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Love not lust. Think about a time when you were first truly in love with someone. How did you feel? What were some stupid things you did?
Tough guys that haven't experienced this wonderful feeling need not apply.
I think I may need some clomid :'(
Discuss
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Love not lust. Think about a time when you were first truly in love with someone. How did you feel? What were some stupid things you did?
Tough guys that haven't experienced this wonderful feeling need not apply.
I think I may need some clomid :'(
Discuss
WHATEVER YOURE THINKING ABOUT DOING....DONT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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What's up? Did you just fall in love again, or something?
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WHATEVER YOURE THINKING ABOUT DOING....DONT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I've been married almost 10 years...no kids though
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I've been married almost 10 years...no kids though
Oh. I thought you were talkin about some doin something crazy for a chick. i have done some wild shit. beating guys up. spending all kinds of money...just dumb shit.,
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I am in love but I never do anything stupid.
"leaving the door open for the "you did a bodybuilding show" jokes" ;D
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Oh. I thought you were talkin about some doin something crazy for a chick. i have done some wild shit. beating guys up. spending all kinds of money...just dumb shit.,
There is this girl though and it makes my heart hurt to think about her...
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There is this girl though and it makes my heart hurt to think about her...
i dont follow..you are married. in love with another chick?
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Oh. I thought you were talkin about some doin something crazy for a chick. i have done some wild shit. beating guys up. spending all kinds of money...just dumb shit.,
The power of pussy ;D
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The power of pussy ;D
man remember that picture i posted of my hand after punchin the brick wall (yeah im hardcore like that) ....it was over a broad
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There is this girl though and it makes my heart hurt to think about her...
just jack off before seing that girl, I am 100% sure that she wont affect you as much after that
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just jack off before seing that girl, I am 100% sure that she wont affect you as much after that
Yup yup... It works...
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i dont follow..you are married. in love with another chick?
Yes, in love for 5 years, we have never acted on it. Distance now prevents us from doing so.....and being married
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Yes, in love for 5 years, we have never acted on it. Distance now prevents us from doing so.
Fuck her and get it over with.
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Yes, in love for 5 years, we have never acted on it. Distance now prevents us from doing so.
is she worth all the money you will lose if you divorse ?
I don't think so
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man remember that picture i posted of my hand after punchin the brick wall (yeah im hardcore like that) ....it was over a broad
Dude you don't have to tell me.......
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Fuck her and get it over with.
As you have seen from previous posts I have cheated occasionally with sluts whenever I was on missions in the military. It was just that. Sex.
This woman is in my head and heart . I never let this happen and now know I'm fucked...no pun intended.
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Yes, in love for 5 years, we have never acted on it. Distance now prevents us from doing so.....and being married
i would talk to your wife about your feelings
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As you have seen from previous posts I have cheated occasionally with sluts whenever I was on missions in the military. It was just that. Sex.
This woman is in my head and heart . I never let this happen and now know I'm fucked...no pun intended.
be carefull man, some crazy stalkers here could call your wife to tell her
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i would talk to your wife about your feelings
Never, I still love my wife very much. As long as distance keeps me and the other separated I'll be somewhat ok.
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just jack off before seing that girl, I am 100% sure that she wont affect you as much after that
hahah i was just about to post that...words to live my. like seriously
As you have seen from previous posts I have cheated occasionally with sluts whenever I was on missions in the military. It was just that. Sex.
This woman is in my head and heart . I never let this happen and now know I'm fucked...no pun intended.
hahahah she Pwns you..sorry couldnt resist.
so you havent banged her huh..pretty tough situation there...let me see
I would just take a trip to where she is right...dont tell her you're comming. then when you go to her house and find her sucking another guys cock...boom she is out of your head..
that ones on the house
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be carefull man, some crazy stalkers here could call your wife to tell her
I'm not worried about that. But thanks
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Never, I still love my wife very much. As long as distance keeps me and the other separated I'll be somewhat ok.
you need to purge these feelings. its the only way you'll be able to continue to remain married to your wife. i'm sure she'll understand. you're only human.
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Yes, in love for 5 years, we have never acted on it. Distance now prevents us from doing so.....and being married
damn... :-\
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you need to purge these feelings. its the only way you'll be able to continue to remain married to your wife. i'm sure she'll understand. you're only human.
man what the fuck is wrong with you.. how you gonna tell him some bull shit like that. you trying to ruin my broskies life...
Wiggs dont tell her shit.. read advices above
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man what the fuck is wrong with you.. how you gonna tell him some bull shit like that. you trying to ruin my broskies life...
Wiggs dont tell her shit.. read advices above
these feelings are going to eat at him like a cancer until he talks to his wife about them
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hahah i was just about to post that...words to live my. like seriously
hahahah she Pwns you..sorry couldnt resist.
so you havent banged her huh..pretty tough situation there...let me see
I would just take a trip to where she is right...dont tell her you're comming. then when you go to her house and find her sucking another guys cock...boom she is out of your head..
that ones on the house
You are correct she does own me. Otherwise I would have never made such a thread. Without going into too much detail she stuck by my side when my old lady stepped out and I stuck by hers when she tried to commit suicide and was institutionalized. This is why we are so close. We were close friends first. We professed our love for each other after I was with my wife again.
BTW the woman is prego and going to have the child on 29 jan...not mine, with another guy that bounced.
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these feelings are going to eat at him like a cancer until he talks to his wife about them
dude..his wife is gonna eat his bank acct if he tell her
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you need to purge these feelings. its the only way you'll be able to continue to remain married to your wife. i'm sure she'll understand. you're only human.
Worst advice ever !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
no offense
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I act go out of my way not to cheat on my chic.....
As soon as I know i can bang a whore I'm pretty much as satisfied as i would if i did fock her.
True story.....I gave my neighbor a bottle of tequila that i had cause i stopped drinking ::) and she wanted to give me a BJ in return. :P.......She can't understand why i denied her.
I mean it's really eating her up ...... I love that I'm older now i don't have the need to bang every piece of ass i see........... I like giving them a taste of their own medicine ;D
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dude..his wife is gonna eat his bank acct if he tell her
nope...wiggs wife stepped out on him previously. if he tells her about this it will bring them closer together. she will see him as she sees herself. they will be one.
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Yup, I've been in love ;)
(http://i242.photobucket.com/albums/ff301/torquer23/11-23-2006069.jpg)
jt
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You are correct she does own me. Otherwise I would have never made such a thread. Without going into too much detail she stuck by my side when my old lady stepped out and I stuck by hers when she tried to commit suicide and was institutionalized. This is why we are so close. We were close friends first. We professed our love for each other after I was with my wife again.
BTW the woman is prego and going to have the child on 29 jan...not mine, with another guy that bounced.
damn this is some complicated shit...well is it worth leaving your life. she seems pretty dedicated for real(the other chick). Im goin through some shit too. Me and chaos talked about it too...ill make another thread about it... man im fresh out of ideas...ill try to think of something.
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nope...wiggs wife stepped out on him previously. if he tells her about this it will bring them closer together. she will see him as she sees herself. they will be one.
Jesus H. Christ. where the hell do you get this shit. Broads dont care about that. She cheated on him...so what they are together now. So if Brother Wiggs is all like "hey baby, i kind of love this other chick" how the hell you think that would go over the wife...he should have done that when the wife stepped out.
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Jesus H. Christ. where the hell do you get this shit. Broads dont care about that. She cheated on him...so what they are together now. So if Brother Wiggs is all like "hey baby, i kind of love this other chick" how the hell you think that would go over the wife...he should have done that when the wife stepped out.
ok, I'm just making shit up. lol...sorry Wiggs
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Man only cheat to get laid...........when women cheat, they're either a whore or there's feelings involved for another man and that is the worst of the 2.
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The fact that u are not seeing each other often....and she is STILL on your mind
That really shows how strongly u feel for her......
Usually the obsession over a girl fades if u don;t have any contact for a long time....
I hope u don't look at photos of her, remind urself of her regularly?
Worst thing u can do.....it really does need to be...
OUT OF SIGHT>>>>OUT OF MIND.......(although it will take a period of a couple years)
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ok, I'm just making shit up. lol...sorry Wiggs
oh yeah. i thought you were for real...thats cold
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I act go out of my way not to cheat on my chic.....
As soon as I know i can bang a whore I'm pretty much as satisfied as i would if i did fock her.
True story.....I gave my neighbor a bottle of tequila that i had cause i stopped drinking ::) and she wanted to give me a BJ in return. :P.......She can't understand why i denied her.
I mean it's really eating her up ...... I love that I'm older now i don't have the need to bang every piece of ass i see........... I like giving them a taste of their own medicine ;D
good post
its all about the challenge for most men
i would never cheat on my mrs
i don't have anything to prove
and that is the best feeling
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You are correct she does own me. Otherwise I would have never made such a thread. Without going into too much detail she stuck by my side when my old lady stepped out and I stuck by hers when she tried to commit suicide and was institutionalized. This is why we are so close. We were close friends first. We professed our love for each other after I was with my wife again.
BTW the woman is prego and going to have the child on 29 jan...not mine, with another guy that bounced.
just like romeo and juliet
:-X
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good post
its all about the challenge for most men
i would never cheat on my mrs
i don't have anything to prove
and that is the best feeling
sheeeit. i used to cheat for sport
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nope...wiggs wife stepped out on him previously. if he tells her about this it will bring them closer together. she will see him as she sees herself. they will be one.
I've never cheated on my wife until she cheated on me when I was in Korea, for a year.
That was four years ago. All was forgiven but not forgotten. I went on a spree of guiltess fucking with some skanks. It meant nothing. I truly love this women and have for the last five years and it hurts my heart that I can't be with her. It would obviously be very stupid to leave one and go to the other. I don't speak to her much anymore because it literally makes me sick to my stomach and depressed. But I know life must go on....She thinks I'm pissed at her now so I must make the call and suck it up and pretend to be happy. I was very happy for her when she announced she was pregnant but I must admit it crushed my world because I felt it should have been us but it's my fault. :'(
Her name is Trish... :'(
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yuck
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I'm sorry Balloon, I do look at pics quite often
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WOW!!
Great thread, brother Wiggs!!
More please!!
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good post
its all about the challenge for most men
i would never cheat on my mrs
i don't have anything to prove
and that is the best feeling
I cheated one too many times about 5 yrs ago.........lost my house kids and my girl for a stupid skank..........She took me back 2 yrs ago and I promised her no more doing lines off strippers asses ;D
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yuck
LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL
Wiggs,,,,,,
I have been in a very similar situation.....
U NEEEEEED to kill it completely......not even friends.. the less contact the better......DON't be lookin at her photos....
It will take maybe a couple of years......just hang in there,.....
So long as ur still friends.....ur feelings will still be there...
U need her completely out of ur life...
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Wiggs,,,,,,
I have been in a very similar situation.....
U NEEEEEED to kill it completely......not even friends.. the less contact the better......DON't be lookin at her photos....
It will take maybe a couple of years......just hang in there,.....
So long as ur still friends.....ur feelings will still be there...
U need her completely out of ur life...
good advices here
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I've laid it all out today. I'm sure I could be owned by just about everyone from now till doomsday but I can honstly say I don't care.
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and I promised her no more doing lines off strippers asses ;D
Shoot, I didn't know that was considered cheating. Oh, oh....
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I've laid it all out today. I'm sure I could be owned by just about everyone from now till doomsday but I can honstly say I don't care.
I would never own you wiggs.
You are a real man for expressing your true feelings about LOVE.
Much respect. :)
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I've never cheated on my wife until she cheated on me when I was in Korea, for a year.
That was four years ago. All was forgiven but not forgotten. I went on a spree of guiltess fucking with some skanks. It meant nothing. I truly love this women and have for the last five years and it hurts my heart that I can't be with her. It would obviously be very stupid to leave one and go to the other. I don't speak to her much anymore because it literally makes me sick to my stomach and depressed. But I know life must go on....She thinks I'm pissed at her now so I must make the call and suck it up and pretend to be happy. I was very happy for her when she announced she was pregnant but I must admit it crushed my world because I felt it should have been us but it's my fault. :'(
Her name is Trish... :'(
(http://www.danheller.com/images/personal/Jack/BabyFace/BW/cry-baby-1-bw-big.jpg)
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I've laid it all out today. I'm sure I could be owned by just about everyone from now till doomsday but I can honstly say I don't care.
It's Ok Wiggs.
You are under my protection now, nobody will try to own you
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I've laid it all out today. I'm sure I could be owned by just about everyone from now till doomsday but I can honstly say I don't care.
Don't worry dude. 99% of the guys here have had the same type of problems if they admit it or not.
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LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL
Wiggs,,,,,,
I have been in a very similar situation.....
U NEEEEEED to kill it completely......not even friends.. the less contact the better......DON't be lookin at her photos....
It will take maybe a couple of years......just hang in there,.....
So long as ur still friends.....ur feelings will still be there...
U need her completely out of ur life...
I don't think I can my friend, better yet, I don't think I want to.
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Shoot, I didn't know that was considered cheating. Oh, oh....
Trust me Ive tried to convince her that oral sex and those sort of things wasn't cheating, but she doesn't buy it. ;D
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Don't worry dude. 99% of the guys here have had the same type of problems if they admit it or not.
right on Mass zero-four
right on
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Have you ever thought about being proactive and solving this problem once and for all and killing her?
jt
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I've laid it all out today. I'm sure I could be owned by just about everyone from now till doomsday but I can honstly say I don't care.
Takes a big man to admit to something like that....much better than keeping it all "bottled up"
The first thing u HAVE TO ACCEPT.....is that she can no longer be ANY part of your life or your thoughts.
This will be very hard to come to terms with at first.....I know it was for me.
Burn the photos, delete her number.
At first you may think u will NEVER be able to get her outta ur head.
But Remember, TIME HEALS EVERYTHING....you have a loving wife at home.
It's not gonna be an easy ride.....but i can be 100% sure that 2-3 years of NO CONTACT will make the memory of her much more FAINT in your mind..... and you will be able to move on......
It won;t be an easy ride.....however just think about what you have at the moment!
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I don't think I can my friend, better yet, I don't think I want to.
In all seriousness Wiggs, you have to let the other woman go. No calls, nothing. That's the only way. Otherwise talking to her will further fuel those emotions that are eating at you. You need to make a decision. A really tough one. Its one woman or the other. Sorry to put it to you, but you do need to make that decision. And sometimes the grass is now always greener brother.
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Listen to all you guys. I had no idea there were so many emotional cripples on getbig...
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Damn i feel you Wiggs. But Teh Stav is right to a degree. Stav my man...i think you are talkin about people who are broken up. But this is a different situation all together. First off, he isnt mad at her or no shit so he cant just dead the situation. Then he already has a cheating wife and he didnt forget the shit. So i would say this. Boom You only get 1 chance at true love. you could be wastin time with your wife when you could be with your 1 true love...
But thats a maybe...
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In all seriousness Wiggs, you have to let the other woman go. No calls, nothing. That's the only way. Otherwise talking to her will further fuel those emotions that are eating at you. You need to make a decision. A really tough one. Its one woman or the other. Sorry to put it to you, but you do need to make that decision. And sometimes the grass is now always greener brother.
But sometimes it is
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In all seriousness Wiggs, you have to let the other woman go. No calls, nothing. That's the only way. Otherwise talking to her will further fuel those emotions that are eating at you. You need to make a decision. A really tough one. Its one woman or the other. Sorry to put it to you, but you do need to make that decision. And sometimes the grass is now always greener brother.
BINGO,
Wiggs, ur killin urself at the moment. this kinda stress will drag and drag.
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I don't think I can my friend, better yet, I don't think I want to.
Then are you willing to take the plunge? To see if it works out with you and her. You'd not be the first to get divorced. Is it fair to 'occupy' your wife while you really have stronger feelings for someone else, and it's no puppy love after five years. At the end of the day you need to follow your heart. I'd suggest making sure she is really committed to make it work (as far as that's possible.
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There is some solid information in this thread. Thanks for contributing guys. :)
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But sometimes it is
It is a huge decision on Wiggs part....LIFE CHANGING.
but from the sounds of it,,,,,it really is true love.
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Damn i feel you Wiggs. But Teh Stav is right to a degree. Stav my man...i think you are talkin about people who are broken up. But this is a different situation all together. First off, he isnt mad at her or no shit so he cant just dead the situation. Then he already has a cheating wife and he didnt forget the shit. So i would say this. Boom You only get 1 chance at true love. you could be wastin time with your wife when you could be with your 1 true love...
But thats a maybe...
I didn't get that part.
I can really give advice, cause in Wiggs's situation, I would never let the wife come back in the first place.
what's the point in a relationship where you won't ever trust the other person ? :-\
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Have you ever thought about being proactive and solving this problem once and for all and killing her?
jt
Solid advice from a solid poster. :)
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I'm not willing to make such a big decision either way.
Stav, I trust my wife now. She made a huge mistake. During the time all that was going on, the ground work for our friendship was already laid and her sticking by when I was at my lowest made a huge difference.
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I didn't get that part.
I can really give advice, cause in Wiggs's situation, I would never let the wife come back in the first place.
what's the point in a relationship where you won't ever trust the other person ? :-\
NO point, other than if u like to argue alot then have "make up sex" with ur partner ;D
Not really sustainable long term, unless you love drama....
But in Wiggs case, its not about cheating or drama....its about him being in love with another woman, and NEEDING TO MAKE A DECISION, or being eternally tormented.
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I've never cheated on my wife until she cheated on me when I was in Korea, for a year.
That was four years ago. All was forgiven but not forgotten. I went on a spree of guiltess fucking with some skanks. It meant nothing. I truly love this women and have for the last five years and it hurts my heart that I can't be with her. It would obviously be very stupid to leave one and go to the other. I don't speak to her much anymore because it literally makes me sickto my stomach and depressed. But I know life must go on....She thinks I'm pissed at her now so I must make the call and suck it up and pretend to be happy. I was very happy for her when she announced she was pregnant but I must admit it crushed my world because I felt it should have been us but it's my fault. :'(
Her name is Trish... :'(
Crap Wiggs, you're like opening up to us and chit. Getting all sensitive and stuff and showing us a side of you we've never seen before. Especially on this, one of the most ruthless and unforgiving boards on the net. Usually people get reamed for stuff like this. I did about relating my horrible experience with clowns. And I deserved it. I don't know what to say. My first instinct is to mock you and degrade you. But that's my first instinct for everything unless it requires brutal violence. But I think you touch something. Something deep in all of us. It makes me almost want to be your friend and almost hang out with you until you stop buying me drinks. Hey, my brother (and I mean that in a rather distant and uncomfortable way), thanks for sharing.
BTW, I had angry unconsensual anal once with a girl named Trish. She called me a pig and said I was going to hell. I did my evil laugh and pounded my chest. Good times then.
Hope this helps.
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I didn't get that part.
I can really give advice, cause in Wiggs's situation, I would never let the wife come back in the first place.
what's the point in a relationship where you won't ever trust the other person ? :-\
yeah bro she cheated on him...thats soome messed up stuff..she had her chance and messed up. now its time to roll
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Have you ever thought about being proactive and solving this problem once and for all and killing her?
jt
This is excellent!
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Listen to all you guys. I had no idea there were so many emotional cripples on getbig...
Hey, knock it off!
* runs back into corner, assumes fetal position, and weeps bitterly at all the heart breaks I've suffered *
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Crap Wiggs, you're like opening up to us and chit. Getting all sensitive and stuff and showing us a side of you we've never seen before. Especially on this, one of the most ruthless and unforgiving boards on the net. Usually people get reamed for stuff like this. I did about relating my horrible experience with clowns. And I deserved it. I don't know what to say. My first instinct is to mock you and degrade you. But that's my first instinct for everything unless it requires brutal violence. But I think you touch something. Something deep in all of us. It makes me almost want to be your friend and almost hang out with you until you stop buying me drinks. Hey, my brother (and I mean that in a rather distant and uncomfortable way), thanks for sharing.
BTW, I had angry unconsensual anal once with a girl named Trish. She called me a pig and said I was going to hell. I did my evil laugh and pounded my chest. Good times then.
Hope this helps.
Gold
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NO point, other than if u like to argue alot then have "make up sex" with ur partner ;D
Not really sustainable long term, unless you love drama....
But in Wiggs case, its not about cheating or drama....its about him being in love with another woman, and NEEDING TO MAKE A DECISION, or being eternally tormented.
If I was Wiggs,I'd definitly go with the other girl (trish?).
Maybe it's because I am just not tolerant about being cheated on, but if he really love they other woman I would go for it.
Wiggs, here is a question. With wich woman would you be happier ?
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If I was Wiggs,I'd definitly go with the other girl (trish?).
Maybe it's because I am just not tolerant about being cheated on, but if he really love they other woman I would go for it.
Wiggs, here is a question. With wich woman would you be happier ?
bingo..
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bingo..
It's all about being happy, man 8)
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Okay, I've just read this thread. Here's my advice: pick one or the other, and make the decision stick. If you want this girl, divorce your wife and get with her. If you want your wife instead, cut off all contact with this girl. One or the other... be a man and make a fuccking decision. ::)
YOU=DICKHEAD
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If I was Wiggs,I'd definitly go with the other girl (trish?).
Maybe it's because I am just not tolerant about being cheated on, but if he really love they other woman I would go for it.
Wiggs, here is a question. With wich woman would you be happier ?
No, because in 5 years history will just repeat itself. Different name, younger body.
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Why would you even consider this other girl when you said she is pregnant by some other guy? She doesn't sound like she "Loves" you to me... ???
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If I was Wiggs,I'd definitly go with the other girl (trish?).
Maybe it's because I am just not tolerant about being cheated on, but if he really love they other woman I would go for it.
Wiggs, here is a question. With wich woman would you be happier ?
This could be made into a movie!
Wiggs, played by Cuba gooding Jr, longingly lusting over his true love, miserably going through the motions with his current wife.
It, wouldn;t amke much of a movie if he just stayed with the wife,,,comfortable, but not truely content.
So he takes the plunge, drives hundreds of miles through the night to be with his true love.
Happy Ending.
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Okay, I've just read this thread. Here's my advice: pick one or the other, and make the decision stick. If you want this girl, divorce your wife and get with her. If you want your wife instead, cut off all contact with this girl. One or the other... be a man and make a fuccking decision. ::)
That's the truth right there.
Good shit Goatboy
I have always done that in past relationships and it always works.
When it's done, it's DONE !
so it's either the wife, or Trish, but you need to man up, make the choice and live with it.
if you stay with the wife, cut all contacts with the other woman
there's no other choice
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It's all about being happy, man 8)
RIGHT..not convience, or because youve been there for a while, gotta be with a chick because she is the one who ensures your happines...
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YOU=DICKHEAD
maybe it was harsh but he said the truth IMO.
He needs to choose, he can't think about another woman and be with his wife.
that's a fucked up boring life :-\
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Wiggs needs to pray on this.
Or throw some chicken bones in a bag, shake em up, and toss them on the ground and read the signs.
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Hey, knock it off!
* runs back into corner, assumes fetal position, and weeps bitterly at all the heart breaks I've suffered *
Seriously,
who gives a fuck for some other girl if you are really happy and supposedly in love with your wife...How many pathetic kids on this board are jacking off everyday on the internets because they can't find a chick that will touch their prick and isn't crazy...
BE THANKFUL FOR WHAT YOU HAVE
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This could be made into a movie!
Wiggs, played by Cuba gooding Jr, longingly lusting over his true love, miserably going through the motions with his current wife.
It, wouldn;t amke much of a movie if he just stayed with the wife,,,comfortable, but not truely content.
So he takes the plunge, drives hundreds of miles through the night to be with his true love.
Happy Ending.
I shed a tear
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Wiggs needs to pray on this.
Or throw some chicken bones in a bag, shake em up, and toss them on the ground and read the signs.
Funniest response ever ;D
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I don't know. I've been with my wife for so long.
She's a great woman from Germany. We have no children though and I don't think she wants children (premarriage yes, post cheating no, together again never discussed)
I'm 29 she's 38. I want one child that's it.
Trish
is 29 (our birthday's are a week apart)
She had the suicide deal. Comes from a broken, fucked up home from West Virginia.
Has been quite the skank in the past
I would consider a move to her to be very unstable.
A kid with another guy, former alcoholic, and can be sometimes unstable.
My wife is def the safe bet. So many things could go wrong with Trish but she owns me.
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maybe it was harsh but he said the truth IMO.
He needs to choose, he can't think about another woman and be with his wife.
that's a fucked up boring life :-\
this=life decision...not that easy. i could see how one would be torn. what if he chooses wife. Cuts ties with the other broad. Then him and his wife get on hard times and call it quits...then boom other broad is married...he=fucked...
Its a difficult decision.
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Wiggs needs to pray on this.
Or throw some chicken bones in a bag, shake em up, and toss them on the ground and read the signs.
funniest shit ever in life
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I don't know. I've been with my wife for so long.
She's a great woman from Germany. We have no children though and I don't think she wants children (premarriage yes, post cheating no, together again never discussed)
I'm 29 she's 38. I want one child that's it.
Trish
is 29 (our birthday's are a week apart)
She had the suicide deal. Comes from a broken, fucked up home from West Virginia.
Has been quite the skank in the past
I would consider a move to her to be very unstable.
A kid with another guy, former alcoholic, and can be sometimes unstable.
My wife is def the safe bet. So many things could go wrong with Trish but she owns me.
Wiggs, what is it about the other woman that draws you so strongly to her?
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You are correct she does own me. Otherwise I would have never made such a thread. Without going into too much detail she stuck by my side when my old lady stepped out and I stuck by hers when she tried to commit suicide and was institutionalized. This is why we are so close. We were close friends first. We professed our love for each other after I was with my wife again.
BTW the woman is prego and going to have the child on 29 jan...not mine, with another guy that bounced.
Damn!
Emotionality overload.. :(
I hope it works out for you in some way. Craving after a chick is one of best AND worst stages a guy could go through due to ups and downs that happen.
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I look up
as a tear rolls slowly
down my cheek
I think about better days
and wonder if I'll feel that way again
you look at me
with those eyes I know so well
always serious, so deep and insightful
as though you're always in control
But not today
not now
Now you look so scared
like for once you don't have the answer
I gaze at you
looking deep into those hazel eyes
Hoping to understand
why you've said those things you did
I wonder for a moment
if this is all a dream
if I shall wake in the morning
and be relieved
you look at me
with a confusion I have never seen
slowly pull me towards you
and wipe the tears from my cheek
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I don't know. I've been with my wife for so long.
She's a great woman from Germany. We have no children though and I don't think she wants children (premarriage yes, post cheating no, together again never discussed)
I'm 29 she's 38. I want one child that's it.
Trish
is 29 (our birthday's are a week apart)
She had the suicide deal. Comes from a broken, fucked up home from West Virginia.
Has been quite the skank in the past
I would consider a move to her to be very unstable.
A kid with another guy, former alcoholic, and can be sometimes unstable.
My wife is def the safe bet. So many things could go wrong with Trish but she owns me.
has this woman given you awesome head?
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I don't know. I've been with my wife for so long.
She's a great woman from Germany. We have no children though and I don't think she wants children (premarriage yes, post cheating no, together again never discussed)
I'm 29 she's 38. I want one child that's it.
Trish
is 29 (our birthday's are a week apart)
She had the suicide deal. Comes from a broken, fucked up home from West Virginia.
Has been quite the skank in the past
I would consider a move to her to be very unstable.
A kid with another guy, former alcoholic, and can be sometimes unstable.
My wife is def the safe bet. So many things could go wrong with Trish but she owns me.
Everyone has their problems, but the fact that Trish has stood by you in the past, and not flaked on you, is a very good sign to suggest that if you got together, it would work.
She needs the stability (you)...and you need the REAL emotions only SHE BRINGS OUT OF YOU
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I don't know. I've been with my wife for so long.
She's a great woman from Germany. We have no children though and I don't think she wants children (premarriage yes, post cheating no, together again never discussed)
I'm 29 she's 38. I want one child that's it.
Trish
is 29 (our birthday's are a week apart)
She had the suicide deal. Comes from a broken, fucked up home from West Virginia.
Has been quite the skank in the past
I would consider a move to her to be very unstable.
A kid with another guy, former alcoholic, and can be sometimes unstable.
My wife is def the safe bet. So many things could go wrong with Trish but she owns me.
This ones for real Wiggs.
You need to get a divorce, stop seeing this Trish chick and give yourself some alone time while you date around and find the real tranny girl of your dreams.
Sorry about the Tranny joke but this is GetBig after all ;D
The other part I meant :)
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Why would you even consider this other girl when you said she is pregnant by some other guy? She doesn't sound like she "Loves" you to me... ???
She was waiting around for a while and kept trying to get me to break up with my wife. I told her it wasn't fair for her to wait around for me and to move on with her life....We still kept in touch and talked but not as often. It was then that I realized I truly loved her. By then (this was over a period of about a year) I received that e-mail that she was prego....the guy is no longer in the picture.
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who gives best head
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I don't know. I've been with my wife for so long.
She's a great woman from Germany. We have no children though and I don't think she wants children (premarriage yes, post cheating no, together again never discussed)
I'm 29 she's 38. I want one child that's it.
Trish
is 29 (our birthday's are a week apart)
She had the suicide deal. Comes from a broken, fucked up home from West Virginia.
Has been quite the skank in the past
I would consider a move to her to be very unstable.
A kid with another guy, former alcoholic, and can be sometimes unstable.
My wife is def the safe bet. So many things could go wrong with Trish but she owns me.
Former alcoholic and emotionally unstable white gal?
It isn't worth a divorce with a stable woman(consider monetary losses) to marry an unstable gal. After all, you don't want to make a huge decision regarding divorce just to be with a chick with whom it could fall apart anyways. Think about it.
You just might have bury the image of your heart's desire, but then again your wife is 9 years your senior.
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who gives best head
Trish and I have never been together, I always made up an excuse because I knew because she was in my head and I got with her sexually, She would be "Mrs. Trish Wiggs"
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Former alcoholic and emotionally unstable white gal?
It isn't worth a divorce with a stable woman(consider monetary losses) to marry an unstable gal. After all, you don't want to make a huge decision regarding divorce just to be with a chick with whom it could fall apart anyways. Think about it.
You just might have bury the image of your heart's desire, but then again your wife is 9 years your senior.
See what I mean? It's all fucked up. :'(
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Trish and I have never been together, I always made up an excuse because I knew because she was in my head and I got with her sexually, She would be "Mrs. Trish Wiggs"
first mistake..should have boned her..then you wouldnt be thinking about her right now
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first mistake..should have boned her..then you wouldnt be thinking about her right now
Unless that pussy was so good you could throw it into the air and it would come back down as sunshine.
Then he would be in the same predicament.
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first mistake..should have boned her..then you wouldnt be thinking about her right now
Yeah, that's what he should do. But then again she's with child so it wouldn't any sort of conquest but just doing it for the sake of doing it.
I wouldn't be with a woman that wouldn't bear me any kids but then again I wouldn't swap that woman for an unstable alkie that's already had another man's kid.
I guess sometimes people can't help the way they feel and that really sucks. I can't even give a definitive answer to this. :(
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I can't even give a definitive answer to this. :(
Don't beat yourself up, we're all a little crazy right now over this thread.
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I've done it this long.
My decision is to remain eternally tormented...I'm not manstrong enough to make such a decision. I will just have to take this to the grave
I truly appreciate everyones' inputs. (Even Goatboy)
I just don't see myself leaving my wife for something so unsure and I could never abandon Trish. I will live with the heartache. I will call her this weekend and let you know how it went. Thanks
Wiggs
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Bitches be crazy..... :)
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Here Wiggs...
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(http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/meetthefosters/Cry%20Baby%202.JPG)
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(http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/meetthefosters/Cry%20Baby%202.JPG)
:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
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I've done it this long.
My decision is to remain eternally tormented...I'm not manstrong enough to make such a decision. I will just have to take this to the grave
I truly appreciate everyones' inputs. (Even Goatboy)
I just don't see myself leaving my wife for something so unsure and I could never abandon Trish. I will live with the heartache. I will call her this weekend and let you know how it went. Thanks
Wiggs
In all seriousness Wiggs, i hope this all works out for you. :)
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In all seriousness Wiggs, i hope this all works out for you. :)
Thank you Webke. I love you :-X ;D
I love you all :'( :-X
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Thank you Webke. I love you :-X ;D
I love you all :'( :-X
And I, you!
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Shit or get off the pot. The agony of not knowing ain't worth it.
Spend at least a weekend with her, get it over with. Just a short-term investment that won't ruin the existing situation. Either you'll become addicted and know what to do, or it will be a huge letdown that you couldn't have forseen.
Do it ya puzzy, just a few days will tell you a lot. ;D
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Thank you Webke. I love you :-X ;D
I love you all :'( :-X
I love you too, Wiggs. :)
This is emotional!! :'(
I'm giving you a e-hug as we speak... :)
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ok, i think we delete this thread and NEVER speak of it again.
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Solid advice from a solid poster. :)
thx webcake, yes most problems can be solved simply if you ignore the moral laws of life.
jt
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I agree with emn wtf is up with this thread? Go run yourself a hot bath and make a cup of tea and get a copy of chicken noodle soup for a pussy's soul and chill....this thread is way gay....
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Wigga you gay!!
It had to be said, LOL!
Ask yourself a simple question: "Is it the idea of her I'm really in love with?". Most people aren't honest with themselves over stupid shit like. Someone gets depressed, bored or complacent and foolishly thinks changing partners will change them.
Also, having an emotional affair on your wife is wrong. The affection, feelings and other stuff is supposed to be for your wife. She'd probably rather you just bang some random bitch and be done with it than obsess over a relationship distance prevents.
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It's all about being happy, man 8)
Actually, no. Sometimes doing the right thing takes priority over your own personal happiness. I'm not saying this applies in this case but sometimes you have to sacrifice and do the right, courageous and honorable thing and not just think of yourself. Can you think of any instance in which you would sacrifice even your life for a greater good? Say for your country or for another person?
Wiggs took a vow for better and for worse. People like to say that people divorce too easily. Actually, I think they get married too easily. Like it's just something to do and pledging your word of honor and make a vow for a life long commitment is just words. Maybe it is. Maybe your words of honor means nothing.
Before someone gets married they better think long and hard if they want to really make a life long committment. That's why I live alone in an attic with a family that has yet to discover I there. They still think it's rats shuffling along at night when I get up to pee out the window.
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just jack off before seing that girl, I am 100% sure that she wont affect you as much after that
Great advice.
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Most on this site are SCHMOES.
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Wiggs,
I feel for you bro
Peace
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Love not lust. Think about a time when you were first truly in love with someone. How did you feel? What were some stupid things you did?
Tough guys that haven't experienced this wonderful feeling need not apply.
I think I may need some clomid :'(
Discuss
homo >:(
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Sorry about the Tranny joke but this is GetBig after all ;D
Hey.... if it's good enough for Sean Ray... ;D
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Actually, no. Sometimes doing the right thing takes priority over your own personal happiness. I'm not saying this applies in this case but sometimes you have to sacrifice and do the right, courageous and honorable thing and not just think of yourself. Can you think of any instance in which you would sacrifice even your life for a greater good? Say for your country or for another person?
Wiggs took a vow for better and for worse. People like to say that people divorce too easily. Actually, I think they get married too easily. Like it's just something to do and pledging your word of honor and make a vow for a life long commitment is just words. Maybe it is. Maybe your words of honor means nothing.
Before someone gets married they better think long and hard if they want to really make a life long commitment. That's why I live alone in an attic with a family that has yet to discover I there. They still think it's rats shuffling along at night when I get up to pee out the window.
I've seen many people, too many, waste years of their lives in useless relationships because of some stupid "commitment" b/s. A relationship either works or it doesn't in the here and now, regardless of what rituals you may have engaged in in the past. I'm not saying people should throw long-term relationships away like yesterday's news, but if a piece of paper is all that's keeping you together, you shouldn't be together.
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I've seen many people, too many, waste years of their lives in useless relationships because of some stupid "commitment" b/s. A relationship either works or it doesn't in the here and now, regardless of what rituals you may have engaged in in the past. I'm not saying people should throw long-term relationships away like yesterday's news, but if a piece of paper is all that's keeping you together, you shouldn't be together.
It reads more like obsession than love, GB.
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man remember that picture i posted of my hand after punchin the brick wall (yeah im hardcore like that) ....it was over a broad
I never saw that pic. Repost (yeah, im hardcore like that)....
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wiggs you are a disgrace, not only do you cheat on your wife with shemales, but you are openly admiting loving another >:(
why not just get a divorce, its clear you only love the cock.
i'm sure she will understand.
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wiggs you are a disgrace, not only do you cheat on your wife with shemales, but you are openly admiting loving another >:(
why not just get a divorce, its clear you only love the cock.
i'm sure she will understand.
You may be right on this one.
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Love not lust. Think about a time when you were first truly in love with someone. How did you feel? What were some stupid things you did?
Tough guys that haven't experienced this wonderful feeling need not apply.
I think I may need some clomid :'(
Discuss
Actualy, many cowards are afraid of loving somebody in spite of their desire of loving someone.
Tough guy can do it.
Its quite opposite.
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gayer than having feelings at all.
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(http://cocalari.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/power1.jpg)
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gayer than having feelings at all.
Having no feeling is gayer.
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In love? ::)
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Wiggs,
Both of your women sound like TRASH.
Why the fuck would you marry a woman 9 years older than you?
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Wiggs,
Both of your women sound like TRASH.
Why the fuck would you marry a woman 9 years older than you?
For the money could be a plausible reason.
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Wiggs,
Both of your women sound like TRASH.
Why the fuck would you marry a woman 9 years older than you?
He's Black, and that's the youngest mudshark he could find. ;D
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He's Black, and that's the youngest mudshark he could find. ;D
Cheap shot!
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He's Black, and that's the youngest mudshark he could find. ;D
Getbig's resident Nazi tries to bring teh funny! ::)
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Wiggs,
Both of your women sound like TRASH.
Why the fuck would you marry a woman 9 years older than you?
what did he say about either that makes them sound like rash ?
...and in my opinion a hot older women is much hotter than a hot female my age or younger.
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I've seen many people, too many, waste years of their lives in useless relationships because of some stupid "commitment" b/s. A relationship either works or it doesn't in the here and now, regardless of what rituals you may have engaged in in the past. I'm not saying people should throw long-term relationships away like yesterday's news, but if a piece of paper is all that's keeping you together, you shouldn't be together.
Point taken In his case I'm not convinced he's in a relationship not worth saving. And I don't think the alternative is better in the long run IMHO.
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Takes a big man to admit to something like that....much better than keeping it all "bottled up"
The first thing u HAVE TO ACCEPT.....is that she can no longer be ANY part of your life or your thoughts.
This will be very hard to come to terms with at first.....I know it was for me.
Burn the photos, delete her number.
At first you may think u will NEVER be able to get her outta ur head.
But Remember, TIME HEALS EVERYTHING....you have a loving wife at home.
It's not gonna be an easy ride.....but i can be 100% sure that 2-3 years of NO CONTACT will make the memory of her much more FAINT in your mind..... and you will be able to move on......
It won;t be an easy ride.....however just think about what you have at the moment!
Do this Wiggs, I was am in a similar situation, looking at pics and mess. Fact is the other chick, Trish has a child with another dude. There is no happily ever after. You have a wife, Trish will have a beautiful child, Lord Willing. And you have the father MAYBE coming back into the picture. It's way to complicated to be cut and dry for you...Imagine Divorcing your wife, spending mone for that, dividing up assets, possibly losing the house, just to raise another dude 's kid, think, is it worth it?
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It reads more like obsession than love, GB.
Love is a mix between a mental illness and an addiction.
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Wiggs, what is it about the other woman that draws you so strongly to her?
"She" has a cock , am I right Wiggs?
You lust after trannys so im thinking this is like a dream come true for you??
What do I win?
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:'(
And she LOVES you too
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Holy 'As-the-World-Turns,' Batman. Kind reminds me of that sob story that Rhino unspooled for us a couple of years ago. 'Course Wiggs is a lot more likable than that uber-douche.
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Holy 'As-the-World-Turns,' Batman. Kind reminds me of that sob story that Rhino unspooled for us a couple of years ago. 'Course Wiggs is a lot more likable than that uber-douche.
i wouldn't be so sure.......
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i wouldn't be so sure.......
LOMFL!!!!!
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the day my girlfriend turned into my wife, my whole outlook changed
married 9 years
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Do this Wiggs, I was am in a similar situation, looking at pics and mess. Fact is the other chick, Trish has a child with another dude. There is no happily ever after. You have a wife, Trish will have a beautiful child, Lord Willing. And you have the father MAYBE coming back into the picture. It's way to complicated to be cut and dry for you...Imagine Divorcing your wife, spending mone for that, dividing up assets, possibly losing the house, just to raise another dude 's kid, think, is it worth it?
No one has ever won an argument with another man's hard dick so why even bother? Wiggs just want's someone to sat "it's all right to feel that way" so doing the wrong thing will be a little easier.
If you're tired of being married... man up, admit that shit to yourself/her and move on. Don't go starting shit with a new chick and giving her the attention/affection that's supposed to be your wife's.
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I knew that I was in love because I had never met a woman that i just had to get to "Know" better. been together 13 years married for 11 and my heart still skips a beat when I think of her 8)
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I knew that I was in love because I had never met a woman that i just had to get to "Know" better. been together 13 years married for 11 and my heart still skips a beat when I think of her 8)
That's sweet.