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I have been talking to a girl at school for around 2 months, and my feelings for her are getting stronger and stronger.
Conversations are going and shes laughing at my jokes, we talk on msn and exchange kinda jokey text messages.
However im starting to realise that i really like her, but what SIGNS should i look for to indicate she is interested in me. Im terrible at taking things further than "just friends". I guess im scared of the rejection, and having to see her during group work/classes
PLease any advice cos its really starting to beat me up, im constantly checking my phone/facebook to see if she has messaged me and i cant stop thinking about her. Must sound pathetic, but i cant get her out of my head :'(
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If you've been working on her for two months, you're already "just friends." Unless you're 2000miles away from her, and it's impossible to see her physically, you should meet up with her as soon as schedules allow. Why stay behind a keyboard if you can get it in person?
Good luck, but if you've yet to meet up with her after this long, I would say move onto another fish.
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sorry my post wasnt too clear....i have been talking to her in person for about 2 months...as well as msn and text messages. im just very poor at reading if she lieks me form her body language....and also im poor at transitioning from friend/jokey convo to actually setting up a date outside of college.....
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I'll still standby my "2 month theory," if you've been talking to her that long you will probably be a friend forever and not too much more. For your sake, hope I'm wrong, and it's happened before that you go longer and things turn around.
Does she touch you at all? Like out of the blue while talking she touches your arm? How did you get her #? If she gave it to you (not you give yours to her), she WANTS you to call her for some reason- can you guess why?
Whatever she likes to do, say shoot pool, say you and some friends are going out to shoot some pool and invite her. At the last minute say they all backed out, but ask if she would still like to go out and play some or perhaps do something else. If she says yes, she likes you- may not want to get in your pants, but over the net....somebody can only do so much for you!
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uhhhhhh are you serious?
My advice is to forget about her and go workout, or join a dating forum and ask them for advice on how to grow a pair.
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JK, man if she's talking to you then she's interested enough if she's single then ask her out whats the worst that can happen ..... man up!
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life's too short to wait on it.
you kiss her tomorrow.
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not ever having had a real girlfriend or relationship myself, i'd be the last one to give you suggestions or advice on something like this. you mention just 2 months though....in my opinion, that' s hardly long enough to really say u feel serious about someone. if you have already slept with her though, it's already beyond a friendship, unless you were just looking to satisfy your sexual needs. a relationship takes alot of hard work and time. if you do want to get serious with her, ask her how she feels about it. if the feeling isn't mutual, then move on! :)
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life's too short to wait on it.
you kiss her tomorrow.
Bingo!
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Bingo!
agreed,if you don't step it up this next week you will always be "the awkward friend".
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You probably left it too long to make a move on her. She probably just sees you as a friend now. Get her drunk and see what happens.
Either she likes you or thinks youre a mate. Chicks dont typically respond to your messages if they arent keen.
Look for signs like twirling her hair etc.. body language is a good tool.
I'm surprised nobody has ripped you on this thread yet... so i'll do it for them. Man up you pussy pull your cock out and see what happens. :o Joking
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Harden the F*ck Up!
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Man up you pussy pull your cock out and see what happens. :o Joking
Brutal ripping on a kid for trying to be a nice guy. Asshole.
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Brutal ripping on a kid for trying to be a nice guy. Asshole.
I was joking, he needs to make a move or someone else will beat him to it.
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An Update:
Im on a HIGH right now!!!!!. i took all ur advice about just goin for it and plucked up the courage to ask her if she wanted to maybe go for coffee or somthing and she agreed!!! :D i was a bag of nerves askin her but once she said yea it was euphoria!!! lol
i think i needed to be told to stop bin so scared so thanks guys!
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Not to burst your bubble, but just because she agreed to go to have coffee with you doesn't mean she'll take you to the bathroom to drain your vein.
Friends have coffee all the time. You've still got work to do and you still have to talk/show her you're more interested than a once a week coffee session that she can do with any guy on the planet. Be different than the rest...
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Not to burst your bubble, but just because she agreed to go to have coffee with you doesn't mean she'll take you to the bathroom to drain your vein.
Friends have coffee all the time. You've still got work to do and you still have to talk/show her you're more interested than a once a week coffee session that she can do with any guy on the planet. Be different than the rest...
Yea sure i cant get too excited jsut yet....but i am justu so ahppy to have gone form seeing her 2-3 times per week in classes to actually organising somthing outta school. i gotta keep composed during this coffee meeting aswell....i dont wanna come across as really giddy
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I can't imagine losing sleep over a girl. Maybe I'm a little jaded, LOL!
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I can't imagine losing sleep over a girl. Maybe I'm a little jaded, LOL!
Afterall, you are gay.... ;D ;D ;D
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Afterall, you are gay.... ;D ;D ;D
Homo!! :)
I just can't remember what being that excited over a chick feels like.
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Yea sure i cant get too excited jsut yet....but i am justu so ahppy to have gone form seeing her 2-3 times per week in classes to actually organising somthing outta school. i gotta keep composed during this coffee meeting aswell....i dont wanna come across as really giddy
LOL , OK , I'm not making fun of you , you typed all that so fast it's pretty clear you are "excited" , just calm down somewhat before you start drinking coffee ;)
You are too cute , it'll all be good , don't forget to open the door for her and pull out her chair ;)
and be glad you're not old and jaded like the good Dr. ;D
I just can't remember what being that excited over a chick feels like.
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Homo!! :)
I just can't remember what being that excited over a chick feels like.
Are you married kaje?
...and you go Boost!! Congrats and have fun. Don't be nervous!
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Are you married kaje?
...and you go Boost!! Congrats and have fun. Don't be nervous!
I didn't get the "boost" thing.
Not married. Hapily divorced with three kids and a girl who has managed to put up with me for almost three years.
I just couldn't get the guy's perspective especially on being all gaga over a chick. I may have crossed the line between wiser for a few experiences and jaded, LOL!
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Here's me thinking that Boost is going to grow old and remember this cool chick he was nuts about in college
and here's the Doc remembering a dead mouse , Marlboro cigarettes and stale Budweiser
::)
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I don't think coffee is a good idea if he is this excited.
what does she look like?
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Here's me thinking that Boost is going to grow old and remember this cool chick he was nuts about in college
and here's the Doc remembering a dead mouse , Marlboro cigarettes and stale Budweiser
::)
???
Good times... good times. :)
He'd be very lucky have such powerful memories, LOL! Lots of people have had 'experiences' in odd circumstances. My sense of smell is pretty acute so things like that make an impression... good or bad. I've learned and would never even consider dating anyone with pets because the smell is just too much. Even when working I can tell how has pets due to how the clothes smell.
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Ahh the excitment of the first date, I remember it, but it was a loooooooong time ago :'(
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An Update:
Im on a HIGH right now!!!!!. i took all ur advice about just goin for it and plucked up the courage to ask her if she wanted to maybe go for coffee or somthing and she agreed!!! :D i was a bag of nerves askin her but once she said yea it was euphoria!!! lol
i think i needed to be told to stop bin so scared so thanks guys!
By the end of coffee, you better have exchanged DNA with this chick, by the end of the night.......there better be your potantial children all over her face! ;D
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Cute - getting jiggly and nervous :)
Many "good" tips here... keep us updated what happens....
...or not.
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Boost good job! just make sure you get her to laugh as much as possible, and make sure to buy her coffee as it will help underline the fact that your intentions are to be more than just friends.. and by all means dont get too jittery with the coffee, youre not going to be able to calm down..and by all means dont freak out. also dont spend an hour and a half getting ready, she'll be able to tell. my long time gf called me on it on our first date, helped break the ice though. just some words of wisdom. hope this helps
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Make sure to hit it ASAP.
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Make sure to hit it ASAP.
I got 5 bucks says 'Boost" spooges in his pocket before he kisses her....
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I got 5 bucks says 'Boost" spooges in his pocket before he kisses her....
He'll just say some 'creamer' spilled in his lap.
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I have been talking to a girl at school for around 2 months, and my feelings for her are getting stronger and stronger.
Conversations are going and shes laughing at my jokes, we talk on msn and exchange kinda jokey text messages.
However im starting to realise that i really like her, but what SIGNS should i look for to indicate she is interested in me. Im terrible at taking things further than "just friends". I guess im scared of the rejection, and having to see her during group work/classes
PLease any advice cos its really starting to beat me up, im constantly checking my phone/facebook to see if she has messaged me and i cant stop thinking about her. Must sound pathetic, but i cant get her out of my head :'(
tell her you like her shoes.....
girls like that !
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tell her you like her shoes.....
girls like that !
Now I understand why you're unmarried and a virgin at 60. :-\
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Now I understand why you're unmarried and a virgin at 60. :-\
Walked right into that shit...... ;D put on the bifocals Geo!!!
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Don't listen to Geo, talking about shoes won't get you laid.
During coffee.... turn off your phone and let her talk about her favorite subject.. probably herself, animals or some other stupid crap girls that age are always talking about. Just pretend to be interested and nod once and awhile. Then when she finally takes a break to breathe, don't make the mistake of talking about yourself... pretend to be interested and ask for more stupid crap about her. Eventually she'll want a second date to talk about herself more learn more about you. :)
Something like that works for most guys.
Also, be sure to ask if she has a boyfriend. Last thing you want is drama. Don't bother asking why the last relationship didn't work out.. she'll probably tell you in exhausting detail. :)
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I have been talking to a girl at school for around 2 months, and my feelings for her are getting stronger and stronger.
Conversations are going and shes laughing at my jokes, we talk on msn and exchange kinda jokey text messages.
However im starting to realise that i really like her, but what SIGNS should i look for to indicate she is interested in me. Im terrible at taking things further than "just friends". I guess im scared of the rejection, and having to see her during group work/classes
PLease any advice cos its really starting to beat me up, im constantly checking my phone/facebook to see if she has messaged me and i cant stop thinking about her. Must sound pathetic, but i cant get her out of my head :'(
dude....
play the "I really like your shoes" card and close the damned deal....
trust me !
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dude....
play the "I really like your shoes" card and close the damned deal....
trust me !
He wants to get laid, G!
Looking at her shoes means you're either gay or really anal retentive and judging her... unless of course they are really expensive shoes. If they are expensive shoes then she either figures you have good taste or thinks you might fork over some cash for more shoes.
The more she talks.... the better his chances get. We're not talking about a guy with game here. If he were smoother and had been around the block a few times the advice would be different. But.... a guy losing sleep over a chick he just met is probably gonna say something stupid and sabatage the chance of getting some every single time his mouth opens.
Geo....... I'm just guessing but would be willing to bet you talk a lot on dates. :)
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He wants to get laid, G!
Looking at her shoes means you're either gay or really anal retentive and judging her...
maybe you're right.....
maybe booster should just break down and actually buy her some shoes....
either way, the way to a woman heart is shoes.......
you guys are just gonna have to trust me on this
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Why coffee? Should have asked her to do something that involves the steady imbibing of alcohol.
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maybe you're right.....
maybe booster should just break down and actually buy her some shoes....
either way, the way to a woman heart is shoes.......
you guys are just gonna have to trust me on this
Being a very cunning linguist doesn't hurt. :)
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Why coffee? Should have asked her to do something that involves the steady imbibing of alcohol.
exactly...
call her up.....
split an 18 pack of old milwaukee
(http://www.workinggear.com/gc/files/rothco_products_ev/ROT-10119_xl.jpg)
polish up her shoes a little !...
and she'll fuck your brains out
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exactly...
call her up.....
split an 18 pack of old milwaukee
(http://www.workinggear.com/gc/files/rothco_products_ev/ROT-10119_xl.jpg)
polish up her shoes a little !...
and she'll fuck your brains out
lol at the shoe polish pic.
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By the end of coffee, you better have exchanged DNA with this chick, by the end of the night.......there better be your potantial children all over her face! ;D
oh no , don't tell me he's dating xxxLinda ::)
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Its the big day tommorow and i have to admit i think i'll be shaking by the time the date arrives!
Thanks for all the advice, i do have a tendency to talk about myself alot and turn into a chatterbox when im nervous, which from what have gathered from the advice could completlely kill chances of a second date. The worst thing is i often DONT REALISE im talking too much :P
great advice about not spending too long on my appearance, thats the kinda thing i would never have thought about and would likely have spent 1 hr + getting ready.
I'g gonna try be as natural as possible, i don't wanna go there with a load of pre-rehearsed lines and jokes cos i know my head will be all over the place anyway, and im gonna try sip the coffee, i dont want caffeine jitters :D
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Its the big day tommorow and i have to admit i think i'll be shaking by the time the date arrives!
Thanks for all the advice, i do have a tendency to talk about myself alot and turn into a chatterbox when im nervous, which from what have gathered from the advice could completlely kill chances of a second date. The worst thing is i often DONT REALISE im talking too much :P
great advice about not spending too long on my appearance, thats the kinda thing i would never have thought about and would likely have spent 1 hr + getting ready.
I'g gonna try be as natural as possible, i don't wanna go there with a load of pre-rehearsed lines and jokes cos i know my head will be all over the place anyway, and im gonna try sip the coffee, i dont want caffeine jitters :D
good luck dude. haha
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I can't imagine losing sleep over a girl. Maybe I'm a little jaded, LOL!
a LITTLE doc?? :D
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Its the big day tommorow and i have to admit i think i'll be shaking by the time the date arrives!
Thanks for all the advice, i do have a tendency to talk about myself alot and turn into a chatterbox when im nervous, which from what have gathered from the advice could completlely kill chances of a second date. The worst thing is i often DONT REALISE im talking too much :P
great advice about not spending too long on my appearance, thats the kinda thing i would never have thought about and would likely have spent 1 hr + getting ready.
I'g gonna try be as natural as possible, i don't wanna go there with a load of pre-rehearsed lines and jokes cos i know my head will be all over the place anyway, and im gonna try sip the coffee, i dont want caffeine jitters :D
This coffee business is fucked up. You should have figured out a way to use alcohol as a social lubricant.
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dude just jerk off before you go out with her you will be relaxed and calm
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Geo giving dating advice is like me giving advice on how to frost the tips of your hair, complete uninformed and lacking experience. STFU old fag.
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Its the big day tommorow and i have to admit i think i'll be shaking by the time the date arrives!
Thanks for all the advice, i do have a tendency to talk about myself alot and turn into a chatterbox when im nervous, which from what have gathered from the advice could completlely kill chances of a second date. The worst thing is i often DONT REALISE im talking too much :P
great advice about not spending too long on my appearance, thats the kinda thing i would never have thought about and would likely have spent 1 hr + getting ready.
I'g gonna try be as natural as possible, i don't wanna go there with a load of pre-rehearsed lines and jokes cos i know my head will be all over the place anyway, and im gonna try sip the coffee, i dont want caffeine jitters :D
Settle down, rookie, you're putting the pussy on a pedastal.
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Geo giving dating advice is like me giving advice on how to frost the tips of your hair, complete uninformed and lacking experience. STFU old fag.
LOLOLOLOL... DUNK!!!!!!!!!!! LOLOL...
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Settle down, rookie, you're putting the pussy on a pedastal.
Chaos is right dude. The apprehensive show here won't go with most chics. That's not what they want. Just take it, don't be fake about yourself, and remember, no means no... sometimes :D... but you'll get that with age ;)
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Good news! :P
Overall the date went very well. I just about managed to hold myself together after a series of sleepless nights leading up to it.
I tried to follow as much advice from you guys as possible, lots of touching/ joking. asking her about herself. I dont think i came across as too giddy either, i ordered orange juice instead of coffee aswell. The caffeine would have sent me into overdrive.
The conversation started of a little shakey, as i had so many thoughts spinning around in my head that i was almost speechless, but half and hour in, it was completely natural. She suggested we should do it again. overall happy :D
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Good news! :P
Overall the date went very well. I just about managed to hold myself together after a series of sleepless nights leading up to it.
I tried to follow as much advice from you guys as possible, lots of touching/ joking. asking her about herself. I dont think i came across as too giddy either, i ordered orange juice instead of coffee aswell. The caffeine would have sent me into overdrive.
The conversation started of a little shakey, as i had so many thoughts spinning around in my head that i was almost speechless, but half and hour in, it was completely natural. She suggested we should do it again. overall happy :D
Are you going to marry this chick?
After 2 months of "friends" you should have gone farther on the first "date".
If it works for you, cool, I'm just saying......at the very minimum you should have tonsil boxed her and felt a boob. ;D
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Good news! :P
Overall the date went very well. I just about managed to hold myself together after a series of sleepless nights leading up to it.
I tried to follow as much advice from you guys as possible, lots of touching/ joking. asking her about herself. I dont think i came across as too giddy either, i ordered orange juice instead of coffee aswell. The caffeine would have sent me into overdrive.
The conversation started of a little shakey, as i had so many thoughts spinning around in my head that i was almost speechless, but half and hour in, it was completely natural. She suggested we should do it again. overall happy :D
Are you below 21? Also, are you religious?
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im 19, religious? no
Chaos : we are both kinda shy, so things are not gonna move at that kinda pace, but im prepared to put in the quality time cos i do really like her 8)
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im 19, religious? no
Chaos : we are both kinda shy, so things are not gonna move at that kinda pace, but im prepared to put in the quality time cos i do really like her 8)
Are you a VIRGIN?
PM me if you don't want to answer here.
@ 19 things should move a bit faster.......when's the next date?
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No not a virgin but not very experienced. Ive always been pretty insecure and timid, partly why i got into bodybuilding. no actual date yet, probably somtime early next week. im thinkin of maybe textin or callin today or tomorow just to see whats up. u think i should hang tight and wait a few days?
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No not a virgin but not very experienced. Ive always been pretty insecure and timid, partly why i got into bodybuilding. no actual date yet, probably somtime early next week. im thinkin of maybe textin or callin today or tomorow just to see whats up. u think i should hang tight and wait a few days?
No waiting, call her set the date, make sure she knows it's a "date" not just a couple of buds hanging out.
Movie, dinner, back seat of moms station wagon........ :D
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No not a virgin but not very experienced. Ive always been pretty insecure and timid, partly why i got into bodybuilding. no actual date yet, probably somtime early next week. im thinkin of maybe textin or callin today or tomorow just to see whats up. u think i should hang tight and wait a few days?
Just make a decision and call.
No texting.
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don't listen to these idiots booster....
takes geo's advice an I'll get ya to the promised land..
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Just make a decision and call.
No texting.
agreed,no fucking texting.only lossers with no game do that shit.
texting=no game
myspace=epic faggotry and completley hopeless when it comes to getting laid.
take this advice as gospel.
bench
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Bench has spoken.
Listen or he'll end up taking the "long way" to the station. :)
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I bet she'll say yes if you as her out again, most will. IMO, most girls/women are lonely and love the attention and spending time with someone else. That being said they're either whores to fill that void of loneliness or serial daters... Don't know where I was going with that, but yea... ;D
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I bet she'll say yes if you as her out again, most will. IMO, most girls/women are lonely and love the attention and spending time with someone else. That being said they're either whores to fill that void of loneliness or serial daters... Don't know where I was going with that, but yea... ;D
They aren't all bad.
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Bench has spoken.
Listen or he'll end up taking the "long way" to the station. :)
;D
bench
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They aren't all bad.
no,but as a young man(early 20's)i must say the dating scene is boring.these girls self esteem is so low that it is effortless to get laid.i am almost begging for a challenge.
i cant even have a serious relationship for the soul reason of i am not dating someone it only took me 3 hours to get them naked and sexed up.
bench
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no,but as a young man(early 20's)i must say the dating scene is boring.these girls self esteem is so low that it is effortless to get laid.i am almost begging for a challenge.
i cant even have a serious relationship for the soul reason of i am not dating someone it only took me 3 hours to get them naked and sexed up.
bench
Maybe they like sex. What's wrong with that?
calmus
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Maybe they like sex. What's wrong with that?
calmus
not a damn thing 8)
but i can not have a relationship with someone that is so easy to get into bed.
i really dont care right now because i am not looking for a relationship,but down the road i might and things are going to be tricky.
bench
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no,but as a young man(early 20's)i must say the dating scene is boring.these girls self esteem is so low that it is effortless to get laid.i am almost begging for a challenge.
i cant even have a serious relationship for the soul reason of i am not dating someone it only took me 3 hours to get them naked and sexed up.
bench
I'm a huge fan of putting out soon. A perfect girl would put out before the date! That way I'd be nice and relaxed so getting to know her would be a lot easier. :)
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I'm a huge fan of putting out soon. A perfect girl would put out before the date! That way I'd be nice and relaxed so getting to know her would be a lot easier. :)
if she puts out before the date,we are not having the date.she is permanently relegated to the "booty call" list ;)
bench
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Been there done that, I recall a few months ago I asked this girl out from class I had all semester with and we never really talked. Went and had drinks 2 hours later she was riding me like a rodeo bull. Next morning I woke up to her turning on College Gameday and a cold beer. Lets just say she was trying too hard. Just too easy in a town with 4:1 girl to guy.
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if she puts out before the date,we are not having the date.she is permanently relegated to the "booty call" list ;)
bench
I am a much more simplistic man than yourself. I really don't equate sex with a woman's character to any significant extent. Besides, the willingness to have sex at the drop of a hat makes me pretty much a slut too. :)
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So did BoosterSeat score yet or what?
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So did BoosterSeat score yet or what?
suicide more likely.
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suicide more likely.
HAHAHHAAA Probably blew his load in his pants and put her eye out from across the dinner table. ;D
BOOST!!!!! Where are you little buddy??!?!?!!
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HAHAHHAAA Probably blew his load in his pants and put her eye out from across the dinner table. ;D
BOOST!!!!! Where are you little buddy??!?!?!!
she probably asked to pass the sugar, and he proposed.
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Boosterseat, LOL!
I just hope he's not texting her poetry or something equally lame.
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Boosterseat, LOL!
I just hope he's not texting her poetry or something equally lame.
the poor kid is probably in a tree next to her window with a ukulele singing love songs, while her dad is calling the cops. :-\
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I'm doing great ;D (no suicide).
Bin on a Second date! Bowling :P Its all moving along nicely. i kissed her at the end of the night, and we will be meetin again this week sometime. I'm happy to take it at a Leisurely pace. still thinkin about her 24/7 though, and having to restrain from callin her / textin too often. im tryin to come across as not too clingy 8)
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I'm doing great ;D (no suicide).
Bin on a Second date! Bowling :P Its all moving along nicely. i kissed her at the end of the night, and we will be meetin again this week sometime. I'm happy to take it at a Leisurely pace. still thinkin about her 24/7 though, and having to restrain from callin her / textin too often. im tryin to come across as not too clingy 8)
Real kiss? or one of those Euro cheek deals?
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I'm doing great ;D (no suicide).
Bin on a Second date! Bowling :P Its all moving along nicely. i kissed her at the end of the night, and we will be meetin again this week sometime. I'm happy to take it at a Leisurely pace. still thinkin about her 24/7 though, and having to restrain from callin her / textin too often. im tryin to come across as not too clingy 8)
Hand up the shirt, under the bra, over the nipple, other hand down the pants, on top of the panties, over the clit.
This is how you start date three when you pick her up, give her the kiss you left off with on date 2, then proceed with above instructions. ;)
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Hand up the shirt, under the bra, over the nipple, other hand down the pants, on top of the panties, over the clit.
This is how you start date three when you pick her up, give her the kiss you left off with on date 2, then proceed with above instructions. ;)
this is good advice,but if you really want to help him out you need to teach him how to convince a bitch that if she does anal then she is still a virgin ;D
bench
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this is good advice,but if you really want to help him out you need to teach him how to convince a bitch that if she does anal then she is still a virgin ;D
bench
That's true and should take no convincing.
Well, he should hit it soon before she loses intrest.
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Bring a supersized bottle of lube next time you go pick her up and put it on the passenger seat.
With a little luck she gets the idea.
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this is good advice,but if you really want to help him out you need to teach him how to convince a bitch that if she does anal then she is still a virgin ;D
bench
I know someone that did that.........true story.
Some girls will believe anything. ;D
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I know someone that did that.........true story.
Some girls will believe anything. ;D
i have had the same best friend since kindergarten i consider the guy my brother.his little brothers current girlfriend does that shit,he actually had to get pussy the same way most dudes sneak anal "ooppps it slipped" ;D
bench
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i have had the same best friend since kindergarten i consider the guy my brother.his little brothers current girlfriend does that shit,he actually had to get pussy the same way most dudes sneak anal "ooppps it slipped" ;D
bench
;D"oops...."
The same guy that did that, called out my name during sex with the same chick....she was pissed. ;D
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I'm a huge fan of putting out soon. A perfect girl would put out before the date! That way I'd be nice and relaxed so getting to know her would be a lot easier. :)
you'd probably just order a six pack of beer and a pizza and fall asleep........
because you're old !!!!
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you'd probably just order a six pack of beer and a pizza and fall asleep........
because you're old !!!!
I prefer to believe experience has taught me that one shouldn't overestimate the value of another person's company. :)
You, on the other hand, can probably afford to waste some time 'listening' while waiting for the Viagara to kick in. ;)
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So does Boosterseat have stinkfinger yet or what ???
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So does Boosterseat have stinkfinger yet or what ???
he isnt in it for sex,he is in love >:(
what a fucking losser ;D
bench
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he isnt in it for sex,he is in love >:(
what a fucking losser ;D
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HAHAHAHHAHAAAA "love".......Bwahahahahaaaa
Boosterseat!!! Comeon man,, we need an update!!
Sinkfinger/s yet or what? Did you get to play "tune in to Tokyo?" ;D
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If he got any, there would have been an update.
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If he got any, there would have been an update.
not if he is crying about a brutal 10 second powersex session,that caused the girl to stop talking to him ;D
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not if he is crying about a brutal 10 second powersex session,that caused the girl to stop talking to him ;D
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hahah I have 'boost" pegged as a one pump chump. ;D
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i haven't got any "action" yet lol
Like i said i'm in this for the long haul, i think she could be the one so i'm prepared to wait awhile and take things very steadily. I have kissed her but i doubt i'll be able to take it to the next level for at least a few weeks
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i haven't got any "action" yet lol
Like i said i'm in this for the long haul, i think she could be the one so i'm prepared to wait awhile and take things very steadily. I have kissed her but i doubt i'll be able to take it to the next level for at least a few weeks
A few weeks?!!?!??!!??!
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i haven't got any "action" yet lol
Like i said i'm in this for the long haul, i think she could be the one so i'm prepared to wait awhile and take things very steadily. I have kissed her but i doubt i'll be able to take it to the next level for at least a few weeks
dude you are whipped,and to young to be in a serious relationship.trust me i am not trying to talk shit,but it will not last.
jmho
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honestly, i don't see why anyone high school/college age guy would want to be in a relationship, unless she is godzilla hot. You basically have dozens and dozens of sluts that put out, but you only stick to one?
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honestly, i don't see why anyone high school/college age guy would want to be in a relationship, unless she is godzilla hot. You basically have dozens and dozens of sluts that put out, but you only stick to one?
its not even that,these young guys get all caught up on 1 girl that they end up wasting a few good years of their life on. just for them to break up when they go off to school or work.then they turn into emo kids,listen to shitty music and give me something to laugh at.
on second thought,he needs to stay in this relationship ;D
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its not even that,these young guys get all caught up on 1 girl that they end up wasting a few good years of their life on. just for them to break up when they go off to school or work.then they turn into emo kids,listen to shitty music and give me something to laugh at.
on second thought,he needs to stay in this relationship ;D
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exactly, boost i don't want to see you grow you hair out, carve designs into your forearm,cry to love songs and skateboard at the mall.
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i haven't got any "action" yet lol
Like i said i'm in this for the long haul, i think she could be the one so i'm prepared to wait awhile and take things very steadily. I have kissed her but i doubt i'll be able to take it to the next level for at least a few weeks
A few weeks!!! Is she going on vacations for a few weeks? You need to move faster before she loses interest in you, "long haul" or not.
You are trying too hard to be noble and old fashioned, get a move on before she gets bored.
At the very least after your next date, you should be able to taste her lips on yours...if you know what I mean. ;)
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At the very least after your next date, you should be able to taste her lips on yours...if you know what I mean. ;)
No he doesn't. He means that you should lick her vagina.
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he he he
fantastic thread
xL
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I'm feeling pretty deflated right now. I've been gettin pretty mixed signals the past couple days. We have spoken on the phone alot and she keeps saying things like "i'm not sure what i want at the moment" and "i don't want to rush into anything" ???
I thought things were moving along very nicely but it seems like she wants to slow things down (not that they were moving at great speed in the first place :P)
I still have strong feelings for her but i'm starting to think maybe i should "look around" for someone else although i am willing to give her plenty of time to decide what she wants
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I'm feeling pretty deflated right now. I've been gettin pretty mixed signals the past couple days. We have spoken on the phone alot and she keeps saying things like "i'm not sure what i want at the moment" and "i don't want to rush into anything" ???
I thought things were moving along very nicely but it seems like she wants to slow things down (not that they were moving at great speed in the first place :P)
I still have strong feelings for her but i'm starting to think maybe i should "look around" for someone else although i am willing to give her plenty of time to decide what she wants
MAKE YOUR MOVE ASSHOLE!! >:( >:( >:(
She wants it bad, don't let her make the decision for you, tell her how it's going to be...................... and get yourself laid!!
Hey, if she's over 18 could you post a couple of pics so we can see the hot piece of ass you've been drooling over? :D
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I'm feeling pretty deflated right now. I've been gettin pretty mixed signals the past couple days. We have spoken on the phone alot and she keeps saying things like "i'm not sure what i want at the moment" and "i don't want to rush into anything" ???
I thought things were moving along very nicely but it seems like she wants to slow things down (not that they were moving at great speed in the first place :P)
I still have strong feelings for her but i'm starting to think maybe i should "look around" for someone else although i am willing to give her plenty of time to decide what she wants
Well it is almost over now so you need to say "what the Fuck" and get that pussy. She already has lost interest in you it seems. You have nothing to lose at this point. She sounds confused so get her drunk and DO IT !!!!!
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I'm feeling pretty deflated right now. I've been gettin pretty mixed signals the past couple days. We have spoken on the phone alot and she keeps saying things like "i'm not sure what i want at the moment" and "i don't want to rush into anything" ???
I thought things were moving along very nicely but it seems like she wants to slow things down (not that they were moving at great speed in the first place :P)
I still have strong feelings for her but i'm starting to think maybe i should "look around" for someone else although i am willing to give her plenty of time to decide what she wants
boost this is what we were afraid of. Most women today think that men a pussies. Most women that i have been with and have spoken to want a guy of action, make the first move. You have been thinking that all this "chivalry" is the way to go, but it's getting you nowhere. I'm not saying be a complete asshole (although some women love that) but be a little agressive.
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Bump for Boosterseat getting some poontang!!! :D
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This is going down hill fast. I called last night asking to meet up this weekend and she said something like "boost( :P), i really dont know what i want at the moment, i'm not sure i'm ready for a relationship. It's not you, its me, ive got alot of issues i need to sort out before i can commit to anything" I'm baffled. I responded telling her to take all the time she needed. It's getting cloudy now, time to move on? i feel an idiot because i thoguht it was going somewhere and i have put alot of effort into making it work!!!! ???
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This is going down hill fast. I called last night asking to meet up this weekend and she said something like "boost( :P), i really dont know what i want at the moment, i'm not sure i'm ready for a relationship. It's not you, its me, ive got alot of issues i need to sort out before i can commit to anything" I'm baffled. I responded telling her to take all the time she needed. It's getting cloudy now, time to move on? i feel an idiot because i thoguht it was going somewhere and i have put alot of effort into making it work!!!! ???
Dude you're wasting time, if you want to nail this chick, you need to tell her whats happening, not ask her.
Tell her you are coming over to hang out and watch movies with her. Then when she's into the movie, make your move.......touchy feely, over shirt, under skirt.....under bra, over panties.....tongues battling it out........
I'm telling you "boost" quit acting a bitch here and get the job done.
Seal the deal, boost, seal the deal.
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I had the same situation with 2 different girls, reason in the long run was due to other guys both times, but I still got laid. ;D Bump for plowing her garden
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Looks like shes trying to blow you off. I would cut my losses and move on to someone easier. She will contact u again if shes keen.
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Looks like shes trying to blow you off. I would cut my losses and move on to someone easier. She will contact u again if shes keen.
You're a virgin, you don't count.
Boosterseat, don't listen to that guy, call her up and tell her it's time to get horizontal.
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You're a virgin, you don't count.
Boosterseat, don't listen to that guy, call her up and tell her it's time to get horizontal.
Dont listen to Chaos that bat he carries around isnt used for hitting people its for his personal use :o
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Dont listen to Chaos that bat he carries around isnt used for hitting people its for his personal use :o
You're right, my 8" pecker isn't enough to fill the gap in your mothers snootch. :-[
Boost!!!!!!!!!!! Were you at?
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snootch. :-[
Cross between "snatch" and "cooch?" I like it!!! Mind if I use it- even without your permission I will go ahead and do so anyway! ;D
Boost- she's blowing you off. You just got owned by a female, ambiguously. If she said "It's not you, it's me" it's either A) there's another guy(s) involved B) it is YOU or C) BOTH.
Remember there are plenty of fish in the sea, get out the pole and throw it in the water with some good bait. If you don't catch anything, just keep trying. Because everyone knows that if you don't try, you definitely won't catch shit! :P
If you do talk to her again, and the conversation heads in the same direction of "I'm not sure what I want, it's not you...etc..." I say do a couple of things; one tell her that you don't want anything and you don't want anything serious. As well, when she says that she needs time to think about it, pause BRIEFLY and your retort shall be "Good, I didn't want anything serious anyway. You know where to find me" and hang up.
Don't let her play games with you. But don't play games with her either. :)
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Cross between "snatch" and "cooch?" I like it!!! Mind if I use it- even without your permission I will go ahead and do so anyway! ;D
Feel free, but you're wrong about Boosts bitch...........she's playing hard to get. ;)
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...........she's playing hard to get. ;)
Possible. We would have to look at all the interactions in order to really tell. Even if Boost told us all of it, it may not be her side of it.
For all we know, he's balls deep in her anal tract right now. ;D
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NEED HELP IN INTERPRETING SIGNS FROM NEW GIRL
new situation. im balls deep in school work and i just started chattin to girl on facebook i HARDLY KNOW, i asked for some help, she gave me a big long answer , i didnt respond....then she says if u need help call me on xxx xxx xxxxx. i dont really know her at all. i thoguht it was a bit wierd for her to give me her numba like that. she is stunnning aswell. way nicer than the one i have bin talkin about..... u think im just bin too hopefull
is she just tryin to be helpfull
Im also ignoring the girl thats showing me mixed signals. I'm hoping she comes to me
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she just asked if i have a gf!!! (not directly, she was like " yea but your prob hanging out with ur gf right")
??? ??? ??? :-* :-* :-*
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she just asked if i have a gf!!! (not directly, she was like " yea but your prob hanging out with ur gf right")
??? ??? ??? :-* :-* :-*
Dude, make your move asshole, don't blow this one!!! >:(
Call her immediately and chat her up, set a date NOW!!!!
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Secret recipie to get a chick to like you:
Lots of alcohol.
Take advantage of her when shes drunk.
She will want to be your gf after that because she won't want to think it was a one nighter because it will make her feel like a slut.
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NEED HELP IN INTERPRETING SIGNS FROM NEW GIRL
new situation. im balls deep in school work and i just started chattin to girl on facebook i HARDLY KNOW, i asked for some help, she gave me a big long answer , i didnt respond....then she says if u need help call me on xxx xxx xxxxx. i dont really know her at all. i thoguht it was a bit wierd for her to give me her numba like that. she is stunnning aswell. way nicer than the one i have bin talkin about..... u think im just bin too hopefull
is she just tryin to be helpfull
Im also ignoring the girl thats showing me mixed signals. I'm hoping she comes to me
I think you're looking way too into it, pussy. Just whip your dick out and slap her in the face with it. If she smiles, you're in.
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I think you're looking way too into it, pussy. Just whip your dick out and slap her in the face with it. If she smiles, you're in.
Is that your signature move stud?
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Is that your signature move stud?
Your last girlfriend seemed to pretty fond of it. Apparently it was the first time she didn't need a magnifying glass to see if there was a penis in her face. Sorry that you were blessed with 12 2 inches of terror.
Of course it's my signature move. Those $5 Filipino hookers don't deserve any better.
- Team Gonorrhea
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bump for the hope "boost" has gotten some fine assed hoe.
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Hey guys,
Things have moved pretty quickly regarding the new girl i mentioned. We ended up meeting to study a couple of days later. Anyway, were were in her room, and i was gettin pretty nervous cos i really wanted to try and take it somewhere pretty fast, so i was kinda joking around lookin for signals to make a move. We ended up puttin a movie on, and i moved in for the kiss. It was going smoothly, i was using some of CHAOS's tips regarding hand over bra etc. My hands ventured south and she pulled away :(
"Sorry a do like you, but i feel really bad, i have a boyfriend, and althogh we are having a break, i would still feel bad if i cheated on him"
:-\ I couldnt believe it. anyway it got pretty awkward after that and i havent bin in contact since :P
I guess i gotta keep looking! 8)
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"Sorry a do like you, but i feel really bad, i have a boyfriend, and althogh we are having a break, i would still feel bad if i cheated on him"
Can you spot the contradiction here? ;)
How can you cheat on someone if you are "on break" with your boyfriend. Answer: You can't. You have a boyfriend or you don't, period. If they're on break, she doesn't.
Problem: You moved too fast without allowing her to feel comfortable enough with you.
Solution: Think back and find how you can make her feel more comfortable with you and try it with another girl.
Forget this one, stick a fork in the "two of you" and consider it done. :)
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HAHAAHAHAHAHAH. just fine a slut dude.
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life's too short to wait on it.
you kiss her tomorrow.
Yeah, then you're stuck with her for 67 excruciatingly slow, painful years LOL.
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Hey guys,
Things have moved pretty quickly regarding the new girl i mentioned. We ended up meeting to study a couple of days later. Anyway, were were in her room, and i was gettin pretty nervous cos i really wanted to try and take it somewhere pretty fast, so i was kinda joking around lookin for signals to make a move. We ended up puttin a movie on, and i moved in for the kiss. It was going smoothly, i was using some of CHAOS's tips regarding hand over bra etc. My hands ventured south and she pulled away :(
"Sorry a do like you, but i feel really bad, i have a boyfriend, and althogh we are having a break, i would still feel bad if i cheated on him"
:-\ I couldnt believe it. anyway it got pretty awkward after that and i havent bin in contact since :P
I guess i gotta keep looking! 8)
Somewhere between the speed that you took with the first and second girl is ideal. Also, listen to chaos, he's giving spot on advice.
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Hey guys,
Things have moved pretty quickly regarding the new girl i mentioned. We ended up meeting to study a couple of days later. Anyway, were were in her room, and i was gettin pretty nervous cos i really wanted to try and take it somewhere pretty fast, so i was kinda joking around lookin for signals to make a move. We ended up puttin a movie on, and i moved in for the kiss. It was going smoothly, i was using some of CHAOS's tips regarding hand over bra etc. My hands ventured south and she pulled away :(
"Sorry a do like you, but i feel really bad, i have a boyfriend, and althogh we are having a break, i would still feel bad if i cheated on him"
:-\ I couldnt believe it. anyway it got pretty awkward after that and i havent bin in contact since :P
I guess i gotta keep looking! 8)
Dude, the boyfriend thing........he's taking a break, she's not over it.
No biggie, bro, move on to the next one......at least you didn't waste so much time before you found out.
Next time, keep your hands above the waist unless she really wants it, or until the second date. ;) Keep trying though, you're getting better already.
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Hey guys,
Things have moved pretty quickly regarding the new girl i mentioned. We ended up meeting to study a couple of days later. Anyway, were were in her room, and i was gettin pretty nervous cos i really wanted to try and take it somewhere pretty fast, so i was kinda joking around lookin for signals to make a move. We ended up puttin a movie on, and i moved in for the kiss. It was going smoothly, i was using some of CHAOS's tips regarding hand over bra etc. My hands ventured south and she pulled away :(
"Sorry a do like you, but i feel really bad, i have a boyfriend, and althogh we are having a break, i would still feel bad if i cheated on him"
:-\ I couldnt believe it. anyway it got pretty awkward after that and i havent bin in contact since :P
I guess i gotta keep looking! 8)
Weak. You should have talked her into it. You young guys give up too easy.
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Weak. You should have talked her into it. You young guys give up too easy.
Very true, you have to make her feel like shes not a slut, thats why chicks love alcohol, it gives em a reason to suck random dick with explaining "I was drunk babe, get over it"
dont beg for it, just keep on trying to kiss her, start with her hands then move up to her neck, if she still backs off then back off, your done, its over..Move on..
1.go in for the kiss, if she backs off,
2. grab her hand and kiss that then go for her lips (the one on her face)
3. if she backs off again say "whats up slut"
4. and if she doesnt want to go ahead you go away, dont stay there and watch the movie or whatever.
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You need to grow some balls boy.
Just fuck her in the face when she's not looking.
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1. Learn how to combine confidence with Humor. James Bond is a good example
2. Have sex first, ask questions later. As a guy, your every move should be geared toward getting into her pants as quickly and SMOOTHLY as possible. Once you sleep with a girl you have the ball and can let her chase you for a relationship.
3. NEVER "ask" a woman out on a date. Tell her what you are doing, and that she should come along. Then when she says ok, you can amp it up by teasing her.
4. Woman want a challenge, and women LOVE to be "trying to figure things out" You have to keep them guessing. A good example is maybe one time your girl comes and sits on your lap so you kiss her and give her a hug. The next time she does it you smack her ass and push her off.
5. Never lose control of your emotions. This includes hanging up on a woman and telling her she knows how to reach you (WTF stupid advice was that ??!!)
6. Never answer a woman's question with a direct answer unless the answer is "no" Otherwise your responses should be cocky/funny.
7. Don't try to talk your way out of stuff. If you say something stupid, or do something stupid, just let her talk and choose your words very carefully. When you speak to defend yourself, you give away power. Always turn it back around on them.
8. Learn the "ladder theory" and decide now if you want to be the guy calling the shots, or if you want to be the bitch and have women run your life. The majority of men in the USA love to be the bitch and have the woman run their lives.
9. Women are ALWAYS testing you, and it will never stop. Learn how to disarm their tests, and that you don't need to qualify yourself to a woman. Always be ready to walk away, not out of anger, jealousy, or frustration, but out of principle because you are better than any woman.
10. Learn to be one step ahead of the woman, just like you have to deal with children in a certain way and be a leader.
11. Never ask a woman for relationship/dating advice, ASK MEN THAT ARE SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN. 99.9% of the time women's advice will be sending you the EXACT OPPOSITE direction you need to be traveling.
I can post more if there is any interest.
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1. Learn how to combine confidence with Humor. James Bond is a good example
2. Have sex first, ask questions later. As a guy, your every move should be geared toward getting into her pants as quickly and SMOOTHLY as possible. Once you sleep with a girl you have the ball and can let her chase you for a relationship.
3. NEVER "ask" a woman out on a date. Tell her what you are doing, and that she should come along. Then when she says ok, you can amp it up by teasing her.
4. Woman want a challenge, and women LOVE to be "trying to figure things out" You have to keep them guessing. A good example is maybe one time your girl comes and sits on your lap so you kiss her and give her a hug. The next time she does it you smack her ass and push her off.
5. Never lose control of your emotions. This includes hanging up on a woman and telling her she knows how to reach you (WTF stupid advice was that ??!!)
6. Never answer a woman's question with a direct answer unless the answer is "no" Otherwise your responses should be cocky/funny.
7. Don't try to talk your way out of stuff. If you say something stupid, or do something stupid, just let her talk and choose your words very carefully. When you speak to defend yourself, you give away power. Always turn it back around on them.
8. Learn the "ladder theory" and decide now if you want to be the guy calling the shots, or if you want to be the bitch and have women run your life. The majority of men in the USA love to be the bitch and have the woman run their lives.
9. Women are ALWAYS testing you, and it will never stop. Learn how to disarm their tests, and that you don't need to qualify yourself to a woman. Always be ready to walk away, not out of anger, jealousy, or frustration, but out of principle because you are better than any woman.
10. Learn to be one step ahead of the woman, just like you have to deal with children in a certain way and be a leader.
11. Never ask a woman for relationship/dating advice, ASK MEN THAT ARE SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN. 99.9% of the time women's advice will be sending you the EXACT OPPOSITE direction you need to be traveling.
I can post more if there is any interest.
No thanks
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No thanks
Hahaha!!!
Boost! Where you at, kid? Get off the G & O posting about Cutler's glutes. We want you out there, training non-stop to be a pussy wrecking machine!
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I would be willing to donate a tape recorder for practice. Record yourself laying your game down and then play it back and critique. Better yet, youtube it for peer-review.
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Boost, if you get another shot, just PM me, these guys are out of their minds and probably spend most of their time getting their victims drunk enough to fuck. ::)
If you want a chick that's conscious enough to fuck back./........ don't listen to their shit. ;)
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I have been talking to a girl at school for around 2 months, and my feelings for her are getting stronger and stronger.
Conversations are going and shes laughing at my jokes, we talk on msn and exchange kinda jokey text messages.
However im starting to realise that i really like her, but what SIGNS should i look for to indicate she is interested in me. Im terrible at taking things further than "just friends". I guess im scared of the rejection, and having to see her during group work/classes
PLease any advice cos its really starting to beat me up, im constantly checking my phone/facebook to see if she has messaged me and i cant stop thinking about her. Must sound pathetic, but i cant get her out of my head :'(
From what you have said you have developed a fatuous love connection with her. Believe me, she knows you like her more than she likes you, so she has repelled from you.
Break it up, and don't check your messages anymore.
Change her name under your phone to a letter or erase her name. Don't log onto your facebook.
Boyfriend or not, women and men are surrounded by forces they cannot cannot control, that is a fact, based on what is called emotions, Freud will argue this for me, in society and it's discontent, it's called the eros drive and or death drive.
You flew up fast and you will fall fast. Do yourself a favor, and find another girl asap, next time you think you want to take her out, call someone else.
Let her tell you that she is interested it, she already knows your interested, k
LAter