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So people on here ask why I dont try to achieve the look I had before. Well first of all I am 44, but that is zero part of the reason. I am not driven by an inner force to be lean and look better. It makes zero difference to me that I carry this fat. My mental issues have been clearly stated and they play a role, but I find no reason or drive to look like that again. Also, I like to eat. There is little force in me to accomplish much in life to be honest. I am driven by outside forces, one of which IS NOT money. I wouldnt do shit for money, means nothing to me. If the day came when that elusive outside reason came for me to get lean, yeah it would probably happen. The only outside force that kind of gives me a little irk to do it is knowing how staggeringly much better I would look leaned out than Vince Goodrum. Yeah, that would be kinda sweet. I beak on here but I dont hate anyone except for 1 person and 1 only. Adonis. I could kill him, and not feel bad. Easily. I like getbig, its fun and entertaining.
But overall, I dont lean out because I am lazy, I have no inner drive, I require outside reasons to do something.
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Avesher Principles - Chapter I
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Avesher Principles - Chapter I
dont see it moving up the NY Times bestseller list ::)
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In all honesty, it sounds like you've just described the average person.
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dont see it moving up the NY Times bestseller list ::)
NY Times? Bah! It's a Getbig bestseller and that's all that matters.
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So people on here ask why I dont try to achieve the look I had before. Well first of all I am 44, but that is zero part of the reason. I am not driven by an inner force to be lean and look better. It makes zero difference to me that I carry this fat. My mental issues have been clearly stated and they play a role, but I find no reason or drive to look like that again. Also, I like to eat. There is little force in me to accomplish much in life to be honest. I am driven by outside forces, one of which IS NOT money. I wouldnt do shit for money, means nothing to me. If the day came when that elusive outside reason came for me to get lean, yeah it would probably happen. The only outside force that kind of gives me a little irk to do it is knowing how staggeringly much better I would look leaned out than Vince Goodrum. Yeah, that would be kinda sweet. I beak on here but I dont hate anyone except for 1 person and 1 only. Adonis. I could kill him, and not feel bad. Easily. I like getbig, its fun and entertaining.
But overall, I dont lean out because I am lazy, I have no inner drive, I require outside reasons to do something.
So how do survive dude, poker is come and go how. Seems you had a good life once what happened? The pics show a nice looking dude with muscles (no homo) something went south.
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So people on here ask why I dont try to achieve the look I had before. Well first of all I am 44, but that is zero part of the reason. I am not driven by an inner force to be lean and look better. It makes zero difference to me that I carry this fat. My mental issues have been clearly stated and they play a role, but I find no reason or drive to look like that again. Also, I like to eat. There is little force in me to accomplish much in life to be honest. I am driven by outside forces, one of which IS NOT money. I wouldnt do shit for money, means nothing to me. If the day came when that elusive outside reason came for me to get lean, yeah it would probably happen. The only outside force that kind of gives me a little irk to do it is knowing how staggeringly much better I would look leaned out than Vince Goodrum. Yeah, that would be kinda sweet. I beak on here but I dont hate anyone except for 1 person and 1 only. Adonis. I could kill him, and not feel bad. Easily. I like getbig, its fun and entertaining.
But overall, I dont lean out because I am lazy, I have no inner drive, I require outside reasons to do something.
great opportunity for someone to commit murder and pin it on disturbia.
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So people on here ask why I dont try to achieve the look I had before. Well first of all I am 44, but that is zero part of the reason. I am not driven by an inner force to be lean and look better. It makes zero difference to me that I carry this fat. My mental issues have been clearly stated and they play a role, but I find no reason or drive to look like that again. Also, I like to eat. There is little force in me to accomplish much in life to be honest. I am driven by outside forces, one of which IS NOT money. I wouldnt do shit for money, means nothing to me. If the day came when that elusive outside reason came for me to get lean, yeah it would probably happen. The only outside force that kind of gives me a little irk to do it is knowing how staggeringly much better I would look leaned out than Vince Goodrum. Yeah, that would be kinda sweet. I beak on here but I dont hate anyone except for 1 person and 1 only. Adonis. I could kill him, and not feel bad. Easily. I like getbig, its fun and entertaining.
But overall, I dont lean out because I am lazy, I have no inner drive, I require outside reasons to do something.
just eat the kale green sandwiches like i told you, dont STRESS about leans, No need to write out creative dramas here leave that to me to set mothermcnickwiggers straight in spirituality and politics as well a joint effort in technology shared by brother Rami
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Instead of looking at it as 'going on a diet' or 'getting lean' or 'losing weight,' just be someone who lives well. That is it's own reward. Maybe you'll lose weight, maybe not, but I get the sense that your problems are manifested in more ways than just carrying a few lbs. No flame.
My ex has severe depression and once told me she can't find the motivation or the right mindset to do the things she knows she should (get out of bed, clean her house, etc). She's been that way for so long I suggested she give up lying there trying to generate the right mindset and just go through the motions of what she would be doing if she had that magical mindset, and after a week or two of having bills paid on time and a clean house I bet some optimism would arrive all on its own, without any mental wrestling being required at all.
Just go through the motions of living well for a few weeks Av, even if you can't think of a reason to do it. What have you got to lose?
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Ave, what diets have you tried?
You still have hair and the same bone structure. Falcon type leans meanz hoes and happiness. It's not too late.
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So how do survive dude, poker is come and go how. Seems you had a good life once what happened? The pics show a nice looking dude with muscles (no homo) something went south.
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k heres the truth
Due to my borderline personality disorder mainly with other issues, I have a long history of kicking the hell out of managers, bosses, employers etc etc. I have no ability to respond to authority in a positive manner. Due to this the court systems and government have deemed me unfit to work, and therefore have placed me on a modified form of disability. It allows me a much higher monthly amount than normal disability because it is in essence "forced".
The poker is true. I am staked by a guy who pays my buy ins and in turn he gets 50% of my winnings. But ya it is come and go, however I never risk my own money.
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k heres the truth
Due to my borderline personality disorder mainly with other issues, I have a long history of kicking the hell out of managers, bosses, employers etc etc. I have no ability to respond to authority in a positive manner. Due to this the court systems and government have deemed me unfit to work, and therefore have placed me on a modified form of disability. It allows me a much higher monthly amount than normal disability because it is in essence "forced".
The poker is true. I am staked by a guy who pays my buy ins and in turn he gets 50% of my winnings. But ya it is come and go, however I never risk my own money.
So its a problem with Authority it seems. Same problem here bro but keep drinking it down I may snap one day. This society has set us up to fail.
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k heres the truth
Due to my borderline personality disorder mainly with other issues, I have a long history of kicking the hell out of managers, bosses, employers etc etc. I have no ability to respond to authority in a positive manner. Due to this the court systems and government have deemed me unfit to work, and therefore have placed me on a modified form of disability. It allows me a much higher monthly amount than normal disability because it is in essence "forced".
The poker is true. I am staked by a guy who pays my buy ins and in turn he gets 50% of my winnings. But ya it is come and go, however I never risk my own money.
I am curious about what treatments you have had for BPD and if you think you have been helped by any. Borderlines often have depression but they are separate mental disorders. Bashing your bosses was a neat way to not have to work anymore and get paid by the government!! ;D
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I am curious about what treatments you have had for BPD and if you think you have been helped by any. Borderlines often have depression but they are separate mental disorders. Bashing your bosses was a neat way to not have to work anymore and get paid by the government!! ;D
shhhh I have a disorder,....it wasnt a plan ;D ;D ;D
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do you think if i move to saskatchewa n and kick the piss out of a few employer i can get on the josh plan
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I am curious about what treatments you have had for BPD and if you think you have been helped by any. Borderlines often have depression but they are separate mental disorders. Bashing your bosses was a neat way to not have to work anymore and get paid by the government!! ;D
Could this be the reason Goodrum lives in the woods in a trailer?
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do you think if i move to saskatchewa n and kick the piss out of a few employer i can get on the josh plan
I have the manual I can send you
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So people on here ask why I dont try to achieve the look I had before. Well first of all I am 44, but that is zero part of the reason. I am not driven by an inner force to be lean and look better. It makes zero difference to me that I carry this fat. My mental issues have been clearly stated and they play a role, but I find no reason or drive to look like that again. Also, I like to eat. There is little force in me to accomplish much in life to be honest. I am driven by outside forces, one of which IS NOT money. I wouldnt do shit for money, means nothing to me. If the day came when that elusive outside reason came for me to get lean, yeah it would probably happen. The only outside force that kind of gives me a little irk to do it is knowing how staggeringly much better I would look leaned out than Vince Goodrum. Yeah, that would be kinda sweet. I beak on here but I dont hate anyone except for 1 person and 1 only. Adonis. I could kill him, and not feel bad. Easily. I like getbig, its fun and entertaining.
But overall, I dont lean out because I am lazy, I have no inner drive, I require outside reasons to do something.
I dig that honesty
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The halfway house is just adjacent to the gym that I train at. The guys there, once you're in as they tend to be very distrustful of everyone, are some of the greatest guys around. They're the type that has your back and will walk with you to the gates of hell and back. They're the ones you want by your side when the fists or bullets start flying.
But some guys just aren't cut out to punch a time clock, tuck in their shirt, put on a tie, having to say "yes, mam" to some whiny bitch boss who tells you to "think outside the box." Having to answer the phone with the company pitch line instead of just "hello" like a normal person. Having to sit through a performance review by a fat, balding, ass kisser who alway has beads of sweat on his forehead and bits of white saliva on the corners on his lips who tells you, "I want to see a little bit more happy out of you. Think of us as your family and everyday is Christmas morning."
Some guys, when surrounded by phonies, ass kissers and status seekers , just want to take a deep breath, spit on their hands, raise the Black Flag and start slitting throats.
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The halfway house is just adjacent to the gym that I train at. The guys there, once you're in as they tend to be very distrustful of everyone, are some of the greatest guys around. They're the type that has your back and will walk with you to the gates of hell and back. They're the ones you want by your side when the fists or bullets start flying.
But some guys just aren't cut out to punch a time clock, tuck in their shirt, put on a tie, having to say "yes, mam" to some whiny bitch boss who tells you to "think outside the box." Having to answer the phone with the company pitch line instead of just "hello" like a normal person. Having to sit through a performance review by a fat, balding, ass kisser who alway has beads of sweat on his forehead and bits of white saliva on the corners on his lips who tells you, "I want to see a little bit more happy out of you. Think of us as your family and everyday is Christmas morning."
Some guys, when surrounded by phonies, ass kissers and status seekers , just want to take a deep breath, spit on their hands, raise the Black Flag and start slitting throats.
great post
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"Thank God for the rain which has helped wash away the garbage and trash off the sidewalks.... All the animals come out at night - whores, skunk pussies, buggers, queens, fairies, dopers, junkies, sick, venal. Someday a real rain will come and wash all this scum off the streets."
-- Robert DeNiro as Travis Bickle, Taxi Driver
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The halfway house is just adjacent to the gym that I train at. The guys there, once you're in as they tend to be very distrustful of everyone, are some of the greatest guys around. They're the type that has your back and will walk with you to the gates of hell and back. They're the ones you want by your side when the fists or bullets start flying.
But some guys just aren't cut out to punch a time clock, tuck in their shirt, put on a tie, having to say "yes, mam" to some whiny bitch boss who tells you to "think outside the box." Having to answer the phone with the company pitch line instead of just "hello" like a normal person. Having to sit through a performance review by a fat, balding, ass kisser who alway has beads of sweat on his forehead and bits of white saliva on the corners on his lips who tells you, "I want to see a little bit more happy out of you. Think of us as your family and everyday is Christmas morning."
Some guys, when surrounded by phonies, ass kissers and status seekers , just want to take a deep breath, spit on their hands, raise the Black Flag and start slitting throats.
Just curious what you do for a living Pellius? Or if retired how did you make your living?
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The halfway house is just adjacent to the gym that I train at. The guys there, once you're in as they tend to be very distrustful of everyone, are some of the greatest guys around. They're the type that has your back and will walk with you to the gates of hell and back. They're the ones you want by your side when the fists or bullets start flying.
But some guys just aren't cut out to punch a time clock, tuck in their shirt, put on a tie, having to say "yes, mam" to some whiny bitch boss who tells you to "think outside the box." Having to answer the phone with the company pitch line instead of just "hello" like a normal person. Having to sit through a performance review by a fat, balding, ass kisser who alway has beads of sweat on his forehead and bits of white saliva on the corners on his lips who tells you, "I want to see a little bit more happy out of you. Think of us as your family and everyday is Christmas morning."
Some guys, when surrounded by phonies, ass kissers and status seekers , just want to take a deep breath, spit on their hands, raise the Black Flag and start slitting throats.
I have done this for quite sometime nice post bro. Now trying to find another way we have all been trained to fit into some stupid ass company as stated.
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Just curious what you do for a living Pellius? Or if retired how did you make your living?
YGM. How about you?
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Couple of guys that don't fit into this feminized, politically correct, status-seeking society but ones that I would trust my life with as they could trust theirs with me.
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Couple of guys that don't fit into this feminized, politically correct, status-seeking society but ones that I would trust my life with as they could trust theirs with me.
So how to they make money pellius?
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So how to they make money pellius?
The people that live there are newly released from prison and consist primarily of violent offenders. This is a program designed to ease them back into normal society. It's kind of like house arrest except you are helped with finding a job and getting into a job training program. You have to account for your time, keep certain hours and are randomly drug tested. Screw up and then it's back in the slammer.
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I am curious about what treatments you have had for BPD and if you think you have been helped by any. Borderlines often have depression but they are separate mental disorders. Bashing your bosses was a neat way to not have to work anymore and get paid by the government!! ;D
like a reverse 'Fight Club' technique for paid vacation. more effective than pulling a Tyler Durden on yourself!
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k heres the truth
Due to my borderline personality disorder mainly with other issues, I have a long history of kicking the hell out of managers, bosses, employers etc etc. I have no ability to respond to authority in a positive manner. Due to this the court systems and government have deemed me unfit to work, and therefore have placed me on a modified form of disability. It allows me a much higher monthly amount than normal disability because it is in essence "forced".
The poker is true. I am staked by a guy who pays my buy ins and in turn he gets 50% of my winnings. But ya it is come and go, however I never risk my own money.
So what's the going rate that a modifed form of disability can pull these days? I've been canned twice due to anger management issues. One was just verbal but it was to a girl and the other time included a threat, a push and tossing said fella in a rubbish can. My meltdowns aren't solely limited to this board.
I try that counting to 10 thing but I find that my angers just builds with each successive number that by the time I get to 10....
Someday a real rain will come and wash all this .... Nevermind. You get the point.
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So what's the going rate that a modifed form of disability can pull these days? I've been canned twice due to anger management issues. One was just verbal but it was to a girl and the other time included a threat, a push and tossing said fella in a rubbish can. My meltdowns aren't solely limited to this board.
I try that counting to 10 thing but I find that my angers just builds with each successive number that by the time I get to 10....
Someday a real rain will come and wash all this .... Nevermind. You get the point.
That doesn't impress us unless it was one of those little 6" x 9" office wastepaper bins you fit him into.
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So what's the going rate that a modifed form of disability can pull these days? I've been canned twice due to anger management issues. One was just verbal but it was to a girl and the other time included a threat, a push and tossing said fella in a rubbish can. My meltdowns aren't solely limited to this board.
I try that counting to 10 thing but I find that my angers just builds with each successive number that by the time I get to 10....
Someday a real rain will come and wash all this .... Nevermind. You get the point.
When I was in the fire service there was a smelly ugly little bitch on our shift
Anytime anyone said anything to her you were sure to be up before management
So we used just get to work early and piss in her fire suit
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So people on here ask why I dont try to achieve the look I had before. Well first of all I am 44, but that is zero part of the reason. I am not driven by an inner force to be lean and look better. It makes zero difference to me that I carry this fat. My mental issues have been clearly stated and they play a role, but I find no reason or drive to look like that again. Also, I like to eat. There is little force in me to accomplish much in life to be honest. I am driven by outside forces, one of which IS NOT money. I wouldnt do shit for money, means nothing to me. If the day came when that elusive outside reason came for me to get lean, yeah it would probably happen. The only outside force that kind of gives me a little irk to do it is knowing how staggeringly much better I would look leaned out than Vince Goodrum. Yeah, that would be kinda sweet. I beak on here but I dont hate anyone except for 1 person and 1 only. Adonis. I could kill him, and not feel bad. Easily. I like getbig, its fun and entertaining.
But overall, I dont lean out because I am lazy, I have no inner drive, I require outside reasons to do something.
Well, at least you're honest however you really shouldn't beat up on yourself. Self degradation only leads to further physical and mental problems.
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Whereas Vince,your mental problems stop you from self-degrading yourself and realising hoe you really look
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Quote from: odilly on February 05, 2010, 09:43:59 PM
do you think if i move to saskatchewa n and kick the piss out of a few employer i can get on the josh plan
I have the manual I can send you
OK sooo step one get job at subway..........step two bash manager and stuff meatballs up their nose....step three tell judge the lettuce told me to do it....should work eh?...... if that doesn't i can say the jalapenos tried to talk me out of it but i don't speak Mexican
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What happened to that great thread about Goodrum the other day? Keith was in good form and had Melvin against the ropes. Then the thread vanished.
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I like Avesher. Not many people are that honest. I go to Crotch Lake but it's way too far from where he lives for us to catch up and break balls.
I really don't get the hate for Adumbass, though. The guy just wants to think he's smart. I don't appreciate pseudo-intellectuals but probably wouldn't beat ones ass. :)
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What happened to that great thread about Goodrum the other day? Keith was in good form and had Melvin against the ropes. Then the thread vanished.
Keith weighs 600+ pounds. His fat ass will never be in good form unless you're comparing him to a jelly doughnut..... ;D
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Keith weighs 600+ pounds. His fat ass will never be in good form unless you're comparing him to a jelly doughnut..... ;D
I heard Keith still had abs at 600
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I heard Keith still had flab at 600
corrected.. ;D
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You need significant relationships with other people, you are too self centered and spend too much time on the internet , which you are addicted to. I guess you have no opportunities to be in contact with other human beings in your daily life but this is what you truly need. When you have no relationships, life has no taste at all anymore. Relationships give a taste to life and feelings. No relationships = no physical stimulation and development of the brain, of emotions. Our brain develops itself when we are with others -not virtual people- real people. If we arent, it ceases to develop, as do feelings and emotions, everything becomes darker and darker.
You should fall in love with someone, get an education, a job... And you should consult a psychologist, they re for people who suffer psychologically even if they look "normal" from the outside.
The roots of your psychological dizziness are in your childhood and the way you interacted with your parents and family. Only a big and deep comeback in this past with a professionnal can have an influence on your present and future. You have to modify your cognitions and behaviors. At 44, this will be a huge task, but you have nothing else to do anyway. There's no escape from this, so just do it once for all. Your survival is in question at this point. You have to un-learn, and re-learn more appropriate ways of thinking and acting.
If you do not have/develop meaningful relationships your despair will increase. We are nothing without the others. I'm not saying you need to party with people you dont know everyday, these relationships you have to develop have to be constant, deep and reciprocal.
Your life is grey, you need to put some colors in it.
You are not going to find this on an internet message board. Get REAL help. The attention whoring doesnt solve the issue at all either. But it's a clear call for help whatever the way you look at it.
By the way, you re in no way unique or alone. People like you are more and more numerous especially in our modern societies. You lack some basics and you have to learn em , even if you're 44. You have to re-start your development, right now you re obviously immature, even if you're 44 it doesnt mean shit, and you have to become mature with the help of a professionnal. There are people who spend their whole life and die with an underdeveloped conception of the world, why they re here, why the other are here, and how we are suposed to interact with each others. Most of the time a good education, from your parents or from some mentors of resiliency/development, some teachers, can lead you back fullforce in life. Find these people and dont care about "what the other may say or think", these people dont care about you, they only care about themselves and you should do the same. People who truly care about you will only advise you to seek help from a pro.
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Instead of looking at it as 'going on a diet' or 'getting lean' or 'losing weight,' just be someone who lives well. That is it's own reward. Maybe you'll lose weight, maybe not, but I get the sense that your problems are manifested in more ways than just carrying a few lbs. No flame.
My ex has severe depression and once told me she can't find the motivation or the right mindset to do the things she knows she should (get out of bed, clean her house, etc). She's been that way for so long I suggested she give up lying there trying to generate the right mindset and just go through the motions of what she would be doing if she had that magical mindset, and after a week or two of having bills paid on time and a clean house I bet some optimism would arrive all on its own, without any mental wrestling being required at all.
Just go through the motions of living well for a few weeks Av, even if you can't think of a reason to do it. What have you got to lose?
it's harder than that. When individuals cant find the way out of their despair alone, they need someone else to accompany em.
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You need significant relationships with other people, you are too self centered and spend too much time on the internet , which you are addicted to. I guess you have no opportunities to be in contact with other human beings in your daily life but this is what you truly need. When you have no relationships, life has no taste at all anymore. Relationships give a taste to life and feelings. No relationships = no physical stimulation and development of the brain, of emotions. Our brain develops itself when we are with others -not virtual people- real people. If we arent, it ceases to develop, as do feelings and emotions, everything becomes darker and darker.
You should fall in love with someone, get an education, a job... And you should consult a psychologist, they re for people who suffer psychologically even if they look "normal" from the outside.
The roots of your psychological dizziness are in your childhood and the way you interacted with your parents and family. Only a big and deep comeback in this past with a professionnal can have an influence on your present and future. You have to modify your cognitions and behaviors. At 44, this will be a huge task, but you have nothing else to do anyway. There's no escape from this, so just do it once for all. Your survival is in question at this point. You have to un-learn, and re-learn more appropriate ways of thinking and acting.
If you do not have/develop meaningful relationships your despair will increase. We are nothing without the others. I'm not saying you need to party with people you dont know everyday, these relationships you have to develop have to be constant, deep and reciprocal.
Your life is grey, you need to put some colors in it.
You are not going to find this on an internet message board. Get REAL help. The attention whoring doesnt solve the issue at all either. But it's a clear call for help whatever the way you look at it.
By the way, you re in no way unique or alone. People like you are more and more numerous especially in our modern societies. You lack some basics and you have to learn em , even if you're 44. You have to re-start your development, right now you re obviously immature, even if you're 44 it doesnt mean shit, and you have to become mature with the help of a professionnal. There are people who spend their whole life and die with an underdeveloped conception of the world, why they re here, why the other are here, and how we are suposed to interact with each others. Most of the time a good education from your parents or from some mentors of resiliency/development, some teachers, can lead you back in life.
good lord man, shut up and get over yourself
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good lord man, shut up and get over yourself
good luck ;)
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Well, at least you're honest however you really shouldn't beat up on yourself. Self degradation only leads to further physical and mental problems.
lol look who's talking. You know what you're talking about obviously!
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it's harder than that. When individuals cant find the way out of their despair alone, they need someone else to accompany em.
Perhaps, but the important thing is that she's going to be someone else's problem.
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just eat the kale green sandwiches like i told you, dont STRESS about leans, No need to write out creative dramas here leave that to me to set mothermcnickwiggers straight in spirituality and politics as well a joint effort in technology shared by brother Rami
You should maybe kill him, too.
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Perhaps, but the important thing is that she's going to be someone else's problem.
who doesnt have problems? What if everyone who see you as "problematic" rejects you and never tries to help you overcome your "problems" ?
We re here to help other people -who matter and give as much as they receive, not lost causes- this is the only way for everyone to evolve and find fullfillment.
We are meant to complete each others, when possible and beneficial to both.
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You need significant relationships with other people, you are too self centered and spend too much time on the internet , which you are addicted to. I guess you have no opportunities to be in contact with other human beings in your daily life but this is what you truly need. When you have no relationships, life has no taste at all anymore. Relationships give a taste to life and feelings. No relationships = no physical stimulation and development of the brain, of emotions. Our brain develops itself when we are with others -not virtual people- real people. If we arent, it ceases to develop, as do feelings and emotions, everything becomes darker and darker.
You should fall in love with someone, get an education, a job... And you should consult a psychologist, they re for people who suffer psychologically even if they look "normal" from the outside.
The roots of your psychological dizziness are in your childhood and the way you interacted with your parents and family. Only a big and deep comeback in this past with a professionnal can have an influence on your present and future. You have to modify your cognitions and behaviors. At 44, this will be a huge task, but you have nothing else to do anyway. There's no escape from this, so just do it once for all. Your survival is in question at this point. You have to un-learn, and re-learn more appropriate ways of thinking and acting.
If you do not have/develop meaningful relationships your despair will increase. We are nothing without the others. I'm not saying you need to party with people you dont know everyday, these relationships you have to develop have to be constant, deep and reciprocal.
Your life is grey, you need to put some colors in it.
You are not going to find this on an internet message board. Get REAL help. The attention whoring doesnt solve the issue at all either. But it's a clear call for help whatever the way you look at it.
By the way, you re in no way unique or alone. People like you are more and more numerous especially in our modern societies. You lack some basics and you have to learn em , even if you're 44. You have to re-start your development, right now you re obviously immature, even if you're 44 it doesnt mean shit, and you have to become mature with the help of a professionnal. There are people who spend their whole life and die with an underdeveloped conception of the world, why they re here, why the other are here, and how we are suposed to interact with each others. Most of the time a good education, from your parents or from some mentors of resiliency/development, some teachers, can lead you back fullforce in life. Find these people and dont care about "what the other may say or think", these people dont care about you, they only care about themselves and you should do the same. People who truly care about you will only advise you to seek help from a pro.
Excellent post. Articulating sound advice based on rational meaningful thought should be appreciated. Instead you respond "good lord get over yourself." I don't see any hint in this post of self indulgence or grandstanding. It's clear to me it's you that is showing an inability to move past your own ego to see the value in what some actual intellectuals have to say on the board. Adonis may copy and paste facts to support his claims but he clearly has the ability to illustrate his own thought process and opinion based on the facts he presents. Uber, in my opinion, is also a well educated individual.
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who doesnt have problems? What if everyone who see you as "problematic" rejects you and never tries to help you overcome your "problems" ?
We re here to help other people -who matter and give as much as they receive, not lost causes- this is the only way for everyone to evolve and find fullfillment.
We are meant to complete each others, when possible and beneficial to both.
Are you saying you want me to set you kids up?
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Are you saying you want me to set you kids up?
I'm up for it Tape.
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I'm up for it Tape.
Haha, you say that now! Muwahahahaha!!!
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My ex has severe depression and once told me she can't find the motivation or the right mindset to do the things she knows she should (get out of bed, clean her house, etc). She's been that way for so long I suggested she give up lying there trying to generate the right mindset and just go through the motions of what she would be doing if she had that magical mindset, and after a week or two of having bills paid on time and a clean house I bet some optimism would arrive all on its own, without any mental wrestling being required at all.
very sage advice!! :)
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I've had a number of friends with problems somewhat similar to the problems expressed by Disturbia.
I've always suggested professional help such as mentioned by Uberman.
But in each case that suggestion was not accepted until the individual literally hit the bottom.
The bottom for two of these friends was extended jail sentences.
And the bottom for a third friend was an initial attempt at suicide and then a final & successful one.
And the one individual who accepted consuling is now a counsilor himself with a full time job speaking to high school kids with similar problems.
One interesting point here ...... Most of these HS kids who need help refuse to acknowledge that help is needed for a variety of reasons (the main reason that they dont want to be singled out as the individual with the problem), so he initiated a "plan" to offer counsiling to a wide variety of HS kids with the real kids who needed guidance as his main concern.
And during group discussions those kids with the problems eventually got with the program and opened up and were more than agreeable for further attention.
I think Uberman offered some good advice.
OTOH, some people consider their problem as a "badge of honor' and will refuse to accept any help of any kind unless it's in the form of a check in the mail each month.
Pellus, long story here, but I probably did some related work with more than a few prison imates you may be familiar with. I'll go into that story later if there is any interest.
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And the one individual who accepted consuling is now a counsilor himself with a full time job speaking to high school kids with similar problems.
One interesting point here ...... Most of these HS kids who need help refuse to acknowledge that help is needed for a variety of reasons (the main reason that they dont want to be singled out as the individual with the problem), so he initiated a "plan" to offer counsiling to a wide variety of HS kids with the real kids who needed guidance as his main concern.
And during group discussions those kids with the problems eventually got with the program and opened up and were more than agreeable for further attention.
thats ingenius. sounds like a cool dude
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So people on here ask why I dont try to achieve the look I had before. Well first of all I am 44, but that is zero part of the reason. I am not driven by an inner force to be lean and look better. It makes zero difference to me that I carry this fat. My mental issues have been clearly stated and they play a role, but I find no reason or drive to look like that again. Also, I like to eat. There is little force in me to accomplish much in life to be honest. I am driven by outside forces, one of which IS NOT money. I wouldnt do shit for money, means nothing to me. If the day came when that elusive outside reason came for me to get lean, yeah it would probably happen. The only outside force that kind of gives me a little irk to do it is knowing how staggeringly much better I would look leaned out than Vince Goodrum. Yeah, that would be kinda sweet. I beak on here but I dont hate anyone except for 1 person and 1 only. Adonis. I could kill him, and not feel bad. Easily. I like getbig, its fun and entertaining.
But overall, I dont lean out because I am lazy, I have no inner drive, I require outside reasons to do something.
That guy in the middle looks like johhny falcon...Only leaner...
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for uberman,....I see regular counsellor and psychiatrist. You make it sound like I am not happy. As long as I dont have to work a regular job I'm the happiest character around. I'm lazy.
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good lord man, shut up and get over yourself
Actually, if you can get pass his personality, which is very hard to do, uber is one of the most insightful members on this board.
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What happened to that great thread about Goodrum the other day? Keith was in good form and had Melvin against the ropes. Then the thread vanished.
One of the mods is working overtime censoring and burying threads in other threads. What's up with that?
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for uberman,....I see regular counsellor and psychiatrist. You make it sound like I am not happy. As long as I dont have to work a regular job I'm the happiest character around. I'm lazy.
Let us hope you don't beat up on the counsellors and psychiatrist! Borderlines have a reputation for being difficult and often scare staff and patients at clinics, etc. The worst thing about being a borderline is your relationships suck because you are too difficult to get along with. Add not having a regular job and you have a recipe for being on your own.
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I dig that honesty
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This dude's got some inner demons for sure.....we all have to be honest....life, meh, they sold us a lie
just live it dude....do whatever makes you happy....
we'll all be dust in the wind one day
Gino
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You need significant relationships with other people, you are too self centered and spend too much time on the internet , which you are addicted to. I guess you have no opportunities to be in contact with other human beings in your daily life but this is what you truly need. When you have no relationships, life has no taste at all anymore. Relationships give a taste to life and feelings. No relationships = no physical stimulation and development of the brain, of emotions. Our brain develops itself when we are with others -not virtual people- real people. If we arent, it ceases to develop, as do feelings and emotions, everything becomes darker and darker.
You should fall in love with someone, get an education, a job... And you should consult a psychologist, they re for people who suffer psychologically even if they look "normal" from the outside.
The roots of your psychological dizziness are in your childhood and the way you interacted with your parents and family. Only a big and deep comeback in this past with a professionnal can have an influence on your present and future. You have to modify your cognitions and behaviors. At 44, this will be a huge task, but you have nothing else to do anyway. There's no escape from this, so just do it once for all. Your survival is in question at this point. You have to un-learn, and re-learn more appropriate ways of thinking and acting.
If you do not have/develop meaningful relationships your despair will increase. We are nothing without the others. I'm not saying you need to party with people you dont know everyday, these relationships you have to develop have to be constant, deep and reciprocal.
Your life is grey, you need to put some colors in it.
You are not going to find this on an internet message board. Get REAL help. The attention whoring doesnt solve the issue at all either. But it's a clear call for help whatever the way you look at it.
By the way, you re in no way unique or alone. People like you are more and more numerous especially in our modern societies. You lack some basics and you have to learn em , even if you're 44. You have to re-start your development, right now you re obviously immature, even if you're 44 it doesnt mean shit, and you have to become mature with the help of a professionnal. There are people who spend their whole life and die with an underdeveloped conception of the world, why they re here, why the other are here, and how we are suposed to interact with each others. Most of the time a good education, from your parents or from some mentors of resiliency/development, some teachers, can lead you back fullforce in life. Find these people and dont care about "what the other may say or think", these people dont care about you, they only care about themselves and you should do the same. People who truly care about you will only advise you to seek help from a pro.
holy shit....talk about a power post.....solid, just solid
who r u uberman?
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Anyone wanting to understand borderlines should look on the internet for BPD. If you did you wouldn't write what uberman wrote.
Borderlines have problems with relationships because they are easily upset and then they react. It is a disorder and those close to them might love them but it is rather challenging to be around them. You never know when they are going to be reactive and a guy like Josh who is a big bloke might be difficult to manage. What happens is they lose their friends. Girlfriends are unlikely to persist. So what happens is hapless Josh goes from gal to gal with nothing intimate or permanent. No wonder the dude get depressed. He might be lucky and be highly functional but the disorder is a worry to those around him. The sufferer often denies that there is anything wrong with him. The internet gives Josh a good way to make friends and communicate with them.
http://www.bpdcentral.com/index.php
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for uberman,....I see regular counsellor and psychiatrist. You make it sound like I am not happy. As long as I dont have to work a regular job I'm the happiest character around. I'm lazy.
Are you really happy just living off the government pay check? What does that say about you?? Yes Lazy is true but come on, people with severe disabilities still try and work...
Sounds like you have got yourself in a rut and cant be bothered to move yourself.
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Are you really happy just living off the government pay check? What does that say about you?? Yes Lazy is true but come on, people with severe disabilities still try and work...
Sounds like you have got yourself in a rut and cant be bothered to move yourself.
so let the disabled work, thats their choice
Would you rather me work and risk some innocent employer/employee get a filthy beating?
listen, this isn't like something I made up for my own recreation. BPD is an issue, not an excuse. Its not like depression where you can take some pill for serotonin. There is no pill for BPD.
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so let the disabled work, thats their choice
Would you rather me work and risk some innocent employer/employee get a filthy beating?
listen, this isn't like something I made up for my own recreation. BPD is an issue, not an excuse. Its not like depression where you can take some pill for serotonin. There is no pill for BPD.
Yes I would like to see you work. I do not think you go nuts on someone without a reason. If someone is a dick then we owe a person like you who stands up for the spineless who are scared to lose everything.
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Yep, there is no logical reason for some of the behaviour of borderlines. No matter how much you know about it you can't cure it or even totally understand it. That is why it is a mental disorder. If it were something sensible you could control and fix it. They go nuts for a 'reason' to them but I swear it won't seem reasonable to you or others who are around. If you are the victim of a borderline you will swear their behaviour made no sense at all.
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Yep, there is no logical reason for some of the behaviour of borderlines. No matter how much you know about it you can't cure it or even totally understand it. That is why it is a mental disorder. If it were something sensible you could control and fix it. They go nuts for a 'reason' to them but I swear it won't seem reasonable to you or others who are around. If you are the victim of a borderline you will swear their behaviour made no sense at all.
Not to be insensitive but this sounds like a load of bullshit. Josh is a grown man and is responsible for controlling himself, just like the rest of us.
"But he's not like the rest of us! He can't control himself!"
Then he constitutes a danger to others and shouldn't be out walking around, but I don't get that vibe from him. He reasons well, cracks jokes, etc. Imo he's been told by experts that there's something wrong with him for so long now that he no longer believes he can govern his actions when he gets emotional, which is false. This 'BPD' diagnosis is a self fulfilling prophesy, and it disempowers his ability to direct his own life.
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No, you are not a psychiatrist and shouldn't be diagnosing people re mental disorders. Even if you read the literature and think someone is mentally ill that doesn't mean he is. He must be diagnosed by a proper person who is professionally trained.
Josh could be a fairly functional borderline. So he goes about his day to day life without many problems. Some things will trigger outbursts and then he will have no control over his responses. Just because you can get along with others most of the time doesn't mean you are 100% healthy.
BPD is an insidious disorder. You can have 5 out of 9 symptoms and still have the disorder. Goodness knows what treatments are available. A good book to read is Stop Walking on Eggshells. You will have your eyes opened. Many sufferers have other disorders such as depression. They present and get treatment for depression but the BPD goes undiagnosed.
If you are in a relationship with a borderline you will end up swearing that you are the one who is nuts! If you fall in love with one then no one can help you! They have a discussion board on BPD Central for people related to or involved with borderlines. If you do some of the reading you won't make statements like you are here. About 5% of the population suffers from this disorder and most are female. Guys should read up to detect such people before marrying them!!
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No, you are not a psychiatrist and shouldn't be diagnosing people re mental disorders. Even if you read the literature and think someone is mentally ill that doesn't mean he is. He must be diagnosed by a proper person who is professionally trained.
Josh could be a fairly functional borderline. So he goes about his day to day life without many problems. Some things will trigger outbursts and then he will have no control over his responses. Just because you can get along with others most of the time doesn't mean you are 100% healthy.
BPD is an insidious disorder. You can have 5 out of 9 symptoms and still have the disorder. Goodness knows what treatments are available. A good book to read is Stop Walking on Eggshells. You will have your eyes opened. Many sufferers have other disorders such as depression. They present and get treatment for depression but the BPD goes undiagnosed.
If you are in a relationship with a borderline you will end up swearing that you are the one who is nuts! If you fall in love with one then no one can help you! They have a discussion board on BPD Central for people related to or involved with borderlines. If you do some of the reading you won't make statements like you are here. About 5% of the population suffers from this disorder and most are female. Guys should read up to detect such people before marrying them!! [/b]
I agree with Basile on the last paragraph my girlfriend has borderline BPD being with her for 4 years sometimes I think am going damn crazy because you tend to lose reality when you are around volitaile people day after day. Send a sane person to a insane asylum and they will become insane.
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No, you are not a psychiatrist and shouldn't be diagnosing people re mental disorders. Even if you read the literature and think someone is mentally ill that doesn't mean he is. He must be diagnosed by a proper person who is professionally trained.
Josh could be a fairly functional borderline. So he goes about his day to day life without many problems. Some things will trigger outbursts and then he will have no control over his responses. Just because you can get along with others most of the time doesn't mean you are 100% healthy.
BPD is an insidious disorder. You can have 5 out of 9 symptoms and still have the disorder. Goodness knows what treatments are available. A good book to read is Stop Walking on Eggshells. You will have your eyes opened. Many sufferers have other disorders such as depression. They present and get treatment for depression but the BPD goes undiagnosed.
If you are in a relationship with a borderline you will end up swearing that you are the one who is nuts! If you fall in love with one then no one can help you! They have a discussion board on BPD Central for people related to or involved with borderlines. If you do some of the reading you won't make statements like you are here. About 5% of the population suffers from this disorder and most are female. Guys should read up to detect such people before marrying them!!
What diagnosis? 3 opinions:
- A man is responsible for his actions.
- If you can't control yourself and you present a danger to others then you should be institutionalized.
- A bunch of head shrinkers have told Josh that trying to control his behavior when he gets mad is useless because he's 'sick,' so now he's even less willing to try.
If you disagree then address the issues. Just stop hijacking Josh's thread for the sake of exorcising the demons left to you by your ex wife. It's odd.
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Tapeworm
you are a good guy but really, shut up, you have absolutely no fucking clue what you are talking about.
Basile has full understanding of what is up with me.
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Hey, Josh, how come you ended up in Saskatchewan? Nice province but sheesh, those winters are long. I so hate the cold that I moved to Australia. My choice in Canada would be BC and probably Vancouver or Vancouver Island. Trouble is, it gets overcast a lot and rains a lot there. So that leaves Kamloops and the Okanagan. Nice places to live and the sunnier climate and nice scenery would be much better than the flat area you live in. It is nice along the river, though, so that is some compensation. I also prefer a larger city to a small one because there are more possibilities, etc.
Any thoughts, or are you sort of stuck there for the time being? It is always good to have some plans for the future and some direction to get you motivated.
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I think he might be paranoid or have paranoid tendancies. Everything he says tend to confirm this diagnostic. Basically he's saying that everyday when surrounded by random people, he feels threatened by them, and feel the need to "react" physically, like his survival is in question. That's because he has to work on his own perception of himself and the others. He sees everyone as cynical, ironical, ill intentioned toward him. This is typical of people who have been bullied , it's a kind of post traumatic stress disorder. Every new real life situation is like going thru the same trauma over and over, and he chooses to stay at home and avoid everything / and every real relationships fearing to reproduce the past conflictual situation he's been through. Every new situation looks like the past problematic situation(s), his present tastes like his past, his futur has to be like his past it cannot be otherwise; he projects his past over his present, and future unconsciously. There's never anything new in his life. It's been a long time since he discovered new feelings, emotions, now he fears them and prevent himself from doing what could make new things happen to him again anymore. It's a vicious circle. The only way to get out of it is to learn how to see himself and the others differently in a close relationship with a pro. To modify his own perception of the world, his own psychological machinery, his thought process. His current thought process is biased, unproductive, depressing, and potentially life threatening to himself and others.
The problem is that extreme avoidance and addiction to the internet dont go hand in hand well... He has a lot of work to find a way out of all these negative behaviors and cognitions. He obviously has a poor/low self esteem, is insecure, and dont want to work cause he would feel threatened by his colleagues and the hierarchy who might see him as immature being 44 y/o with no skills and only starting to learn a job for the first time in his life. Laziness is a pure trait of immaturiry, of a stopped development. He has to learn things he never learnt, things he lacks.
Replace 44 y/o with 16 y/o and his stories could describe the life of any random teen without a figure father who struggles to find a meaning to his own existence and the others ones.
There's always a way to reverse everything, without pills,just talking with someone who truly cares - either someone you love/loves you or someone you pay in return - a pro. The more you wait the tougher it gets.
Oh, and by the way, dump your psychiatrist, and get a PSYCHOLOGIST.... not the same at all. Psychologists are way more competent.
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That analysis doesn't jive with what I have read of Josh. He has friends but the intimacy isn't there. Usually, with women, if they are frightened by you in any way they don't develop a deep relationship with you. There was hapless Josh, interviewing a hot gal for the lads here that he knows but even though she likes him she won't be his girlfriend. So what is a guy with BPD supposed to do? Once you know what is wrong with you it still doesn't help you because you can't control or modify the way your brain is wired and certain people and situations trigger emotional responses. I think part of what happens is that there was usually some traumatic experience in childhood that has been repressed and in a sense borderlines don't develop empathy re the feelings of others. They feel empty inside and blame themselves for what happens to them and this self anger can lead to depression. When that happens the sufferer has a double whammy and who wants to be around those kind of people?
I have known a couple of people with the disorder and it was a challenge to be in a relationship with them. Even after I had read a lot of information it didn't help. Why? Well, mental illness is not something that those who don't suffer from it can comprehend. When you deal with these people and they turn on you time after time you end up getting the feeling that it is just craziness because it never makes sense. Not when you are personally involved. Borderlines don't like being that way but there is nothing they can do about it. Sometimes therapy helps and time helps. But like most mental disorders they are very difficult to manage and even more difficult to cure.
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Tapeworm
you are a good guy but really, shut up, you have absolutely no fucking clue what you are talking about.
Basile has full understanding of what is up with me.
Fair enough dude. Just wanted to state the obvious that you are the architect of your life, not some bangladeshi doctor.
I shut it up now.
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best post
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Interesting to see a group of GetBiggers trying their best to come to the aid of a fellow GetBigger. That rarely happens here.
I know nothing about the subject matter in question but I was always under the 'assumption' that most illnesses such as this were a result of some adverse childhood activities/experiences.
Is this 'assumption' valid in your young life experiences/upbringing, Disturbia?
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Interesting to see a group of GetBiggers trying their best to come to the aid of a fellow GetBigger. That rarely happens here.
I know nothing about the subject matter in question but I was always under the 'assumption' that most illnesses such as this were a result of some adverse childhood activities/experiences.
Is this 'assumption' valid in your young life experiences/upbringing, Disturbia?
yes I actually am overwhelmed and greatly appreciate everyones thoughts and input--seriously
from my upbringing? I'd have to think on this and reply later--just stepping out
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WHERE YOU GOING?
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Just DIE and get it over with ::)
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Interesting to see a group of GetBiggers trying their best to come to the aid of a fellow GetBigger. That rarely happens here.
I know nothing about the subject matter in question but I was always under the 'assumption' that most illnesses such as this were a result of some adverse childhood activities/experiences.
Is this 'assumption' valid in your young life experiences/upbringing, Disturbia?
Unfortunately much of this is genetic, though risk factors in socio-economic status and upbringing may increase the severity of the symptoms.
Besides that, most personality disorders are co-morbid: there are one or more other mental disorders beside the primairy diagnosis, in Avesher's case (bi-polar?) depression.
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I think he might be paranoid or have paranoid tendancies. Everything he says tend to confirm this diagnostic. Basically he's saying that everyday when surrounded by random people, he feels threatened by them, and feel the need to "react" physically, like his survival is in question. That's because he has to work on his own perception of himself and the others. He sees everyone as cynical, ironical, ill intentioned toward him. This is typical of people who have been bullied , it's a kind of post traumatic stress disorder. Every new real life situation is like going thru the same trauma over and over, and he chooses to stay at home and avoid everything / and every real relationships fearing to reproduce the past conflictual situation he's been through. Every new situation looks like the past problematic situation(s), his present tastes like his past, his futur has to be like his past it cannot be otherwise; he projects his past over his present, and future unconsciously. There's never anything new in his life. It's been a long time since he discovered new feelings, emotions, now he fears them and prevent himself from doing what could make new things happen to him again anymore. It's a vicious circle. The only way to get out of it is to learn how to see himself and the others differently in a close relationship with a pro. To modify his own perception of the world, his own psychological machinery, his thought process. His current thought process is biased, unproductive, depressing, and potentially life threatening to himself and others.
The problem is that extreme avoidance and addiction to the internet dont go hand in hand well... He has a lot of work to find a way out of all these negative behaviors and cognitions. He obviously has a poor/low self esteem, is insecure, and dont want to work cause he would feel threatened by his colleagues and the hierarchy who might see him as immature being 44 y/o with no skills and only starting to learn a job for the first time in his life. Laziness is a pure trait of immaturiry, of a stopped development. He has to learn things he never learnt, things he lacks.
Replace 44 y/o with 16 y/o and his stories could describe the life of any random teen without a figure father who struggles to find a meaning to his own existence and the others ones.
There's always a way to reverse everything, without pills,just talking with someone who truly cares - either someone you love/loves you or someone you pay in return - a pro. The more you wait the tougher it gets.
Oh, and by the way, dump your psychiatrist, and get a PSYCHOLOGIST.... not the same at all. Psychologists are way more competent.
It's perfectly fine to have this kaleidoscope of mis-guided views, but don't distribute them as if they're absolute truths.
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YGM. How about you?
YGM what is that?
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Nahhhh! Absolute truths are hard to come by here on GetBig. But I'm reading a lot of good, unprofessional shit from you guys about this subject.
I had a hell of life as a young kid and I often wonder why I'm not more fucked up that I actually am.
I play Poker with 'shrinks' a few times each month and I've discovered that all my problems have been a result of my up-bringing, but I don't know if that's true for Josh or any of you other GetBiggers. (From what I've see, some of you appear certifiably insane though.)
I do know that I am good at mentally creating peacefulness within myself under hostile conditions by becoming someone other than whom I am.. I can best describe that by saying that I become someone else - such as a favorite comic book character or super-hero within my own mind
And I've done this while under adverse conditions ..... and although is sounds crazy I can honestly state that it has always worked.
There is a psychiatric term for this small part of craziness, but I forget what it's called.
All a result of my childhood years in a very complicated situation.
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maybe derek Anthony can help us to find an answer.
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Uberman seems to be one of a few GetBiggers who offers sound advice so I looked this one up ..... because I had no idea what such a person (Dr.) was....
Psychologists study mental processes and human behavior by observing, interpreting, and recording how people and other animals relate to one another and the environment. To do this, psychologists often look for patterns that will help them understand and predict behavior using scientific methods, principles, or procedures to test their ideas. Through such research studies, psychologists have learned much that can help increase understanding between individuals, groups, organizations, institutions, nations, and cultures.
Like other social scientists, psychologists formulate theories, or hypotheses, which are possible explanations for what they observe. But unlike other social science disciplines, psychologists often concentrate on individual behavior and, specifically, in the beliefs and feelings that influence a person’s actions.
If the shoe fits, wear it!
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Nahhhh! Absolute truths are hard to come by here on GetBig. But I'm reading a lot of good, unprofessional shit from you guys about this subject.
I had a hell of life as a young kid and I often wonder why I'm not more fucked up that I actually am.
I play Poker with 'shrinks' a few times each month and I've discovered that all my problems have been a result of my up-bringing, but I don't know if that's true for Josh or any of you other GetBiggers. (From what I've see, some of you appear certifiably insane though.)
I do know that I am good at mentally creating peacefulness within myself under hostile conditions by becoming someone other than whom I am.. I can best describe that by saying that I become someone else - such as a favorite comic book character or super-hero within my own mind
And I've done this while under adverse conditions ..... and although is sounds crazy I can honestly state that it has always worked.
There is a psychiatric term for this small part of craziness, but I forget what it's called.
All a result of my childhood years in a very complicated situation.
Nice post, childhood is most always the problem.
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oh I'm sorry I'm just thinking out loud, daydreaming
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is it just because hes arrogant?
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You really don't like him, do you?! LOL
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is it just because hes arrogant?
yup
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Aveseher - would you fight him if you were face to face?
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Aveseher - would you fight him if you were face to face?
lolol
guess
out of all the yipping I do on here which is just that--yipping
I would take a 2 year prison term GLADLY for one shot to stick him in the hospital---easy tradeoff
no one else on here, not Vince G., no one else do I feel that way
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lolol
guess
out of all the yipping I do on here which is just that--yipping
I would take a 2 year prison term GLADLY for one shot to stick him in the hospital---easy tradeoff
no one else on here, not Vince G., no one else do I feel that way
Settle down bro Adonis isnt that bad is he?
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lolol
guess
out of all the yipping I do on here which is just that--yipping
I would take a 2 year prison term GLADLY for one shot to stick him in the hospital---easy tradeoff
no one else on here, not Vince G., no one else do I feel that way
This could be epic
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This could be epic
no it wont he is in the States I am in Canada--I cant cross borders--end of case.
HOWEVER--if I could cross borders, I 100% WOULD spend money to travel there for just one shot. I absolutely would. omfg I sooooo would. I'd crawl across a desert on my tongue for that one shot.
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no it wont he is in the States I am in Canada--I cant cross borders--end of case.
HOWEVER--if I could cross borders, I 100% WOULD spend money to travel there for just one shot. I absolutely would. omfg I sooooo would. I'd crawl across a desert on my tongue for that one shot.
Gloves or bare fist?
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Gloves or bare fist?
(http://www.baseballrampage.com/productphotos/2026_1_display.jpg)
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no it wont he is in the States I am in Canada--I cant cross borders--end of case.
HOWEVER--if I could cross borders, I 100% WOULD spend money to travel there for just one shot. I absolutely would. omfg I sooooo would. I'd crawl across a desert on my tongue for that one shot.
US borders suck...you don't mind servin time anyway, right? Me thinks he live in some redneck hillbilly town near the PaintcanWaddy
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It's not cool to get peoples hopes up like that.
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Its too bad... the man was a legend.
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uberman, since you're pretty much the smartest guy here can you indulge us with your analysis of disturbia's utter hatred of TA? Is there something more to it? It there something symbolic that TA represents that elicits such violent contempt? Don't get me wrong, I hate TA just as much as the next guy. I have an intense dislike for pretentious, psuedo intellectuals and wouldn't mind punching him in the mouth and throwing him in the trash can. And knowing that TA wouldn't and couldn't defend himself might endear me to the lovely Jeezlebelle once I expose him as the candy ass pussy that he is. But I don't think I want to kill him. I mean, he has attained that lofty Falconia state of epic leans and that should count for something.
BTW, speaking of the Falcon, I'm not sure if you were on this board when the Falcon, during his DaddyWaddy days, was somewhat normal, but, if you are ever sufficiently inspired, an in depth character analysis of our Kale eating paint sniffer would prove very interesting.
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Pellius, Disturbia ..... I think that the vast majority of GetBiggers also despise TA but are not as honest as you guys are to express their real feelings in a public forum.
In my case, I'm just too damn polite and would never consider kicking a dog when he's down.
Disturbia .... Any upbringing situations that caused your present situation.
Your's is an all-around, interesting case study here because in my opinion the photo you posted presents a different personality.
Can you also expound on "arrogant" as mentioned earlier.
Thanks for all this honesty.