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Title: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Balloon on April 23, 2011, 06:16:00 PM
Or will you fall for the girl if you hang around her long enough?

Can we really fight human nature?

Did evolution really plan for male/female non sexual relationships?
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: GroinkTropin on April 23, 2011, 06:17:26 PM
If a guy is single he will fall for ANY female he spends enough time around.

It's biologically inevitable.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Ursus on April 23, 2011, 06:18:25 PM
There are some girls I am friendly with and it is genuine friendship. However given a chance I would also fuck them as they are attractive. However fucking is them is nota  priority.

Then some other girls I think if you properly fancy them immediately you will only want to fuck them and not be friends.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Boost on April 23, 2011, 06:21:13 PM
How many UGLY female friends have you got?

I think it's inevitable that sexual tension exists between male/female friends.



Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Hulkotron on April 23, 2011, 06:21:38 PM
In my experience a lot of women are better at being friends with men than they are with other women.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Ursus on April 23, 2011, 06:22:42 PM
In my experience a lot of women are better at being friends with men than they are with other women.

x2
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: obtuse_waiter on April 23, 2011, 06:23:48 PM
depends on look if shes hot u guna wana ram you cock pole into her or smash her if she sasy no

if shes ugs cna be great buds

let her blow ya when high watching porn then ignore that it happpened

Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Boost on April 23, 2011, 06:25:06 PM
In my experience a lot of women are better at being friends with men than they are with other women.
For the women, she's looking at the male friend in a non sexual way.

From the male perspective, deep down, no matter how repressed, he still lusts after her.

He may not even realise it, but throw a bottle of vodka down his neck and he'll be telling her she's "special"
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: outby43 on April 23, 2011, 06:25:33 PM
only if your gay
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on April 23, 2011, 06:25:53 PM
Sure ! If they're fat !
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Mr Nobody on April 23, 2011, 06:33:35 PM
Sure ! If they're fat !
X2.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 23, 2011, 06:36:08 PM
absolutely it's possible.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: basil on April 23, 2011, 06:37:32 PM
'want to fuk' would be more accurate than 'fall for'.

Or will you fall for the girl if you hang around her long enough?

Can we really fight human nature?

Did evolution really plan for male/female non sexual relationships?
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: #1 Klaus fan on April 23, 2011, 06:38:22 PM
absolutely it's possible.

This is why women should have no rights.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 23, 2011, 06:41:57 PM
This is why women should have no rights.

oh this outta be good..why is that Klaus
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: #1 Klaus fan on April 23, 2011, 06:43:46 PM
You fail to see reality. You destroy society.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: jwb on April 23, 2011, 06:45:21 PM
Before you are 35 no, after 35 yes.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 23, 2011, 06:47:35 PM
You fail to see reality. You destroy society.

oh that explains it ::) ::)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: kh300 on April 23, 2011, 06:53:56 PM
Ive literally never had a female friend in my life. I'm either fucking you or I want nothing to do with you.

Sure I have female 'friends' but nobody I would hang out with 1 on 1 or anything like that.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 23, 2011, 06:56:26 PM
Ive literally never had a female friend in my life. I'm either fucking you or I want nothing to do with you.

Sure I have female 'friends' but nobody I would hang out with 1 on 1 or anything like that.

you don't get it KH. Female Friends make great wingmen when going out. If you trying to pick up a chicita and you're hanging with a female pal, it's a guarantee "in"..trust me. When I go out with my male friends and they start chatting it up with a female, the female will usually ask me if he's a good guy..
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Doug_Steele on April 23, 2011, 06:58:19 PM
you don't get it KH. Female Friends make great wingmen when going out. If you trying to pick up a chicita and you're hanging with a female pal, it's a guarantee "in"..trust me. When I go out with my male friends and they start chatting it up with a female, the female will usually ask me if he's a good guy..

For Fucks Sake! Someone gets it!! ^^^^^^^^^

Spot on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: WillGrant on April 23, 2011, 07:00:26 PM
If a guy is single he will fall for ANY female he spends enough time around.

It's biologically inevitable.
Oh brother  ::) You have already proven yourself deluded now go sit in the corner and read whats written and ffs dont speak.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: tommywishbone on April 23, 2011, 07:02:31 PM
It is possible. Some girls just don't cause that response in you. Rare, but possible.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Alexander D on April 23, 2011, 07:06:45 PM
Its possible after you fuck them at least once.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: kh300 on April 23, 2011, 07:14:42 PM
you don't get it KH. Female Friends make great wingmen when going out. If you trying to pick up a chicita and you're hanging with a female pal, it's a guarantee "in"..trust me. When I go out with my male friends and they start chatting it up with a female, the female will usually ask me if he's a good guy..

Whatever works for ya.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: che on April 23, 2011, 07:27:11 PM
(http://4gifs.com/gallery/d/46750-7/Clown_daddy.gif)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Parker on April 23, 2011, 07:33:12 PM
you don't get it KH. Female Friends make great wingmen when going out. If you trying to pick up a chicita and you're hanging with a female pal, it's a guarantee "in"..trust me. When I go out with my male friends and they start chatting it up with a female, the female will usually ask me if he's a good guy..
Most of my "women" friends I have slept with, and yes, they make great wingmen---also, they can weed out the "bad ones"---but are very picky (jealousy?)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 23, 2011, 07:39:54 PM
Most of my "women" friends I have slept with, and yes, they make great wingmen---also, they can weed out the "bad ones"---but are very picky (jealousy?)

nope I don't think it would be jealousy. My male friends have ONLY been friends. I want whats best for them. I've been known to visit the ladies room if they are eyeing a chick. I even overheard one of the chicks saying "which dumbass" will buy us drinks. Ya damn skippy I told my friend that had his eye on her. When she came back to where we were sitting, the bartender asked if another round was in order, we said yea. The chick looked at him like "oh arn't ya getting this round". The bartender asked who's getting this, me and my friend looked at her and yup, she paid and we bounced. It was great. I don't care for women that think a dude should always pay. Fuck outta here with that bullcrap.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: wes on April 24, 2011, 01:08:53 AM
Its possible after you fuck them at least once.
This
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: indie-lad on April 24, 2011, 03:22:55 AM
If a guy is single he will fall for ANY female he spends enough time around.

It's biologically inevitable.

Or at least try to sleep with her. Believe me, I know.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Meso_z on April 24, 2011, 03:38:58 AM
only if your gay
Bay likeyyyyy!! rofl
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: _bruce_ on April 24, 2011, 03:43:12 AM
2 female friends.
Have known one for more than 20 years, the other was a short escapade.
Other than that - no ma'am.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: PJim on April 24, 2011, 05:14:05 AM
Nope.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: The Italian Lifter on April 24, 2011, 05:28:40 AM
Or will you fall for the girl if you hang around her long enough?

Can we really fight human nature?

Did evolution really plan for male/female non sexual relationships?

it happened to me with a beautiful blonde...but boy, it was 1956...i don't think this can be possible in 2011, not with our society
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Mr Nobody on April 24, 2011, 05:54:46 AM
 8)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Tre on April 24, 2011, 05:59:50 AM
One of my best friends is hot as hell, but there's zero sexual energy between us.  Hell, we've never even had 'the talk' about that reality.  So, yes, it's possible, but for the most part, I don't have a need for 'just friends' (40). 
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Monster_Everything on April 24, 2011, 06:05:02 AM
women are whores, treat as such


hope this helps
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Hulkotron on April 24, 2011, 06:35:27 AM
I have lots of female "friends", as in members of my group of friends who are female and who I've never dated or humped and have no immediate desire to, but as someone already said I would never call them up to go hang out 1-on-1 or anything like that.  I don't really hang out 1-on-1 with any of my male friends either, though.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: TacoBell on April 24, 2011, 08:49:11 AM
Yes if she's fat/unattractive.

With that said, being 'friends' with women is pointless.  They arent fun funny or interesting.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on April 24, 2011, 09:14:59 AM
women are whores, treat as such


hope this helps


* Ding ding * We got a winner here folks ! End of thread !
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: YngiweRhoads on April 24, 2011, 09:25:40 AM
What about your SO meeting male friends 1-on1?
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Tapeworm on April 24, 2011, 09:36:13 AM
Of course.  Friendship, professional acquaintanceship, etc.  Bunch of creepy trenchcoats in this thread.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Parker on April 24, 2011, 10:04:05 AM
Of course.  Friendship, professional acquaintanceship, etc.  Bunch of creepy trenchcoats in this thread.
Its been said that women view male friends like they view their women and gay friends, except you aren't gonna get to see her naked...
There is always some sort of attraction and if a woman views you as just friends (break in case of emergency), then there is something wrong with your mojo...especially if you have tons of female friends...it means that you are "safe", no better than a eunuch. All of my female friends know that they can get it (or have gotten it) and there has always been a attraction---but we are grown up to know that there are consequences for our actions---and that fire and oil, can create a bigger explosion than anticipated...
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Mr Nobody on April 24, 2011, 10:07:17 AM
Its been said that women view male friends like they view their women and gay friends, except you aren't gonna get to see her naked...
There is always some sort of attraction and if a woman views you as just friends (break in case of emergency), then there is something wrong with your mojo...especially if you have tons of female friends...it means that you are "safe", no better than a eunuch. All of my female friends know that they can get it (or have gotten it) and there has always been a attraction---but we are grown up to know that there are consequences for our actions---and that fire and oil, can create a bigger explosion than anticipated...
Good post = "play with fire you get burned"
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: The Italian Lifter on April 24, 2011, 10:34:51 AM
There is always some sort of attraction and if a woman views you as just friends (break in case of emergency), then there is something wrong with your mojo...especially if you have tons of female friends...it means that you are "safe", no better than a eunuch.

can this be valid for my nurse changing my diaper also?
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: freespirit on April 24, 2011, 11:00:15 AM
you don't get it KH. Female Friends make great wingmen when going out. If you trying to pick up a chicita and you're hanging with a female pal, it's a guarantee "in"..trust me. When I go out with my male friends and they start chatting it up with a female, the female will usually ask me if he's a good guy..

I know this.  :)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Parker on April 24, 2011, 11:05:36 AM
can this be valid for my nurse changing my diaper also?
She views you as a dirty old man (literally and figeratively) that occasionally gets a hardon...If you were a rich man who was in charge of his bowels, you may have a chance...
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Dr Dutch on April 24, 2011, 11:08:58 AM
If lots of girl like you "as a friend" there is definitively something wrong..
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: The Italian Lifter on April 24, 2011, 11:12:28 AM
She views you as a dirty old man (literally and figeratively) that occasionally gets a hardon...If you were a rich man who was in charge of his bowels, you may have a chance...

you're heartless
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Parker on April 24, 2011, 11:32:23 AM
If lots of girl like you "as a friend" there is definitively something wrong..
Titan (slacker dude) from Megamind comes to mind
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: tbombz on April 24, 2011, 11:44:12 AM
yes and no.

its very rare for any relationship to be STRICTLY platonic once you dig deep enough. i know this will be argued but its true. most people are sexually attracted to each other, just alot of the times its not noticeable and up on the surface.

and you have to take into account the difference between platonic, sexual, and romantic attraction.

i think the question isnt really about the sex aspect, but the romantic.


of course any two people can be friends and never become romanticly attracted to eachother.  but seldom can they resist sexual attraction, even if were just talking sub conscious.   frued would even say we are sexuallly attracted to our own parents. tho its a bit of a stretch.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: tbombz on April 24, 2011, 11:47:58 AM
nope I don't think it would be jealousy. My male friends have ONLY been friends. I want whats best for them. I've been known to visit the ladies room if they are eyeing a chick. I even overheard one of the chicks saying "which dumbass" will buy us drinks. Ya damn skippy I told my friend that had his eye on her. When she came back to where we were sitting, the bartender asked if another round was in order, we said yea. The chick looked at him like "oh arn't ya getting this round". The bartender asked who's getting this, me and my friend looked at her and yup, she paid and we bounced. It was great. I don't care for women that think a dude should always pay. Fuck outta here with that bullcrap.

it aint that that woman thought men sshould always pay the tab, its that she was out to pull tricks. she wouldnt be attracted to a dude who shelled out cash for her low-self esteem havin ass. she would go after the guy who threw a drink in her face and told her to gtfo cuz she smelled like tuna fish.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: SgtSpar on April 24, 2011, 05:46:31 PM
My male friends have ONLY been friends.

See, that is what's funny about this whole topic.  Women always think that men and women can be friends, but give ANY of those guys that you think is just your friend a chance to hit it and you'll find out if they are just friends. 
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 24, 2011, 05:48:33 PM
See, that is what's funny about this whole topic.  Women always think that men and women can be friends, but give ANY of those guys that you think is just your friend a chance to hit it and you'll find out if they are just friends. 

oh look who showed up, SgtSpar ;D..I think you are dead wrong pal
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: SgtSpar on April 24, 2011, 05:53:09 PM
oh look who showed up, SgtSpar ;D..I think you are dead wrong pal

I missed you too my friend :)  But I'm not wrong about this.  Test the water some day and you'll see.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 24, 2011, 05:54:01 PM
I missed you too my friend :)  But I'm not wrong about this.  Test the water some day and you'll see.

I think I'm right
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: tendonitis on April 24, 2011, 05:55:32 PM
I think I'm right

You're a woman, you ALWAYS think you're right.    ;D
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: TacoBell on April 24, 2011, 05:57:12 PM
You're a woman, you ALWAYS think you're right.    ;D


QFMFT


See, that is what's funny about this whole topic.  Women always think that men and women can be friends, but give ANY of those guys that you think is just your friend a chance to hit it and you'll find out if they are just friends. 

am I your friend?

Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 24, 2011, 06:02:43 PM
You're a woman, you ALWAYS think you're right.    ;D


listen you, don't get snippy with me  ;D.On this matter I am RIGHT
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: tendonitis on April 24, 2011, 06:04:46 PM
listen you, don't get snippy with me  ;D.On this matter I am RIGHT

HAHA   Happy Easter AlwaysRightMom    ;D
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: chaos on April 24, 2011, 06:08:05 PM
You're a woman, you ALWAYS think you're right.    ;D

LMFAO!!! HAha ;D
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 24, 2011, 06:12:33 PM
HAHA   Happy Easter AlwaysRightMom    ;D


OH I like that, smart ass
LMFAO!!! HAha ;D

listen flubbs Shut The Fuck Up
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: TacoBell on April 24, 2011, 06:15:22 PM

OH I like that, smart ass
listen flubbs Shut The Fuck Up


If I take my 2 fingers and make bunny ears, and then stick em inside of you, whats that called?
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: chaos on April 24, 2011, 06:18:03 PM
If I take my 2 fingers and make bunny ears, and then stick em inside of you, whats that called?
A good time ???
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: TacoBell on April 24, 2011, 06:21:29 PM
A good time ???

yea I dunno either I was just wanting to see what she'd come up with.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Doug_Steele on April 24, 2011, 06:27:50 PM
(http://www.motifake.com/image/demotivational-poster/1001/hey-lady-hot-girl-skirt-demotivational-poster-1264109377.jpg)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 24, 2011, 06:30:11 PM
If I take my 2 fingers and make bunny ears, and then stick em inside of you, whats that called?

Oh brother
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: TacoBell on April 24, 2011, 06:32:30 PM
Oh brother

ok, post a pic of you giving yourself an oh brother
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 24, 2011, 06:33:16 PM
ok, post a pic of you giving yourself an oh brother

sorry only chaos and SS get those type of pics
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: TacoBell on April 24, 2011, 06:34:10 PM
sorry only chaos and SS get those type of pics

bs..send me one
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: leadhead on April 24, 2011, 07:02:46 PM
I think it's possible but I always ended up having sex with the girls who I claimed were only my friends. I don't have friends who are girls anymore since I'm married ;D
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: io856 on April 24, 2011, 08:38:56 PM
yeah platonic relationships... sure

I'd rather not talk to them much and mostly work related
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Reeves on April 24, 2011, 09:10:43 PM
If you're a short mulatto male, then yes.  It is more than possible, it's highly probable.  In fact, it's inevitable.  It's fate.

It sucks.  ;D
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: HTexan on April 24, 2011, 10:30:39 PM
yes, it is called the friend zone.  :P
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Parker on April 24, 2011, 10:38:23 PM
If you're a short mulatto male, then yes.  It is more than possible, it's highly probable.  In fact, it's inevitable.  It's fate.

It sucks.  ;D
Are you a short mulatto male?

BTW, mulatto (light skinned men) are making a comeback, thanks to Shemar Moore and Obama...
yes, it is called the friend zone.  :P
And if you are in the friend zone---you don't get into the "endzone"...
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: hmontaq on April 25, 2011, 08:06:10 AM
Yes you can if youre not a total horn dog like a lot of men.

I would regularly go out with girls from work but never treated them as more than friends even though 2 were attractive. Try not to date women at work...

I currently have 2 women who are close friends. One I am not attracted to but she likes me and knows how I feel so she doesnt push it and one who is cute but if something happened our friendship would suffer I am sure. We have a good time together but I know Im not her type. Shes not totaly mine either.

Overall the answer is yes if you are not attracted to them and know how they feel about you if youre in the friend zone.

Some you cant because you may strongly want to have more than a friendship. In that case its better not to.

Good Luck...
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: CalvinH on April 25, 2011, 08:14:58 AM
You're a woman, you ALWAYS think you're right.    ;D



 ;D
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 25, 2011, 08:15:40 AM
Calvin and I Are just friends, so see it can happen
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Parker on April 25, 2011, 08:18:10 AM
Yes you can if youre not a total horn dog like a lot of men.

I would regularly go out with girls from work but never treated them as more than friends even though 2 were attractive. Try not to date women at work...

I currently have 2 women who are close friends. One I am not attracted to but she likes me and knows how I feel so she doesnt push it and one who is cute but if something happened our friendship would suffer I am sure. We have a good time together but I know Im not her type. Shes not totaly mine either.

Overall the answer is yes if you are not attracted to them and know how they feel about you if youre in the friend zone.




Some you cant because you may strongly want to have more than a friendship. In that case its better not to.

Good Luck...
bottom line, you found them attractive...and you have thought of the possibilities. Being put in the friend zone is like being put in the phantom zone...you can't get out, even if you want to...
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Tito24 on April 25, 2011, 08:21:35 AM
i only want to stay in the friend zone when i dont find the girl sexually attractive, i have a few of them, offcourse they are into me but im not into them
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Tre on April 25, 2011, 08:45:34 AM
bottom line, you found them attractive...and you have thought of the possibilities. Being put in the friend zone is like being put in the phantom zone...you can't get out, even if you want to...
Truth.

Fuck the friend zone.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Tito24 on April 25, 2011, 08:53:49 AM
lol , how many times i doesnt see guys drive themselves into friend zone voluntairily and in full speed.
everyone wants to be with a clown but no one wants to sleep with one.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: YngiweRhoads on April 25, 2011, 08:57:57 AM
Found out the fiance went to hang out with single dude from work after work. Only friends my ass. Put a stop to that asap. Shit ain't happening again while she's with me or she gets the door.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 25, 2011, 09:04:51 AM
Found out the fiance went to hang out with single dude from work after work. Only friends my ass. Put a stop to that asap. Shit ain't happening again while she's with me or she gets the door.

see I don't like sneaky shit but if she told you up front then I don't think there is anything to worry about. Would of it been a problem if she said "after work I'm having a drink with a pal (insert his name) from work?"
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Hulkotron on April 25, 2011, 09:07:27 AM
It is pretty naive to think that a single straight man asking a woman out for drinks is looking for a friend.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: YngiweRhoads on April 25, 2011, 09:08:36 AM
see I don't like sneaky shit but if she told you up front then I don't think there is anything to worry about. Would of it been a problem if she said "after work I'm having a drink with a pal (insert his name) from work?"

Told me after the fact. They didn't go out for drinks though. Seriously pissed me off, still.

Would of it been a problem if she said "after work I'm having a drink with a pal (insert his name) from work?"

Yeah, guy is a total sleazebag and the fiance knows it. She thinks when she says 'no' once, they'll get the hint and remain friends from then on in. She likes the attention as do all women imo.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: _bruce_ on April 25, 2011, 09:11:53 AM
It is pretty naive to think that a single straight man asking a woman out for drinks is looking for a friend.

x2
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Parker on April 25, 2011, 09:14:17 AM
It is pretty naive to think that a single straight man asking a woman out for drinks is looking for a friend.
Exactly, any dude, if given half a chance, if there is the slightest bit of opportunity, given said scenario, was trying to crack at it...

Which is why, even though there might be 1/90000th chance of me and Kerry Washington ever hitting it, if given the the slightest chance---i will try at it...
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Tito24 on April 25, 2011, 09:40:37 AM
well my sister is quite naive in this. she dont understand why a guy cant be just a friend, mostly saying this when a guy doesnt show up much anymore simply because shes totally not sexually interested in them and doesnt give them the kind of attention they want. lol
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: freespirit on April 25, 2011, 10:23:47 AM
i only want to stay in the friend zone when i dont find the girl sexually attractive, i have a few of them, offcourse they are into me but im not into them


Or, if they are already married, with kids.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 25, 2011, 11:16:56 AM
Told me after the fact. They didn't go out for drinks though. Seriously pissed me off, still.

Yeah, guy is a total sleazebag and the fiance knows it. She thinks when she says 'no' once, they'll get the hint and remain friends from then on in. She likes the attention as do all women imo.

Yes I agree, some women are like that. Yes, it was wrong not to tell you upfront. IMO, that's hiding something
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: DroppingPlates on April 25, 2011, 11:22:02 AM

Or, if they are already married, with kids.
Depends rather on them.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Butterbean on April 25, 2011, 11:48:46 AM
horn dog like a lot of men.


A conversation with her husband from a female author (Shaunti Feldman) in a chapter from her book "For Women Only" where she is covers sensual images and men.

 

Jeff:  "But you know men are visual, right?"
Shaunti:   "Well, yes, of course.  But since most women aren't, I just didn't get it.  I just don't experience things the same way you do."
Jeff:  "See, I'm not sure I really believe that."
Shaunti:   "Well, it's true!"
Jeff:  "Maybe we just use different language to describe it.  For example, think of a movie star that you find physically attractive - Tom Cruise, say.  After we've seen one of his movies, how many times will that attractive image rise up in your mine the next day?"
Shaunti:   "Never."
Jeff:  "I must not be explaining myself correctly.  I mean, how many times will a thought of what he looked like with his shirt off just sort of pop up in your head?"
Shaunti:   "Never."
Jeff:  "Never - as in never?"
Shaunti:   "Zero times.  It just doesn't happen."
Jeff:  "Wow."

Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: RUDE BUOY on April 25, 2011, 11:53:51 AM
God this thread is terrible taking a dump reading material
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: YngiweRhoads on April 25, 2011, 11:55:29 AM
Yes I agree, some women are like that. Yes, it was wrong not to tell you upfront. IMO, that's hiding something

Yep. I agree.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Butterbean on April 25, 2011, 12:01:06 PM
Told me after the fact. They didn't go out for drinks though. Seriously pissed me off, still.

Yeah, guy is a total sleazebag and the fiance knows it.

Why do I picture him as James Woods in "Casino?"


Congrats on your engagement!  Hope all expectations etc. get sorted out and all is well :)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: YngiweRhoads on April 25, 2011, 12:22:40 PM
Why do I picture him as James Woods in "Casino?"


Congrats on your engagement!  Hope all expectations etc. get sorted out and all is well :)

Heh. Won't last much longer more than likely.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: SS on April 25, 2011, 12:31:07 PM
Calvin and I Are just friends, so see it can happen
Translation............Clavin is a dork ;D
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Jadeveon Clowney on April 25, 2011, 12:43:10 PM
If Platonic relationships are the kinds of relationships Plato had, then having a Platonic relationship with a woman might have gotten you arrested in several states until fairly recently.  Could still get you a court martial in the armed forces.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: RUDE BUOY on April 25, 2011, 01:32:00 PM
Lol poor calvin
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Cleanest Natural on April 25, 2011, 01:36:57 PM
Translation............Clavin is a dork ;D
or he is not interested
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: RUDE BUOY on April 25, 2011, 01:54:35 PM
Diss
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Board_SHERIF on April 25, 2011, 01:58:55 PM
Yes you can if youre not a total horn dog like a lot of men.

I would regularly go out with girls from work but never treated them as more than friends even though 2 were attractive. Try not to date women at work...

I currently have 2 women who are close friends. One I am not attracted to but she likes me and knows how I feel so she doesnt push it and one who is cute but if something happened our friendship would suffer I am sure. We have a good time together but I know Im not her type. Shes not totaly mine either.

Overall the answer is yes if you are not attracted to them and know how they feel about you if youre in the friend zone.

Some you cant because you may strongly want to have more than a friendship. In that case its better not to.

Good Luck...

But you are gay...does not count stud...
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 25, 2011, 03:04:04 PM
Translation............Clavin is a dork ;D

he's not dork, a nerd perhaps..


he said he don't like my type..I got dissed :'(
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Hulkotron on April 25, 2011, 03:07:01 PM
I have (most of) a full head of hair, no bike that isn't man-powered, and weight 180 lbs.  What are my odds newmom?
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 25, 2011, 03:08:58 PM
I have (most of) a full head of hair, no bike that isn't man-powered, and weight 180 lbs.  What are my odds newmom?

how tall? Ethnic background (guido's usually go to head of line automatically) ? color of eyes? size pants you wear? How tall?
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Parker on April 25, 2011, 03:09:46 PM
he's not dork, a nerd perhaps..


he said he don't like my type..I got dissed :'(
He was striking first, diss you before you diss him back (Kiss me and I'll kiss you back---name that group!)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 25, 2011, 03:10:33 PM
He was striking first, diss you before you diss him back (Kiss me and I'll kiss you back---name that group!)

omg I swear I know this..
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Parker on April 25, 2011, 03:17:22 PM
omg I swear I know this..
Digital Underground-Kiss You Back

Shimmy-Shimmy Cocoa Pop...
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Board_SHERIF on April 25, 2011, 03:18:21 PM
why "waste" time being friends with a dumb ass bitch if no sex is going to happen ?
Now there are some cool girls around, but for the most part it is just irritating to be friends with a female that cares/thinks about things like a small child does.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 25, 2011, 03:20:46 PM
why "waste" time being friends with a dumb ass bitch if no sex is going to happen ?
Now there are some cool girls around, but for the most part it is just irritating to be friends with a female that cares/thinks about things like a small child does.

oh brother, you know the wrong females my dear
Digital Underground-Kiss You Back

Shimmy-Shimmy Cocoa Pop...

oh dur on me
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Board_SHERIF on April 25, 2011, 03:23:38 PM
oh brother, you know the wrong females my dear
oh dur on me

some cools ones like you and Lori...but the others are  ::) ::)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 25, 2011, 03:25:14 PM
some cools ones like you and Lori...but the others are  ::) ::)

funny ya mention Lori, bumped into her at a gym I normally don't go to, but ran into her Saturday. Training with her wednesday
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: arce1988 on April 25, 2011, 03:27:00 PM
  NO.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Board_SHERIF on April 25, 2011, 03:27:39 PM
funny ya mention Lori, bumped into her at a gym I normally don't go to, but ran into her Saturday. Training with her wednesday

awesome....say Hi to her....have fun...post pics... :)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 25, 2011, 03:28:05 PM
I don't care for women that think a dude should always pay. Fuck outta here with that bullcrap.

I need to give you my GFs number   :P
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 25, 2011, 03:33:14 PM
I need to give you my GFs number   :P

In all honesty Groink. I never EVER understood why women think that. Most men I have dated always pay. I offer to pay my half or the tip but NO they gotta be all macho and shit. A few actually are offended if I offer, which I still don't get.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Hulkotron on April 25, 2011, 03:35:12 PM
In all honesty Groink. I never EVER understood why women think that. Most men I have dated always pay. I offer to pay my half or the tip but NO they gotta be all macho and shit. A few actually are offended if I offer, which I still don't get.

I dated a girl once for about a month who I'm pretty sure was only in it for the free meals.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Doug_Steele on April 25, 2011, 03:36:23 PM
I dated a girl once for about a month who I'm pretty sure was only in it for the free meals.

That irritates me. You should have started taking her ass to the Waffle House.  8)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 25, 2011, 03:37:31 PM
I dated a girl once for about a month who I'm pretty sure was only in it for the free meals.

i hate that shit. I do feel sorry for single dudes that date. That shit must get expensive..Um Hulk, you have some questions to answer in another thread
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Hulkotron on April 25, 2011, 03:39:17 PM
i hate that shit. I do feel sorry for single dudes that date. That shit must get expensive..Um Hulk, you have some questions to answer in another thread

Which thread is that I don't see anything ???
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Parker on April 25, 2011, 03:40:45 PM
oh brother, you know the wrong females my dear
oh dur on me
I mean damn...if only it was this simple
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Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 25, 2011, 03:44:07 PM
Which thread is that I don't see anything ???

jeebus,,,men have the attention span of a nat..scroll up


how tall? Ethnic background (guido's usually go to head of line automatically) ? color of eyes? size pants you wear? How tall?
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Hulkotron on April 25, 2011, 03:46:10 PM
jeebus,,,men have the attention span of a nat..scroll up



Sorry I wasn't prepared to write a dissertation about it.

I am a little bit over 6'
I am as white as they come
I have blue eyes
When I wear pants they are 32"
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: RUDE BUOY on April 25, 2011, 03:46:15 PM
Lol guidos
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 25, 2011, 03:49:30 PM
Sorry I wasn't prepared to write a dissertation about it.

I am a little bit over 6'
I am as white as they come
I have blue eyes
When I wear pants they are 32"
:o :o :o :o :o :o


winner winner
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Jadeveon Clowney on April 25, 2011, 04:31:58 PM
I dated a girl once for about a month who I'm pretty sure was only in it for the free meals.

lol, did she not put out at all?  I wouldn't stand that for longer than one meal.  
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: RUDE BUOY on April 25, 2011, 04:33:49 PM
Still not a pewpage reading thread
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: w8m8 on April 25, 2011, 04:34:58 PM
:o :o :o :o :o :o


winner winner



what did he win ? .. the platonic part  ;) .. how old is he ?
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 25, 2011, 04:36:49 PM

what did he win ? .. the platonic part  ;) .. how old is he ?

oh damn, I didn't ask age..


well he lives in Canada so unless he moves it's platonic for now
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Jadeveon Clowney on April 25, 2011, 04:39:21 PM
oh damn, I didn't ask age..


well he lives in Canada so unless he moves it's platonic for now

You do realize that the only relationships Plato was interested in were ones that involved putting/receiving it up the poop-chute?  Never mind, you are Greek, you probably love it.  ;D
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: RUDE BUOY on April 25, 2011, 04:41:33 PM
Lol
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Xerxes on April 25, 2011, 04:43:02 PM
Is this now a dating site?













Oh wait, I guess its always been one  :-X  :-\
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: RUDE BUOY on April 25, 2011, 04:44:28 PM
Scary
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Jadeveon Clowney on April 25, 2011, 04:44:37 PM
Is this now a dating site?













Oh wait, I guess its always been one  :-X  :-\

Word on the street is that you're always on the lookout for a good "platonic" "relationship."  Something about your ancestors having had many "close encounters" with the greeks. ;D
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Xerxes on April 25, 2011, 04:46:30 PM
Word on the street is that you're always on the lookout for a good "platonic" "relationship."  Something about your ancestors having had many "close encounters" with the greeks. ;D

I don't find cock and balls attractive










to each their own
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 25, 2011, 04:46:39 PM
You do realize that the only relationships Plato was interested in were ones that involved putting/receiving it up the poop-chute?  Never mind, you are Greek, you probably love it.  ;D

nooooooo half greek and its from the waist up clowney
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: RUDE BUOY on April 25, 2011, 04:51:42 PM
Lol she has said that from day one
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 25, 2011, 04:53:34 PM
Lol she has said that from day one

and I stick to that policy ya dweeb
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: RUDE BUOY on April 25, 2011, 04:56:42 PM
Comunist
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: The Grim Lifter on April 25, 2011, 05:47:39 PM
I joke around with women i work with but don't really hang out outside work.

But that's also because none of them are really bangable. If they were hot it would be different.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: PJim on April 25, 2011, 06:56:15 PM
I dated a girl once for about a month who I'm pretty sure was only in it for the free meals.

Been there brother. Fucking skank.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Hulkotron on April 25, 2011, 06:57:16 PM
lol, did she not put out at all?  I wouldn't stand that for longer than one meal.  

Haha, she put out once early on to keep me on the hook I think.  How easily I am fooled.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: chaos on April 25, 2011, 07:00:17 PM
I dated a girl once for about a month who I'm pretty sure was only in it for the free meals.
LMFAO. ;D
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Tom on April 26, 2011, 06:13:36 AM
hmm, they say only if you find the other one not attractive?

but then again, your ego would say " well why doesn't she find me attractive" lol!

Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Archer77 on April 26, 2011, 06:20:51 AM
It is possible for women to have platonic relationships with straight men but it is damn near impossible for a straight guy to have a friendship with a woman he finds attractive.  Unless she is butt ugly, and why would he be friends with her if she was, or a relative( and in some cases you perverts would even go there) he is going to want to band her. A man wouldn't hang around otherwise.    Men and women can associated with each other but being friends is an entirely different things.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Butterbean on April 26, 2011, 06:24:07 AM
Heh. Won't last much longer more than likely.

Did she purposely hide the meeting from you?  If so, you're probably better off.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: w8m8 on April 26, 2011, 07:07:16 AM
I think men and women can be friends .. but I also think there should be consideration given to anyone's SO pertaining to those friendships

If you're in a relationship then some concessions are not unreasonable ... if you find them unfair then you should figure out why you feel that way

I would have no problem NOT hanging out with male friends if my SO said he didn't like it .. and a true friend would understand that

where there's smoke

so if the friend or yourself get ticked off because it needs to be curbed there is something other to it than just friendship

I can see going out in a small group .. but one on one meetings for drinks is not something that is on my list of acceptable behaviors
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Firemuscle on April 26, 2011, 07:10:52 AM
I think men and women can be friends .. but I also think there should be consideration given to anyone's SO pertaining to those friendships

If you're in a relationship then some concessions are not unreasonable ... if you find them unfair then you should figure out why you feel that way

I would have no problem NOT hanging out with male friends if my SO said he didn't like it .. and a true friend would understand that

where there's smoke

so if the friend or yourself get ticked off because it needs to be curbed there is something other to it than just friendship

I can see going out in a small group .. but one on one meetings for drinks is not something that is on my list of acceptable behaviors

 It's better to have a free relationship without too many boundaries at all. Just allow your partner to have friends of the opposite sex as much as they want. Even if they want to have sex with another person just for physical pleasure, let them do it, as long as it's purely physical.

 Free love is the best way. Everything else is unnatural.

 Where are you from w8m8? You single?
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: w8m8 on April 26, 2011, 07:20:06 AM
It's better to have a free relationship without too many boundaries at all. Just allow your partner to have friends of the opposite sex as much as they want. If they want to have se with another person just for physical pleasure, let them do it, as long as it's purely physical.

 Free love is the best way. Everything else is unnatural.

 Where are you from w8m8? You single?


Having friends is not a bad thing .. but when you are involved with someone it should be a mutual decision on what they entail

Open relationships aren't always happy ones ... and if you have satisfying sex with one person I don't see a reason to look elsewhere for "more"  ... there's no such thing as Free Love .. there is free sex available .. but love always has a price ..  unnatural is in perception .. what some see as normal others may not

I live in upstate NY and I'm not married  ..
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Firemuscle on April 26, 2011, 07:24:07 AM

Having friends is not a bad thing .. but when you are involved with someone it should be a mutual decision on what they entail

Open relationships aren't always happy ones ... and if you have satisfying sex with one person I don't see a reason to look elsewhere for "more"  ... there's no such thing as Free Love .. there is free sex available .. but love always has a price ..  unnatural is in perception .. what some see as normal others may not

I live in upstate NY and I'm not married  ..

 Because people are naturally polygamous. Just because you love someone, that doesn't mean you won't be attracted to other people too.

 Monogamous relationships CAN work. But go against human biology. Remove the jealousy from the relationship and it'll go a lot better.

 If I go to upstate NY i'll show you what free love is all about.  ;)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: w8m8 on April 26, 2011, 07:36:29 AM
Because people are naturally polygamous. Just because you love someone, that doesn't mean you won't be attracted to other people too.

 Monogamous relationships CAN work. But go against human biology. Remove the jealousy from the relationship and it'll go a lot better.

 If I go to upstate NY i'll show you what free love is all about.  ;)

That is where we differ ... if I am attracted to someone I will remain monogamous and don't get attracted to someone else at all .. it's being satisfied that does that .. when I am not in a relationship then I can find others very attractive .. I don't do meaningless or wham bam thank you ma'am episodes .. I had enough of that when I was in my 20's

I don't necessarily see jealousy as a problem per se as much as I see disrespect as a problem ... if you truly care about someone why would you want to direspect them for some sexual attraction .?. and why be with someone if they cannot satisfy you .?.

I totally understand a lot of men see things differently .. I just don't see "myself" as needing to go out and hop about like a rabbit in heat trying out anything and everything that looks good

My brain is my biggest and most important sexual organ .. unless I am "attracted' mentally .. the packaging doesn't even register



Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Firemuscle on April 26, 2011, 07:42:53 AM
That is where we differ ... if I am attracted to someone I will remain monogamous and don't get attracted to someone else at all .. it's being satisfied that does that .. when I am not in a relationship then I can find others very attractive .. I don't do meaningless or wham bam thank you ma'am episodes .. I had enough of that when I was in my 20's

I don't necessarily see jealousy as a problem per se as much as I see disrespect as a problem ... if you truly care about someone why would you want to direspect them for some sexual attraction .?. and why be with someone if they cannot satisfy you .?.

I totally understand a lot of men see things differently .. I just don't see "myself" as needing to go out and hop about like a rabbit in heat trying out anything and everything that looks good

My brain is my biggest and most important sexual organ .. unless I am "attracted' mentally .. the packaging doesn't even register





 That's all because you are a woman. Women are naturally more monogamous and their body cheistry is very different.

 But with men. Forget about it. Men are NOT meant to be monogamous. We need to have lots and lots and lots of hot sex to stay satisfied. After having sex with the same woman every day for 2 years you naturally start to wanna try something else for a change.

 I agree about mental attraction, it's important. But it's totally possible to be mentally attracted and in love with more than one person. I seen it happen hundreds of times.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: w8m8 on April 26, 2011, 08:18:01 AM
That's all because you are a woman. Women are naturally more monogamous and their body cheistry is very different.

 But with men. Forget about it. Men are NOT meant to be monogamous. We need to have lots and lots and lots of hot sex to stay satisfied. After having sex with the same woman every day for 2 years you naturally start to wanna try something else for a change.

 I agree about mental attraction, it's important. But it's totally possible to be mentally attracted and in love with more than one person. I seen it happen hundreds of times.

we're not staying on topic .. it's about platonic friendships being possible .. lol



but to address your post I'm not a believer of  "trying" something else after 2 years of the same means you need something "new" .. keeping things fresh and interesting is part of the growth and connection you should share with your partner .. creating illusion and role playing is not boring .. flirting shouldn't disappear because you live together .. trips etc. .. all that can help .. I see no reason to be looking for more when you've chosen someone unless there are other "things" .. not just boredom of the sex you have
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: tbombz on April 26, 2011, 09:36:43 AM
I see no reason to be looking for more when you've chosen someone unless there are other "things" .. not just boredom of the sex you have


eh

i m horny like mad 24/7.. so i may be an exception..

and im recently single so this doesnt apply to me currently..

but if in the future i meet a person im sure i want to spend the rest of my life with..


ill still think its hot to watch them get fucked by a big ass dick, watch them get stretched out and scream, and of course ill want to mess around with othe rpeople too..     
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 26, 2011, 11:00:56 AM
we're not staying on topic .. it's about platonic friendships being possible .. lol



but to address your post I'm not a believer of  "trying" something else after 2 years of the same means you need something "new" .. keeping things fresh and interesting is part of the growth and connection you should share with your partner .. creating illusion and role playing is not boring .. flirting shouldn't disappear because you live together .. trips etc. .. all that can help .. I see no reason to be looking for more when you've chosen someone unless there are other "things" .. not just boredom of the sex you have


see Women are smarter than men
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: RUDE BUOY on April 26, 2011, 11:03:13 AM
We let you think that
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: w8m8 on April 26, 2011, 11:07:12 AM
We let you think that

and







WE let YOU think THAT  ;D
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: RUDE BUOY on April 26, 2011, 11:08:09 AM
I see whut u did thar
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Xerxes on April 26, 2011, 11:09:45 AM

see Women are smarter than men
Dumbest shit I ever heard



Back in the kitchen woman, send me the sandwich in the mail
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 26, 2011, 11:11:16 AM
Dumbest shit I ever heard



Back in the kitchen woman, send me the sandwich in the mail

listen ya little shit stain who's young enough to be my son..GO TO BED
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Xerxes on April 26, 2011, 11:14:28 AM
listen ya little shit stain who's young enough to be my son..GO TO BED
Sounds like you got some ants in your stachepants

beware of friction, might start a small bushfire

Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 26, 2011, 11:15:59 AM
Sounds like you got some ants in your stachepants

beware of friction, might start a small bushfire



shit, I remember that when I was fat and wore shorts in the house
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Impactedman on April 26, 2011, 11:17:05 AM
Not if they are hot. Then you can't help but want to fuck them. Unless you're gay.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: CalvinH on April 26, 2011, 11:17:42 AM
Oh Lord,the broads are taking over this thread!
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 26, 2011, 11:18:31 AM
Oh Lord,the broads are taking over this thread!

leave Xerxes out of it
 














































;D
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Xerxes on April 26, 2011, 11:33:20 AM
Ouch ;D
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: GroinkTropin on April 26, 2011, 01:53:17 PM

eh

i m horny like mad 24/7.. so i may be an exception..

and im recently single so this doesnt apply to me currently..

but if in the future i meet a person im sure i want to spend the rest of my life with..


ill still think its hot to watch them get fucked by a big ass dick, watch them get stretched out and scream, and of course ill want to mess around with othe rpeople too..     

OH
MY
GOD

Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Thin Lizzy on April 26, 2011, 04:05:08 PM
This topic has been done to death. There was even a movie made about it: "When Harry Met Sally."

The result is always the same. Men, excepts for gay and wussies, don't believe it's possible, and women do. The former realize that they'll eventually get horny want to fvck the woman. The latter believe that they'd be just as interesting to men without the possibility of a sex payoff. LMAO.

Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: tommywishbone on April 26, 2011, 06:49:34 PM
Possible but difficult. If said chick is a total triple bagger then maybe.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Firemuscle on April 27, 2011, 12:05:46 AM
 Most of my best friends are females.

 One has been my friend for 12 years. One has been my friend for 8 years.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Cleanest Natural on April 27, 2011, 01:54:55 AM
That is where we differ ... if I am attracted to someone I will remain monogamous and don't get attracted to someone else at all .. it's being satisfied that does that .. when I am not in a relationship then I can find others very attractive .. I don't do meaningless or wham bam thank you ma'am episodes .. I had enough of that when I was in my 20's

I don't necessarily see jealousy as a problem per se as much as I see disrespect as a problem ... if you truly care about someone why would you want to direspect them for some sexual attraction .?. and why be with someone if they cannot satisfy you .?.

I totally understand a lot of men see things differently .. I just don't see "myself" as needing to go out and hop about like a rabbit in heat trying out anything and everything that looks good

My brain is my biggest and most important sexual organ .. unless I am "attracted' mentally .. the packaging doesn't even register




:D

STFU u married fag ... u are the worst kind .. a fag who pretends to be a woman who likes bodybuilders buff oiled with huge erections

You are not even good at overing your tracks .. what a bipolar homo
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Firemuscle on April 27, 2011, 02:05:26 AM
:D

STFU u married fag ... u are the worst kind .. a fag who pretends to be a woman who likes bodybuilders buff oiled with huge erections

You are not even good at overing your tracks .. what a bipolar homo

 What evidence do you have that w8m8 is a dude?
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Xerxes on April 27, 2011, 02:10:21 AM
What evidence do you have that w8m8 is a dude?

She's not, Disturbia talked to her on Skype and sent him a photo as well which he wasn't supposed to post but did anyway. Sev is just being Sev. Best to ignore everything he posts.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Firemuscle on April 27, 2011, 02:16:31 AM
She's not, Disturbia talked to her on Skype and sent him a photo as well which he wasn't supposed to post but did anyway. Sev is just being Sev. Best to ignore everything he posts.

 Yeah Sev is a real bastard. Total douche.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: w8m8 on April 27, 2011, 02:39:17 AM
:D

STFU u married fag ... u are the worst kind .. a fag who pretends to be a woman who likes bodybuilders buff oiled with huge erections

You are not even good at overing your tracks .. what a bipolar homo

You are so stupid that you can't see how retarded you are  ... kidnapped by the government for mind control testing ... then escaped and gained back control of your mind .. lololololerssssssssss

no .. more like sold for chump change by a whore mother who thought you were so ugly and deformed she'd be shunned from the gypsy clan if she kept you



Keep trolling me and posting up your bullshit ... it's the only thing you do here ... troll .. lie .. troll some more .. lie some more

all for some little bit of attention

 ::)  Grow the fuck up Sebastian .. you are an ugly old man who has no life / no job / and no friends

 


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Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Cleanest Natural on April 27, 2011, 02:42:32 AM
You are raging mad because u got outed .. you cannot pass for a man let alone for a woman.


exec assassin with the highest success rate in Mumbay, married to a wealthy indian, rolling high dressed like a soccer fanatic, WEAPOOOOOONZZZZZZZZZZZZZ ZZZZZZ

 :D
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Firemuscle on April 27, 2011, 02:48:41 AM
You are raging mad because u got outed .. you cannot pass for a man let alone for a woman.


exec assassin with the highest success rate in Mumbay, married to a wealthy indian, rolling high dressed like a soccer fanatic, WEAPOOOOOONZZZZZZZZZZZZZ ZZZZZZ

 :D

 You're full of shit I would say.

 You have no proof. Post up the evidence for all this.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: w8m8 on April 27, 2011, 02:51:29 AM
u are raging mad because u got outed .. you cannot pass for a man let alone a woman.

I'm not raging mad you idiot .. you are the biggest pain in the ass on this board ... EVERYONE is annoyed by you and no one ever misses you when you go away .. in fact we all like it better without you here   <- FACT

LOL .. you are still stupid .. you only troll for attention because nobody in real life has anything to do with you

You should just give up the charade ...go suck cock for money and make something of yourself

Get a job ... or go to your own website and make it succeed ... oh wait ... you can't..   SCAMMER SCUM BAG :D
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Cleanest Natural on April 27, 2011, 03:37:01 AM
you would say anything to divert attention from the fact that you are not a woman  ;)

when I outed you as the same fag who posted in MattC's homo thread worshipping bodybuilders it surely hurt I see ... Panda saw you as pillowtalk as well .. u are done here mr
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: w8m8 on April 27, 2011, 04:08:32 AM
you would say anything to divert attention from the fact that you are not a woman  ;)

when I outed you as the same fag who posted in MattC's homo thread worshipping bodybuilders it surely hurt I see ... Panda saw you as pillowtalk as well .. u are done here mr

LOL  ;D ... you are really stupid ... and on your best day you can't even seem smart enough to make an intelligent post


I was a mod on Matt's board you ignorant fuckwit ... pillowtalk was a member there just like he is a member here .. yeah I'm going to carry on conversations with myself on 2 computers ... on 2 message boards .... can you get any more ignorant ?  ::) .. just keep going on and on you retard .. this is certainly what keeps you from being lonely each day

LOL @ you and Panda .. neither one of you have enough sense to know the truth if it bit you in the ass
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Cleanest Natural on April 27, 2011, 04:40:32 AM
 :D

you are such a fag ... you feel embarrassed so this is your best defense ??

if you are a woman then Vince Goodrum is straight

you could prove it easily but "choose not to" ::)

You go apeshit as soon as a reference to pillowtalk or fag is made
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: nzmusclemonster on April 27, 2011, 04:42:30 AM
Has W8M8 got her tits out yet?
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Cleanest Natural on April 27, 2011, 04:43:45 AM
Has W8M8 got her tits out yet?
his chest beats yours  :D
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: nzmusclemonster on April 27, 2011, 04:44:16 AM
his chest beats yours  :D

She can beat my meat as well  8)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Cleanest Natural on April 27, 2011, 04:45:07 AM
She can beat my meat as well  8)
Fixed

you do realize he is a dude  right?
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: nzmusclemonster on April 27, 2011, 04:47:20 AM
Fixed

you do realize he is a dude  right?
:o
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: w8m8 on April 27, 2011, 05:01:32 AM
:D

you are such a fag ... you feel embarrassed so this is your best defense ??

if you are a woman then Vince Goodrum is straight

you could prove it easily but "choose not to" ::)

You go apeshit as soon as a reference to pillowtalk or fag is made

you are delusional ... " going apeshit " ? .. defense ? ... LOL .. you have no idea how insignificant what you say really is .. I reply to you out of pity .. you seem to have a need to be noticed and talked to .. it's like you have nothing and no one to care

I could give a rats ass what you think and I don't have to prove anything .. least of all to you ..... you're so lonesome you live on Getbig to feel like you belong someplace ... there are people here that have integrity and class that know me , spent time with me , spoken to me ,  and have plenty of photos .. you will never be amongst any of them


it's you who are obsessed with pillowtalk .. it's like you crave him .. I can e-mail him for you and tell him you want a date  :D

your schtick trying to replace Squadfather is pathetic .. get off your self serving podium and look at yourself honestly ... who would ever believe your bullshit ? .. you claim to have all this secret mind power and have special gifts .. all you have is an empty life and no skills to earn a dollar of your own ... hence the booming success of your website  ::)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Cleanest Natural on April 27, 2011, 05:04:51 AM
Brutal meltdown of a reply

you do not care yet you respond with hate filled melties trying to justify yourself

stop BS'ing : I spoke to the people who "thought" were talking to you  ;)

nice try fag
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: w8m8 on April 27, 2011, 05:16:46 AM
Brutal meltdown of a reply

you do not care yet you respond with hate filled melties trying to justify yourself

stop BS'ing : I spoke to the people who "thought" were talking to you  ;)

nice try fag

O'rly ? ?  ;D  .. you have no clue who knows me



LOLOL ... keep going fucktard



This is why your website will never succeed ... and why you are stuck here with no place else to go

People with sense know your bullshit is a scam ... how's the book coming along ? LOL

"Born in Galati, Romania during the communist years in the mid 70’s, Sebastian is a unique individual with mental capacities that go beyond unusual. Because of his unique genetics, various government groups from Romania, Bulgaria, US and the former Soviet Union, used him in secret mind control experiments. Their purpose was to use and program human beings with particular genetics for various functions that serve their agendas. After regaining control of his own mind and recovering his memories, he started applying all the knowledge acquired in order to teach others, how to activate the unused portions of the brain using color, tone and archetype. His mental abilities and experience enable him to interpret mind-patterns, see energy fields, read DNA sequences, analyze name frequencies and interpret dreams. As of recent, he is putting the finishing touches on his first book, which is focusing on opening up and activating the unused portions of the brain."

Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Cleanest Natural on April 27, 2011, 06:14:58 AM
 :D

pillow talk = a gay dude

Calvin and others ... stop BS'ing dude ;)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: DroppingPlates on April 27, 2011, 07:03:08 AM

"Born in Galati, Romania during the communist years in the mid 70’s, Sebastian is a unique individual with mental capacities that go beyond unusual. Because of his unique genetics, various government groups from Romania, Bulgaria, US and the former Soviet Union, used him in secret mind control experiments. Their purpose was to use and program human beings with particular genetics for various functions that serve their agendas. After regaining control of his own mind and recovering his memories, he started applying all the knowledge acquired in order to teach others, how to activate the unused portions of the brain using color, tone and archetype. His mental abilities and experience enable him to interpret mind-patterns, see energy fields, read DNA sequences, analyze name frequencies and interpret dreams. As of recent, he is putting the finishing touches on his first book, which is focusing on opening up and activating the unused portions of the brain."



LMAO, who the hell is that gypsy crook in his inner galactic retarded mind, a 21st century Einstein?! I would rather do e-business with a Nigerian than this fucking dipshit with a superiority complex.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: newmom on April 27, 2011, 07:05:44 AM
LMAO, who the hell is that gypsy crook in his inner galactic retarded mind, a 21st century Einstein?! I would rather do e-business with a Nigerian than this fucking dipshit with a superiority complex.
:o :o :o :o :o :o :o


Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Xerxes on April 27, 2011, 07:06:33 AM
LMAO, who the hell is that gypsy crook in his inner galactic retarded mind, a 21st century Einstein?! I would rather do e-business with a Nigerian than this fucking dipshit with a superiority complex.

Careful, he might use "color, tone and archetype" to control your mind.  :-\
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: DroppingPlates on April 27, 2011, 07:12:22 AM
Careful, he might use "color, tone and archetype" to control your mind.  :-\

I've got mind control protection

(http://www.amsterdampost.nl/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/aluhoedje.jpg)

Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Cleanest Natural on April 27, 2011, 07:17:48 AM
"Watching his left chest (right for the viewers) I noticed a strange nipple shape. I first thought it was a gynacomastica-thing but that seems to be strange since his other nipple looks fine."

nuff said  :D

Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: DroppingPlates on April 27, 2011, 07:26:58 AM
(http://media.giantbomb.com/uploads/0/8640/384531-ronaldmcgtfo_super.jpg)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Mr Nobody on April 27, 2011, 07:33:54 AM
 8)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Cleanest Natural on April 27, 2011, 07:54:08 AM
dropping loads ... u still in love with Jay's nipples?
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Cleanest Natural on April 27, 2011, 08:03:00 AM
Iranian Bambi about to be butt raped

(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=364678.0;attach=411189;image)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Natural Man on April 27, 2011, 03:00:41 PM
women want kids with the best looking, strongest, richest male available , and in their range of physical attraction. as men want young looking, maternal women who never age. They dont want to take care of kids . If they re good looking they ll have several wives / fuck buddies. If they are bad looking they ll stay with the same woman all life long. End of thread.
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: RUDE BUOY on April 27, 2011, 04:09:45 PM
Lol just that simple eh
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Earl1972 on April 27, 2011, 09:45:36 PM
women want kids with the best looking, strongest, richest male available , and in their range of physical attraction. as men want young looking, maternal women who never age. They dont want to take care of kids . If they re good looking they ll have several wives / fuck buddies. If they are bad looking they ll stay with the same woman all life long. End of thread.

what do you mean?

E
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: RUDE BUOY on April 27, 2011, 10:02:37 PM
what do you mean?

E
he means no self respecting women would ever date a steeler or a steeler fan  ;)
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Doug_Steele on April 27, 2011, 10:35:00 PM
he means no self respecting women would ever date a steeler or a steeler fan  ;)

Lemarr Woodley got a small raise from $550k per year to Ten Million for one year.  :o
Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Natural Man on April 28, 2011, 06:10:28 PM
what do you mean?

E
I mean good looking women will only date good looking men -who often have lots of money too- or ugly men -if they are really, really loaded, even more than the good looking men.

But they ll never go for average/ugly looking men with no money. Also they re not interested in males with low confidence and who dont smile a lot because it means reduced chances of survival.
Depressed people tend to stay together while happier (more dominant in most aspect of their lives) people also stay together.

There are very very few cases of good looking women who had an ugly or fat father and are attracted to them, but this is very rare.

Average/ugly people mix with people of their kin too.



Title: Re: Is it possible to have platonic relationships with women?
Post by: Deicide on April 28, 2011, 06:14:47 PM
Or will you fall for the girl if you hang around her long enough?

Can we really fight human nature?

Did evolution really plan for male/female non sexual relationships?

Short answer is no but it is possible to have a low contact friendship with a female.