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Title: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Stark on May 12, 2010, 05:09:17 AM
I am married now 2 years, and my wife has not changed one bit, she is still the woman that I fell in love with 5 years ago.
She still hops on my lap in the morning and demands a kiss, she still makes my laugh and she still tries to give me lifting advice :D

In short either I am incredible lucky or the the rest of you guys (including 240) are just trying to be a little bit over the top.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: affeman on May 12, 2010, 05:12:00 AM
Have fun whiping her ass and change her diapers in 40 or so years.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: webcake on May 12, 2010, 05:15:05 AM
whiping ass sounds alright
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Stark on May 12, 2010, 05:17:16 AM
Have fun whiping her ass and change her diapers in 40 or so years.

mate she is 27 I am 35 by all standarts she will be wiping my ass in 40 years time, statistically speaking mens live expectancy is way lower than that of woman.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Tapeworm on May 12, 2010, 05:21:51 AM
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: dov on May 12, 2010, 07:22:11 AM
It's not just GBr's who regret getting married. Divorce rate in America is 60%....those are not even counting those who put up with bullshit n stay married
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: newmom on May 12, 2010, 07:24:05 AM
Never been married, but I see good and bad marriages. I guess I live in lala land and don't think marriages should be a ton of work. But then again WTF do I know
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: YngiweRhoads on May 12, 2010, 07:26:12 AM
Marriage is unnatural, or rather, monogamy is.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: devilsmile on May 12, 2010, 07:29:50 AM
You know, in the old days they were making human sacrifices  on the "altar"...which was the  good way I might add

my relatives are supposingly so christian and good people, going to the house ofbastard god to get married 3 times.

everyone should have their blood poured there  :D
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: ChristopherA on May 12, 2010, 07:31:19 AM
I am married now 2 years, and my wife has not changed one bit, she is still the woman that I fell in love with 5 years ago.
She still hops on my lap in the morning and demands a kiss, she still makes my laugh and she still tries to give me lifting advice :D

In short either I am incredible lucky or the the rest of you guys (including 240) are just trying to be a little bit over the top.
Dont regret getting married because I got my son now but marriage just didnt work out. At the time I thought it was what I was sopposed to do at my age. Get married, have kids, blah blah blah. Being single is great, I am 33 and wont ever get married again!
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: devilsmile on May 12, 2010, 07:33:49 AM
Never been married, but I see good and bad marriages. I guess I live in lala land and don't think marriages should be a ton of work. But then again WTF do I know

you're the closest to the truth after me here
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: newmom on May 12, 2010, 07:36:11 AM
you're the closest to the truth after me here

in the words of Alex, WYSISYG. That is me.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Tre on May 12, 2010, 07:37:47 AM
I guess I live in lala land and don't think marriages should be a ton of work.

QFT

Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: newmom on May 12, 2010, 07:42:05 AM
QFT



Tre to which part
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: James28 on May 12, 2010, 07:44:52 AM
Personally cannot wait to get married to my future wife. I have this believe that you cannot be equals in marriage or 'love', one always has to set the way and rule, if you will. I would love to let her take the lead but her head gets all over the fucking place and she develops an attitude. Therefore, I've taken it upon myself to whip her back into place the moment she crosses a certain line set in the near distance. Women are like dogs, teach them not to piss all over you and you have a best friend for life.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: newmom on May 12, 2010, 07:45:50 AM
Personally cannot wait to get married to my future wife. I have this believe that you cannot be equals in marriage or 'love', one always has to set the way and rule, if you will. I would love to let her take the lead but her head gets all over the fucking place and she develops an attitude. Therefore, I've taken it upon myself to whip her back into place the moment she crosses a certain line set in the near distance. Women are like dogs, teach them not to piss all over you and you have a best friend for life.

Where do I begin lol
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Oldschool Flip on May 12, 2010, 07:47:21 AM
Because most getbiggers are guys that don't give a fuck about anybody but themselves. Most bodybuilders are that way.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Tre on May 12, 2010, 07:48:03 AM
Tre to which part

 ;D

Actually, truth be told, I'm in lala land, too. 
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: newmom on May 12, 2010, 07:48:31 AM
Most bodybuilders are that way.

Now that my friend is QFT, but so are most men
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: newmom on May 12, 2010, 07:49:07 AM
;D

Actually, truth be told, I'm in lala land, too. 


Awwww, scoring points Tre (I bet you will sleep well tonight knowing that ;D)
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: YngiweRhoads on May 12, 2010, 07:51:08 AM
Now that my friend is QFT, but so are most men people

fixed
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: newmom on May 12, 2010, 07:54:16 AM
fixed

yes Most are, including the women but IMO its more men than anything
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: YngiweRhoads on May 12, 2010, 08:04:48 AM
yes Most are, including the women but IMO its more men than anything

Estrogen's a hell of a hormone.

http://www.mastersofhealthcare.com/blog/2009/10-big-differences-between-mens-and-womens-brains/

Men are more apt to have dyslexia or other language problems. Women, on the other hand, are more susceptible to mood disorders such as depression and anxiety.

It's well documented that men are driven by logic and women, conversely, by their emotions.

Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Stark on May 12, 2010, 08:57:38 AM
Never been married, but I see good and bad marriages. I guess I live in lala land and don't think marriages should be a ton of work. But then again WTF do I know

I know this is a bold statement but I think specificly american but also other people get married for the wrong reason.
You only have to see what the average couple in ireland pays for a wedding - 20k upwards is the norm, most take an extra loan or morgage to pay for their wedding - isn't that just fucking ridicules - and most of them are fucking horrible cheesy.
It might take a little extra work to create a good wedding but it pays of at the end (pun intended).
But my theory in life is anyways that way over 80% of the gen population lack brain power and are just not smart.

I meet a guy a few years back who said he saved for 10 years to buy a house, he finds a girl and gets married to her in a matter of a couple off month, before he knew it all his savings were spend on a lavish wedding - why the fuck?
I mean its one friggen day, you wake up next morning with a hangover and say to yourself - Holy fuck I just spend 20k on one day.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: The True Adonis on May 12, 2010, 09:01:48 AM
I know this is a bold statement but I think specificly american but also other people get married for the wrong reason.
You only have to see what the average couple in ireland pays for a wedding - 20k upwards is the norm, most take an extra loan or morgage to pay for their wedding - isn't that just fucking ridicules - and most of them are fucking horrible cheesy.
It might take a little extra work to create a good wedding but it pays of at the end (pun intended).
But my theory in life is anyways that way over 80% of the gen population lack brain power and are just not smart.

I meet a guy a few years back who said he saved for 10 years to buy a house, he finds a girl and gets married to her in a matter of a couple off month, before he knew it all his savings were spend on a lavish wedding - why the fuck?
I mean its one friggen day, you wake up next morning with a hangover and say to yourself - Holy fuck I just spend 20k on one day.
What is the point of a wedding?  Weddings are for stupid shitbrains.  Take the money and invest it instead.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Stark on May 12, 2010, 09:04:05 AM
What is the point of a wedding?  Weddings are for stupid shitbrains.  Take the money and invest it instead.

Thats what I mean, you don't get married for the sake of it or for the wedding, the smart thing is to get married because of tax and other reasons.
If you truly love somebody and feel you get the same back no problem get married, but half of the people I know who got a devorce if you ask them
to think back if they had any doubt before they got married, they say yes.;
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: James28 on May 12, 2010, 09:14:49 AM
I would LOVE to be able to go into a register office (what we call them here in UK) and get hitched that way. £40 for the ceremony, £8 for two marriage certificates are you're the fuck out of there. But no, she wants to drop 20k on the damned thing and eat into her own inheritance. Saying that, her father is paying for everything and quite wealthy so I suppose it's not a dent in my wallet. It just kills me thinking about the things we could've done with the money instead. A 3 month world trip as a honeymoon on that money sounds far better than a bloody party where you don't know half the guests and most people just being there to get baked for free.  ::)
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: newmom on May 12, 2010, 10:12:09 AM
I would LOVE to be able to go into a register office (what we call them here in UK) and get hitched that way. £40 for the ceremony, £8 for two marriage certificates are you're the fuck out of there. But no, she wants to drop 20k on the damned thing and eat into her own inheritance. Saying that, her father is paying for everything and quite wealthy so I suppose it's not a dent in my wallet. It just kills me thinking about the things we could've done with the money instead. A 3 month world trip as a honeymoon on that money sounds far better than a bloody party where you don't know half the guests and most people just being there to get baked for free.  ::)

EXACTLY have the honeymoon of a lifetime
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Kwon on May 12, 2010, 10:36:38 AM
I am married now 2 years, and my wife has not changed one bit, she is still the woman that I fell in love with 5 years ago.
She still hops on my lap in the morning and demands a kiss, she still makes my laugh and she still tries to give me lifting advice :D

In short either I am incredible lucky or the the rest of you guys (including 240) are just trying to be a little bit over the top.

You are the lucky one.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: dustin on May 12, 2010, 10:56:06 AM
I'm a logic driven cynic, but I'm excited to get married. Felt the same as all the other depressed assholes until I met a woman who genuiniely changed my mind. No, I'm not in lust or confused with infatuation. She's woken up the Asian in me, and I've begun to appreciate the union of two people who want to bang exclusively... err, join hands in holy matrimony lol

We own a house together which is a huge thing out of the way. No joint account because she's finishing her registered nursing program first and just does care aid work when we need disposable income, so we've worked out a lot of challenges in the money area. We're pretty well off for a couple of kids who aren't even married yet, but our engagement ceremony was so massive it already feels like we're married.

Never intended on spending 8 grand on wedding photos or anything like that, but I can appreciate the fact that Asian weddings are a big thing so I suck it up and throw cash down without being cranky. Our guests will give us a ton of cash which will at least pay for their food, the venue and other expensizes so I'm excited. My fiance surprisingly asked me if I wanted to go balls to the wall and juice hard to freak out her relatives too. She's got a great family and great sense of humor. If we ever did split up then it'd kill me not seeing her family all the time.


Get married for the right reasons nd not because you've just been banging for a long consecutive amount of time. A lot of dopes rush it or get married before addressing deeply rooted issues in their relationship and they're aren't both willing to fight for their marriage. You shouldn't get married unless you're doing it with a person worth fighting tooth and nail for. It should go without saying, but look at the crazy divorce rates in North America. Its pitiful.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: The Showstoppa on May 12, 2010, 10:57:57 AM
A large portion of them, Team Nascar El Nobody for example, are just pissed that their "unions" aren't recognized by the states they live in. 
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Captain Equipoise on May 12, 2010, 11:03:40 AM
Personally cannot wait to get married to my future wife. I have this believe that you cannot be equals in marriage or 'love', one always has to set the way and rule, if you will. I would love to let her take the lead but her head gets all over the fucking place and she develops an attitude. Therefore, I've taken it upon myself to whip her back into place the moment she crosses a certain line set in the near distance. Women are like dogs, teach them not to piss all over you and you have a best friend for life.

Sad but true.. you have to give them a check about once every month or two..keep them in line..

Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: James28 on May 12, 2010, 02:04:46 PM
Had to give her a verbal lashing just now.  :'(

She threw water all over my PC in an argument a few months back and promised to buy me a new one when she cooled off. I told her not to worry about it and bought one myself. The RAM played up and I sent it back for some new sticks. It came today. She saw the packaging and flew into a fit about me wasting money. Notice, she didn't ask what it was, she just assumed I drop a hundred bucks on something and lashed out.

Had to put the gal back into her place. She just made me some tea and is baking a lemon cake.  ;D

Someone is feel sorry.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: ThaRealist on May 12, 2010, 02:18:01 PM
Been married, now divorced...I still never seen the point in the big wedding and all the other BS that comes with it...Hey, if you got a great gal and things are as close to perfect for you two than go for it...Although, in the next 10 years you're goin to see the divorce rate go up even higher than what it is now...To many kids gettin married during puppy love and have no idea how to grow together...In the world we live in now, someone can re-create themselves at almost any age...
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: BIG ACH on May 12, 2010, 02:36:18 PM
I'll be married 4 years this June to a girl I met when I was 14 years old (27 now) and wanted ever since!  Best thing I have ever done in my life!


I wanted a small wedding with like 15 people on a beach somewere...  My dad offered to pay for our wedding, and we ended up having 1,000 guests... I only knew like 10% of them.  It was a crazy party though, my closest friends from high school were there and we partied until 3 in the morning!  

Was so happy to be on that flight to our honeymoon though!


I busted a move baby!
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: newmom on May 12, 2010, 02:37:20 PM
I'll be married 4 years this June to a girl I met when I was 14 years old (27 now) and wanted ever since!  Best thing I have ever done in my life!


I wanted a small wedding with like 15 people on a beach somewere...  My dad offered to pay for our wedding, and we ended up having 1,000 guests... I only knew like 10% of them.  It was a crazy party though, my closest friends from high school were there and we partied until 3 in the morning! 

Was so happy to be on that flight to our honeymoon though!


I busted a move baby!

awwwwww that is a sweet story, nice moves Big
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: BIG ACH on May 12, 2010, 02:38:13 PM
awwwwww that is a sweet story, nice moves Big

I was Jammin to BILLY JEAN!!!  Looks awesome on Video, hahahahaha!
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: dr.chimps on May 12, 2010, 02:39:56 PM
I'm a logic driven cynic, but I'm excited to get married. Felt the same as all the other depressed assholes until I met a woman who genuiniely changed my mind. No, I'm not in lust or confused with infatuation. She's woken up the Asian in me, and I've begun to appreciate the union of two people who want to bang exclusively... err, join hands in holy matrimony lol
Brought out the terrible driver in you?  ;D
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: BIG ACH on May 12, 2010, 02:45:16 PM
Brought out the terrible driver in you?  ;D

AHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH!

Reminds me, one of my best friends is this American Jewish guy, he ended up marrying a chinese girl!

Their kid's name will be AWESOME!
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: dustin on May 12, 2010, 02:51:05 PM
Brought out the terrible driver in you?  ;D

Hahahah you mutha fucker!! Hahahahaha I'm actually still laughing as I type this. ;D

For the record, I'm only half Asian. Never been in an accident but if I do, I've promised everyone to perform seppuku (ritual suicide by disembowelment). It shames me to say that the thing about Asian driver's is completely true. I don't know why, but they just don't give a fuck when they're behind the wheel. They pay no attention, but whenever my family members drive me somewhere (only if I'm pissed drunk) I give them the backseat driver scolding of a lifetime.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: MindSpin on May 12, 2010, 02:52:27 PM
What is the point of a wedding?  Weddings are for stupid shitbrains.  Take the money and invest it instead.

Wow...one smart thing coming form you :o When we got married, we invited close friends & family and spent a grand total of $5,000.  We bought a house with the little money we had saved at the time.

My beautiful wife :D

Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: BIG ACH on May 12, 2010, 02:54:50 PM

WHO DRINKS A PROTEIN SHAKE AT THEIR WEDDING?.... I DO!!!!!

Can't go Catabolic now!

Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: clued-up on May 12, 2010, 02:55:43 PM
My beautiful wife :D

(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=330483.0;attach=371540;image)

Your wife is gorgeous.. well done.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: YngiweRhoads on May 12, 2010, 02:59:47 PM
Had to put the gal back into her place.

Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: newmom on May 12, 2010, 03:01:31 PM
Mindspin, very pretty wife
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: johnnynoname on May 12, 2010, 03:02:44 PM
listen, marriage is AGAINST the law of Nature

fact of this matter is this.....


GOD (or, whatever controls the galaxies and planets) created "us" (human beings) as animals that can reason

However, we are animals none the less

As animals, our job (when you get down to the basics) is to go around a spread our seed as many times as we can AND NOT BE HELD DOWN

Now, around the dark ages, i think there was a shortage of people and morals went down (or some shit) and the church decided that it was time to use "GOD" as their "Enforcer".  That is, "if you don't get married, GOD will be mad at you!!!"

fact of the matter is that: GOD DOESN'T CARE IF YOU GET MARRIED OR NOT!!!

marriage is nothing more than a business contract
so, you don't have to marry for "Love"....just marry for money
thank you
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: BIG ACH on May 12, 2010, 03:04:36 PM
listen, marriage is AGAINST the law of Nature

fact of this matter is this.....


GOD (or, whatever controls the galaxies and planets) created "us" (human beings) as animals that can reason

However, we are animals none the less

As animals, our job (when you get down to the basics) is to go around a spread our seed as many times as we can AND NOT BE HELD DOWN

Now, around the dark ages, i think there was a shortage of people and morals went down (or some shit) and the church decided that it was time to use "GOD" as their "Enforcer".  That is, "if you don't get married, GOD will be mad at you!!!"

fact of the matter is that: GOD DOESN'T CARE IF YOU GET MARRIED OR NOT!!!

marriage is nothing more than a business contract
so, you don't have to marry for "Love"....just marry for money
thank you

Translation:  I can't get a girl to love me and settle down with me  ;D AHAHAHAHHAAH!
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: johnnynoname on May 12, 2010, 03:06:45 PM
Translation:  I can't get a girl to love me and settle down with me  ;D AHAHAHAHHAAH!


if you say so

to be honest, I kinda sorta like doing what I want, whenever I want, as many times as a want.

Also, as much as i like Vanilla Ice Cream, I know I would be sick of it if i ate it everyday
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: BIG ACH on May 12, 2010, 03:08:01 PM
if you say so

to be honest, I kinda sorta like doing what I want, whenever I want, as many times as a want.

Also, as much as i like Vanilla Ice Cream, I know I would be sick of it if i ate it everyday

I'm just busting your balls!  To each their own man, if you're happy, then you're happy!
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: ThaRealist on May 12, 2010, 03:11:48 PM
if you say so

to be honest, I kinda sorta like doing what I want, whenever I want, as many times as a want.

Also, as much as i like Vanilla Ice Cream, I know I would be sick of it if i ate it everyday

No truer of a word has ever been typed...
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: BIG ACH on May 12, 2010, 03:14:09 PM
Mindspin, very pretty wife

I agree congrats man!


Here's the lovely girl I suckered in lol  :D

(http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-sf2p/v45/157/71/32901756/n32901756_30314475_7940.jpg)
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: newmom on May 12, 2010, 03:16:34 PM
Big your wife is stunning. Love her flowers.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: johnnynoname on May 12, 2010, 03:16:54 PM
why is it that most middle easterners look like wops?
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: newmom on May 12, 2010, 03:17:34 PM
why is it that most middle easterners look like wops?

cuz us dago's rule the world, except for the greek ;D
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: BIG ACH on May 12, 2010, 03:17:55 PM
Thanks newmom!  Yeah the flowers were pretty unique!




Johnny - what is wops?
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: che on May 12, 2010, 03:18:28 PM
I'm happily married , I know Getbiggers won't believe me when I say this  but I fucked more than 200 chicks until I found the right one, my wedding cost me $ 450 ($150 wedding bands,$200 court fees,$100 @ Olive Garden) no engagement ring  ,$8000 vacation/honey moon.
My wife and my kid best things that ever happened to me .

  



Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: ThaRealist on May 12, 2010, 03:19:32 PM
Thanks newmom!  Yeah the flowers were pretty unique!




Johnny - what is wops?

Wiggers On Patrol
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: newmom on May 12, 2010, 03:20:35 PM
Wiggers On Patrol

LMAO that is the first
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: BIG ACH on May 12, 2010, 03:20:46 PM
Wiggers On Patrol

Still don't get it! LOL ?
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: dr.chimps on May 12, 2010, 03:21:14 PM
Big your wife is stunning. Love her flowers.
Lilies are for funerals.  ;)
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: johnnynoname on May 12, 2010, 03:21:45 PM
I know Getbiggers won't believe me when I say this  but I fucked more than 200 chicks

not to "ass kiss" but i know that number would be higher if you included girls you only got oral from as well, right?
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: MindSpin on May 12, 2010, 03:21:50 PM
Marriage is unnatural and there is little to no upside for the man.  And, any marriage that actually endures is anything but easy.  Before I got married, I didn't quite understand why so many people got hitched and why it was so important to women.  It wasn't until the very moment that my wife's father handed her to me during the wedding, that I actually got it.  This man was entrusting me with the well being of his little girl.  It would now be up to me to ensure that she be protected and cared for.  Is marriage necessary in order for this to happen?  Perhaps not.  But I know that it made her & her father feel happier, just as my daughters and I will, when I hand them over one day.  
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: newmom on May 12, 2010, 03:21:56 PM
I'm happily married , I know Getbiggers won't believe me when I say this  but I fucked more than 200 chicks until I found the right one, my wedding cost me $ 450 ($150 wedding bands,$200 court fees,$100 @ Olive Garden) no engagement ring  ,$8000 vacation/honey moon.
My wife and my kid best things that ever happened to me .

  





OMG some of those were not so good huh, remembering what you posted yesterday. Like I said, Id rather spend the money on the honeymoon. Sweet story and here I thought you were a dickhead
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Mr Nobody on May 12, 2010, 03:23:10 PM
not to "ass kiss" but i know that number would be higher if you included girls you only got oral from as well, right?
Bill Clinton says you cant count those bro.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: che on May 12, 2010, 03:23:44 PM
not to "ass kiss" but i know that number would be higher if you included girls you only got oral from as well, right?

Waaaay higher  ;D
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: ThaRealist on May 12, 2010, 03:23:55 PM
Still don't get it! LOL ?

Just messin.... Term for Italians that came to America and never got citizenship papers....= WithOut Papers
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: johnnynoname on May 12, 2010, 03:24:26 PM
Bill Clinton says you cant count those bro.

well, Bill Clinton is fucking up my "numbers" then
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: che on May 12, 2010, 03:25:56 PM
I thought you were a dickhead
You are right many weren't that good , what did I do to you   ???
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: newmom on May 12, 2010, 03:27:24 PM
You are right many weren't that good , what did I do to you   ???

bawaw your kidding right
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: che on May 12, 2010, 03:28:49 PM
bawaw your kidding right
I'm not
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: BIG ACH on May 12, 2010, 03:29:37 PM
Just messin.... Term for Italians that came to America and never got citizenship papers....= WithOut Papers

Oh ok I get it now! :-) people have asked me if I'm Italian before!


Luckily I am in the US and got my papers  ;D
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Oldschool Flip on May 12, 2010, 03:35:03 PM
Though marriage isn't necessary, it helps the system because of the dad's who don't give a fuck about their kids. At least the wife can have wages garnished to get money to feed and raise the children.

I get really irked about father's who don't do anything (monetary or support) for their kids. I'm more than sure that all the dudes here that want to just fuck without use of birth control are some of the same guys who will end being a dead beat dad.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: newmom on May 12, 2010, 03:36:32 PM
Though marriage isn't necessary, it helps the system because of the dad's who don't give a fuck about their kids. At least the wife can have wages garnished to get money to feed and raise the children.

I get really irked about father's who don't do anything (monetary or support) for their kids. I'm more than sure that all the dudes here that want to just fuck without use of birth control are some of the same guys who will end being a dead beat dad.

I would pretty much guess your very accurate
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Mr Nobody on May 12, 2010, 03:43:03 PM
Hippie weddings are cool.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: newmom on May 12, 2010, 03:44:46 PM


see there ya go right there. And when I see these brides on say yes to the dress show, Im like 10K on a dress..FUCK THAT
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Mr Nobody on May 12, 2010, 03:46:36 PM
see there ya go right there. And when I see these brides on say yes to the dress show, Im like 10K on a dress..FUCK THAT
Goodwill has them for $10 all the same as long as you got some Tide detergent.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: stuntmovie on May 12, 2010, 04:42:58 PM
MINDSPIN, CHE, You both made interesting statements someplace above. Thought provoking in fact,

Nicely said!

Thanks.

P.S. .... there are also penguins in the Hilton Hawaiian Village on Oahu.

Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: newmom on May 12, 2010, 04:44:20 PM
MINDSPIN, CHE, You both made interesting statements someplace above. Thought provoking in fact,

Nicely said!

Thanks.

P.S. .... there are also penguins in the Hilton Hawaiian Village on Oahu.



 I agree, its refreshing to see a man that isnt bashing marriage. Big Ach didn't bash it. I would love to see what the females say (Stella did) but would love to hear it
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: ShipSekki on May 12, 2010, 04:50:06 PM
 I think that in the USA marriage is not very good for a man at all.

 The marriage system in the USA is set up in such a way that the woman benefits in most ways, and the man sacrifices in most ways.

 And also many American women are hideous, stubborn beasts.

 www.nomarriage.com
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: BIG ACH on May 12, 2010, 05:14:49 PM
I think that in the USA marriage is not very good for a man at all.

 The marriage system in the USA is set up in such a way that the woman benefits in most ways, and the man sacrifices in most ways.

 And also many American women are hideous, stubborn beasts.

 www.nomarriage.com

I see a lot of people complaining about the woman getting half their shit.  But men can also get half of the wive's shit too!  What are we living in the stone age?  Do all the women you guys know not work???   I know lots of guys married to women that make more money than they do LOL

Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: James28 on May 12, 2010, 11:17:17 PM
I think that in the USA marriage is not very good for a man at all.

 The marriage system in the USA is set up in such a way that the woman benefits in most ways, and the man sacrifices in most ways.

 And also many American women are hideous, stubborn beasts.

 www.nomarriage.com

I wouldn't say they're hideous stubborn beasts as I dated a few American gals living over here. They were normal, nice girls that offered good conversation and fun times when we were not talking ..

Always try and marry a woman that is richer than you are, otherwise they'd just come after your shit when it all falls apart. My only worthwhile possessions is my apartment I own outright and have on my brother's name, and my car. However, she owns the house we're living in as her father bought it for her/us outright. I trust the marriage will not end, but if it does, I'd be happy we go our different ways without trying to ponce stuff off each other. Should she do, I'll come after her house.

I've seen too many friends and colleagues get fucked over by biased judges and 2 bob whorey ex-wives. It's not going to be me one day  >:(
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: phreak on May 12, 2010, 11:26:41 PM
I'm still happily married. And no, it shouldn't be hard work to keep things working out. If it is, you are doomed anyway and might as well get out now.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Parker on May 13, 2010, 12:04:53 AM
I'm happily married , I know Getbiggers won't believe me when I say this  but I fucked more than 200 chicks until I found the right one

  




This is the number I'm tryna hit...before I get married, 197 to go,lol!
On the real, women that I'm friends with say that I want kids---and I need to be married. I hate it when women say that... >:(
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: tbombz on May 13, 2010, 12:15:13 AM
Marriage is unnatural and there is little to no upside for the man.  And, any marriage that actually endures is anything but easy.  Before I got married, I didn't quite understand why so many people got hitched and why it was so important to women.  It wasn't until the very moment that my wife's father handed her to me during the wedding, that I actually got it.  This man was entrusting me with the well being of his little girl.  It would now be up to me to ensure that she be protected and cared for.  Is marriage necessary in order for this to happen?  Perhaps not.  But I know that it made her & her father feel happier, just as my daughters and I will, when I hand them over one day.  
thats a nice story mindspin. glad your happy. but i must point out that that was only your experience. other people have different reasons for marriage, different things which make them see it as important or meanginful, different motivations and different expectations...    maybe you already knew that, not trying to lecture you  ;D in your scenario what happens if the dad doesnt want to partake because he doesnt approve, or what happens if she doesnt have a dad at all? not only that, but you put alot of emphasis on 'responsibility for'... which i think is definitely a main principle, but i feel like the central concept to marriage should be love of one another for who they are as a person, on the inside..
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: kreator on May 13, 2010, 12:15:52 AM
with long relationships people defy laws of nature..........and then when they start getting sexually interested in other people, they go through hundreds of therapies and counselings just to ''figure out'' why they had the desire to fuck somebody else and not just the spouse
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: tbombz on May 13, 2010, 12:25:14 AM
What is the point of a wedding?  Weddings are for stupid shitbrains.  Take the money and invest it instead.
your going to make somebody cry with insults like that
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Stark on May 13, 2010, 02:54:02 AM
I had my wedding in Latvia, all in all it cost less than 5k - but for that we got

1) A small hotel for ourself and our guests in a nature reserve with stunning view - 20 rooms - we had about 40 guests.
2) Incredible food - and there wasn't any shortage you could eat as much as you want
3) A ballon ride of a close friend into the sunset over Latvians counry side (incredible)
4) A band - I wanted one were they all were piano ties hahaha
5) Alcohol as much as any body wanted

We had a lot of Latvian traditions tied in which was very nice - in latvia you have your best friend organise the wedding for you so we had to do sweet fuck all which was incredible lucky for us since we both life in Ireland.

We spend most of our money on a honeymoon in Africa - which was probably the best time I had with her (apart from our first test holiday in Egyp which I booked without telling her we were just 2 month together and I had a lot of money on the side because I saved for a year and got a big redundancy payment - I didn't tell her booked it and asked her the day before if she fancies to come to Egypt for a week - she had some trouble finding an apartment so she stayed in my apartment so I was only too happy to make her stay in my apartment - I had only a small bed because I wanted to save as much money as possible after I broke up with my ex so I sleept on the floor :D - ah good times :).
Anyways Africa was amazing - we did so much stuff which really strenghtens our realtionship.

Here is something for you fellas that still look for a possible partner for life... You never ever know if the person you meet is the one and only one that you will stick with until the end of your life - part of the fun is to jump into the dark and take a chance, but there are certain things you can watch out for to make sure you guys are compatible - and I am (due to my past history as a child) a very untrusting person.

1) If after a short time you can see that both of you can talk without talking and thinking alike
2) If the other half makes you laugh - and I mean realy hard laugh, for excample my ex never ever made me laugh and I mean whole heartly laugh, my wife on the other hand sometimes says things and makes jokes that crack me up.
3) This sounds cheesy but Its true at least for my part - I would happily trade my life for her life and I 100% mean that.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Parker on May 13, 2010, 03:10:18 AM
I see a lot of people complaining about the woman getting half their shit.  But men can also get half of the wive's shit too!  What are we living in the stone age?  Do all the women you guys know not work???   I know lots of guys married to women that make more money than they do LOL


What is half of 3 dozen Jimmy Choo Handbags? And Half of a 2 "persian rugs" bought from a flea market in Morocco? Half the shit women have no man wants. That's like having  12 yr old male twins and you go to Toys R' US, you give one twin the Baby section and the kiddie and the other The Video games, action figures, TV's, radio control toy's, model cars, all the good shit.  
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: drkaje on May 13, 2010, 04:25:27 AM
Skipped ahead.

I don't know 5 married guys (with kids) who would still be married if making a change weren't unaffordable or a severe interruption in time with their kids.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: The Showstoppa on May 13, 2010, 06:22:55 AM
Skipped ahead.

I don't know 5 married guys (with kids) who would still be married if making a change weren't unaffordable or a severe interruption in time with their kids.

You need to find better quality friends...
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: drkaje on May 13, 2010, 06:42:01 AM
You need to find better quality friends...

LOL!

Loving someone doesn't mean you still like them.

Some women just get very lazy too comfortable in their marriage after having kids.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: The Showstoppa on May 13, 2010, 06:46:28 AM
LOL!

Loving someone doesn't mean you still like them.

Some women just get very lazy too comfortable in their marriage after having kids.

That is true.  And so do a lot of guys....it used to kill me when one or the other, the fatter one, would come in the store and make comments about how the other one "needed to get in shape."  I'm looking at them and thinking.....maybe you could use a little work yourself there....funny that there were very few "fit" couples...
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: drkaje on May 13, 2010, 06:52:28 AM
That is true.  And so do a lot of guys....it used to kill me when one or the other, the fatter one, would come in the store and make comments about how the other one "needed to get in shape."  I'm looking at them and thinking.....maybe you could use a little work yourself there....funny that there were very few "fit" couples...

Some people just can't just don't feel the need to give a shit once their situation is secure.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: The True Adonis on May 13, 2010, 11:03:41 AM
Though marriage isn't necessary, it helps the system because of the dad's who don't give a fuck about their kids. At least the wife can have wages garnished to get money to feed and raise the children.

I get really irked about father's who don't do anything (monetary or support) for their kids. I'm more than sure that all the dudes here that want to just fuck without use of birth control are some of the same guys who will end being a dead beat dad.
What about if you don`t give a fuck about kids to ever have any?  ;D
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: The Showstoppa on May 13, 2010, 11:24:07 AM
What about if you don`t give a fuck about kids to ever have any?  ;D

It's better to know that and not have them than the fools who reproduce haphazardly.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Cleanest Natural on May 13, 2010, 11:50:07 AM
I am married now 2 years, and my wife has not changed one bit, she is still the woman that I fell in love with 5 years ago.
She still hops on my lap in the morning and demands a kiss, she still makes my laugh and she still tries to give me lifting advice :D

In short either I am incredible lucky or the the rest of you guys (including 240) are just trying to be a little bit over the top.
I'm so fucking touched

I'd shed a tear but I am dehydrated
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: CalvinH on May 13, 2010, 11:52:52 AM
I'm so fucking touched

I'd shed a tear but I am dehydrated



LOL ;D
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Man of Steel on May 13, 2010, 11:56:41 AM
Being married to the one you love...that's easy.  The marriage itself....that's work.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Natural Man on May 13, 2010, 12:10:53 PM
Dont regret getting married because I got my son now but marriage just didnt work out. At the time I thought it was what I was sopposed to do at my age. Get married, have kids, blah blah blah. Being single is great, I am 33 and wont ever get married again!

looks like someone confused immaturity and fear of responsabilities with a wrong understanding of the principle of autonomy.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: YngiweRhoads on May 13, 2010, 12:20:37 PM
I'm so fucking touched

I'd shed a tear but I am dehydrated

Hahaha! :D
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Natural Man on May 13, 2010, 12:22:39 PM
listen, marriage is AGAINST the law of Nature

fact of this matter is this.....


GOD (or, whatever controls the galaxies and planets) created "us" (human beings) as animals that can reason

However, we are animals none the less

As animals, our job (when you get down to the basics) is to go around a spread our seed as many times as we can AND NOT BE HELD DOWN

Now, around the dark ages, i think there was a shortage of people and morals went down (or some shit) and the church decided that it was time to use "GOD" as their "Enforcer".  That is, "if you don't get married, GOD will be mad at you!!!"

fact of the matter is that: GOD DOESN'T CARE IF YOU GET MARRIED OR NOT!!!

marriage is nothing more than a business contract
so, you don't have to marry for "Love"....just marry for money
thank you

it's up to you to stay at the level of the animal and not want to become something more evolved, as known as a human (just so you know, animals have underdeveloped brains compared to ours, but we have an EVOLVED, more developped brain). People with absent fathers, coming from dysfunctional families and with a poor or 0 education are more prone to be seduced by their impulses. Funny isnt it?

There are reasons why you can have multiple partners in one life, but there are also reasons why you should/can focus on just one and the kids you have with her TOO. Ill let you find out by yourself what are these good reasons.



Just because you can have several partners doesnt mean you have to.
Like just because you could kill anyone doesnt mean you should/have to...

Do you control your impulses, cognitions, and behaviors, or are you their slave?


There are benefits from being committed... and a father. But not having a father yourself pretty much reduced the chances you could figure these benefits to 0. Absent fathers dont teach their kids the benefits of being a present, involved father or mother that's for sure.

Hopefully another father figure will replace what you lack and restart your underdevelopments stuck in the past and in ignorance.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: 240 is Back on May 13, 2010, 12:28:48 PM
I support gay marriage because I think they deserve to be as miserable as the rest of us :)

Seriously, marriage is awesome but sucks sometimes too.  it's great to have a partner but you do miss the solo runs too. 
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Cleanest Natural on May 13, 2010, 12:44:26 PM
it's up to you to stay at the level of the animal and not want to become something more evolved, as known as a human (just so you know, animals have underdeveloped brains compared to ours, but we have an EVOLVED, more developped brain). People with absent fathers, coming from dysfunctional families and with a poor or 0 education are more prone to be seduced by their impulses. Funny isnt it?

There are reasons why you can have multiple partners in one life, but there are also reasons why you should/can focus on just one and the kids you have with her TOO. Ill let you find out by yourself what are these good reasons.



Just because you can have several partners doesnt mean you have to.
Like just because you could kill anyone doesnt mean you should/have to...

Do you control your impulses, cognitions, and behaviors, or are you their slave?


There are benefits from being committed... and a father. But not having a father yourself pretty much reduced the chances you could figure these benefits to 0. Absent fathers dont teach their kids the benefits of being a present, involved father or mother that's for sure.

Hopefully another father figure will replace what you lack and restart your underdevelopments stuck in the past and in ignorance.
hi virgin
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Natural Man on May 13, 2010, 12:53:02 PM
I support gay marriage because I think they deserve to be as miserable as the rest of us :)

Seriously, marriage is awesome but sucks sometimes too.  it's great to have a partner but you do miss the solo runs too.  

just because you feel miserable doesnt mean your wife is responsible of this feeling. I doubt she is. But looks like you re blaming her for your own shortcomings.
You feel miserable because you have a poor self esteem, and chances are high she has nothing to do with it, neither do the kids, she might even be the only counterweight to your feeling, the reason why you settled with her in the firstplace. But your self esteem issues kept coming back years later because you didnt face em.  

Low self esteem issues originate in your interactions with your family and friends in your childhood and teenage years, which shaped the development of your cognitions and behaviors unconsciously until now.

Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Cleanest Natural on May 13, 2010, 12:58:12 PM
just because you feel miserable doesnt mean your wife is responsible of this feeling. I doubt she is. But looks like you re blaming her for your own shortcomings.
You feel miserable because you have a poor self esteem, and chances are high she has nothing to do with it, she might even be the only counterweight to your feeling, the reason why you settled with her in the firstplace. But your self esteem issues kepy coming back years later because you didnt face em. 

Low self esteem issues originate in your interactions with your family and friends in your childhood and teenage years.


haha ... sounds like your boyfriend dumped you
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: MindSpin on May 13, 2010, 02:55:34 PM
just because you feel miserable doesnt mean your wife is responsible of this feeling. I doubt she is. But looks like you re blaming her for your own shortcomings.
You feel miserable because you have a poor self esteem, and chances are high she has nothing to do with it, neither do the kids, she might even be the only counterweight to your feeling, the reason why you settled with her in the firstplace. But your self esteem issues kept coming back years later because you didnt face em.  

Low self esteem issues originate in your interactions with your family and friends in your childhood and teenage years, which shaped the development of your cognitions and behaviors unconsciously until now.



I'm not sure that's what 240 meant.  My wife sometimes makes me miserable.  Specially during that special time of the month when all logic and reason goes out the window and her latin temper takes over.  I try to time my business trips around that time, but it doesn't always work.  All you can do is hunker down, ride out the storm and wait for the sun to pierce through the clouds  ;D
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Cleanest Natural on May 13, 2010, 02:58:17 PM
I'm not sure that's what 240 meant.  My wife sometimes makes me miserable.  Specially during that special time of the month when all logic and reason goes out the window and her latin temper takes over.  I try to time my business trips around that time, but it doesn't always work.  All you can do is hunker down, ride out the storm and wait for the sun to pierce through the clouds  ;D
::)
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: MindSpin on May 13, 2010, 02:59:35 PM
::)
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Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: MindSpin on May 13, 2010, 03:03:14 PM
lol
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Coach is Back! on May 13, 2010, 03:04:29 PM
I only regret my first 3.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: MindSpin on May 13, 2010, 03:23:18 PM
just when you think you've seen it all.  Sorry, but I have to delete this.  Feel free to repost on the porn board.
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Cleanest Natural on May 13, 2010, 03:24:38 PM
comeon man ...don't delete it ...

look this is without nudity

" Hey Mindspin...maybe you should be more faithfull to her"

(http://4gifs.com/gallery/d/129756-1/Caught_fucking_inflatable.gif)
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: TacoBell on May 13, 2010, 03:26:50 PM
I for one am happily married and have been for a number of years now.    :)
Title: Re: Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage
Post by: Mr Nobody on May 13, 2010, 04:17:05 PM
Hell yea