Do getbiggers on average want or not want children?

[Stavios]

You are still on that "emotional bandwagon", nothing more...

Just think for a minute what are you talking about and it may hit you that you haven't even prethought critically (what's so "selfless" about creating a new life, that MAY be fucked up by someone, that may not even want to live in this fucked up world, or simply - would just create more competition for other people, so the tension for resources would increase.. What's so "Selfless" to bring a new mouth to this world while thinking just about your own urges and needs "to have a kid" that may not even thank you for that later down the road).
 THINK ffs, THINK, don't react, but think.

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[kh300]

That sounds great, really. But if I'd ever have a kid I'd like it to be from as young female as possible. Male sperm quality doesn't really decrease for a long long time (so it's ok for you to wait for as long as you want/you think you'll be able to find a right "incubator") while the older a female gets - the bigger chance of "things go wrong" with the offspring.

I dont know how true that is. I'm sure it depends on the people themselves. I'm from NYC so many of the people I know were born when their parents were 40+. People just tend to not have children till late in NY. I can say I was pretty blessed with the genetics I was given so I guess thats not a worry for me.

[reppingfor20]

Dude, man. If you have kids at that age you'll be in diapers at the same time the kids just finish using them. That's old, man. Having kids at an older age is harder and leads to weaker offspring last time I checked into it.

Don't think that kids ruin lives. People who think like that are losers to begin with. My bro had his daughter at age 20 and he's doing awesome. My niece is the SHIT and my bro's got an awesome life. Sure, his priorities shifted but I mean now he focuses on his very own flesh and blood instead of menial things that were probably no good to begin with. I don't see any problems there. Everything worked out for the better.

When I see miserable fucks with shitty ass kids I have no sympathy. I had an amazingly tough upbringing and my parents had shit all, but I turned out okay. Although my parents fought in front of us and made a lot of other mistakes, they were always good to us and did what they could to protect us. They never bitched. They never acted like we were some big burden and made us feel bad about it. Something about whiny parents really pisses me off. Children are challenging and exhausting to raise, no doubt. But what else is there that's more important than raising kids? Going fishing? World of Warcraft tournament? Waiting to bid-snipe a pack of ravenous schmoes over a pair of soiled manties sports memorabilia?

I'm a cynical, angry fucker but I never bitch about raising kids. I of course have never raised kids of my own, but I've helped raise my younger brothers when the parents were going through tough times and take care of my nieces and nephews regularly.

dustin, this is all individual opinion, whether someone wants kids, or cares about having kids.  If they don't none of this will matter, people have different priorities in life, your one of those people it seems who try and push their friends into having children, misery loves company.

[BIG ACH]

I want them!  I Very much like kids!

[reppingfor20]

Good post.
I must have been nuts to think people would be selfless enough to want kids on a bodybuilding board of all places. Bunch of narcicisst.

there are enough children who need adopted, adopt a kid if you aren't selfish, otherwise, introducing another human to this planet isn't going to do any good, it will only lead to more overpopulation.

[booty]

there are enough children who need adopted, adopt a kid if you aren't selfish, otherwise, introducing another human to this planet isn't going to do any good, it will only lead to more overpopulation.

I think adoption is a great idea.  Unfortunately Angelina and Brad have adopted all the children that need good homes.   

[dustin]

dustin, this is all individual opinion, whether someone wants kids, or cares about having kids.  If they don't none of this will matter, people have different priorities in life, your one of those people it seems who try and push their friends into having children, misery loves company.

Allow me to rephrase. I meant that in the context of parenthood. Not pushing it on people that don't have kids, but if you have them it's your responsibility.

[Meso_z]

If I will have a stable, well paying job, then yes I would love to have children.

Otherwise, if im broke as fuck, then hell no.

[ecto2meso]

Not only are they expensive and time consuming, but look at the fucking world we live in! Who would want to bring a child into this shit hole of a world.

[galain]

"A really good question, Jamel. And you aren’t the first one to pose it to a columnist. Back in 1975, a young couple on the fence about parenthood wrote to Ann Landers for advice about whether to have kids. So Ann asked her readers: “If you had it to do over again, would you have children?” Thousands responded, and the results were stunning: 70 percent were broken, bitter parents who said, “No way.”"

While this isn't the main reason I'm child free, I have to admit, it has featured largely in our decision to not have kids. I turn 42 in a couple of weeks. Off the top of my head, I can think 10 couples in my group of friends who have kids. Some of them are now teenagers, some of them are still quite young.  I asked them if they would do things differently if they'd had the chance.

Seven of them regret their decision. Of course, they love their kids, and they've all said they can't imagine life without them, but if given the choice to do it over, they wouldn't have made the same decision. The other 3 couples - one pair is super strict and super religious - their kid is very well behaved but doesn't seem to have much connection to his parents at all, nor they to him (he's 11). I go there and just see 3 people living in a house who eat at the same time but have nothing to do with each other otherwise. The other 2 couples are devoted to their kids. One family is very very happy and they're a joy to be around. The other is on the verge of divorce because they've realised recently the only thing they have in common now are their children.

When I lived in Australia I worked as a therapist - the last few years specialising with kids who have learning and behavioural issues. Ok - not exactly representative of the general population I know, but I saw too many fucked up things doing that job to make me want to have kids of my own. Since moving to Germany, I've been working as a high school teacher. Same thing. Most of the kids are great, but I still see things daily that make me happy I never became a parent.

Each to their own. One of the mothers at my school said to me last week - having children - you have occasional moments of unspeakable joy, especially when they're young, but not a lot of happiness overall.

I'm more than happy being happy.

[Palpatine Q]

That's great. But maybe you are just trying to "replay" the stuff you weren't doing on your kid? (no flaming, just a thought). I mean - not having kids doesn't nessasirily mean you must be a /douche/ with zero responsibilities..

Or maybe he just loves his kid    you know, like a fucking normal parent

Getbig...where HAVING CHIDREN gets shit on 

Let's pull this thread up in 5 years when half of you assholes have a kid 

[purenaturalstrength]

i want but i'm scared at the financial side

how to get rich get big, how?


money is what holding all you people back from happiness


with money you can have housewife taking care of the infants

[B_B_C]

interesting responces to this question here
so many here declaring they will not / do not want children
so much dislike of women (but not sex with them) expressed in many threads across the site
so many members declaring  dislike of queers
most confusing

[Army of One]

so many here declaring they will not / do not want children

Id say this way of thinking is more in line with how men have always thought, as until recently this way of thinking was publicly shunned by the media etc. as it didn't promote "healthy family values".With the advent of the internet people are more free to express how they really feel.

Take some guy who doesn't want kids, get him lovesick with some female that he still wants to bang 24/7 because he's in the first 5-10 years of a relationship, take the woman who would be horrified to hear he doesn't want kids, throw in high chances of accidental pregnancy plus a guy who will do whatever so he can still get to dump his load= child he doesn't really want.

[DroppingPlates]

I want them!  I Very much like kids!

But do they want a dad with a big nose?

[Borracho]

But do they want a dad with a big nose?

lol

poor kids

[Tito24]

they dont want to be muslim

[Borracho]

some people are so selfish

[reppingfor20]

Allow me to rephrase. I meant that in the context of parenthood. Not pushing it on people that don't have kids, but if you have them it's your responsibility.

ok I understand your post now.

[Doug_Steele]

I'm with you brother,  You have to get all that shit out of your system, fuck 100's of women ,travel, party.... until you are sick of it , I had a really adventurous and crazy life growing up, no girlfriend, no real job ,no school , zero  responsibilities....... my kid is the best thing that ever happened to me ,everything I do is for him, all my free time I spend it with him, I teach him boxing -MMA- soccer , we watch  porno movies ,ride  bicycles, ride  my motorcycle, show him many bitches i have fucked, we go boating ,fishing ...he's my best friend and I love it.

Flame on fags  

 

[Boost]

My "real doll" stays pretty quiet on the subject

[Benny B]

Dont see the point myself, and judging by the attitude of most others on here i would guess the same!Surely in most guys cases its pressure from the woman because she feels she has to conform to the jones's next door?

The average getbigger cannot afford a wife or children, and on average lacks the education necessary for today's woman to feel that they are a worthy partner.

[matrixgh]

all I can say we all become selfish when hormones introduce to our body,  just look around for example is like a female who did so many plastic surgerys so she can look better and when the age hit her she realize the reality.

[Papper]

it's great that not everyone wants children, the world is getting over populated

[matrixgh]

it's great that not everyone wants children, the world is getting over populated

are you referring to China lol