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Title: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 02:40:27 AM
Finally... a undeniable 100% very good reason for everyone to vote against Republicans unless you're gay and there's not many gay republicans so...  They want to take away young delicious free roaming pussy from America...  Worse than Communism, republicans have just treaded on sacred ground >:(  US GOV... You can't have our women!!!

http://www.usatoday.com/news/washington/2006-10-30-abstinence-message_x.htm


::) REPUBLICANS SAY..... LOOK, DON'T TOUCH!   ::)
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Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 02:47:30 AM
Don't forget shit like this comes from guys like this sticking their noses in government:

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Oh and he did have the gay affair unless anyone really believes he was getting cranked on meth "for a massage" only as he said...
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: gtbro1 on November 04, 2006, 03:30:14 AM
idiots.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Clubber Lang on November 04, 2006, 03:32:34 AM
is gummers still ok ?
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 03:39:35 AM
is gummers still ok ?

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Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Always Sore on November 04, 2006, 06:25:43 AM
I would be up for retroactive abortions and reduced breeding for inbreads and the stupid..well and democrats... ;D
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 06:32:01 AM
I would be up for retroactive abortions and reduced breeding for inbreads and the stupid..well and [delete]democrats... ;D[/delete]

WTF Man >:(

We're not the ones trying to take prime pussy off the market... are you gay?
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: drkaje on November 04, 2006, 06:50:25 AM
WTF Man >:(

We're not the ones trying to take prime pussy off the market... are you gay?

It's a surprise the haven't found a way to tax pussy yet, LOL!
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: latman on November 04, 2006, 06:59:14 AM
I would be up for retroactive abortions and reduced breeding for inbreads and the stupid..well and democrats... ;D
What the fuck are you Yankees doing over there! Berserker is right! Get control of your radicals for shit sake ::)  They will fuck your party and fuck you in the process.  Don't go siding for your own party when they're pulling shit like this just because you hate the stupid democrats. Fix what's wrong in your party. Now get on it, we don't need you Yankees coming over here to get what white pussy we have left.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Debussey on November 04, 2006, 07:04:22 AM
Supid Republicans. They will self destruct.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: 240 is Back on November 04, 2006, 07:13:28 AM
The evangelican guy...

said for no reason, he decided to buy meth one day.  called the guy who gives him massages and bought some.  No reason, just bored and figured hell, I've never done drugs, why not try a powerfully addictive street drug today?  Then, a minute after buying it, he realized the error of his ways and threw it away.

What a load of fucking crap.  I mean, this is worse than Foley's magically appearing alcohol problem.  This guy tries to explain away 3 years of side-action with the male escort as "he was my masseuse", then to explain the horny late night phone call that was recorded, it is "I wanted meth, that's why I soudned that way".

Please tell me that no one believes this load of crap.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Debussey on November 04, 2006, 07:17:21 AM
The evangelican guy...

said for no reason, he decided to buy meth one day.  called the guy who gives him massages and bought some.  No reason, just bored and figured hell, I've never done drugs, why not try a powerfully addictive street drug today?  Then, a minute after buying it, he realized the error of his ways and threw it away.

What a load of fucking crap.  I mean, this is worse than Foley's magically appearing alcohol problem.  This guy tries to explain away 3 years of side-action with the male escort as "he was my masseuse", then to explain the horny late night phone call that was recorded, it is "I wanted meth, that's why I soudned that way".

Please tell me that no one believes this load of crap.

American politics is a shame. It seems like the politicians are more concerned with playing games and protecting themselves and their position, than actually do what they are supposed to do: Serve the people.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hedgehog on November 04, 2006, 08:08:06 AM
This has got to be a smearing campaign against the Republicans.

I don't believe any Republican is against people over the age of 18 fcuking.

No. Fcuking. Way.

Now I'm starting to believe there is a "liberal" media campaign AGAINST the Republicans...

Find me one Republican who believe in abstinence without marriage up to age 29, I dare you. I fcuking double-fcukin-dare you.

YIP
Zack
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Always Sore on November 04, 2006, 08:14:31 AM
WTF Man >:(

We're not the ones trying to take prime pussy off the market... are you gay?

1st relax

2nd Not going to happen

3rd relax

4th Here is a little tip to help in the future (goverment is controlled by special intrest both sides and birth control companies and condom companies and all the people associated with fixing sex issues and problems contribute to much money for anything to change like this ever). This can  be used anytime you get nervous about stupid news stories.

5th relax

6th Breath

7th I was making a joke

8th parties do not make policy money does

9th better to restrain sex on many of the young there to stupid to be responsible

and last 10th did I mention for you to relax.

thanks
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Migs on November 04, 2006, 08:40:05 AM
Finally... a undeniable 100% very good reason for everyone to vote against Republicans unless you're gay and there's not many gay republicans so...  They want to take away young delicious free roaming pussy from America...  Worse than Communism, republicans have just treaded on sacred ground >:(  US GOV... You can't have our women!!!

http://www.usatoday.com/news/washington/2006-10-30-abstinence-message_x.htm


::) REPUBLICANS SAY..... LOOK, DON'T TOUCH!   ::)
(http://www.imagedonkey.com/out.php?i=16749_Ass244.jpg)




another nice pooper, good job
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Debussey on November 04, 2006, 08:45:14 AM
another nice pooper, good job

What's the deal? Everybody loves the anus, yet it's where the shit comes out. Everybody must love to stick their tounges in shitty assholes.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Always Sore on November 04, 2006, 08:47:51 AM
What's the deal? Everybody loves the anus, yet it's where the shit comes out. Everybody must love to stick their tounges in shitty assholes.

He was talking about her turd cutter, her ass, her back porch, her push tush...not her brown lifesaver... ;D
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Migs on November 04, 2006, 08:48:46 AM
thanks AS.  some people just dont get it lol
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Debussey on November 04, 2006, 08:59:50 AM
He was talking about her turd cutter, her ass, her back porch, her push tush...not her brown lifesaver... ;D

Anus = the "outer hole". Rectum = the shit canal. The meat around = very close to the shit.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hedgehog on November 04, 2006, 09:05:49 AM
Anus = the "outer hole". Rectum = the shit canal. The meat around = very close to the shit.

That's why I always have the girl do multiple cleansings before entering.

Try it mate.

YIP
Zack
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: ieffinhatecardio on November 04, 2006, 09:08:34 AM
What's the deal? Everybody loves the anus, yet it's where the shit comes out. Everybody must love to stick their tounges in shitty assholes.

Nothing wrong with a beautiful balloon knot. Next time you're going down on your girl try giving her brown eye a little lick.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 04, 2006, 09:15:16 AM
Sound the alarm.  The government is promoting common sense.  Talk about a radical idea:  telling young adults to keep their stuff in their pants to help reduce out-of-wedlock births.  An excerpt:

But Wade Horn, assistant secretary for children and families at the Department of Health and Human Services, said the revision is aimed at 19- to 29-year-olds because more unmarried women in that age group are having children.

Government data released last month show that 998,262 births in 2004 were to unmarried women 19-29, the ages with the most births to unmarried women.

"The message is 'It's better to wait until you're married to bear or father children,' " Horn said. "The only 100% effective way of getting there is abstinence."

The revised guidelines specify that states seeking grants are "to identify groups ... most likely to bear children out-of-wedlock, targeting adolescents and/or adults within the 12- through 29-year-old age range." Previous guidelines didn't mention targeting of an age group.

"We wanted to remind states they could use these funds not only to target adolescents," Horn said. "It's a reminder."

Last year, 46 states applied for the federal abstinence-education money, to fund programs in schools, neighborhood clubs and faith-based organizations.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Debussey on November 04, 2006, 09:21:50 AM
That's why I always have the girl do multiple cleansings before entering.

Try it mate.

YIP
Zack

Of course. Warming her ass up for anal rape starts in the shower.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: OzmO on November 04, 2006, 09:26:27 AM


Outlawing sex is about the stupidist out of touch thing any body of government can do.  Written and suggested by people who forgot what it is like to single and young.  Poor old, crusty, non-sex havin, bastards.

If anything you'll encourage more sex because now it's illegal.

FACE facts: 

-  PEOPLE LIKE TO FCUK.

-  PEOPLE WILL NOT STOP FCUKING

You don;t change "culture" by making things illegal.  You change culture by education and promoting responsibility



AND then on top pf that, someone is telling what 2 consenting aldults can and cannot do in the privacy of their bedroom? 

GIVE ME A FUCKING BREAK!

"Orwellian" pigs

Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Debussey on November 04, 2006, 09:39:44 AM
Sound the alarm.  The government is promoting common sense.  Talk about a radical idea:  telling young adults to keep their stuff in their pants to help reduce out-of-wedlock births.  An excerpt:

But Wade Horn, assistant secretary for children and families at the Department of Health and Human Services, said the revision is aimed at 19- to 29-year-olds because more unmarried women in that age group are having children.

Government data released last month show that 998,262 births in 2004 were to unmarried women 19-29, the ages with the most births to unmarried women.

"The message is 'It's better to wait until you're married to bear or father children,' " Horn said. "The only 100% effective way of getting there is abstinence."

The revised guidelines specify that states seeking grants are "to identify groups ... most likely to bear children out-of-wedlock, targeting adolescents and/or adults within the 12- through 29-year-old age range." Previous guidelines didn't mention targeting of an age group.

"We wanted to remind states they could use these funds not only to target adolescents," Horn said. "It's a reminder."

Last year, 46 states applied for the federal abstinence-education money, to fund programs in schools, neighborhood clubs and faith-based organizations.



Fundamentalist.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hedgehog on November 04, 2006, 09:45:50 AM
Sound the alarm.  The government is promoting common sense.  Talk about a radical idea:  telling young adults to keep their stuff in their pants to help reduce out-of-wedlock births.

How about instead promote safe sex?

Fund campaigns for condom availability, free condoms at certain places, put condom vending machines up in mens and ladies room in bars and nightclubs et al.

I'm sure something like that could help prevent lots of STD's and lots of unplanned births.

YIP
Zack
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 10:48:46 AM
How about I don't give a fuck rats ass about marriage and it's fucking retarded to wait until you're married to have sex?  Talk about a recipe for divorce. Fuck first, get married if their is a match and everything else works out.  Anyway, fuck the government it's none of their fucking business... And if for nothing else, this campaign is costing millions of dollars despite Zack thinking it's not real, it actually is... I heard it on Real Time with Bill Maher then looked it up... As far a I know Bill Maher has never teamed up with USAToday to fake a story.  But anyway, here's a campaign that will cost millions... millions..... What a fucking waste of tax dollars... Abstinence teaching hasn't worked worth a shit for teens, who the fuck is going to listen to this shit in their twenties.... Bullshit... Bullshit waste of tax dollars by the biggest spending administration ever.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 10:52:04 AM
Oh and Zack man... Of course there is a liberal campaign against Republicans, it's called an election and the shit is heavy flying both ways.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Purge_WTF on November 04, 2006, 11:06:18 AM
  I remember the days when the Republican party was the party of less government intervention.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 04, 2006, 11:06:48 AM
How about instead promote safe sex?

Fund campaigns for condom availability, free condoms at certain places, put condom vending machines up in mens and ladies room in bars and nightclubs et al.

I'm sure something like that could help prevent lots of STD's and lots of unplanned births.

YIP
Zack

Because I don't think there such a thing as "safe sex" outside of marriage.  Neither birth control nor condoms are foolproof.  Would you have sex with a woman you knew had genital herpes, so long as you used a condom?  

Teaching traditional methods of birth control have been a colossal failure.  Just look at the unwanted pregnancy rates in this country.  All it does is send a mixed message:  don't have sex till you're married, but here, keep this condom in your wallet.  

I teach my kids abstinence.  
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 04, 2006, 11:08:16 AM
Also, this isn't a law.  It's a guideline used for states who want grant money. 
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hedgehog on November 04, 2006, 11:22:58 AM
Because I don't think there such a thing as "safe sex" outside of marriage.  Neither birth control nor condoms are foolproof.  Would you have sex with a woman you knew had genital herpes, so long as you used a condom? 

Teaching traditional methods of birth control have been a colossal failure.  Just look at the unwanted pregnancy rates in this country.  All it does is send a mixed message:  don't have sex till you're married, but here, keep this condom in your wallet.   

I teach my kids abstinence. 


Sex is great.

People have a desire to have sex.

If condoms are used on every random sexual encounter, how many cases of STD's would there be?

How many unplanned births would there be if condoms or other birth-control methods such as pills always would be used by people during sex?

From what I understand, there is some idea that the very mentioning of the existance of condoms and such will make people have more sex outside of marriage.

I guess it's just a matter of how you perceive sex. If it's something shameful, something that should be done behind closed doors, and preferably not at all, then I guess abstinence is the way to go.

If you on the other hand believe sex is something perfectly normal, and is cool as long as you protect yourself and is a bit careful, then getting more condoms out there is the message.

I definitely think condoms should be handed out to high school teens before their prom, that there should be a thorough education on how condoms work and how safe they are from the legal age in each state.

Why?

Because I believe that is the best way to prevent STD's and unplanned births.

Not because I want teens to start having group sex or shit. Just want them to always protect themselves.

YIP
Zack
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Debussey on November 04, 2006, 11:36:16 AM
Beach Bum associates shame with sex. He's religious.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: ieffinhatecardio on November 04, 2006, 07:16:28 PM
Sound the alarm.  The government is promoting common sense.  Talk about a radical idea:  telling young adults to keep their stuff in their pants to help reduce out-of-wedlock births.  An excerpt:

But Wade Horn, assistant secretary for children and families at the Department of Health and Human Services, said the revision is aimed at 19- to 29-year-olds because more unmarried women in that age group are having children.

Government data released last month show that 998,262 births in 2004 were to unmarried women 19-29, the ages with the most births to unmarried women.

"The message is 'It's better to wait until you're married to bear or father children,' " Horn said. "The only 100% effective way of getting there is abstinence."

The revised guidelines specify that states seeking grants are "to identify groups ... most likely to bear children out-of-wedlock, targeting adolescents and/or adults within the 12- through 29-year-old age range." Previous guidelines didn't mention targeting of an age group.

"We wanted to remind states they could use these funds not only to target adolescents," Horn said. "It's a reminder."

Last year, 46 states applied for the federal abstinence-education money, to fund programs in schools, neighborhood clubs and faith-based organizations.


Wow, I knew you were wacko but this is just insane. You're one of the freaky religious nutjobs that wants the world to live what your religion preaches.

Holy Schit, you want 29 year olds not to have sex? It's alright for someone in their twenties to be able to fight in a war, vote, own a gun, drive a car, motorcycle or airplane yet they can't have sex if they're not married?  ::)

Zealot might be too tame a word for you. Yikes, what a freak.

I wonder if you're one of those fanatics that endorses the bombing of abortion clinics and the murdering of doctors that perform abortions?
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 04, 2006, 07:23:16 PM
Wow, I knew you were wacko but this is just insane. You're one of the freaky religious nutjobs that wants the world to live what your religion preaches.

Holy Schit, you want 29 year olds not to have sex? It's alright for someone in their twenties to be able to fight in a war, vote, own a gun, drive a car, motorcycle or airplane yet they can't have sex if they're not married?  ::)

Zealot might be too tame a word for you. Yikes, what a freak.

I wonder if you're one of those fanatics that endorses the bombing of abortion clinics and the murdering of doctors that perform abortions?

YAWN.   ::)
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: ieffinhatecardio on November 04, 2006, 07:27:21 PM
YAWN.   ::)

Nice retort freak. Are you busy plotting your next abortion clinic bombing with your fellow religious fanatics?

You know what's really funny about your insane point of view? I bet you had sex before you were married when you were younger than 29, making you a hypocrite.  LOL.

What a clown.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 04, 2006, 07:35:42 PM
Nice retort freak. Are you busy plotting your next abortion clinic bombing with your fellow religious fanatics?

You know what's really funny about your insane point of view? I bet you had sex before you were married when you were younger than 29, making you a hypocrite.  LOL.

What a clown.

lol.   ;D  Oh, and  ::)
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 07:40:25 PM
Also, this isn't a law.  It's a guideline used for states who want grant money. 
NO SHIT THERE... If you weren't reading only parts of posts and articles, that would have been clear as fuck but here you are pointing it out like you're correcting a misconception ::)
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 07:41:42 PM
Yea.... Beach Bum endorses this as a good program.... P'WNED... See this clown for what he is now... ahahaha a proud member of the Radically Stupid...
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 04, 2006, 07:42:11 PM
NO SHIT THERE... If you weren't reading only parts of posts and articles, that would have been clear as f**k but here you are pointing it out like you're correcting a misconception ::)

I don't read most of your posts, because you cuss too much.  
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: JOHN MATRIX on November 04, 2006, 07:46:26 PM
bunch of fucking filthy hippocrates all of them. banning sex will be even more disasterous than when they tried to prohibit alcohol.

meanwhile heres some more ass.

(http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a212/corndog7/perfectass.jpg)

just say no ::)...yeah right
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 07:48:31 PM
I don't read most of your posts, because you cuss too much.  
I didn't cuss in the USAToday article did I dipshit?  no one thought this was a law  ::)  If you're not going to read through posts fine, but don't ASSume what they say and post ::)
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 04, 2006, 07:50:44 PM
I didn't cuss in the USAToday article did I dipshit?  no one thought this was a law  ::)  If you're not going to read through posts fine, but don't ASSume what they say and post ::)

Berserker, when I skim your posts most of what I hear is Charlie Brown's teacher. 
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 07:54:09 PM
I definitely think condoms should be handed out to high school teens before their prom, that there should be a thorough education on how condoms work and how safe they are from the legal age in each state.

Why?

Because I believe that is the best way to prevent STD's and unplanned births.

Not because I want teens to start having group sex or shit. Just want them to always protect themselves.

YIP
Zack
Do you know how many people on the left get absolutely attacked for saying this exact same thing? I'm mean because this is word for word pretty much the take from the left...

Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 07:59:48 PM
Berserker, when I skim your posts most of what I hear is Charlie Brown's teacher. 
Yea, I know... funny thing is that a good portion of what I post is sniped from major media sources and you still tick along like you're listening to charlie brown's teacher...  But funny as all hell... you hear Charlie Brown's teacher and what do you do?  POST A REPLY... that either makes you dumbest member on getbig or a radical fundamentalist so embedded in your thinking that you have a standard answer based on seeing the JIST of what a post is about...
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 04, 2006, 08:02:31 PM
Yea, I know... funny thing is that a good portion of what I post is sniped from major media sources and you still tick along like you're listening to charlie brown's teacher...  But funny as all hell... you hear Charlie Brown's teacher and what do you do?  POST A REPLY... that either makes you dumbest member on getbig or a radical fundamentalist so embedded in your thinking that you have a standard answer based on seeing the JIST of what a post is about...

 ;D  Ah another member of the Beach Bum fan club.  I love you guys.  Do I get a Christmas card? 
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 08:09:02 PM
;D  Ah another member of the Beach Bum fan club.  I love you guys.  Do I get a Christmas card? 
And that's when I take you're conceding the debate ;D when you drop the issue in favor of a smart ass reply... Thank you bum. :-*
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 04, 2006, 08:10:35 PM
And that's when I take you're conceding the debate ;D when you drop the issue in favor of a smart ass reply... Thank you bum. :-*

Debate???? 
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 09:39:36 PM
Debate???? 
I know... It's obvious you don't do "Debate" Thanks for making my point..... AGAIN ;)
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 04, 2006, 10:09:31 PM
I know... It's obvious you don't do "Debate" Thanks for making my point..... AGAIN ;)

Point??? 
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 10:11:20 PM
Point??? 
you don't do debate, your narrow vision missed the first part of the post?  LOL....
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 04, 2006, 10:17:03 PM
you don't do debate, your narrow vision missed the first part of the post?  LOL....

I debate all the time.  I poke fun at people I don't take seriously.   
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: JOHN MATRIX on November 04, 2006, 10:57:56 PM
stop debating u queers and post more ass pics!!!!
i own you both intellectually anyways 8)
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 11:02:46 PM
I debate all the time.  I poke fun at people I don't take seriously.   
You don't take your government wasting millions of dollars on an abstinence campaign aimed at 19 to 29 year olds seriously. :-\
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 11:10:47 PM
stop debating u queers and post more ass pics!!!!
i own you both intellectually anyways 8)

Oldie but a goodie:  ;D

(http://www.imagedonkey.com/out.php?i=16786_105.jpg)


(http://www.imagedonkey.com/out.php?i=16787_118.jpg)


(http://www.imagedonkey.com/out.php?i=16788_107.jpg)
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 04, 2006, 11:11:40 PM
You don't take your government wasting millions of dollars on an abstinence campaign aimed at 19 to 29 year olds seriously. :-\

I guess they could continue to promote "safe sex" through birth control pills and condoms.  That has worked brilliantly the past 30 years or so.  
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 11:17:57 PM
Clicky to enlarge ;D

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Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: JOHN MATRIX on November 04, 2006, 11:30:56 PM
Oldie but a goodie:  ;D

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HOLY...FUCKIN.....SHIT....
who is that???? :o
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 11:31:25 PM
I guess they could continue to promote "safe sex" through birth control pills and condoms.  That has worked brilliantly the past 30 years or so.  
people have sex out of marriage, you can't stop it you fucking retard... You're wasting your our money, we're applying the best common sense solutions even if the solutions are not 100% perfect... Go on with yourself now and put a lit on your radical fundamentalism before it ends up wasting more money or getting more people killed.  >:(





Hmmmm wondering if there is a statement to be found in how well abstinence worked for priests.  It's a form of deprivation that leads to unhealthy outcomes as is so with nearly every kind of deprivation on the human animal...  You can't goddamned suppress the strongest primal trait in humans which is to f**k...  Only a delusional radical fundamentalist would think this is a good idea... >:(
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 11:34:15 PM
HOLY...FUCKIN.....SHIT....
who is that???? :o
OH NO, you're kidding right ;D  That's one of the most popular asses in all the world... Those buns are famous ;D

Keyra Augusta

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Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 11:37:08 PM
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Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 11:40:11 PM
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Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 04, 2006, 11:44:23 PM
BOOTYFUL!

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Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: JOHN MATRIX on November 05, 2006, 12:31:06 AM
OH NO, you're kidding right ;D  That's one of the most popular asses in all the world... Those buns are famous ;D

Keyra Augusta

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thats what i figured, greatest ass in the world(what a title to be able to claim!!!!!)
she beats the shit out of vida guera
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 05, 2006, 01:25:51 AM
thats what i figured, greatest ass in the world(what a title to be able to claim!!!!!)
she beats the shit out of vida guera
oh yea, it's hard to beat kerya
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 05, 2006, 02:38:57 AM
people have sex out of marriage, you can't stop it you fucking retard... You're wasting your our money, we're applying the best common sense solutions even if the solutions are not 100% perfect... Go on with yourself now and put a lit on your radical fundamentalism before it ends up wasting more money or getting more people killed.  >:(





Hmmmm wondering if there is a statement to be found in how well abstinence worked for priests.  It's a form of deprivation that leads to unhealthy outcomes as is so with nearly every kind of deprivation on the human animal...  You can't goddamned suppress the strongest primal trait in humans which is to f**k...  Only a delusional radical fundamentalist would think this is a good idea... >:(

 ::)  Listen genius, this is part of the reason why I don't take you seriously.  You are nothing more than a cartoon.  Here is some free advice:  in the unlikely event you are able to find a woman, do the world a favor and practice abstinence; i.e., do not reproduce.  You'll not preserve the moral fabric of society, you'll save the government some money.   
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 05, 2006, 02:49:03 AM
::)  Listen genius, this is part of the reason why I don't take you seriously.  You are nothing more than a cartoon.  Here is some free advice:  in the unlikely event you are able to find a woman, do the world a favor and practice abstinence; i.e., do not reproduce.  You'll not preserve the moral fabric of society, you'll save the government some money.   
Great rebuttal ::)  Again... I'll take that a bow out... You don't want to deal with any of the very valid points made in the post and instead resort to this shit...  You can get pissy with me that's fine, but it says volumes when your post has no counter points.

For not taking me serious, you sure spend a lot of time replying to my posts... I pretty much ignore people who aren't worth taking serious... How fucking stupid does that make you   ;)
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: ieffinhatecardio on November 05, 2006, 04:05:00 AM
I guess they could continue to promote "safe sex" through birth control pills and condoms.  That has worked brilliantly the past 30 years or so. 

And you think banning sex for anyone under 30 that isn't married will work? LOL

This clown is rapidly reaching Vince Goodbum levels of delusion.  ::)
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hedgehog on November 05, 2006, 09:00:32 AM
I guess they could continue to promote "safe sex" through birth control pills and condoms.  That has worked brilliantly the past 30 years or so. 

Condoms are preventing STD's.

Problem is, the use of condoms are not allowed to be demonstrated or teached to teens, and they grow up without condom usage as a natural part of their sex life.

The usage of condoms in Sweden is higher than in Poland, Ireland or other countries with rigid anti-condom policies.

Sweden also has a lower rate of STD's and unplanned births.

Despite the fact that Swedish teens starts having sex at the same age or even slightly earlier on average, than these other countries.

Something must be wrong with the anti-condom policy.

I agree that preaching abstinence is one way to deal with the problem, and the only way to deal with the problem. 300 years ago.

But we live in the 21st century.

Lets deal with this as rational human beings.

Fact: People, even those under the age of 30, will have sex.

How to prevent those people from getting STD's and unplanned births?

Why not teach them from young age to use condoms?

YIP
Zack
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hugo Chavez on November 05, 2006, 09:09:17 AM
I think Beach is actually more interested in opposing everything I post than listening to reason... He's obsessed with me :P  ...but doesn't take me serious ;D
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 05, 2006, 09:18:30 AM
Condoms are preventing STD's.

Problem is, the use of condoms are not allowed to be demonstrated or teached to teens, and they grow up without condom usage as a natural part of their sex life.

The usage of condoms in Sweden is higher than in Poland, Ireland or other countries with rigid anti-condom policies.

Sweden also has a lower rate of STD's and unplanned births.

Despite the fact that Swedish teens starts having sex at the same age or even slightly earlier on average, than these other countries.

Something must be wrong with the anti-condom policy.

I agree that preaching abstinence is one way to deal with the problem, and the only way to deal with the problem. 300 years ago.

But we live in the 21st century.

Lets deal with this as rational human beings.

Fact: People, even those under the age of 30, will have sex.

How to prevent those people from getting STD's and unplanned births?

Why not teach them from young age to use condoms?

YIP
Zack

Because you are sending a mixed message.  We have tried the condom campaigns in this country for years.  It has been a failure.  I think it is an unreasonable approach.  Not only does it send mixed messages about sex, but it is unworkable.  Sex with and without a condom is literally like night and day.  I doubt there are many guys who have experienced sex with and without a condom who will consistently use condoms, particularly younger guys whose brain cells are clouded by testosterone.

Have there been studies in Sweden that directly link condom use to fewer unplanned births?  I've seen studies that show condoms have a very high failure rate.   
 
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hedgehog on November 05, 2006, 10:03:53 AM
Because you are sending a mixed message.  We have tried the condom campaigns in this country for years.  It has been a failure.  I think it is an unreasonable approach.  Not only does it send mixed messages about sex, but it is unworkable.  Sex with and without a condom is literally like night and day.  I doubt there are many guys who have experienced sex with and without a condom who will consistently use condoms, particularly younger guys whose brain cells are clouded by testosterone.

Have there been studies in Sweden that directly link condom use to fewer unplanned births?  I've seen studies that show condoms have a very high failure rate.   
 

Be honest with me mate, have the government in the USA really tried condom campaigns on a large scale?

Have these campaigns been allowed into high schools, into all high schools, even private high schools? What efforts were made to give condoms a chance?

Here's an anti-AIDS site with info about condoms:

http://www.avert.org/condoms.htm

And before anyone goes and claim it is "liberal" or "conservative" or "whatever" bias, the article has solid references.

Once again, I don't think condoms should be promoted because I want kids to have orgies, or have more sex.

It's because I remember how it was being a teen, that there is no way a teen is going to stay away from the cookie jar.

Instead, inform.


On a side note: I don't understand what Berserker thinks he's going to achieve with constantly insulting BB. And vice versa.


YIP
Zack
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 05, 2006, 10:57:11 AM
Be honest with me mate, have the government in the USA really tried condom campaigns on a large scale?

Have these campaigns been allowed into high schools, into all high schools, even private high schools? What efforts were made to give condoms a chance?

Here's an anti-AIDS site with info about condoms:

http://www.avert.org/condoms.htm

And before anyone goes and claim it is "liberal" or "conservative" or "whatever" bias, the article has solid references.

Once again, I don't think condoms should be promoted because I want kids to have orgies, or have more sex.

It's because I remember how it was being a teen, that there is no way a teen is going to stay away from the cookie jar.

Instead, inform.


On a side note: I don't understand what Berserker thinks he's going to achieve with constantly insulting BB. And vice versa.


YIP
Zack

Different groups have spent millions for years promoting condom use in this country.  It hasn't worked.  I think one of the main reasons it will never work is what I mentioned earlier about guys simply refusing to use them. 

I looked at the link you posted.  Here is what I found interesting about the U.S.:  the rates of Chlamydia have almost doubled, gonorrhea has remained level, and syphilis has only slightly decreased.  If those numbers are accurate, our millions spent promoting condoms have had no impact on STDs. 

And just look at our out-of-wedlock pregnancy and abortion rates.  Whatever we've been doing to slow these rates down has not worked.

It's a difficult issue IMO.  I know a certain segment of the population will have irresponsible sex regardless of what kind of campaign we run.  Given that, I see no problem with promoting the only foolproof method of avoiding STDs and unwanted out-of-wedlock births:  find a mate and get married.  Until then, keep it in your pants.   
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: 24KT on November 05, 2006, 11:02:44 AM
Anyone who buys into this argument: 

the revision is aimed at 19- to 29-year-olds because more unmarried women in that age group are having children


or sees this stat as valid or sound reasoning behind the campaign is simply manipulated by data they do not know how to interpret.

Of course more unmarried women in that age group are having children. Infact, more married women in that age group are having children as well. Most women have children between the ages of 19-29, ...married or not. Those are the most frequent child bearing years

What would you prefer, ...that they instead have abortions?.

You talk about the unwanted pregnancy rates in the country, however, you say that as if unwanted pregnancies only occur in unmarried women. I'm of the opinion that there are infact even more unwanted pregnancies that occur among married women. Infact, abortion stats will bear this out. Most women having abortions, are in fact married.

You teach your kids abstinence. We're approaching the year 2007. Good luck.
I both fear & suspect, that you are in for a very horribly traumatic and rude awakening.

"The government has no place in the bedrooms of the nation". - Canadian Prime Minister Pierre Elliot Trudeau (over 30 yrs ago)
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hedgehog on November 05, 2006, 11:16:25 AM
Different groups have spent millions for years promoting condom use in this country.  It hasn't worked.  I think one of the main reasons it will never work is what I mentioned earlier about guys simply refusing to use them. 

I looked at the link you posted.  Here is what I found interesting about the U.S.:  the rates of Chlamydia have almost doubled, gonorrhea has remained level, and syphilis has only slightly decreased.  If those numbers are accurate, our millions spent promoting condoms have had no impact on STDs. 

And just look at our out-of-wedlock pregnancy and abortion rates.  Whatever we've been doing to slow these rates down has not worked.

It's a difficult issue IMO.  I know a certain segment of the population will have irresponsible sex regardless of what kind of campaign we run.  Given that, I see no problem with promoting the only foolproof method of avoiding STDs and unwanted out-of-wedlock births:  find a mate and get married.  Until then, keep it in your pants.   


My questions for you are these:

Do you really think that the government in the USA has allowed for a nationwide campaign directed at ALL teens and young adults?

If so, when was that campaign?

YIP
Zack
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Deedee on November 05, 2006, 11:24:55 AM
This is what it's about and has been for several decades. The abstinence-only teaching model has not been successful anywhere in the world.

"The effectiveness debate has largely obscured one underlying reason for the Bush administration's support: politics. Funding abstinence-until-marriage programs allows the White House to reward conservative groups by putting them on the federal gravy train."

But on the bright side, look at all the creative people who are going enjoy lucrative contracts while dreaming up fun campaigns for a whole new segment of society!

Idaho's state campaign tried using reverse psychology to show teens what was potentially uncool about having sex. Their television spots, produced by es/drake ad agency in Boise, Idaho, were spoofs of ads for popular dolls. "Action Teen Father," for example, resembles a Ken doll with a mullet haircut and faded jeans, and comes complete with a crib, diaper bag, "Action Baby Buggy," and food stamps. (His girlfriend, "Teen Mommy Darcie," is sold separately.) Although the message-- "Teen parenting isn't fun"--flashes in the final frame, some younger viewers apparently didn't get the point. According to Shelly Rambo Robertson of the Idaho Department of Health, a few parents complained that their children thought the toys were genuine and wanted to buy "Teen Mommy Darcie."
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 05, 2006, 11:25:08 AM
My questions for you are these:

Do you really think that the government in the USA has allowed for a nationwide campaign directed at ALL teens and young adults?

If so, when was that campaign?

YIP
Zack

Yes.  

It is ongoing.  We have run numerous T.V. and radio commercials for years.  They have tried to become creative and make the commercials more appealing to young people.  What I'm not sure about is whether they hand them out in the schools or make them available to kids in the schools.  Even if they don't, I am certain anyone can walk into a plethora of clinics and Planned Parenthood buildings anywhere in the country and get free condoms.  Promoting condom use and making them available are not the problems.  It's getting guys to use them on a large scale, consistent basis, which I don't believe will ever happen, regardless of how much money we spend promoting their use.  
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Clubber Lang on November 05, 2006, 11:28:12 AM
This is what it's about and has been for several decades. The abstinence-only teaching model has not been successful anywhere in the world.

"The effectiveness debate has largely obscured one underlying reason for the Bush administration's support: politics. Funding abstinence-until-marriage programs allows the White House to reward conservative groups by putting them on the federal gravy train."

But on the bright side, look at all the creative people who are going enjoy lucrative contracts while dreaming up fun campaigns for a whole new segment of society!

Idaho's state campaign tried using reverse psychology to show teens what was potentially uncool about having sex. Their television spots, produced by es/drake ad agency in Boise, Idaho, were spoofs of ads for popular dolls. "Action Teen Father," for example, resembles a Ken doll with a mullet haircut and faded jeans, and comes complete with a crib, diaper bag, "Action Baby Buggy," and food stamps. (His girlfriend, "Teen Mommy Darcie," is sold separately.) Although the message-- "Teen parenting isn't fun"--flashes in the final frame, some younger viewers apparently didn't get the point. According to Shelly Rambo Robertson of the Idaho Department of Health, a few parents complained that their children thought the toys were genuine and wanted to buy "Teen Mommy Darcie."

abstinence is like communism, a great idea in theory but totally at odds with reality/human nature

the most effective movement for curbing sex has probably been HIV
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 05, 2006, 11:32:57 AM
This is what it's about and has been for several decades. The abstinence-only teaching model has not been successful anywhere in the world.

"The effectiveness debate has largely obscured one underlying reason for the Bush administration's support: politics. Funding abstinence-until-marriage programs allows the White House to reward conservative groups by putting them on the federal gravy train."

But on the bright side, look at all the creative people who are going enjoy lucrative contracts while dreaming up fun campaigns for a whole new segment of society!

Idaho's state campaign tried using reverse psychology to show teens what was potentially uncool about having sex. Their television spots, produced by es/drake ad agency in Boise, Idaho, were spoofs of ads for popular dolls. "Action Teen Father," for example, resembles a Ken doll with a mullet haircut and faded jeans, and comes complete with a crib, diaper bag, "Action Baby Buggy," and food stamps. (His girlfriend, "Teen Mommy Darcie," is sold separately.) Although the message-- "Teen parenting isn't fun"--flashes in the final frame, some younger viewers apparently didn't get the point. According to Shelly Rambo Robertson of the Idaho Department of Health, a few parents complained that their children thought the toys were genuine and wanted to buy "Teen Mommy Darcie."

I don't think abstinence only training has been unsuccessful at all.  I've heard and read about many success stories.  One of the problems I have is treating kids like they are uncontrollable, mindless animals who are unable to refrain from having sex.  I have many friends with teenaged virgins and we all teach our children that their virginity is a gift that they will give to their future spouse on their wedding night.  They are taught how to respect their bodies.  The girls (including mine) are taught and shown how boys and men have a one-track mind and will gladly make them a notch on their belts.  My girls have bought into it.  They're very open with me.  I know exactly which ones of their friends are having sex.  (Way too many.)  In fact, we were just talking last night about one in particular who might be pregnant at the age of 15.   :'(  
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Deedee on November 05, 2006, 11:38:40 AM
Well, it doesn't seem to have worked in European and African countries.  The lowest rates of teen pregnancies in Europe are in the countries that teach sex education rather than abstinence.  Perhaps it only works in the US.  However, this thread is about reaching 19-29-year-olds which is a ludicrous undertaking.  The only reason for the campaign is to shuttle funds to certain conservative special interest groups. 
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hedgehog on November 05, 2006, 11:50:18 AM
Yes. 

It is ongoing.  We have run numerous T.V. and radio commercials for years.  They have tried to become creative and make the commercials more appealing to young people.  What I'm not sure about is whether they hand them out in the schools or make them available to kids in the schools.  Even if they don't, I am certain anyone can walk into a plethora of clinics and Planned Parenthood buildings anywhere in the country and get free condoms.  Promoting condom use and making them available are not the problems.  It's getting guys to use them on a large scale, consistent basis, which I don't believe will ever happen, regardless of how much money we spend promoting their use. 


From what I understand, and my experience when I lived in the USA, was that for every campaign that was trying to get teens and adults to use condoms, there were at least one campaign of abstinence.

I never had any condom talk during my senior year in US high school. Condoms weren't very available either in general. It wasn't like you could by a pack at any supermarket or drugstore, or gas station.

So that was a big change from what I was used from back in Sweden.

YIP
Zack
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Clubber Lang on November 05, 2006, 12:09:28 PM
From what I understand, and my experience when I lived in the USA, was that for every campaign that was trying to get teens and adults to use condoms, there were at least one campaign of abstinence.

thats kind of interesting, i wonder if its by design(ie regulated)

i know that in canada you have to play at least one public service announcment add for every alcoholic add you play
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Cavalier22 on November 05, 2006, 01:44:44 PM
that preacher guy is a complete joke.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 05, 2006, 02:23:49 PM
From what I understand, and my experience when I lived in the USA, was that for every campaign that was trying to get teens and adults to use condoms, there were at least one campaign of abstinence.

I never had any condom talk during my senior year in US high school. Condoms weren't very available either in general. It wasn't like you could by a pack at any supermarket or drugstore, or gas station.

So that was a big change from what I was used from back in Sweden.

YIP
Zack


I'd be surprised if there is a 7-11, Safeway, etc. in Hawaii that does not carry condoms. 
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 05, 2006, 02:32:02 PM
Well, it doesn't seem to have worked in European and African countries.  The lowest rates of teen pregnancies in Europe are in the countries that teach sex education rather than abstinence.  Perhaps it only works in the US.  However, this thread is about reaching 19-29-year-olds which is a ludicrous undertaking.  The only reason for the campaign is to shuttle funds to certain conservative special interest groups. 

I think it comes down to what kind of practices our government should be promoting.  Regarding teens, most rational people, particularly parents, believe teenagers should not have sex.  They're not old enough.  Generally not mature enough.  Regarding unmarried 19-29 year-olds, the commonsense advice I'd give to any of them is get your education, find a spouse, then have sex, kids, etc.  That's certainly reasonable advice in my book.  That's what I'm teaching my kids.

Obviously, this approach will not work with all kids and young adults.  But in terms of public policy, I have no problem at all with our government promoting the smartest approach for young adults.   
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: AVBG on November 05, 2006, 03:30:04 PM
 :D
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Deedee on November 05, 2006, 03:37:50 PM
I think it comes down to what kind of practices our government should be promoting.  Regarding teens, most rational people, particularly parents, believe teenagers should not have sex.  They're not old enough.  Generally not mature enough.  Regarding unmarried 19-29 year-olds, the commonsense advice I'd give to any of them is get your education, find a spouse, then have sex, kids, etc.  That's certainly reasonable advice in my book.  That's what I'm teaching my kids.

Obviously, this approach will not work with all kids and young adults.  But in terms of public policy, I have no problem at all with our government promoting the smartest approach for young adults.   

It may sound like reasonable advice, but I think in practice it's fluffy clouds and unicorns idealism for the most part. And anyone who's still unattached and a virgin at 29 probably has serious issues with intimacy.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hedgehog on November 05, 2006, 03:44:27 PM
I think it comes down to what kind of practices our government should be promoting.  Regarding teens, most rational people, particularly parents, believe teenagers should not have sex.  They're not old enough.  Generally not mature enough.  Regarding unmarried 19-29 year-olds, the commonsense advice I'd give to any of them is get your education, find a spouse, then have sex, kids, etc.  That's certainly reasonable advice in my book.  That's what I'm teaching my kids.

Obviously, this approach will not work with all kids and young adults.  But in terms of public policy, I have no problem at all with our government promoting the smartest approach for young adults.   

It seems like you have a very different opinion on what you think will prevent most cases of STD's and unplanned births from mine.

I happen to not agree with you on how to deal with the problem, but at least we seems to agree on what the problem is - too much unprotected sex.

Hypothetical question for you BB:

If there is research that clearly shows that safe sex with condom is the outstanding alternative to abstinence, would you be in favor of this being public policy and mandatory in all public and private schools?

YIP
Zack
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Deedee on November 05, 2006, 03:52:34 PM
It seems like you have a very different opinion on what you think will prevent most cases of STD's and unplanned births from mine.

I happen to not agree with you on how to deal with the problem, but at least we seems to agree on what the problem is - too much unprotected sex.

Hypothetical question for you BB:

If there is research that clearly shows that safe sex with condom is the outstanding alternative to abstinence, would you be in favor of this being public policy and mandatory in all public and private schools?

YIP
Zack

The way you worded this says sex should be mandatory in all schools.  :)
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: haider on November 05, 2006, 03:55:40 PM
From what I understand, and my experience when I lived in the USA, was that for every campaign that was trying to get teens and adults to use condoms, there were at least one campaign of abstinence.

I never had any condom talk during my senior year in US high school. Condoms weren't very available either in general. It wasn't like you could by a pack at any supermarket or drugstore, or gas station.

So that was a big change from what I was used from back in Sweden.

YIP
Zack

The better question is: Why the fvck would u get your highschool education in the US?  ;D
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hedgehog on November 05, 2006, 03:57:53 PM
The way you worded this says sex should be mandatory in all schools.  :)

True. :-[

What I meant was....

Fcuk that, you guys know what I meant, besides, I'm gonna play the foreigner card this time. :-*

Are you ok with that Beach?

YIP
Zack
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 05, 2006, 04:05:40 PM
It seems like you have a very different opinion on what you think will prevent most cases of STD's and unplanned births from mine.

I happen to not agree with you on how to deal with the problem, but at least we seems to agree on what the problem is - too much unprotected sex.

Hypothetical question for you BB:

If there is research that clearly shows that safe sex with condom is the outstanding alternative to abstinence, would you be in favor of this being public policy and mandatory in all public and private schools?

YIP
Zack

Well, honestly it wouldn't be my first choice, but I'd certainly be willing to discuss it if the numbers showed one was vastly superior to the other.  I don't think such a study has been done in the U.S.?  Until then, I'll stick with my fluffy clouds and unicorns idealism.   ;D
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Deedee on November 05, 2006, 04:23:28 PM
Well, honestly it wouldn't be my first choice, but I'd certainly be willing to discuss it if the numbers showed one was vastly superior to the other.  I don't think such a study has been done in the U.S.?  Until then, I'll stick with my fluffy clouds and unicorns idealism.   ;D

Based on comparative studies with other countries, so far it isn't looking so hot for the fluffy clouds...  :-\

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_education
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hedgehog on November 05, 2006, 04:30:36 PM
The better question is: Why the fvck would u get your highschool education in the US?  ;D

I was there for a year. Reason? I wanted to learn more about USA, broaden my perspective a little.

I would recommend for anyone to send away their highschool kids to another part of the world, if they have the opportunity. Getting involved with international exchange programs is interesting.

You grow up a lot when you're on your own in another part of the world.

YIP
Zack

Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on November 05, 2006, 05:05:38 PM
Based on comparative studies with other countries, so far it isn't looking so hot for the fluffy clouds...  :-\

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_education

Okay.  I read the link.  It does not discuss a comparative study of condoms vs. abstinence.

I found this alarming:  "In France, sex education has been part of school curricula since 1973. Schools are expected to provide 30 to 40 hours of sex education, and pass out condoms, to students in grades eight and nine."   :o 

Good Lord.  Giving condoms to 13 year old kids?     
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Deedee on November 05, 2006, 05:17:58 PM
Okay.  I read the link.  It does not discuss a comparative study of condoms vs. abstinence.

I found this alarming:  "In France, sex education has been part of school curricula since 1973. Schools are expected to provide 30 to 40 hours of sex education, and pass out condoms, to students in grades eight and nine."   :o 

Good Lord.  Giving condoms to 13 year old kids?     

Gotta love the French for their openmindedness when it comes to affairs of the heart. By the time a kid graduates 9th grade, they're 15. That's not too early to learn about condoms if you promote sex education.

The article does discuss the success rate of societies that promote sex education in keeping unwanted pregnancies down. It also points to a lack of responsibility in the use of contraceptives later on, in those that promote abstinence. Education is everything...
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Hedgehog on November 05, 2006, 05:31:17 PM
Okay.  I read the link.  It does not discuss a comparative study of condoms vs. abstinence.

I found this alarming:  "In France, sex education has been part of school curricula since 1973. Schools are expected to provide 30 to 40 hours of sex education, and pass out condoms, to students in grades eight and nine."   :o 

Good Lord.  Giving condoms to 13 year old kids?     

Look at the amount of STD's and unplanned birth in France in comparison to the USA.

But as far as passing out condoms, I'd say Sweden are equal or even better in that regard.

Any teen can get free condoms at the youth counciling, where free tests for STD's are also supervised, with great confidentiality, although if you test positive, you are obligated under law to list your sexual relations for the 6 past months.

As a result, the only risk group in Sweden for AIDS and HIV, are West Africans and those who choose to have sex with such persons.

Other STD's are being fought successfully with condoms, but as soon as the condom use drops, the STD's rise.

YIP
Zack
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Clubber Lang on November 05, 2006, 06:58:51 PM
Good Lord.  Giving condoms to 13 year old kids?    

its so they can fuck each other, not so you can fuck them >:(
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: 240 is Back on December 03, 2006, 08:43:56 PM
I teach my kids abstinence.  

Do they listen?
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on December 03, 2006, 09:04:18 PM
Do they listen?

Of course. 
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: 240 is Back on December 03, 2006, 09:25:43 PM
Of course. 

But how do you know?  I mean, you know how kids get.  Don't you ever worried she'll be all hugged up with some long haired underachiever in a "Vote Kerry" t-shirt at a Loose Change movie showing and just get inspired by the patriotism of the movie's authors, and, well, you know...
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: gtbro1 on December 03, 2006, 09:31:15 PM
I think it should be a law that chics MUST give it up after two dates.

If they don't,then you should be allowed to take them to court. >:(
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on December 03, 2006, 09:35:22 PM
But how do you know?  I mean, you know how kids get.  Don't you ever worried she'll be all hugged up with some long haired underachiever in a "Vote Kerry" t-shirt at a Loose Change movie showing and just get inspired by the patriotism of the movie's authors, and, well, you know...

Communication.  My kids talk to me.  Share secrets.  We trust each other.  They know we're in this journey together.  I know which ones of their friends are having sex.  We actually have very explicit discussions about sex.  Make sure you do the same with your kids.  It's a dangerous world out there for them. 

Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: 240 is Back on December 03, 2006, 09:40:00 PM
Communication.  My kids talk to me.  Share secrets.  We trust each other.  They know we're in this journey together.  I know which ones of their friends are having sex.  We actually have very explicit discussions about sex.  Make sure you do the same with your kids.  It's a dangerous world out there for them. 

I know.  But you are realistic that every kid will reach a point where rationalization occurs, and he/she decides it's better to just do the damn deed and not involve pops.  Alcohol has been known to speed up this process.  if they're under 18, you may be very lucky and still maintain that connection.  College age, good luck.  I just finished college and spent a lot of time in the dorms and man, those kids were always drinking and getting down.  (Not to scare you- but many people don't know how bad it really is at schools).

I wish you luck. I know I'll be in that same boat someday.  One point tho, and I have to press that button - Do you trust too much?  No offense, but you completely buy some things you are told, even when they are obvious lies (ahem: 9/11).  You're not gonna buy the "that's not a hickey - Nurse Nist said it's just a rash", are you? ;)
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on December 03, 2006, 09:46:40 PM
I know.  But you are realistic that every kid will reach a point where rationalization occurs, and he/she decides it's better to just do the damn deed and not involve pops.  Alcohol has been known to speed up this process.  if they're under 18, you may be very lucky and still maintain that connection.  College age, good luck.  I just finished college and spent a lot of time in the dorms and man, those kids were always drinking and getting down.  (Not to scare you- but many people don't know how bad it really is at schools).

I wish you luck. I know I'll be in that same boat someday.  One point tho, and I have to press that button - Do you trust too much?  No offense, but you completely buy some things you are told, even when they are obvious lies (ahem: 9/11).  You're not gonna buy the "that's not a hickey - Nurse Nist said it's just a rash", are you? ;)

Been there.  I know all about the college atmosphere.  That's why we're investigating Christian colleges in addition to secular schools.  But as I've learned from one of the kids at my church who attends a Christian college, alcohol, sex, and porn are still prevalent.  But it's a matter of a degree.  Very difficult process (the college stuff).  I'll be going through that very soon.   :'(  Gearing up for the SAT. 

I think my girls will make good decisions.  Is it possible they give it up before they get the ring on their finger?  Yes.  But I've been working hard and praying about that with them.  They are extremely bright and have a great moral compass.  Their mother has also set a terrific example for them.  They're surrounded by other female role models who do the right thing.  I think they'll be fine. 
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: 240 is Back on December 03, 2006, 10:02:18 PM
Good luck with it.  College is f'ing terrible.  i mean, they'll be playing warcraft in one room, smoking weed in another, homework in the 3rd and sex with the door open in the 4th.  The level of supervision is horrible.  The RA's (residence authorities?) are just juniors who get free rent by putting out any fires.  And my college was very new, very upper middle class group.  I'm just having fun messing with you, but make sure they get their first good buzz at home and not with some kid name chaz in an A&F t-shirt.  ya never know how that first jaeger bomb will affect a girl.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on December 03, 2006, 10:09:52 PM
Good luck with it.  College is f'ing terrible.  i mean, they'll be playing warcraft in one room, smoking weed in another, homework in the 3rd and sex with the door open in the 4th.  The level of supervision is horrible.  The RA's (residence authorities?) are just juniors who get free rent by putting out any fires.  And my college was very new, very upper middle class group.  I'm just having fun messing with you, but make sure they get their first good buzz at home and not with some kid name chaz in an A&F t-shirt.  ya never know how that first jaeger bomb will affect a girl.

I hear you.  I've been through it.  More than once.  I'm not looking forward to that aspect of college life.  Makes me want to keep them here.  :)  On second thought, I'm eager to get them off the payroll.   :) 

My kids go to a private Christian school now and they have classmates who cheat, steal, use drugs, and have sex.  My kids don't.  In fact, I'm taking one of my daughters out to reward her for just being a great kid in the face of some of this stuff.  She called me at work on Friday to tell me about one of her classmates who is a chronic cheater and was finally caught.  I'm very proud of them. 
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: 24KT on December 03, 2006, 10:19:11 PM
Communication.  My kids talk to me.  Share secrets.  We trust each other.  They know we're in this journey together.  I know which ones of their friends are having sex.  We actually have very explicit discussions about sex.  Make sure you do the same with your kids.  It's a dangerous world out there for them. 

Whatever you do, ...maintain that trust, ...and DON'T EVER LIE TO THEM!

I can't tell you how traumatic it was for me to know my Dad actually flat out LIED to me, when at the age of 8, I asked him what a penis was, ...and he told me he didn't know.  :'(

Ok, so it wasn't until I was 10 that I actually found out what one was, that he not only knew, ...but that he had one, ...but even though it was 2 yrs later, ...it still upset me that he knew and lied about it. I had a hard time trusting him after that.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on December 03, 2006, 11:39:28 PM
Whatever you do, ...maintain that trust, ...and DON'T EVER LIE TO THEM!

I can't tell you how traumatic it was for me to know my Dad actually flat out LIED to me, when at the age of 8, I asked him what a penis was, ...and he told me he didn't know.  :'(

Ok, so it wasn't until I was 10 that I actually found out what one was, that he not only knew, ...but that he had one, ...but even though it was 2 yrs later, ...it still upset me that he knew and lied about it. I had a hard time trusting him after that.

Thanks.  I'll keep that in mind.  Reminds me of the first time my two oldest daughters saw me changing my son's diaper.  They had this befuddled look on their face and my oldest finally said "Daddy, why does he look like that"?   :)

We actually have a "birds and bees" talk with our kids.  I used a book called "How to Talk to Your Child About Sex" or something like that.  There is like a script in the book, that I practically read from for my oldest.  Winged it a little with my second.  I'll probably just show my son a video.   :)  And my little one?  She's on her own . . . .
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: gtbro1 on December 04, 2006, 01:04:04 AM
  Just cause you think your kids are telling you everything/ the truth Does not mean that they are.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Tombo on December 04, 2006, 01:32:51 AM
The National Center for Health Statistics says well over 90% of adults ages 20-29 have had sexual intercourse


HOLY FUCKING SHIT


Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on December 04, 2006, 07:45:29 AM
  Just cause you think your kids are telling you everything/ the truth Does not mean that they are.

True.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: body88 on December 04, 2006, 08:14:06 AM
I can attest to that. When I was in highschool the best girls came out of the private schools. Hell, girls at the public school I attended where furious over it. All the guys would go for the Catholic schoolgirls since they partied way harder and had way more sex. You could tell they where doing it to liberate themselves from all the strict rules and restrictions they faced.

Same deal in college. The girls who where the most oppressed during highschool, where the biggest slampigs on campus. Make sure to not overdo it. Do not want a silent rebellion. I am sure you have it totally under control and things will be fine. Just making a broad statement about what I have seen.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: G o a t b o y on December 04, 2006, 08:37:47 AM
Here's what the fundies don't get:  back when these "no sex before marriage" religious rules were written, people were typically married shortly after puberty.

What's the average age of marriage today, 30?

Given the biologoical sex drive, do they really think it's realistic to expect people to spend 15+ years of sexual maturity celibate?  Hell, if you can get them to wait until they're out of high school you've accomplished a miracle.

The religious right shows just how out-of-touch with reality they are when they come up with crap like this.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: Dos Equis on December 04, 2006, 10:09:57 AM
I can attest to that. When I was in highschool the best girls came out of the private schools. Hell, girls at the public school I attended where furious over it. All the guys would go for the Catholic schoolgirls since they partied way harder and had way more sex. You could tell they where doing it to liberate themselves from all the strict rules and restrictions they faced.

Same deal in college. The girls who where the most oppressed during highschool, where the biggest slampigs on campus. Make sure to not overdo it. Do not want a silent rebellion. I am sure you have it totally under control and things will be fine. Just making a broad statement about what I have seen.

I've seen that too.  In my experience PKs (preacher's kids) have been the absolute worst.  There is a delicate balance.  On one hand, you don't want to put kids in straight jacket.  On the other, if you give them too much you're shooting yourself (and them) in the foot.  Two extremes I've seen are parents who refuse to even discuss sex with their kids and parents who actually allow boyfriends to spend the night.  I don't agree with either approach.     
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: OneBigMan on December 04, 2006, 10:13:29 AM
Since this topic is connected to what I call law and order constrictatives, I'll ask this question although I rarely trust strangers on these posting boards.

Do any of you recall the topic that revealed the proposed martial law act of two thousand heaven?
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: gtbro1 on December 05, 2006, 01:07:44 AM
I can attest to that. When I was in highschool the best girls came out of the private schools. Hell, girls at the public school I attended where furious over it. All the guys would go for the Catholic schoolgirls since they partied way harder and had way more sex. You could tell they where doing it to liberate themselves from all the strict rules and restrictions they faced.

Same deal in college. The girls who where the most oppressed during highschool, where the biggest slampigs on campus. Make sure to not overdo it. Do not want a silent rebellion. I am sure you have it totally under control and things will be fine. Just making a broad statement about what I have seen.

  slampigs  bwahahahaha
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: OneBigMan on December 07, 2006, 11:01:08 AM
I'd like to think this whole subject along with another one is not forgotten based on the need to be prepared for what you can handle in the state of ...........whatever you want to call this law abiding system.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: MCWAY on November 24, 2009, 10:50:08 AM
Because I don't think there such a thing as "safe sex" outside of marriage.  Neither birth control nor condoms are foolproof.  Would you have sex with a woman you knew had genital herpes, so long as you used a condom?  

Teaching traditional methods of birth control have been a colossal failure.  Just look at the unwanted pregnancy rates in this country.  All it does is send a mixed message:  don't have sex till you're married, but here, keep this condom in your wallet.  

I teach my kids abstinence.  


As if that weren't enough, condoms have no effect on herpes, nor do they have any effect on stopping a far more dangerous virus for women, HPV, which causes genital warts and can lead to cervical cancer in women.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: MCWAY on November 24, 2009, 10:52:43 AM
Here's what the fundies don't get:  back when these "no sex before marriage" religious rules were written, people were typically married shortly after puberty.

What's the average age of marriage today, 30?

Given the biologoical sex drive, do they really think it's realistic to expect people to spend 15+ years of sexual maturity celibate?  Hell, if you can get them to wait until they're out of high school you've accomplished a miracle.

The religious right shows just how out-of-touch with reality they are when they come up with crap like this.

And the liberal left is just as out-of-touch as well. All their yakking about condoms was supposed to prevent out-of-wedlock pregnancies. Yet, out-of-wedlock births are at an ALL-TIME HIGH.

Liberals virtually encourage kids to have sex, then act DUMBFOUNDED when teen girls get knocked up.
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: nicky.smth on November 24, 2009, 11:02:16 AM
And the liberal left is just as out-of-touch as well. All their yakking about condoms was supposed to prevent out-of-wedlock pregnancies. Yet, out-of-wedlock births are at an ALL-TIME HIGH.

Liberals virtually encourage kids to have sex, then act DUMBFOUNDED when teen girls get knocked up.

Goatboy does have a very strong argument...


we can't fight nature for 15 whole years
Title: Re: The federal government says: "no sex without marriage up to age 29"
Post by: MCWAY on November 24, 2009, 11:07:21 AM
Goatboy does have a very strong argument...


we can't fight nature for 15 whole years

I'm sure the folks at the clinic, waiting to get some penicillin said the same thing.