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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Army of One on February 12, 2012, 05:51:22 PM
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Dont see the point myself, and judging by the attitude of most others on here i would guess the same!Surely in most guys cases its pressure from the woman because she feels she has to conform to the jones's next door?
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PLEASE NO
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If you don't want kids, don't have them.
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Not interested.
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maybe.......what do you got? are they white?
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If you don't want kids, don't have them.
Im aware of that and have no problems coming to grips with not wanting them or telling others I dont want them.Its just everytime I hear a friends missus is pregnant and its through choice, I wonder why?20 years of no sleep, no money, no freetime, whining and no sex!Where do I sign up!I think Ive made a similar thread before and I didnt get any clarity then either :'(
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I've created way too much meaning in my life to have an "empty space" for something like that... More power to these who take that "job" and good luck.
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20 years of no sleep, no money, no freetime, whining and no sex!
haha WTF,
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I want kids.
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I want kids.
What if the parents find out?
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I don't think I'm capable otherwise it would have happened already.
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haha WTF,
ok, far less sex, far less money for yourself, far more whining, less sleep and far less freetime
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ok, far less sex, far less money for yourself, far more whining, less sleep and far less freetime
You sound like a selfish sack of shit.
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Your biological alarm clock will start ringing between the ages of 35 to 50,...trust me.
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You sound like a selfish sack of shit.
I am. I've had two relationships fail solely because I didn't want kids.
Being a selfish sack of shit is not that bad..
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Do not want
I prefer having a great career and make a lot of money and do whatever the fuck I want to do without driving kids to they hockey/soccer/football game every fucking day of the week
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I am. I've had two relationships fail solely because I didn't want kids.
Having kids--passing on your genes--is the closest thing there is to immortality.
If you think you're worthy of it, you should definitely contribute to the next generation. Don't be so self-indulgent; there's bigger things in life than video games.
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Have you seen the state of the folks that ARE reproducing????
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I am. I've had two relationships fail solely because I didn't want kids.
Being a selfish sack of shit is not that bad..
Meh, nowt wrong with being selfish. Being spiteful is what I can't stand.
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What if the parents find out?
Hahaha ;D
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Have you seen the state of the folks that ARE reproducing????
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You're gay, so what would you know about the joy of having children.
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I prefer dogs ;)
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You sound like a selfish sack of shit.
Sure, I know I dont want them so I wont have them.Better than the fucks having kids and abandoning them so they can grow up shooting up a shopping Mall.
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Having kids--passing on your genes--is the closest thing there is to immortality.
If you think you're worthy of it, you should definitely contribute to the next generation. Don't be so self-indulgent; there's bigger things in life than video games.
By that logic having kids is the ultimate act of ego and selfishness. I would say it's more selfish to bring kids into a shitty, overcrowded world just because you can't resist some biological imperative.
Have kids, great. However, not great unless you're going to give it your all.
The world is full of kids with shitty, selfish parents - fathers and sons...
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Do not want
I prefer having a great career and make a lot of money and do whatever the fuck I want to do without driving kids to they hockey/soccer/football game every fucking day of the week
x2 my man
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My friend, have all the kids you want and pass on your genes. However, to the average hard working American (the non-Obama supporters here), pay for your kids shit. Then, you can have fifteen kids for all I or anyone else could care. :o
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Until I have read the bible cover to cover I can not even begin to consider this question.
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Having kids--passing on your genes--is the closest thing there is to immortality.
If you think you're worthy of it, you should definitely contribute to the next generation. Don't be so self-indulgent; there's bigger things in life than video games.
that, is fucking selfish in itself
plus, I always hear the reason: Having kids is so awesome, you have people to love you for all your life
WTF
need i say more ??
you want fucking kids because you feel alone ?
that's an horrible thing 8)
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My friend, have all the kids you want. However, to the average hard working American (the non-Obama supporters here), pay for your kids shit. Then, you can have fifteen kids for all I or anyone else could care. :o
yes you really showed nicorulez with that post.
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By that logic having kids is the ultimate act of ego and selfishness. I would say it's more selfish to bring kids into a shitty, overcrowded world just because you can't resist some biological imperative.
Have kids, great. However, not great unless you're going to give it your all.
The world is full of kids with shitty, selfish parents - fathers and sons...
Exactly, this guy doesnt get that he is absolutely nothing in relation to the size of the universe, in the grand scheme of things he's no better than the ant he treads on daily.
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yes you really showed nicorulez with that post.
Thank you Haider. Nice to see someone agrees with me
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By that logic having kids is the ultimate act of ego and selfishness. I would say it's more selfish to bring kids into a shitty, overcrowded world just because you can't resist some biological imperative.
Have kids, great. However, not great unless you're going to give it your all.
The world is full of kids with shitty, selfish parents - fathers and sons...
I'd say not having them because you want to play around all your life is more selfish.
It's not the most selfish thing because it's a responsibility! The first world is not even producing enough children to survive because of attitudes like yours.
Grown men that want to play around with their toys all their lives and let the refuse inherit the greatness their ancestors created. Spin it how you want. It's effete.
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Your biological alarm clock will start ringing between the ages of 35 to 50,...trust me.
I think HE is not a female... I know quite some older fellas who hasn't had a kid and are happier than ever (and even more of these who've had a kid or two and doesn't give a shit about them..sad but true).. Fatherhood is a rare occasion imho.. motherhood - a whole diff. deal.
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I'd say not having them because you want to play around all your life is more selfish.
It's not the most selfish thing because it's a responsibility! The first world is not even producing enough children to survive because of attitudes like yours.
Grown men that want to play around with their toys all their lives and let the refuse inherit the greatness their ancestors created. Spin it how you want. It's effete.
You really believe you are so special that anyone gives a fuck if you pass on your genes?
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Listen, nothing chaps my ass more than woman who have kids to cut a check. They don't give a shit about where they are. The spend the government check on shit for themselves while their kids live like animals. Doesn't matter if you are black or white, Christian or Muslim; the absolute laziness and entitlement mentality of America today drives me up the fucking wall. Have a kid and take care of him/her. Don't expect us to be co-parents...I don't want to pay for your one night stand biatch ;D
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Having kids--passing on your genes--is the closest thing there is to immortality.
If you think you're worthy of it, you should definitely contribute to the next generation. Don't be so self-indulgent; there's bigger things in life than video games.
That's bullshit my friend. I want to live myself.. not my "kids" lol..
Repdoruction is desperate means of saving the "genome" (information), that uses bodies as "vessels". If you want something close to "immortality" - support life extension initiatives (and not try to imitate what others've already tried and failed miserably.. i.e. - reproduction). But I'm just being sarcastic. Have as much kids as you want. I'll be a "selfish bastard" too, and I won't create a competition for your kids (you can thank me later) in this already overpopulated world.
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ok, far less sex, far less money for yourself, far more whining, less sleep and far less freetime
I'm with you brother, You have to get all that shit out of your system, fuck 100's of women ,travel, party.... until you are sick of it , I had a really adventurous and crazy life growing up, no girlfriend, no real job ,no school , zero responsibilities....... my kid is the best thing that ever happened to me ,everything I do is for him, all my free time I spend it with him, I teach him boxing -MMA- soccer , we watch movies ,ride bicycles, ride my motorcycle,we go boating ,fishing ...he's my best friend and I love it.
Flame on fags :D
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I do, but the wife's got a blocked fallopian tube and I refuse to come off the sauce. I've got a few vials of HCG I could crack open but I'm too lazy.
If no action in the next year I'll come off until we get her pregnant. Kids are awesome but not for everyone.
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I think HE is not a female... I know quite some older fellas who hasn't had a kid and are happier than ever (and even more of these who've had a kid or two and doesn't give a shit about them..sad but true).. Fatherhood is a rare occasion imho.. motherhood - a whole diff. deal.
Me too. I know a guy that didn't really want kids but had them to please a partner and because it was what society expected. The relationship failed and he barely sees his kids. Doesn't even like them and moans about how much he has to pay for them. Now that's selfish and shitty.
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Do not want. 2 Reasons:
- Selfishness: I enjoy traveling pretty much whenever I want, have more money, and abject materialism. Revile me for whatever reason, but most people are materialistic anyway. *shrugs*
- Exponentialism: The world is changing way too rapidly in comparison to years past. I am heavily pessimistic and do not like where we are headed as humanity. I would not want my child to have to go through hunger, war, strife, natural resource shortages, etc......Unless you are in the top 0.1% or a member of the not much larger support group for them(police, engineers, scientists), I see nothing but pain and suffering and a huge loss in happiness.
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That's bullshit my friend. I want to live myself.. not my "kids" lol..
Repdoruction is desperate means of saving the "genome" (information), that uses bodies as "vessels". If you want something close to "immortality" - support life extension initiatives (and not try to imitate what others've already tried and failed miserably.. i.e. - reproduction). But I'm just being sarcastic. Have as much kids as you want. I'll be a "selfish bastard" too, and I won't create a competition for your kids (you can thank me later) in this already overpopulated world.
I don't think I can have kids. I already said that earlier.
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I'd say not having them because you want to play around all your life is more selfish.
It's not the most selfish thing because it's a responsibility! The first world is not even producing enough children to survive because of attitudes like yours.
Grown men that want to play around with their toys all their lives and let the refuse inherit the greatness their ancestors created. Spin it how you want. It's effete.
Why would you care? Why do you pretend you care? You'll be dead in like...50 to 60 years (if you are lucky. and I make a guess of course). You won't feel, see or know anything (about the world that exists after your death.), just like before you were born.
I think you want to project your "life meaning" on these around you, and being "concerned" about someones "selfishness" (creating a new person that MAY experience all the bad stuff of this life. I say - MAY.. Oh and after all - experience aging and miserable death, most probably.. is so damn selfish it's just beyond anything... You can't be sure for another persons life even if you have the best intentions.) is just a cover for that.
Loose all the emotional stuff and try to evaluate this in a constructive way. You may see things in a diff. light then...
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I'm with you brother, You have to get all that shit out of your system, fuck 100's of women ,travel, party.... until you are sick of it , I had a really adventurous and crazy life growing up, no girlfriend, no real job ,no school , zero responsibilities....... my kid is the best thing that ever happened to me ,everything I do is for him, all my free time I spend it with him, I teach him boxing -MMA- soccer , we watch movies ,ride bicycles, ride my motorcycle,we go boating ,fishing ...he's my best friend and I love it.
Flame on fags :D
prodigal son?
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I'm with you brother, You have to get all that shit out of your system, fuck 100's of women ,travel, party.... until you are sick of it , I had a really adventurous and crazy life growing up, no girlfriend, no real job ,no school , zero responsibilities....... my kid is the best thing that ever happened to me ,everything I do is for him, all my free time I spend it with him, I teach him boxing -MMA- soccer , we watch movies ,ride bicycles, ride my motorcycle,we go boating ,fishing ...he's my best friend and I love it.
Flame on fags :D
That's great. But maybe you are just trying to "replay" the stuff you weren't doing on your kid? (no flaming, just a thought). I mean - not having kids doesn't nessasirily mean you must be a /douche/ with zero responsibilities..
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I'm with you brother, You have to get all that shit out of your system, fuck 100's of women ,travel, party.... until you are sick of it , I had a really adventurous and crazy life growing up, no girlfriend, no real job ,no school , zero responsibilities....... my kid is the best thing that ever happened to me ,everything I do is for him, all my free time I spend it with him, I teach him boxing -MMA- soccer , we watch movies ,ride bicycles, ride my motorcycle,we go boating ,fishing ...he's my best friend and I love it.
Flame on fags :D
a god amongst us mere mortals
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Getbiggers are primarily kids and 40 yr old adolescents that would rather invest their income and time in drugs and alcohol than family.....this is straight from Getbiggers, not MOS.
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That's great. But maybe you are just trying to "replay" the stuff you weren't doing on your kid? (no flaming, just a thought). I mean - not having kids doesn't nessasirily mean you must be a /douche/ with zero responsibilities..
Replay what ???,
I always tell my friends ,do not have kids if you aren't ready for them ,no having kids it means just that , you don't have kids .
a god amongst us mere mortals
haha
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your mom have kids
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idiocracy
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who needs children when you can get legit trenbolona ace and pharma grade hgh ;D
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Replay what ???,
I always tell my friends ,do not have kids if you aren't ready for them ,no having kids it means just that , you don't have kids .
I mean - you say you had no responsibilities, no job, no nothing.. it sounds like you were just a lazy bastard with no goals in life (I'm just assuming, correct me if I'm wrong). And since you've had a kid all your life got a whole new meaning (so now you do all that stuff with your kid that you didn't do before).
That was just an idea for the sake of discussion, anyway, best of luck on raising your kid not to be another dumb piece of shit this world is so full of.
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She sits in the park. Her clothes are out of date.
Two children whine and bicker, tug her skirt.
A third draws aimless patterns in the dirt
Someone she loved once passed by – too late
to feign indifference to that casual nod.
“How nice” et cetera. “Time holds great surprises.”
From his neat head unquestionably rises
a small balloon…”but for the grace of God…”
They stand a while in flickering light, rehearsing
the children’s names and birthdays. “It’s so sweet
to hear their chatter, watch them grow and thrive, ”
she says to his departing smile. Then, nursing
the youngest child, sits staring at her feet.
To the wind she says, “They have eaten me alive.”
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I would maybe have kids if my woman wanted to stay home to raise him
but she won't, and my children won't be raised by fucking 18 years old working at the daycare that's for sure
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"A really good question, Jamel. And you aren’t the first one to pose it to a columnist. Back in 1975, a young couple on the fence about parenthood wrote to Ann Landers for advice about whether to have kids. So Ann asked her readers: “If you had it to do over again, would you have children?” Thousands responded, and the results were stunning: 70 percent were broken, bitter parents who said, “No way.”"
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I would maybe have kids if my woman wanted to stay home to raise him
but she won't, and my children won't be raised by fucking 18 years old working at the daycare that's for sure
Hey dude, guess how much that shit costs here on the West Coast? Around a fucking THOUSAND dollars a month.
Yep, some high school drop-out can go to college and pass the classes they failed, get their grade 12 equivalence and take a shitty few month course and get in a daycare. My coworkers were talking about that shit and it usually costs the same as their rent. I can't fucking believe it. Glad I have family that will watch my kids.
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I'd say not having them because you want to play around all your life is more selfish.
It's not the most selfish thing because it's a responsibility! The first world is not even producing enough children to survive because of attitudes like yours.
Grown men that want to play around with their toys all their lives and let the refuse inherit the greatness their ancestors created. Spin it how you want. It's effete.
No it is selfish, period. If you want to help the world, adopt a kid, there are enough already, like stray dogs, stop breeding them, there are already plenty that need parents.
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Hey dude, guess how much that shit costs here on the West Coast? Around a fucking THOUSAND dollars a month.
Yep, some high school drop-out can go to college and pass the classes they failed, get their grade 12 equivalence and take a shitty few month course and get in a daycare. My coworkers were talking about that shit and it usually costs the same as their rent. I can't fucking believe it. Glad I have family that will watch my kids.
Nobody loves your children or takes care of them like family.
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its the only reason for our existence.. to procreate.
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Nobody loves your children or takes care of them like family.
"When Willgrant and I are gonna have kids..."
;D
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Not until I'm about 40.
My father had me at 43 while my mom was 40. My old man had a very dangerous job as a coast guard rescue swimmer and didnt want my mom to raise children wihout a father. So once he retired they had their 3 children,being married 10 years at that point. My parents say they were so glad they waited. By that time my father was collecting a retirement as well as working another job. My mom had spent 15 years as a teacher, and quit so she could be a stay home mom. So by the time your at that age your well off on money and your career is established.
Plus they say by that time they already wanted to sit at home. They got all of their adventures and traveling done with.
I would never want to be one of my friends who has kids. I call up some of my fiends and say hey were going on a fishing trip this weekend you in? ''no, sorry taking my son to practice''..etc. I'd rather wait till I'm old enough so that is what I want to do.
I work with some younger people who say things like 'were so glad their kids are leaving for college'' ''Have kids young so you can enjoy your adult life. ''Fuck that I want to enjoy my young life and have the kids In my adult life. Whats the rush?
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"When Willgrant and I are gonna have kids..."
;D
Very funny Stav. ;D :P
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Yes. I want a kids..at least two.
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Not until I'm about 40.
My father had me at 43 while my mom was 40. My old man had a very dangerous job as a coast guard rescue swimmer and didnt want my mom to raise children wihout a father. So once he retired they had their 3 children,being married 10 years at that point. My parents say they were so glad they waited. By that time my father was collecting a retirement as well as working another job. My mom had spent 15 years as a teacher, and quit so she could be a stay home mom. So by the time your at that age your well off on money and your career is established.
Plus they say by that time they already wanted to sit at home. They got all of their adventures and traveling done with.
I would never want to be one of my friends who has kids. I call up some of my fiends and say hey were going on a fishing trip this weekend you in? ''no, sorry taking my son to practice''..etc. I'd rather wait till I'm old enough so that is what I want to do.
I work with some younger people who say things like 'were so glad their kids are leaving for college'' ''Have kids young so you can enjoy your adult life. ''Fuck that I want to enjoy my young life and have the kids In my adult life. Whats the rush?
Dude, man. If you have kids at that age you'll be in diapers at the same time the kids just finish using them. That's old, man. Having kids at an older age is harder and leads to weaker offspring last time I checked into it.
Don't think that kids ruin lives. People who think like that are losers to begin with. My bro had his daughter at age 20 and he's doing awesome. My niece is the SHIT and my bro's got an awesome life. Sure, his priorities shifted but I mean now he focuses on his very own flesh and blood instead of menial things that were probably no good to begin with. I don't see any problems there. Everything worked out for the better.
When I see miserable fucks with shitty ass kids I have no sympathy. I had an amazingly tough upbringing and my parents had shit all, but I turned out okay. Although my parents fought in front of us and made a lot of other mistakes, they were always good to us and did what they could to protect us. They never bitched. They never acted like we were some big burden and made us feel bad about it. Something about whiny parents really pisses me off. Children are challenging and exhausting to raise, no doubt. But what else is there that's more important than raising kids? Going fishing? World of Warcraft tournament? Waiting to bid-snipe a pack of ravenous schmoes over a pair of soiled manties sports memorabilia?
I'm a cynical, angry fucker but I never bitch about raising kids. I of course have never raised kids of my own, but I've helped raise my younger brothers when the parents were going through tough times and take care of my nieces and nephews regularly.
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Your biological alarm clock will start ringing between the ages of 35 to 50,...trust me.
yep. If you're a softie, you'll get the urge as you near 30.
True badasses will make it to 34 or 35 before cracking. Their "legacy" and whatnot.
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. But what else is there that's more important than raising kids? Going fishing? World of Warcraft tournament? Waiting to bid-snipe a pack of ravenous schmoes over a pair of soiled manties sports memorabilia?
Basically anything that has more meaning for a given person..
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I had my daughter when I was 26 years old. I thought my life was over.. But it really had just begun. She is such a blessing and so is fatherhood. There's too many fatherless children out there which is part of why kids these days seem worse overall. Please don't have children if you dont want to take care of your responsibility to them.
Btw I'm 30 now and I don't know if I will have another child.
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Basically anything that has more meaning for a given person..
Any given person needs to realign their priorities if they're shitting out children. You don't get a choice at that point.
Just my two cents though... we can all let this world go to shit but I'm not raising a pack of savage little fucks.
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Not until I'm about 40.
My father had me at 43 while my mom was 40. My old man had a very dangerous job as a coast guard rescue swimmer and didnt want my mom to raise children wihout a father. So once he retired they had their 3 children,being married 10 years at that point. My parents say they were so glad they waited. By that time my father was collecting a retirement as well as working another job. My mom had spent 15 years as a teacher, and quit so she could be a stay home mom. So by the time your at that age your well off on money and your career is established.
Plus they say by that time they already wanted to sit at home. They got all of their adventures and traveling done with.
I would never want to be one of my friends who has kids. I call up some of my fiends and say hey were going on a fishing trip this weekend you in? ''no, sorry taking my son to practice''..etc. I'd rather wait till I'm old enough so that is what I want to do.
I work with some younger people who say things like 'were so glad their kids are leaving for college'' ''Have kids young so you can enjoy your adult life. ''Fuck that I want to enjoy my young life and have the kids In my adult life. Whats the rush?
That sounds great, really. But if I'd ever have a kid I'd like it to be from as young female as possible. Male sperm quality doesn't really decrease for a long long time (so it's ok for you to wait for as long as you want/you think you'll be able to find a right "incubator") while the older a female gets - the bigger chance of "things go wrong" with the offspring.
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Any given person needs to realign their priorities if they're shitting out children. You don't get a choice at that point.
If by that you mean - if "it happens" (and actually in most cases it is like that lol) than of course - yes...
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That sounds great, really. But if I'd ever have a kid I'd like it to be from as young female as possible. Male sperm quality doesn't really decrease for a long long time (so it's ok for you to wait for as long as you want/you think you'll be able to find a right "incubator") while the older a female gets - the bigger chance of "things go wrong" with the offspring.
It's true. After the age of 35, they start testing the foetus for down syndrome etc.
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If by that you mean - if "it happens" (and actually in most cases it is like that lol) than of course - yes...
Yeah, I was born a bastard by a pair of retards but they smartened up just like any other person should and did their best from that point forward.
If you're not going to put the child up for adoption or get an abortion, you need to smarten up. It's a real life person you're raising and it doesn't take much to fuck up their life for good. I could never live with that sort of shame. To not only bring someone into the world but to screw up their entire life is an intolerable and terrifying thought for me. :-\
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....... my kid is the best thing that ever happened to me ,everything I do is for him, all my free time I spend it with him, I teach him boxing -MMA- soccer , JERK OFF [/b] , we watch movies ,ride bicycles, ride my motorcycle,we go boating ,fishing ...he's my best friend and I love it.
Flame on fags :D
WTF ??
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Dude, man. If you have kids at that age you'll be in diapers at the same time the kids just finish using them. That's old, man. Having kids at an older age is harder and leads to weaker offspring last time I checked into it.
Don't think that kids ruin lives. People who think like that are losers to begin with. My bro had his daughter at age 20 and he's doing awesome. My niece is the SHIT and my bro's got an awesome life. Sure, his priorities shifted but I mean now he focuses on his very own flesh and blood instead of menial things that were probably no good to begin with. I don't see any problems there. Everything worked out for the better.
When I see miserable fucks with shitty ass kids I have no sympathy. I had an amazingly tough upbringing and my parents had shit all, but I turned out okay. Although my parents fought in front of us and made a lot of other mistakes, they were always good to us and did what they could to protect us. They never bitched. They never acted like we were some big burden and made us feel bad about it. Something about whiny parents really pisses me off. Children are challenging and exhausting to raise, no doubt. But what else is there that's more important than raising kids? Going fishing? World of Warcraft tournament? Waiting to bid-snipe a pack of ravenous schmoes over a pair of soiled manties sports memorabilia?
I'm a cynical, angry fucker but I never bitch about raising kids. I of course have never raised kids of my own, but I've helped raise my younger brothers when the parents were going through tough times and take care of my nieces and nephews regularly.
Good post.
I must have been nuts to think people would be selfless enough to want kids on a bodybuilding board of all places. Bunch of narcicisst.
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Good post.
I must have been nuts to think people would be selfless enough to want kids on a bodybuilding board of all places. Bunch of narcicisst.
Most people have kids to have someone that loves them, THAT is fucking selfish
being able to recognize you would make a shit dad, and not wanting to fuck up a children's life because you are not meant to raise a child, is not about narcissm
like is about doing what you love and want to do, not about having kids just for the sake of having kids
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Good post.
I must have been nuts to think people would be selfless enough to want kids on a bodybuilding board of all places. Bunch of narcicisst.
You are still on that "emotional bandwagon", nothing more...
Just think for a minute what are you talking about and it may hit you that you haven't even prethought critically (what's so "selfless" about creating a new life, that MAY be fucked up by someone, that may not even want to live in this fucked up world, or simply - would just create more competition for other people, so the tension for resources would increase.. What's so "Selfless" to bring a new mouth to this world while thinking just about your own urges and needs "to have a kid" that may not even thank you for that later down the road).
THINK ffs, THINK, don't react, but think.
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You are still on that "emotional bandwagon", nothing more...
Just think for a minute what are you talking about and it may hit you that you haven't even prethought critically (what's so "selfless" about creating a new life, that MAY be fucked up by someone, that may not even want to live in this fucked up world, or simply - would just create more competition for other people, so the tension for resources would increase.. What's so "Selfless" to bring a new mouth to this world while thinking just about your own urges and needs "to have a kid" that may not even thank you for that later down the road).
THINK ffs, THINK, don't react, but think.
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That sounds great, really. But if I'd ever have a kid I'd like it to be from as young female as possible. Male sperm quality doesn't really decrease for a long long time (so it's ok for you to wait for as long as you want/you think you'll be able to find a right "incubator") while the older a female gets - the bigger chance of "things go wrong" with the offspring.
I dont know how true that is. I'm sure it depends on the people themselves. I'm from NYC so many of the people I know were born when their parents were 40+. People just tend to not have children till late in NY. I can say I was pretty blessed with the genetics I was given so I guess thats not a worry for me.
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Dude, man. If you have kids at that age you'll be in diapers at the same time the kids just finish using them. That's old, man. Having kids at an older age is harder and leads to weaker offspring last time I checked into it.
Don't think that kids ruin lives. People who think like that are losers to begin with. My bro had his daughter at age 20 and he's doing awesome. My niece is the SHIT and my bro's got an awesome life. Sure, his priorities shifted but I mean now he focuses on his very own flesh and blood instead of menial things that were probably no good to begin with. I don't see any problems there. Everything worked out for the better.
When I see miserable fucks with shitty ass kids I have no sympathy. I had an amazingly tough upbringing and my parents had shit all, but I turned out okay. Although my parents fought in front of us and made a lot of other mistakes, they were always good to us and did what they could to protect us. They never bitched. They never acted like we were some big burden and made us feel bad about it. Something about whiny parents really pisses me off. Children are challenging and exhausting to raise, no doubt. But what else is there that's more important than raising kids? Going fishing? World of Warcraft tournament? Waiting to bid-snipe a pack of ravenous schmoes over a pair of soiled manties sports memorabilia?
I'm a cynical, angry fucker but I never bitch about raising kids. I of course have never raised kids of my own, but I've helped raise my younger brothers when the parents were going through tough times and take care of my nieces and nephews regularly.
dustin, this is all individual opinion, whether someone wants kids, or cares about having kids. If they don't none of this will matter, people have different priorities in life, your one of those people it seems who try and push their friends into having children, misery loves company.
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I want them! I Very much like kids!
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Good post.
I must have been nuts to think people would be selfless enough to want kids on a bodybuilding board of all places. Bunch of narcicisst.
there are enough children who need adopted, adopt a kid if you aren't selfish, otherwise, introducing another human to this planet isn't going to do any good, it will only lead to more overpopulation.
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there are enough children who need adopted, adopt a kid if you aren't selfish, otherwise, introducing another human to this planet isn't going to do any good, it will only lead to more overpopulation.
I think adoption is a great idea. Unfortunately Angelina and Brad have adopted all the children that need good homes. ;D
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dustin, this is all individual opinion, whether someone wants kids, or cares about having kids. If they don't none of this will matter, people have different priorities in life, your one of those people it seems who try and push their friends into having children, misery loves company.
Allow me to rephrase. I meant that in the context of parenthood. Not pushing it on people that don't have kids, but if you have them it's your responsibility.
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If I will have a stable, well paying job, then yes I would love to have children.
Otherwise, if im broke as fuck, then hell no.
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Not only are they expensive and time consuming, but look at the fucking world we live in! Who would want to bring a child into this shit hole of a world.
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"A really good question, Jamel. And you aren’t the first one to pose it to a columnist. Back in 1975, a young couple on the fence about parenthood wrote to Ann Landers for advice about whether to have kids. So Ann asked her readers: “If you had it to do over again, would you have children?” Thousands responded, and the results were stunning: 70 percent were broken, bitter parents who said, “No way.”"
While this isn't the main reason I'm child free, I have to admit, it has featured largely in our decision to not have kids. I turn 42 in a couple of weeks. Off the top of my head, I can think 10 couples in my group of friends who have kids. Some of them are now teenagers, some of them are still quite young. I asked them if they would do things differently if they'd had the chance.
Seven of them regret their decision. Of course, they love their kids, and they've all said they can't imagine life without them, but if given the choice to do it over, they wouldn't have made the same decision. The other 3 couples - one pair is super strict and super religious - their kid is very well behaved but doesn't seem to have much connection to his parents at all, nor they to him (he's 11). I go there and just see 3 people living in a house who eat at the same time but have nothing to do with each other otherwise. The other 2 couples are devoted to their kids. One family is very very happy and they're a joy to be around. The other is on the verge of divorce because they've realised recently the only thing they have in common now are their children.
When I lived in Australia I worked as a therapist - the last few years specialising with kids who have learning and behavioural issues. Ok - not exactly representative of the general population I know, but I saw too many fucked up things doing that job to make me want to have kids of my own. Since moving to Germany, I've been working as a high school teacher. Same thing. Most of the kids are great, but I still see things daily that make me happy I never became a parent.
Each to their own. One of the mothers at my school said to me last week - having children - you have occasional moments of unspeakable joy, especially when they're young, but not a lot of happiness overall.
I'm more than happy being happy.
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That's great. But maybe you are just trying to "replay" the stuff you weren't doing on your kid? (no flaming, just a thought). I mean - not having kids doesn't nessasirily mean you must be a /douche/ with zero responsibilities..
Or maybe he just loves his kid ;) you know, like a fucking normal parent
Getbig...where HAVING CHIDREN gets shit on ::)
Let's pull this thread up in 5 years when half of you assholes have a kid ;)
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i want but i'm scared at the financial side
how to get rich get big, how?
money is what holding all you people back from happiness
with money you can have housewife taking care of the infants
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interesting responces to this question here
so many here declaring they will not / do not want children
so much dislike of women (but not sex with them) expressed in many threads across the site
so many members declaring dislike of queers
most confusing
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so many here declaring they will not / do not want children
Id say this way of thinking is more in line with how men have always thought, as until recently this way of thinking was publicly shunned by the media etc. as it didn't promote "healthy family values".With the advent of the internet people are more free to express how they really feel.
Take some guy who doesn't want kids, get him lovesick with some female that he still wants to bang 24/7 because he's in the first 5-10 years of a relationship, take the woman who would be horrified to hear he doesn't want kids, throw in high chances of accidental pregnancy plus a guy who will do whatever so he can still get to dump his load= child he doesn't really want.
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I want them! I Very much like kids!
But do they want a dad with a big nose?
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But do they want a dad with a big nose?
lol
poor kids
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they dont want to be muslim
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some people are so selfish
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Allow me to rephrase. I meant that in the context of parenthood. Not pushing it on people that don't have kids, but if you have them it's your responsibility.
ok I understand your post now.
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I'm with you brother, You have to get all that shit out of your system, fuck 100's of women ,travel, party.... until you are sick of it , I had a really adventurous and crazy life growing up, no girlfriend, no real job ,no school , zero responsibilities....... my kid is the best thing that ever happened to me ,everything I do is for him, all my free time I spend it with him, I teach him boxing -MMA- soccer , we watch porno movies ,ride bicycles, ride my motorcycle, show him many bitches i have fucked, we go boating ,fishing ...he's my best friend and I love it.
Flame on fags :D
8)
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My "real doll" stays pretty quiet on the subject
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Dont see the point myself, and judging by the attitude of most others on here i would guess the same!Surely in most guys cases its pressure from the woman because she feels she has to conform to the jones's next door?
The average getbigger cannot afford a wife or children, and on average lacks the education necessary for today's woman to feel that they are a worthy partner.
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all I can say we all become selfish when hormones introduce to our body, just look around for example is like a female who did so many plastic surgerys so she can look better and when the age hit her she realize the reality.
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it's great that not everyone wants children, the world is getting over populated
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it's great that not everyone wants children, the world is getting over populated
are you referring to China lol
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Too weird to live
Too rare to die
--- HST
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no, live like a king, die like a dog.
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Too weird to live
Too rare to die
--- HST
(http://28.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lw2mdjiY681r7ncizo1_500.gif)
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are you referring to China lol
At least, the Chinese government is aware of the problem. How about the governments in India and African countries?
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My "real doll" stays pretty quiet on the subject
That's probably the perfect woman for most getbiggers. :-\
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I would love a daughter so when she turns 18 I can fuck all her friends. Should be huge and ripped by then..
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Some believe that Earth is an actual living breathing hell. And the only way to escape it is to not breed in this dimension. Breeding here may keep you here for as long as your offspring breed. Close the door on this existence and a new door will open up. Read that somewhere about a guy and his DMT trip. lol
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That's probably the perfect woman for most getbiggers. :-\
Most getbiggers treat their women like dolls.
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Or maybe he just loves his kid ;) you know, like a fucking normal parent
Getbig...where HAVING CHIDREN gets shit on ::)
Let's pull this thread up in 5 years when half of you assholes have a kid ;)
this!
plus having my daughter actually made me a better man!
i was very self distructive when i was younger lol!
now i need to take care of my daughter, have to be around , have to make money.... etc etc...
and kids are great man, i love my little girl more then anything in the world...
when she smiles at me i forget all my problems... ;)
i think i will have just one more.... lol....
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this!
plus having my daughter actually made me a better man!
i was very self distructive when i was younger lol!
now i need to take care of my daughter, have to be around , have to make money.... etc etc...
and kids are great man, i love my little girl more then anything in the world...
when she smiles at me i forget all my problems... ;)
i think i will have just one more.... lol....
this its true, I have a daughter too and I got same filling about that smile :) , before I was thinking the dogs are better than kids, but now I can see you have to take care of them just like you own dog, and if you thing the dogs dont ask for money just like your own kids ,you wrong, when they get older your vet bills get higher
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I would like to have kids but with the right women.
I would like to raise him alone but uberman and his girls and sons story refuses this stuff.
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This is why I fucking hate getbiggers so here goes.
To be an alpha male, one most spread his genes with all the fine bitches and show true leadership that only a father would know.
We hate on generation nothing and complain they do nothing but slut around and play with gizmo's and act like children well into adulthood.
We hate on leech's and those that don't contribute to a functioning society.
We talk about being a man, being sucessful, not being lazy loser untermensch etc.
Yet children are a no no ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ???
Seriously alot of woman logic floating around.
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Dont see the point myself, and judging by the attitude of most others on here i would guess the same!Surely in most guys cases its pressure from the woman because she feels she has to conform to the jones's next door?
I don't even want a relationship not to mention kids.
but you know, god told noah to gather both sexes of every animal specie on the boat before god would drown the world, so you know, miracles do happend, who knows.
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I really love children, especially deep fried with some chili sauce....
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I really love children, especially deep fried with some chili sauce....
No sambalbij ???
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>:(
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No sambalbij ???
Only with Chinese kids of course...
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I've never really wanted children. Nothing has changed as i've gotten older.
It's funny hearing people talk about this. "you'll change your mind when you're older!" "biological clock" (for males?)
Some parents just want others to share their pain,,
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I've never really wanted children. Nothing has changed as i've gotten older.
It's funny hearing people talk about this. "you'll change your mind when you're older!" "biological clock" (for males?)
Some parents just want others to share their pain,,
x2
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Kids?! PLEASE no. What a quick way to destroy your life.
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I've never really wanted children. Nothing has changed as i've gotten older.
It's funny hearing people talk about this. "you'll change your mind when you're older!" "biological clock" (for males?)
Some parents just want others to share their pain,,
So your ungrateful for being alive, and you refuse to give that gift to the future, sound logic.
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So your ungrateful for being alive, and you refuse to give that gift to the future, sound logic.
Gift? Yeah, real "gift". If I had had a say, I would have asked my folks NOT to proceed with a pregnancy.
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I will say that I am SO happy that I don't have kids. This world does not deserve my children. Too bad, it is a wonderous miraculous place, but people SUCK.
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Gift? Yeah, real "gift". If I had had a say, I would have asked my folks NOT to proceed with a pregnancy.
Than your an ungrateful little bitch, and remember this is from the guy that is pro suicide.
Your like the kind of guy that accepts gifts on your birthday, but than thinks gift giving is stupid come christmas.
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i always said.... 'i never want children.... this world sucks bla bla bla"
then my daughter was born... totally NOT planned btw...
when she smiled at me for the first time... man, i melted!!!
it's magic.... i don't care what others say... it's a love like no other.... best in the world!
when i get home.... she runs towards me screaming PAPAIIII!!! and she gives me a big hug and a kiss.... that is all i need to feel a rich man!
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i always said.... 'i never want children.... this world sucks bla bla bla"
then my daughter was born... totally NOT planned btw...
when she smiled at me for the first time... man, i melted!!!
it's magic.... i don't care what others say... it's a love like no other.... best in the world!
when i get home.... she runs towards me screaming PAPAIIII!!! and she gives me a big hug and a kiss.... that is all i need to feel a rich man!
no offense but,,, enjoy it while it lasts..
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no offense but,,, enjoy it while it lasts..
why....?
all depends how you raise them....
i come from a very close and loving family, and my daughter will have the same...
lot of negativity here.....
like kids are the end of ones life....lol!! i still have fun, still go out, still get drunk every once in a while.. do whatever i want...
it just takes a little planning....
and i love to spend time with my daughter as well.... she is a little angel...
and will grow up to a wonderfull woman... because I WILL raise her that way...
you still have good, dedicated... and loving parents ....