Takes a big man to admit to something like that....much better than keeping it all "bottled up"
The first thing u HAVE TO ACCEPT.....is that she can no longer be ANY part of your life or your thoughts.
This will be very hard to come to terms with at first.....I know it was for me.
Burn the photos, delete her number.
At first you may think u will NEVER be able to get her outta ur head.
But Remember, TIME HEALS EVERYTHING....you have a loving wife at home.
It's not gonna be an easy ride.....but i can be 100% sure that 2-3 years of NO CONTACT will make the memory of her much more FAINT in your mind..... and you will be able to move on......
It won;t be an easy ride.....however just think about what you have at the moment!
Do this Wiggs, I was am in a similar situation, looking at pics and mess. Fact is the other chick, Trish has a child with another dude. There is no happily ever after. You have a wife, Trish will have a beautiful child, Lord Willing. And you have the father MAYBE coming back into the picture. It's way to complicated to be cut and dry for you...Imagine Divorcing your wife, spending mone for that, dividing up assets, possibly losing the house, just to raise another dude 's kid, think, is it worth it?