out of the deal, all the while, I could have been sleeping with female friends.

And when I made the most BASIC REQUEST POSSIBLE - merely HOLDING HANDS - when my financial support hit $10,000, she insinuated my request was out of line. As if expecting the MINIMUM level of physical contact after all the energy I invested into her was somehow akin to exploiting her sexually. Women like her are the ultimate consequence of feminism constantly telling women that men exist only to exploit them. It messes with their minds so much, they literally feel exploited while THEY are exploiting men. Not all women, naturally - but women like the one I suffered through are the direct consequence of feminism forcing a victimization complex on them, while none exist. And it compromises their ability to rationally assess reality so much that they think they are being exploited by men going out of their way for them!

No wonder she lost her mind when I cut ties. That's when she saw our time together for what it was: a man who cared about her deeply, getting nothing in return. And internalized feminism brainwashed her to push me away. Only when she lost me completely, did she fight to get me back.

In what WORLD is asking a woman if we can hold hands on par with sexual exploitation? But this is what feminism trains women to believe - that men are only ever oppressors.

Like a woman saying "Do you think just because you bought me dinner, I owe you sex?"

THAT is a reasonable position to hold.  But simply asking to hold hands so I could get the minimal physical contact necessary TO PREVENT MY MENTAL HEALTH FROM COLLAPSING, after investing $10,000 of my money, and spending all day for two months helping her in every way I could, is a BEYOND REASONABLE request for ANY man to make.

Of course, ANY man would have ditched the bitch way before that point. But what can I say - I was a fool in "love".

And THAT is how feminism poisons women's brains. They think men owe them EVERYTHING, and that men are entitled to expect nothing, as they feel no guilt taking anything they want from men.

Women are culturally trained to believe men owe them.

And by the way:

As an autistic men, I REFUSE to play games. I'm not genetically able to understand body language. I need black and white, objective answers. So what I do is I EXPLICITLY ASK WOMEN: "Are you attracted to me? Because I'm attracted to you, so if the feeling is mutual, I'm interested and prepared to have intercourse with you. After all - it's just fluid exchange."

^ I'm joking. Sort of. But I DO ask women if I have a chance with her. Normally by text.

And I ONLY pursue women who explicitly say yes.

And this woman DID explicitly tell me she was attracted to me and interested - multiple times.

But she knows she can't keep a man with options. She even texted me saying she wouldn't want to be Baby Mommy #3 of 4, or even 5.

That's her way of saying she knows I have options, and that concerns her.

I figured her history of dating only losers should make me a catch.

But no - she WANTS to date losers. So she doesn't feel bad being a loser herself, and so she is the "prize" in the relationship. And to control the breakup.

But Jordan Peterson said [and she HATED HIM for saying this] that women dating weak men is a HORRIBLE strategy.

Ultimately, those men just end up living on the women who go for them.

My doctor said:

Women would rather share a winner than date a loser.

But some women only date losers, in order to have a man they can control. As Jordan Peterson said - it's a horrible strategy.

And I fell for such a woman. But this was only my second time being in "love". So despite my age, I didn't know the signs.

And to be fair - withholding the fact that she was a 5-year opiate addict from me, and that she slept with over 30 men by 29, while purposely giving me the OPPOSITE impression... that's why I fell for her. Based on lies.

Oh...and as for the ex-boyfriend who "abused" her:

She is into BDSM, and asked him engage in BDSM with him.

He took it too far, and she claimed abuse. That was yet a another lie: she REQUESTED he slap and hit her during sex.

Oh...

And I caught her watching rape porn on my computer.

I called her out on it. She denied it. I was like "So when you were using my computer at the time the BDSM porn was being watched, it wasn't you?"

Lying bitch.

So to summarize: I fell for her based on lies. I did more for than any woman in life that I didn't have a baby with, based on irrational feelings of love based on her LIES. Major lies.

And after that experience, with only that ONE woman...I've lost so much trust for women...I just don't see it ever coming back. I CANNOT risk meeting another woman like her.

I had such amazing experiences with the most beautiful woman when it was just casual sex.

Then the ONE woman I did more than anyone for...and I was never treated worse. WHAT ARE THE ODDS? And I am a master at protecting myself from such people. But I failed - and I failed at the worst possible time!

So as I continue to recover from that experience, all I can say about women is:

I can never be their boyfriend or husband. But I can be their own on the side.

Some day, again.

I've only ever been a side boyfriend. That's all I'll ever be. And that's all I want to be.

The pain of a broken heart - and the potential of a broken mind and spirit to go with it. It's just to much for me to bear.

Thanks for asking, Dave.

It was only one woman. While I do think I will recover... it's been a long road so far.

I appreciate your support.

Thank you.

I feel like canning owes me money for having to endure this - if I was his shrink - I would legit kick him out of my office.

matt – get on androgens immediately.

[Walter Sobchak]

Her boyfriend posted on Facebook that he couldn't pay back a $264 tax bill because be spent the money on groceries, lol. He wrote that he should at least be able to pay the money back in two installments, the way he got it.

So I texted her, and said "I noticed your boyfriend can't afford to pay his tax bill. Does he need a hand? Would you like me to lend him some money so that he can afford to buy his groceries? LMAO."

That text made her lose her shit. She replied "OK, I'm calling the cops."

Haha, seriously - these women who date bums in order to control them, and be the "prize" - I have NEVER seen that strategy end well. One woman told me in the end, women who date losers in order to control them always end up with a man who lives off them.

That's what the man who was with the woman I was with before she was with me did - lived off her in her grandma's house, who had just died.

And then she bitched about him constantly. Fucking idiot: you select losers in order to have the upper hand. And then you're SHOCKED when they REMAIN deadbeats?

Women don't seem to grasp that you can't really change people. Yet some take on men as projects to fix.

Very good question, Walter.

Again, keep in mind, I was an ATM for her. She was at my house 8-10 hours a day [to get access to my money], and worked full-time as a janitor. And she lived with her mommy and daddy.

Truth be told, there wouldn't have been much time for her to cheat. Not much, anyway.

Also, she had some very bad sexual experiences with her ex of BDSM going to far. SHE requested it, but regardless, it was taken to far.

So I think that the BDSM hitting and choking damaged her sexuality and sex drive a bit - not to mention the masses of Percocets she was  buying with my money. Percocets/opiates reduce sex drive...or prevent/delay orgasm at least [by retaining sexual fluids]

Don't get me wrong - you bring up a valid question. But all things considered, I don't think she was having much sex, if any at all.

By August 2018, I had enough waiting. I fucked four women that month.

That is NOT my style, but WTF benefit was I getting waiting and waiting for NOTHING?

God, what a horrible experience.

Have you ever dated lying piece of trash, Walter?

Now you’re just lying to yourself Matt because you can’t cope with the truth. That chick had more cock in her than all the pairs of Hanes underwear worldwide. Technically speaking eating that pussy was basically sucking cock by proxy.

Although on the other hand, she would have been a stabilizing influence for your kids.

Let’s just say.... I don’t have time for the kind of shit you involve yourself in.

[Dave D]

You are right - I brought up two separate matters there.

Ok, so you asked about women, and the potential psychological basis for that:

In 2000, at age 18, I fell deeply in what I thought was love, for the first time ever. It was such a painful experience, my brain shut down my ability to love. I think it impacted my epigenetics. The experience was so painful, my brain wouldn't let me love.

Fast forward another 18 years, and for reasons I just don't understand, I fell in love again.

This woman withheld the fact that she was a 5-year opioid addict. She spent $20,000 of my money, and did not even hold my hand. All the while, I could have been sleeping with my other female friends, but I dedicated entirely to her.

Because I thought I was in love. And all my life, never having any problems getting women - tell me, Dave:

WHAT are the odds that the ONE woman my brain let me love after 18 YEARS of shutting down my ability to love, would my love be given to a woman who I did more for than ANY other, who took advantage of me more than ANY other women, and lied to me about everything?

I kept wondering...what am I doing wrong? I have NEVER done more for a woman in my life, aside from the mothers of my children.

Then what happened when I ditched her? After her initial breakdown on Instagram, guess who she dates?

A 36-year-old man on welfare!

And THAT was the issue - it wasn't that I wasn't good enough - it's that I wasn't BAD enough.

She KNEW there was no way a man who has what I have would keep her. She needed a man that made her comfortable while she remained a drug addict janitor with no post-secondary education, no money, no savings, who lives with her parents at 29 [now 32].

She hinted to me she thought I would move on to another woman - and to be fair, whenever I would have found out she was an opiate addict who slept with over 30 men, I WOULD have left her.

I stayed - but only because she lied to me.

So Dave, to summarize:

My entire experience with women has been wonderful.

But what are the odds that the second woman I felt I "loved", and the first since age 18, would have turned out to be such a wretched, drug-addicted, slutty, lying piece of trash?

The one woman I literally invested everything into - my heart and mind, if not my soul - was also the woman who took advantage of me more than any other, was more wretched to me than any other, and did almost nothing for me, while spending as much of my money she could pressure me into giving her.

Simply knowing there are women out there who see no problem taking $20,000 from a man, and think not even holding his hand is acceptable has made me not even want to know new women - due to the risk of experiencing this again.

After spending the first $10,000 on her, including buying her a queen-sized bed because she told me her boyfriend destroyed her bed when she dumped him, I said "I know you have PTSD from your ex, but I was wondering if we could just hold hands, since I have spent $10,000 on you so far, and it's starting to weigh on me."

This is how she responded:

"Do you think spending money on me entitles you to hold my hand?"

You...FUCKING BITCH. it wasn't "money" that I spent - it was TEN THOUSAND FUCKING DOLLARS at that point. And I spent it on meaningful things, like the queen-sized bed I bought her to replace the one she claimed her boyfriend destroyed, and I paid for counselling sessions to help her heal from her bad relationship. On top of that, I singularly devoted hours of my time to support her, getting NOTHING out of the deal, all the while, I could have been sleeping with female friends.

And when I made the most BASIC REQUEST POSSIBLE - merely HOLDING HANDS - when my financial support hit $10,000, she insinuated my request was out of line. As if expecting the MINIMUM level of physical contact after all the energy I invested into her was somehow akin to exploiting her sexually. Women like her are the ultimate consequence of feminism constantly telling women that men exist only to exploit them. It messes with their minds so much, they literally feel exploited while THEY are exploiting men. Not all women, naturally - but women like the one I suffered through are the direct consequence of feminism forcing a victimization complex on them, while none exist. And it compromises their ability to rationally assess reality so much that they think they are being exploited by men going out of their way for them!

No wonder she lost her mind when I cut ties. That's when she saw our time together for what it was: a man who cared about her deeply, getting nothing in return. And internalized feminism brainwashed her to push me away. Only when she lost me completely, did she fight to get me back.

In what WORLD is asking a woman if we can hold hands on par with sexual exploitation? But this is what feminism trains women to believe - that men are only ever oppressors.

Like a woman saying "Do you think just because you bought me dinner, I owe you sex?"

THAT is a reasonable position to hold.  But simply asking to hold hands so I could get the minimal physical contact necessary TO PREVENT MY MENTAL HEALTH FROM COLLAPSING, after investing $10,000 of my money, and spending all day for two months helping her in every way I could, is a BEYOND REASONABLE request for ANY man to make.

Of course, ANY man would have ditched the bitch way before that point. But what can I say - I was a fool in "love".

And THAT is how feminism poisons women's brains. They think men owe them EVERYTHING, and that men are entitled to expect nothing, as they feel no guilt taking anything they want from men.

Women are culturally trained to believe men owe them.

And by the way:

As an autistic men, I REFUSE to play games. I'm not genetically able to understand body language. I need black and white, objective answers. So what I do is I EXPLICITLY ASK WOMEN: "Are you attracted to me? Because I'm attracted to you, so if the feeling is mutual, I'm interested and prepared to have intercourse with you. After all - it's just fluid exchange."

^ I'm joking. Sort of. But I DO ask women if I have a chance with her. Normally by text.

And I ONLY pursue women who explicitly say yes.

And this woman DID explicitly tell me she was attracted to me and interested - multiple times.

But she knows she can't keep a man with options. She even texted me saying she wouldn't want to be Baby Mommy #3 of 4, or even 5.

That's her way of saying she knows I have options, and that concerns her.

I figured her history of dating only losers should make me a catch.

But no - she WANTS to date losers. So she doesn't feel bad being a loser herself, and so she is the "prize" in the relationship. And to control the breakup.

But Jordan Peterson said [and she HATED HIM for saying this] that women dating weak men is a HORRIBLE strategy.

Ultimately, those men just end up living on the women who go for them.

My doctor said:

Women would rather share a winner than date a loser.

But some women only date losers, in order to have a man they can control. As Jordan Peterson said - it's a horrible strategy.

And I fell for such a woman. But this was only my second time being in "love". So despite my age, I didn't know the signs.

And to be fair - withholding the fact that she was a 5-year opiate addict from me, and that she slept with over 30 men by 29, while purposely giving me the OPPOSITE impression... that's why I fell for her. Based on lies.

Oh...and as for the ex-boyfriend who "abused" her:

She is into BDSM, and asked him engage in BDSM with him.

He took it too far, and she claimed abuse. That was yet a another lie: she REQUESTED he slap and hit her during sex.

Oh...

And I caught her watching rape porn on my computer.

I called her out on it. She denied it. I was like "So when you were using my computer at the time the BDSM porn was being watched, it wasn't you?"

Lying bitch.

So to summarize: I fell for her based on lies. I did more for than any woman in life that I didn't have a baby with, based on irrational feelings of love based on her LIES. Major lies.

And after that experience, with only that ONE woman...I've lost so much trust for women...I just don't see it ever coming back. I CANNOT risk meeting another woman like her.

I had such amazing experiences with the most beautiful woman when it was just casual sex.

Then the ONE woman I did more than anyone for...and I was never treated worse. WHAT ARE THE ODDS? And I am a master at protecting myself from such people. But I failed - and I failed at the worst possible time!

So as I continue to recover from that experience, all I can say about women is:

I can never be their boyfriend or husband. But I can be their own on the side.

Some day, again.

I've only ever been a side boyfriend. That's all I'll ever be. And that's all I want to be.

The pain of a broken heart - and the potential of a broken mind and spirit to go with it. It's just to much for me to bear.

Thanks for asking, Dave.

It was only one woman. While I do think I will recover... it's been a long road so far.

I appreciate your support.

Thank you.

Matt you're not the only person to be taken advantage of by people.

There are many crazy people in the world. Dont let these experiences destroy you let them strengthen you.  Love is intoxicating so you can lose the ability to reason, be aware of that the next time you fall into love.

Ask yourself the whys. Why did you fall into love with a less than desirable woman, why did you not notice the signs of her dishonesty, etc. Maybe she was a sociopath and she preyed on your empathy.

You will recover. Stay strong.

[Matt]

You said you spent $20k on her. I think I speak for everyone when I say we’d like to hear about the 10K you dropped on her AFTER she refused to hold your hand. 

Seriously, with simps like you to be found, it’s a wonder any chick even needs OnlyFans!

Oh...yeah, that:

The fucking bitch, after forcing me to pay for her opioid addiction because she needed it to get over her ex, then blamed me for becoming addicted. FUCKING BITCH - ON DAY 10, I POLITELY SAID I'M CONCERNED SHE WILL BECOME ADDICTED, AND IT NEEDS TO STOP.

Three days later, having spent the full day with her, paying $400 to set up her phone while my foot was swollen and could barely fit in my shoe and I should have gone to the ER, but instead spent the day helping her set up her phone and paying $400 in a 24-hour period on her phone and some other things, the bitch yet AGAIN asked for more money for Percocets.

Not wanting to imply she was a junkie [which I later found out she was], I put my swollen foot down, raised my voice slightly, and said "You're not my girlfriend. I'm not obligated to pay for your drug habit."

She immediately started crying. Normally, I would hug a crying woman, but since she has "PTSD", I didn't want to hurt her. Meanwhile this slut had fucked over 30 guys, and her PTSD was just an excuse to treat people like shit.

What I said may seem kind of mean, but this was a woman I cared about - and I didn't want to be the one that provided her with the means to become addicted to opiates. Yeah - I put my foot down. What else was I supposed to do? Three days earlier, I politely made myself clear I was concerned that after ten days of Percocet use she was on the cusp of becoming addicted, and I didn't want that to happen.

And she STILL ASKED for money for Percocets, when, as calm as I was the first time, I made it completely clear I wanted no part in her potentially developing an opiate addiction on my dime.

Later that day I went to the emergency room for my foot. I explained to her that I spent the day helping her set up her phone when I should have been at the hospital. And barely being able to walk, terrified I may be in kidney failure, AND ALREADY HAVING TOLD THE BITCH I DIDN'T WANT TO ENABLE A DRUG ADDICTION, that I was justified to raise my voice.

The bitch didn't listen when I asked nicely...so what the FUCK was I supposed to do??

The next day she came over, and said "If you speak to me like that again, we can't advance as a couple.,"

TRANSLATED:

"You need to support my opiate habit, or we can't be a couple."

Fucking bitch. I was in a rock and a hard place: potentially enable someone I cared about to develop a drug addiction, or lose someone I [wrongly] felt I loved.

What the FUCK was I supposed to do? I loved her - her falsely THOUGHT I did.

Later on, she blamed me for becoming addicted. Claiming I wanted her addicted, knowing she would need me to pay for her addiction. IF THAT WAS THE CASE, WHY THE FUCK WOULDN'T I HAVE ADK5ED NOTHING KF HER? Had I said "Ok - I'll give you the money you need...but each time, you owe me a blowjob. Don't like my terms? Then FUCK OFF."

And she still blamed me - and guilted me into spending $6,000 to help her with a reduction program to "quit".

AND SHE NEVER QUIT. SHE JUST USED THE $6,000 IN PERCS,  AND DIDN'T REMOTELY QUIT.

Fucking bitch ; guilting me when SHE forced me to give her money for Percs by saying we couldn't be together if I didn't do it.

Just a projecting, gaslighting piece of shit.

And guess what?

I found out in July of 2019 that SHE WAS ADDICTED TO OPIATES SINCE 2013.

So it was ALL A FUCKING LIE JUST TO USE ME FOR MONEY. THE FUCKING SCUMBAG.

And she knew I cared about her, and new the only way to milk me for as much money as possible was to provide me with NOTHING. And then she accused ME of "dangling carrots".

I was like "Bitch - I PROVIDED. "Dangling carrots" means tempting someone with something they will never get. WHICH IS WHAT YOU DID TO ME BY DOING NOTHING FOR ME, SO I WOULD STICK AROUND WAITING. Meanwhile, I PROVIDED. That is not "dangling" anything."

Her strategy makes sense for a self-gratifying YOLO loser. Had she showed me respect, or not been a complete leach - we would still be friends, and in the long-run, I would have actually done more for her.

But deep down she knows she can't keep a quality man [with money/means], so I think she just takes as much as she can from those men while self-sabotaging the relationship - because she knows being a drug-addicted janitor with no education who lives with her parents at 32, that she can't keep a competent men for long anyway. So taking what she can in the brief window she has makes sense, in that way.

But in the end, people hate her for it.

She once told me "When all your life, people tell you they hate you, you start to believe it."

I was thinking "BITCH, YOU USED ME AS AN ATM, AND COULDN'T PROVIDE ME WITH THE MINIMUM PHYSICAL CONTACT NECESSARY TO PREVENT MY MENTAL HEALTH FROM COLLAPSING. NO FUCKING SHIT ALL YOUR LIFE PEOPLE TELL YOU THEY HATE YOU."

GEE, so if you're a piece of shit leach who treat people like garbage, and have nothing to offer, people will have you? WHO WOULD HAVE EVER GUESSED THAT?

...

Lastly, I know you guys must be wondering how fucking stupid I was to tolerate such a wretched woman. One answer:

Love.

I would have been gone within a month if I didn't feel I loved her.

And if I could make such a horrific mistake by falling in love with a drug-addicted lying slut who treated me worse than ANY WOMAN IN MY ENTIRE LIFE HISTORY, AND USED ME MORE THAN ANYONE, WHILE I DID AS MUCH AS I POSSIBLY COULD FOR HER...

... what's to say this couldn't happen again?

And that, my friends, is why I stopped meeting any new women starting 01/01/2019.

I have three children. That 2018 almost ruined my life. And that must NEVER happen again.

As for women - I wish them no suffering or ill will.

But they cannot be a part of my life. I have way too much to lose.

Taffin - if you're reading this:

I know you were shocked when you said I'm willing to murder a woman. Please don't worry - that would only happen if a woman pushes herself into my life.

But what I went through was THE worst experience of my life. I could not have done more for this woman. COULD NOT. Because when I commit to something - I go all in. And ALL because my brain chemistry made me feel love. So I NEVER want to experience love for a woman ever again. And the only way to guarantee that is to simply not interact with women.

I mean this when I say it:

That experience could have killed me, and left my three small children without a dad.

And THAT is why, heaven forbid, if a woman pushes herself on me in any way, I swear to God - I don't even want to think about what I'm capable of doing.

If a female rape victim said she wanted nothing to do with men, and would potentially kill a man who tried to interact with her after being told no... people would understand.

So WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE? I don't want women in my life, for the same of my mental, and to some extent, my physical health.

It's not been over two years since I wrote off women and could not be happier with that decision. COULD NOT.

I'm a math guy, yet I simply cannot COMPREHEND the odds that only the SECOND WOMAN that I felt I was in love with - something that took 18 YEARS to happen after the first disaster literally shut off my brain's ability to love - was literally THE WORST WOMAN I'VE EVER HAD THE MISFORTUNE OF MEETING.

Meanwhile, not giving a shit about women [respecting them of course, but not bending over backwards to support them] got me intimacy and sex with some of the most beautiful women on the planet, who always showed me respect and courtesy.

In fact...it just makes me wonder:

I know I met a massive piece of shit...but do most women treat you worse, the more you do for them?

If so...is the reason I've had the success I've had with women BECAUSE I'm emotionally unavailable? Because I'm kind and respectful but will NEVER coddle women?

In fact, when I publicly announced on Facebook that I'm done with women, HALF A DOZEN WOMEN PLEADED WITH ME TO GIVE THEM A CHANCE.

And as far as I am aware, ALL male dating coaches basically advise men to treat some like shit [ignore them, don't prioritize them, never let them alter your lifestyle for their benefit]. The theory is - women are attracted to independent men who make decisions for themselves, and don't let others tell them what to do.

And that's ultimately when I stopped bothering with women. I'm a natural gentleman, and I'm programmed to be kind to people, women and children in particular, hold doors open for them, etc.

When I was told women lose respect for men who do that, I decided women weren't worth the headache. I wasn't going to change my natural protective instincts and proclivities towards women, and if those natural tendencies make women hate me - whatever.

That's when I wrote off women.

What followed was the biggest flurry of available women, pussy, blowjobs, and access to literally any woman I wanted just by asking that I have ever experienced in my life.

This made me resent women further, and publicly stating I never want to speak to any new women ever again, and having six women BEG TO RECONSIDER, made me lose even more respect for women.

Which I didn't think was possible.

I don't get female psychology.

Think about this:

ALL MALE DATING COACHES ENCOURAGE MEN TO IGNORE WOMEN, GHOST THEM, AND NEVER MAKE THEM S PRIORITY.

And THAT'S what women find attractive in men???

K. Women: stay the fuck away from me. I don't even want to PRETEND to understand you. Just stay far away from me, please.

And if you're being robbed of assaulted and I'm in proximity of the in incident, and much stronger than the skinny crackhead robbing you, I can disarm him, and retrieve your purse.

But I won't. I'll call the police, and safely wait at a distance until they arrive. I will help children, and any females I suspect are under 18.

But adult ladies: you are on your own.

I don't wish for women to suffer.  But please - stay away from me. For years of my life, I had no instinct stronger than to protect women. And now ; I have no instinct weaker.

To end on an optimistic note:

I think in ten years, I'll be willing to give new women a chance again.

[Matt]

Seriously, with simps like you to be found, it’s a wonder any chick even needs OnlyFans!

Simps, as far as I understand, are men who don't have female options, and so, trip over themselves to get a woman.

I'm not Brad Pitt - but I have continual access to sex with attractive women [they are only 6's by Getbig standards though]. If I had to guess why I have access to my harem of women, these would be my guesses:

- I have my own house, car, and money for life to live comfortably. HEY - I told EVERYONE to buy as much Bitcoin as possible at $180 a coin. No one listened, because "Matt C is weird/socially awkward." *Sigh*, yeah, but am I ever mathematically wrong? But anyway - women like a man who has his own house/place [for privacy / a place to fuck]. A car obviously helps. And who complains if someone always pays for pizza or other food ordered? Who doesn't like self-sufficient, generous people?

- Being fit helps. I honestly think as long as you aren't ugly, and have a decent physique [nice arms, for example], that you'll be fine with women. I look at it this way: yeah, Brad Pitt is ideal, but women have minimum standards. If you meet those minimums, you're fine. For example, I wake up at 5'9.3", and we all shrink as the day goes by. First: I'm taller than 90% of women, and women 5'10" and up are more likely to settle, since they are taller than 60% of men or more. So I can't say I've ever experienced height discrimination from women. I've been with women ranging from 4'11" to 5'11" [two]. Interestingly, I tried to knock up all three, lol. And my new little girl's mom is one of the two 5'11" women I was with. IMO, women PREFER taller men, but are fine as long as the man is not shorter than her. I'm lucky at my height [with women], in that women taller than me are more likely to lower their standards. But my point is that I find women have MINIMUM standards. As long as you meet those minimums, you'll get women. You don't need to be Brad Pitt. Just meet certain minimums.

- I always hear that women like "confidence". What adult isn't "confident"? Lol, is this high school? I think COMPETENCE is an asset. Being prompt, on the ball, on time, and just having your stuff together.

- I think taking care of your teeth, and generally just being diligent and responsible is good. I mean, who wants to babysit a bum?

- If you can't be in the physical fit [aesthetics] range of an athlete, I think just not being fat helps. Having the body of a model will attract a woman, but IMO, just don't be fat.

- Not being controlled by vices is a good thing. If a woman has as a problem with you drinking a few with your work buddies at the pub every Tuesday...well...this is why I struggle understanding women. And why I don't want to understand them. I just can't compromise with irrationality. I refuse. Drinking heavily every day of the week is bad. Moderate your vices. If a woman takes issue with that...see, this is why I don't want a woman. I don't want a woman bitching at me if I'm moderating something just because some irrational dumb bitch is freaking out because the thing you're moderating is "bad". I know someone who goes out maybe at once a week to have maybe four beer. He has to HIDE that outing from his wife, or she'll flip. I'm thinking..."IT'S FOUR F*CKING BEER, YOU DUMB B*TCH." I have NO IDEA how men tolerate stuff like this from women.

^ All this is just me saying that I don't even grasp why ANY men "struggle," to get women.

To be fair, I've mainly only casually dated women.

Getting women for long-term relationships may be much different - and perhaps that's why do many men find it difficult to do so.

I am a VOLCEL, not an INCEL.

I didn't spend so much money on this woman out of desperation to get sex - I actually chose to FOREGO having sex with my normal sex partners, to commit to her. A simp doesn't STOP having sex he usually has, to be with another woman NOT giving him. Unless, you know, he's irrationally in love.

What this scumbag did was - knowing how much I love being a dad, and wanted more kids before 40 - told me she desperately wanted a baby, just to get me on the hook financially by exploiting my paternity instinct, the piece of scum. And half of the money I spent on her [the non-drug half, which was sheer exploitation of my feelings for her] was not to "buy her" - it was to prove to her that I had/have the resources and the energy/desire to support another baby.

A simp spends money to buy the woman - I spent the money [half of the total] to show I'm a responsible provider.

But here's the thing, Mothballs - I made one HUGE mistake:

I was in love. Or so I thought. And your simp assessment of me, while not accurate given the full context of events, was still a reasonable assumption on your part, based on appearances, and a quick perusal of the facts. And why did I fall into simp-like behaviour, for a woman who almost ruined me?

BECAUSE OF LOVE.

And that's why this must NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN.

Mothballs - as I said, I'm no Brad Pitt, but I'm not a simp. But see what love did to me? It turned me into one!!! So while it sucks a bit for you to call me a simp without taking all context into account...the bottom line is that LOVING A WOMAN made me do that.

And that's one of the many reasons  I will NEVER ALLOW MYSELF TO LOVE A WOMAN AGAIN.

As long as I maintain this shape, I find sex pretty easy to get. Getbiggers think you need to look like Dennis Newman in his prime to get laid. I disagree. Just having an everyday easy to maintain health look like this has worked fine for me:

[Matt]

That guy is so annoying! Just another pathetic “red pill MGTOW” jackass whining about women 24/7 yet giving advice on how to get them.

I know what you mean...but feminism has caused women to over-value themselves, while both men and women are given messages that men aren't needed.

This is hilarious to me. If men disappeared tomorrow, I can't imagine women surviving for five years. Do feminists - and the idiot male feminists who actually think women respect them - actually think women would be donning hard hats, and working in the -40 freezing winter weather to build and maintain the infrastructure that puts us in 21st century comfort?

LOL!!!!!

And women going on marches demanding live-birth abortions.

SHELL OUT THE $0.99 FOR A CONDOM, YOU DUMB SLUTS. Regardless of whether or not abortion should be a right, don't DARE suggest the dumb sluts who don't grasp that dicks ejaculating inside their vaginas causes pregnancy are somehow "oppressed".

And what do women contribute to society that men can't do on their own?

Answer: HAVE BABIES.

That is the ONLY thing women uniquely contribute to humanity...AND THEY BITCH ABOUT THAT!!

So what the FUCK do women think they do that would make them more valuable than men?

But that's what feminism does - tells both men and women that women somehow contribute to do society in ways only they can, while men are useless eaters.

Which is why men like Richard Cooper do a positive good by helping men realize that men are fine on our own.

As for women getting by on their own - yeah, with MALE TAX DOLLARS BEING THE REASON.

I agree with you about Richard Cooper giving advice on how to date women...yeah, I don't get that either.

PS - I get why men want to date a group of people whose genitals smell like fish [love that scent...love that hot scent], but how on EARTH CAN A SEX OF PEOPLE WHOSE PRIVATE PARTS SMELL LIKE FISH POSSIBLY CONSIDER THEMSELVES SUPERIOR TO MEN.

WOMEN: YOUR GENITALS SMELL LIKE WILD CAUGHT SALMON, SND YOU SERIOUSLY HAVE THE AUDACITY TO CLAIM MEN ARE BENEATH YOU,?

Like, is this real life? Just the sheer audacity of ANY woman, who possesses reproductive organs that smell like a beached whale carcass, to consider herself better than a man. Just...fuck you.

PPS - I LOVE giving oral sex to a woman who hasn't washed her vagina, or are otherwise oblivious about how fishy their vagina is. I was with one woman whose vagina was so fishy, I was like "How can she not nice this???" As you can guess, I LOVED it, as did she. Too bad most women are insecure because they think their vaginas SMELL, so they wash all the flavour out.

Oh...LAST point for tonight:

From now on, I'm just offering all my female friends oral sex. It's my favourite anyway. And they pretty well go for it. The only ones that don't are self-conscious. Imagine a woman demanding to swallow, and a guy being like "I'm self-conscious - I assume my cum tastes gross." The woman would be like "NEWSFLASH ASSHOLE: I'LL BE THE ONE DRINKING IT."

How fucking dumb must a woman be for ME to ask her if I can give her oral sex, and for her to be like "I'm embarrassed you might think my vaginas."

LOL, NO SHIT IT SMELLS - WHY DO YOU THINK I WANT TO PLANT MY FACE IN IT? BECAUSE I'VE NEVER NOTICED A WOMAN'S VAGINA SMELLS LIKE FISH AND CLAMS, YOU DUMB FUCKING IDIOT. LOL.

It's 8:38am, and I can barely keep my eyes open.

THANK YOU, for this thread. I will reply to all other posts on here tomorrow.

[King Shizzo]

 

[IroNat]

[Mothballs]

Matt, you’re not exempt from simping just because you have a house and access to sexual partners.

Simping is being a beta Cuck Phaggot giving money to and buying things for a chick in the hopes of holding her hand  getting laid.

Any simp can claim the defense of ‘BUT I Was in LOVE’

It only makes you sound more SIMPY.

I tell simps all the time — don’t spend a dime until she gives up the pussy. And the simps I tell that to are teenagers. How could a 40 year old ‘man’ still not know that?

[wes]

Hey I skipped over all of those long redundant posts that tell me someone needs to see a shrink like yesterday.

Dont bother with cliff notes......PLEASE

[evacnam]

Matt, you’re not exempt from simping just because you have a house and access to sexual partners.

Simping is being a beta Cuck Phaggot giving money to and buying things for a chick in the hopes of holding her hand  getting laid.

Any simp can claim the defense of ‘BUT I Was in LOVE’

It only makes you sound more SIMPY.

I tell simps all the time — don’t spend a dime until she gives up the pussy. And the simps I tell that to are teenagers. How could a 40 year old ‘man’ still not know that?

good post. Im no ladies man but I understand this

[FitnessFrenzy]

Matt, you’re not exempt from simping just because you have a house and access to sexual partners.

Simping is being a beta Cuck Phaggot giving money to and buying things for a chick in the hopes of holding her hand  getting laid.

Any simp can claim the defense of ‘BUT I Was in LOVE’

It only makes you sound more SIMPY.

I tell simps all the time — don’t spend a dime until she gives up the pussy. And the simps I tell that to are teenagers. How could a 40 year old ‘man’ still not know that?

was it gay simping when uncle junior gave money to BigRo?

[Primemuscle]

I remember this video from many years ago. Can you still do this many push-ups using the same sequence of sets and reps?

[Taffin]

Good fitness level (and nice outfit - did you borrow it from the Fame musical?)

[Walter Sobchak]

Hey I skipped over all of those long redundant posts that tell me someone needs to see a shrink like yesterday.

Dont bother with cliff notes......PLEASE

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[Matt]

Thank you for posting this, FitnessFrenzy. I've come across Richard Cooper's videos before, but hadn't seen one in a while. The only dating coach I read anything from was David DeAngelo [real Jewish name = Eben Pagen...but he's smart and knows Italian men are more attractive to women, so he used an Italian name, lol]. My friend bought his eBook, and asked me to go halfers on it.

His entire eBook basically said "Treat women like shit, and they will be attracted to you."

I was like "WTF?" And that's when I stopped giving a shit about "attracting women". That was in 2004.

Now, the only thing I would suggest to men in terms of getting women is just focus on general self-improvement, and stop giving a shit.

I just have around 15 female friends who I see on a regular basis, and I just wait for one to contact me. Do the math:

15 women entering relationships of three years, on average = one breakup every 36 months. But x15.

So every 36 months, that's 15 breakups.

Put another way, one of my female friends is breaking up every 2-3 months, and that's when they call me to fuck.

Total work on my part = 0.

Waiting three years for a woman seems patient, but when there are 15 of them and the average wait time is under ten weeks, it's not patient at all. And that figure assumes they always re-enter relationships quickly. Some break up, and stay single for a year, or even years in some cases.

The fact that ALL male dating coaches recommend that men basically treat women like shit is proof to me that women are just fucked. And in my life, the experiences I've had with women where I treated them the best, got me treated the worst. Treating women poorly didn't seem to have any negative impact, so I opt to do the most ethical thing:

I ignore them.

I just do nothing.

I just wait until they feel like fucking me, and let them contact me.

Being in shape in a world full of fat-asses help.

I know in Getbig, every man is a male supermodel, but in the real world, I'm going to be one of the most in-shape men there.

In fact, when I'm on the pool deck at the Canada Games Complex in my city, I see a guy in better shape than me maybe once a month. If that.

THAT'S reality. Not Walter Sobchak Getbig La La Land. In reality, I'd be shocked if he bench presses 225x6.

In the #MeToo era of women/dating, I think the best way to deal with women/dating is just to ignore them, get yourself in top shape, and let the brave women come to you.

The LAST thing I want is some bitch falsely accusing me of sexual harassment.

On that note, Better Bachelor makes good videos too - and I revisited him after reading this thread. I forgot how good he is. The last thing I would say is: I NEVER want to fall in love again - EVER. That bitch from 2018 was THE worst thing to ever happen to me. And I would have NEVER tolerated such a toxic, wretched, leaching piece of shit had I not been in love. In fact, that's exactly why I opt to only fuck women. Just seeing the way some people abuse those who care about them makes me sick.

What's more fucked up is...has anyone here ever felt someone is treating you poorly BECAUSE you care about them? I know that's happened to me, and I've seen it happen to others. Like, WHO does that? I think people who have been abused want to almost get revenge on their abusers by taking it out on people who care about them, who had nothing to do with it.

Hence why I don't want women for anything but occasional sex - I feel that people sometimes take their anger out on those in proximity to them. I don't want to do that OR have someone do that to me.

I must say though... it's very disappointing to realize that treating women well has nothing to do with attracting them. IMO, just be in shape, have money, and have your own house [private place to fuck]. I don't think much else matters.

"Being confident" - LMAO!!! Looks matter way more than "confidence" to women. I resent being told women don't care about looks. That's BULLSHIT. In fact, the studies on height show that women care more about a man's height then men do about a woman's height. WELL, HOW THE FUCK IS HEIGHT NOT A PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTE?

Just have a good face, good dick, don't be fat, have money, and your own house and car.

To think dating coaches make money telling men this shit, lol.

I'd suggest just being as good looking as your genetics allow. We can all look pretty decent if we put in the effort. Not to say we can be Brad Pitt - but we can all look much better.

[Matt]

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You're posting a photo of me in better shape than 90% of men, as proof of...of what exactly?

That I'm in better shape than 90% of men?

Like are you a complete fucking retard? In WHAT PLANET is a man with a physique like that not in better shape than 90% of men?

Any man with that level of muscularity could walk in any indoor pool in North America, and be the most in-shape person at least 90% of the time.

That's when I was in my perma-bulking phase. I later found that being 170-lb is much better. 175-lb now, since I've put on some muscle mass with age.

In my gym, there are not even six men stronger than I am. I almost never see anyone bench press 405 or more. Maybe twice a year. Yet you claim you do. If you actually we're that strong, you'd be more like tommywishbone is on here. Tommy KNOWS he's stronger than most men. So he doesn't rip into men weaker than him, because he and any man weaker than him BOTH KNOW where they stand on the hierarchy.

If you were stronger than me, you wouldn't need to insult me, because I wouldn't pose a threat in any way. If a guy who posts here benches 185, I'm not going to insult the guy. Now - if he was getting cocky and claiming to be the strongest guy, then YES, he should be taken down a peg.

But that's not your issue with me. I don't personally attack anyone on this board who doesn't attack me first - which generally means I attack no one. Nor do I make claims about my strength, because unlike you, I post proof of all my lifts, and it speaks for itself.

There's nothing I claim that I haven't proven, so there's no reason to call me out on anything. If I claim anything, there's objective evidence backing me up.

You know you are not stronger than me, better looking, or richer than me. If you did, you could easily post a video tomorrow of you bench pressing 405-lb, and you could upstage me in front of everyone.

You could cover your face in the video, and wear a white shirt that has "Walter Sobchak" written on it in permanent marker.

But we ALL know you don't bench 405, and won't prove shit on here.

So you're lying. My only question is: to what extent are you lying? My guess is that you bench 225x6.

And that's not an insult - that's strong compared to the average man.

If I'm wrong, be sure to post that video of you bench pressing 405, to upstage me to all of Getbig.

Conclusion:

People lie online.

And just so you know - no one here believes you bench press 405, or are a millionaire. In fact, the more often you make claims like that, the less people believe you about anything.

My fellow Getbiggers no doubt think I'm weird - but they do know I'm able to prove my claims.

People don't like admitting that all the time...but they know. And whatever can be said about me, I do have a track record of proving anything I claim.

[Matt]

Now you’re just lying to yourself Matt because you can’t cope with the truth. That chick had more cock in her than all the pairs of Hanes underwear worldwide. Technically speaking eating that pussy was basically sucking cock by proxy.

Although on the other hand, she would have been a stabilizing influence for your kids.

Let’s just say.... I don’t have time for the kind of shit you involve yourself in.

She was a slut, for sure. And purposely said things to get me to believe she wasn't.

But here's my thoughts on it:

- Between working full-time, and being at my house eight hours a day, there just wouldn't have been much time for her to be out with other men. I'm not saying it didn't happen. Fuck knows she lied to me so damn much, I can't rule it out. I'm just saying, from a sheer time perspective, there wouldn't have been enough hours in the day for her to be with another guy very much. She could have fucked though... it's not like it takes much time to fuck. But again, between full-time work, being at my house for hours, and then going home late with an early morning shift at work...there wasn't lots of time for her to be fucking other guys.

- I think the BDSM from her "abusive" ex-boyfriend [which she REQUESTED] really fucked her up. The dumb bitch ASKS men to slap and hit her during sex, then bitches about it. Fucking stupid idiot. I was like "BITCH, YOU ASK MEN TO SLAP YOU DURING SEX, YOU DUMB FUCK. THEN YOU COMPLAIN WHEN THEY DO IT?" What a fucking retard.

So mainly that. She - BY HER OWN REQUEST - suffered sexual trauma, and I happened to meet her during that time.

It was like me after being through with this bitch - the LAST thing I wanted was to be with a woman.

The difference is - I would NEVER take advantage of a woman during a period in which I feel jaded, or bitter towards women.

See what "being in love" cost me?

NEVER AGAIN.