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(Forthcoming in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, May 2013)
Diagnostic Criteria for "Nice Guy" Syndrome
(I) qualitative impairment of ability to interact with women, as manifested by at least three of the following:
(A) marked impairments in the use of multiple nonverbal behaviors such as eye-to-eye gaze, facial expression, body posture, and gestures to regulate social interaction when surrounded by women
(B) little to no sexual relations with women in the context of a non-ascetic lifestyle
(C) extreme and excessive submissiveness to women, including repetitive apologizing for behavior, opening doors for women, and throwing of one's coat over puddles such that women may walk over it in order to avoid getting wet
(D) having the username 'dj181' on one or more bodybuilding fora
(II) possession of a deep-seated, bubbling-to-the-surface hatred of women
(III) possession of at least two of the following beliefs:
(A) the belief that one is a genuinely nice guy
(B) the belief that nice guys lie oneself are inherently less attractive to women
(C) the belief that women naturally pursue "assholes," "douchebags," etc. to one's detriment
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;D ;D ;D
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Case studies (via "okcupid")
http://niceguysofokc.tumblr.com/ (http://niceguysofokc.tumblr.com/)
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;D
syntax gunning for kahn's heavyweight title
we may see a dos santos v. cain II scenario playing out soon, methinks
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but a serious question...
is it possible for narcissists to be "nice guys"?
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but a serious question...
is it possible for narcissists to be "nice guys"?
"Nice guys" in the technical sense just delimited, or actual nice guys?
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"Nice guys" in the technical sense just delimited, or actual nice guys?
actual nice guys
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actual nice guys
Maybe, if they can satisfy their narcissistic needs while still being a nice guy (e.g., by being nice they garner all the attention they need). I'd imagine that once being nice is no longer coextensive with narcissistic fulfillment, the wheels would start coming off and they'd turn into assholes straight quick.
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Maybe, if they can satisfy their narcissistic needs while still being a nice guy (e.g., by being nice they garner all the attention they need). I'd imagine that once being nice is no longer coextensive with narcissistic fulfillment, the wheels would start coming off and they'd turn into assholes straight quick.
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A book some of our case studies could utilize, perhaps?
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"Crouching Nice Guy, Hidden Perv"?
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syntaxmachine, so far you are living up to my expectations of you in 2013!
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WOOO is not a nice guy...
softy with my pets and family...
professional at work
asshole otherwise
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;D
Look who the author is....
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There's a difference between being a nice guy and being a feeble-minded skirt-chasing ladies' man. You can and should be courteous and respectful to courteous and respectful people, but you don't have to be a milquetoast.
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Guess i'll have to admit that i'm guilty of (D)
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I feel sorry for these poor fellas. I really do. You shouldn't have to be an asshole but you'll get trampled if you don't.
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These poor saps. The unfortunate truth is you can't treat women nice if you want to bang them. The more you treat them like crap the more they want you. Makes no sense but what woman does make sense. Now when they start aging that's when they'll settle for the nice guys. It took me sometime to learn this lesson
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These poor saps. The unfortunate truth is you can't treat women nice if you want to bang them. The more you treat them like crap the more they want you. Makes no sense but what woman does make sense. Now when they start aging that's when they'll settle for the nice guys. It took me sometime to learn this lesson
Words of wisdom right there.
I've also learned that if you're 'nice' they will destroy you.
But some women are 'players' too, their aim is just mindfuck guys and lead them on for their sadistic narcissistic purposes which do not include sex....They like to be surrounded by a bunch of male sycophants to help them feel like an Alpha-Female and deal with their Neurotic needs for constantly being the centre of attention and getting their own way.
They crave a constant power-trip over men.
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These poor saps. The unfortunate truth is you can't treat women nice if you want to bang them. The more you treat them like crap the more they want you. Makes no sense but what woman does make sense. Now when they start aging that's when they'll settle for the nice guys. It took me sometime to learn this lesson
there is a midground. Always treat people the way you want to be treated. Women say they like confidence and firmness, and men like that in a woman as well. If said person gets buck, then they set the tone, you let them know what the deal is. You can take it or leave it. And you can be kind, but firm.
The fact is, these dudes think that bending over for a chick is gonna get them anywhere. And it's not, so they gotta change their game plan. Don't hate on the man who gets the job done. Nor hate the chick either. Adjust.
And there are many women who date nice guys and or "safe guys", just for the fact that these men won't leave them
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Words of wisdom right there.
I've also learned that if you're 'nice' they will destroy you.
But some women are 'players' too, their aim is just mindfuck guys and lead them on for their sadistic narcissistic purposes which do not include sex....They like to be surrounded by a bunch of male sycophants to help them feel like an Alpha-Female and deal with their Neurotic needs for constantly being the centre of attention and getting their own way.
They crave a constant power-trip over men.
Boom! These pathetic fucks always play into that worshipping a bitch drama. I would never, ever do that. I go the other way. My hyper-ego and pride won't allow me to do this. All men need to reevaluate their behaviors towards broads.
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Boom! These pathetic fucks always play into that worshipping a bitch drama. I would never, ever do that. I go the other way. My hyper-ego and pride won't allow me to do this. All men need to reevaluate their behaviors towards broads.
This is my attitude. Always know in the back of your mind you can live without them. This will give you power and trust me, women will sense it and try harder. Most importsntly, keep your dignity at all cost. Dont grovel or beg for any reason. In all likelihood your dignity and pride will be all you'll be left with when everything is said and done, so never lose it.
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if said woman is one you could "fall in love" with, then just be yourself
and if she don't like "the real you" then move on and find someone who does
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(Forthcoming in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, May 2013)
Diagnostic Criteria for "Nice Guy" Syndrome
(I) qualitative impairment of ability to interact with women, as manifested by at least three of the following:
(A) marked impairments in the use of multiple nonverbal behaviors such as eye-to-eye gaze, facial expression, body posture, and gestures to regulate social interaction when surrounded by women
(B) little to no sexual relations with women in the context of a non-ascetic lifestyle
(C) extreme and excessive submissiveness to women, including repetitive apologizing for behavior, opening doors for women, and throwing of one's coat over puddles such that women may walk over it in order to avoid getting wet
(D) having the username 'dj181' on one or more bodybuilding fora
(II) possession of a deep-seated, bubbling-to-the-surface hatred of women
(III) possession of at least two of the following beliefs:
(A) the belief that one is a genuinely nice guy
(B) the belief that nice guys lie oneself are inherently less attractive to women
(C) the belief that women naturally pursue "assholes," "douchebags," etc. to one's detriment
Not me, I'm a proud A-hole so stfu and remove this lame thread asap.
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Not me, I'm a proud A-hole so stfu and remove this lame thread asap.
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Not me, I'm a proud A-hole so stfu and remove this lame thread asap.
How has that worked for you thus far, Howard?
Wait a minute, I think I already have the answer.
Falconian Analytics Engaged
Howard
Ho Ward
Ho=Slut you bang
Ward='To drive away' (in one of its senses)
You drive away all the hoes.
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the less you give a fck, the better you will do.
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How has that worked for you thus far, Howard?
Wait a minute, I think I already have the answer.
Falconian Analytics Engaged
Howard
Ho Ward
Ho=Slut you bang
Ward='To drive away' (more or less)
You drive away all the hoes.
LMAO!
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How has that worked for you thus far, Howard?
Wait a minute, I think I already have the answer.
Falconian Analytics Engaged
Howard
Ho Ward
Ho=Slut you bang
Ward='To drive away' (in one of its senses)
You drive away all the hoes.
Drive away the hoes, but keep the good loyal ones
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How has that worked for you thus far, Howard?
Wait a minute, I think I already have the answer.
Falconian Analytics Engaged
Howard
Ho Ward
Ho=Slut you bang
Ward='To drive away' (in one of its senses)
You drive away all the hoes.
;D
syntax mastering some new arts
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the less you give a fck, the better you will do.
x2
But unfortunately I have had some lapses in judgement recently :'(
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There's a difference between being a nice guy and being a feeble-minded skirt-chasing ladies' man. You can and should be courteous and respectful to courteous and respectful people, but you don't have to be a milquetoast.
x2 - so called nice guys, and assholes, are different facade to a similar person who is afraid of conflict and natural polarization.
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Example. This will not end well. He is Mr. Gushy, she is "shocked"
http://www.steveharveytv.com/the-proposal/ (http://www.steveharveytv.com/the-proposal/)
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Haha, best thread of the week!
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Gunter looks insanely big there
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Thanks for posting that.
Any time I ever have any urge to be 'nice' I will think of this.
Holy shit...
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Thanks for posting that.
Any time I ever have any urge to be 'nice' I will think of this.
Holy shit...
It's clearly preferable to be a 'mr. Model' type over one of these sad souls.
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Great song,... mr nice guy ;D
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It's clearly preferable to be a 'mr. Model' type over one of these sad souls
"Can't beat them, join them", eh?
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"Can't beat them, join them", eh?
I wouldn't know what that's like because I'm a getbigger -- I had an orgy with the nurses immediately upon leaving the womb.
But for the betas that are the subject of this thread, yes, your adage is pertinent.
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I think the problem wIth these guys is they are ugly.
Dj181 can relate, personality is irrelevant when you look like a vulture.
LOL@ him even typing the word narcissist
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I think the problem wIth these guys is they are ugly.
Dj181 can relate, personality is irrelevant when you look like a vulture.
LOL@ him even typing the word narcissist
But take a look around, there are loads of beautiful or attractive women with guys who like shit and aren't even rich.
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But take a look around, there are loads of beautiful or attractive women with guys who like shit and aren't even rich.
There are ?
Maybe in some beer commercial fantasy
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How has that worked for you thus far, Howard?
Wait a minute, I think I already have the answer.
Falconian Analytics Engaged
Howard
Ho Ward
Ho=Slut you bang
Ward='To drive away' (in one of its senses)
You drive away all the hoes.
LOL!!!!!!!!!!
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Haha great thread
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Its a rather sad and one-sided way of viewing things. I think the same psychology applies to men; when you can get something easy you don't value it as much. How many guys do you see chasing after nice homely marraigaeble girls? ???
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I think the problem wIth these guys is they are ugly.
Dj181 can relate, personality is irrelevant when you look like a vulture.
LOL@ him even typing the word narcissist
;D ;D ;D
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Its a rather sad and one-sided way of viewing things. I think the same psychology applies to men; when you can get something easy you don't value it as much. How many guys do you see chasing after nice homely marraigaeble girls? ???
Good point.
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Its a rather sad and one-sided way of viewing things. I think the same psychology applies to men; when you can get something easy you don't value it as much. How many guys do you see chasing after nice homely marraigaeble girls? ???
in the science of sex vids that I posted. When they had women and men of diff attractiveness (with numbers on their heads), they had to pick---if I remember correctly, many would overshoot (men and women), but then would realize and start shooting for their "corresponding attractiveness".
In the real world, this tends to happen for men and women, barring men who are rich.
Rarely do you see a man who is deemed very attractive by women with a homely woman. And if he is, it's either an ego thing for him, or she used to be attractive, and he's grown to love her over time. Example would be Pierce Brosnan and his wife.
Now, since women tend to be the ones in our society who do the picking, if a hot chick intentionally picks a homely looking nice guy, either he has money, or she knows that his ass won't leave as his chances of getting the same deal are slim. It's an ego thing for her, and security---he's more apt to stay than a attractive guy.
Looks get you in the door as a dude, personality is ok, but money is a must.
Put all three together, a unattractive "nice guy" has no chance against that.
And a dude who knows he's the shit, can act like it.
And, you can't hate on that.
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in the science of sex vids that I posted. When they had women and men of diff attractiveness (with numbers on their heads), they had to pick---if I remember correctly, many would overshoot (men and women), but then would realize and start shooting for their "corresponding attractiveness".
In the real world, this tends to happen for men and women, barring men who are rich.
Rarely do you see a man who is deemed very attractive by women with a homely woman. And if he is, it's either an ego thing for him, or she used to be attractive, and he's grown to love her over time. Example would be Pierce Brosnan and his wife.
Now, since women tend to be the ones in our society who do the picking, if a hot chick intentionally picks a homely looking nice guy, either he has money, or she knows that his ass won't leave as his chances of getting the same deal are slim. It's an ego thing for her, and security---he's more apt to stay than a attractive guy.
Looks get you in the door as a dude, personality is ok, but money is a must.
Put all three together, a unattractive "nice guy" has no chance against that.
And a dude who knows he's the shit, can act like it.
And, you can't hate on that.
good analysis. It's a myth that women don't care about looks- they do, but they also factor in the qualities that make the guy a 'good provider'. To revisit the topic at hand, arrogance/assholeness may be interpreted as being 'alpha' or assertive by women (the other bit being the reverse psychology of liking what you can't get).
In the end it's really a balancing act (for smart men/women) to choose a partner- but we live in a superficial society so its not surprising that superficial qualities often supersede.
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those captioned pics are hilarious. bunch of bad looking haters... no wonder they get no play
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This post concludes the "Nice Guy" Syndrome case studies; examine them at your leisure and gain a proper education about this most pernicious disorder.
Remember, "nice guys finish last, all women just like assholes." ::)
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This thread has scared the shit out me, fills me with a cold terror, once again thank you for these reminders!
I do not ever want to be those guys!!!
I must admit that sometimes I have lapsed from usually not giving a shit, but these images will keep me in check, they are now scarred into my mind! haha
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in the science of sex vids that I posted. When they had women and men of diff attractiveness (with numbers on their heads), they had to pick---if I remember correctly, many would overshoot (men and women), but then would realize and start shooting for their "corresponding attractiveness".
In the real world, this tends to happen for men and women, barring men who are rich.
Rarely do you see a man who is deemed very attractive by women with a homely woman. And if he is, it's either an ego thing for him, or she used to be attractive, and he's grown to love her over time. Example would be Pierce Brosnan and his wife.
Now, since women tend to be the ones in our society who do the picking, if a hot chick intentionally picks a homely looking nice guy, either he has money, or she knows that his ass won't leave as his chances of getting the same deal are slim. It's an ego thing for her, and security---he's more apt to stay than a attractive guy.
Looks get you in the door as a dude, personality is ok, but money is a must.
Put all three together, a unattractive "nice guy" has no chance against that.
And a dude who knows he's the shit, can act like it.
And, you can't hate on that.
I'm gonna need this in a tomato analogy.
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I'm gonna need this in a tomato analogy.
Just watch the link. And the rest of the vids
http://dsc.discovery.com/tv-shows/other-shows/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-out-of-your-league.htm (http://dsc.discovery.com/tv-shows/other-shows/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-out-of-your-league.htm)
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This thread has scared the shit out me, fills me with a cold terror, once again thank you for these reminders!
I do not ever want to be those guys!!!
I must admit that sometimes I have lapsed from usually not giving a shit, but these images will keep me in check, they are now scarred into my mind! haha
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They always choose they asshole, Griffith, they always choose they asshole.
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I feel sorry for these poor fellas. I really do. You shouldn't have to be an asshole but you'll get trampled if you don't.
This and this. A million times this.
Girls want someone that's ready to walk away at a moment's notice. Someone who can turn around with a 'fuck you' smile and never look back. Someone strong and manly that treats her well but convey the fact that it can all change at a moment's notice if she starts any shit.
Treat her kind but once in a while ruffle her feathers. Let her become complacent with you and she starts testing you.
Obviously this wouldn't go for all girls, just most of them.
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They always choose they asshole, Griffith, they always choose they asshole.
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AHHHHHHH !!!!!
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They always choose they asshole, Griffith, they always choose they asshole.
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Half of these lot look like they've been in a famine, the other half look they caused it.
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Half of these lot look like they've been in a famine, the other half look they caused it.
;D ;D ;D
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Treat women good but dont take any crap from them. Thats the golden rule. treat them like dirt may work if they are 16-17 years old
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Maybe not according to others but I'm actually a very nice person.
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I suspect the person who created that site is a very ugly and very large woman. She seems to think it disqualifies someone as being a nice guy because they disagree with her/it on abortion.
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if you have to treat her like shit to keep her, then she's not worth keeping
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if you have to treat her like shit to keep her, then she's not worth keeping
This. She has "daddy issues".
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This. She has "daddy issues".
That's what I was thinking....she craves attention but not in the regular way.
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They always choose they asshole, Griffith, they always choose they asshole.
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Lmao!
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Half of these lot look like they've been in a famine, the other half look they caused it.
LOL! ;D
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These guys problem is they're fugly or weird mostly.
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This and this. A million times this.
Girls want someone that's ready to walk away at a moment's notice. Someone who can turn around with a 'fuck you' smile and never look back. Someone strong and manly that treats her well but convey the fact that it can all change at a moment's notice if she starts any shit.
Treat her kind but once in a while ruffle her feathers. Let her become complacent with you and she starts testing you.
Obviously this wouldn't go for all girls, just most of them.
I always get ragged on for thinking I'm the shit or whatever, but the truth is i never played these games.
I read these posts and I see that people have put a lot of thought into what's the right way to handle women, how to get them, etc. and it's obviously something they feel very strongly about.
I dunno man.....if I like someone, I like someone. i can't be bothered playing fucking games. And I've said that to many a girl's face.."Look, we can play "the game" , or we can hang out and have fun...you tell me"
it usually cuts right through the bullshit, and I would say most women would be happy to hear that.
And the thing is , i hear guys say "act as if you don't care" ....i DON'T care, it's not an act. and it's not because i'm "good looking", I can't be bothered with negative and difficult people, life is too short.
if you want to play baby games, and "test" me and all of that high school bullshit....have a nice day, I won't give you another thought. and that's not posturing. I erase people from my mind at will. I like being happy
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Maybe not according to others but I'm actually a very nice person.
haha i love this guy
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I always get ragged on for thinking I'm the shit or whatever, but the truth is i never played these games.
I read these posts and I see that people have put a lot of thought into what's the right way to handle women, how to get them, etc. and it's obviously something they feel very strongly about.
I dunno man.....if I like someone, I like someone. i can't be bothered playing fucking games. And I've said that to many a girl's face.."Look, we can play "the game" , or we can hang out and have fun...you tell me"
it usually cuts right through the bullshit, and I would say most women would be happy to hear that.
And the thing is , i hear guys say "act as if you don't care" ....i DON'T care, it's not an act. and it's not because i'm "good looking", I can't be bothered with negative and difficult people, life is too short.
if you want to play baby games, and "test" me and all of that high school bullshit....have a nice day, I won't give you another thought. and that's not posturing. I erase people from my mind at will. I like being happy
Ha, ha! Yes, Groink! Release the evil! You're cockiness had been on a decline. Good see you back! Welcome home brother 8)
;D
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Ha, ha! Yes, Groink! Release the evil! You're cockiness had been on a decline. Good see you back! Welcome home brother 8)
;D
its a new yr, mellow Groink is not fitting.
A combo of the two.
But, I do agree with him. Besides, any 40+ yr old who is playing HS games needs a head check.
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Great thread
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I've always been a "nice guy" but I've never had a complex because of it, So I can't really say that I have "nice guy syndrome".... because I wasn't ever bitter about it... never really had a problem getting girls... I'm not saying that girls flooded towards me or anything like that, but I did alright for myself. Its all about confidence in my opinion and I've always been pretty confident.
Like Groink, I was always very straight up, didn't play any games, and was just real and got straight to the point. That's the best way to be I think!
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I always get ragged on for thinking I'm the shit or whatever, but the truth is i never played these games.
I read these posts and I see that people have put a lot of thought into what's the right way to handle women, how to get them, etc. and it's obviously something they feel very strongly about.
I dunno man.....if I like someone, I like someone. i can't be bothered playing fucking games. And I've said that to many a girl's face.."Look, we can play "the game" , or we can hang out and have fun...you tell me"
it usually cuts right through the bullshit, and I would say most women would be happy to hear that.
And the thing is , i hear guys say "act as if you don't care" ....i DON'T care, it's not an act. and it's not because i'm "good looking", I can't be bothered with negative and difficult people, life is too short.
if you want to play baby games, and "test" me and all of that high school bullshit....have a nice day, I won't give you another thought. and that's not posturing. I erase people from my mind at will. I like being happy
words of wisdom, but thats because your not 17 and insecure so you dont have to play games like some getbiggers here. i never play games either and it works well for me to
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This and this. A million times this.
Girls want someone that's ready to walk away at a moment's notice. Someone who can turn around with a 'fuck you' smile and never look back. Someone strong and manly that treats her well but convey the fact that it can all change at a moment's notice if she starts any shit.
Treat her kind but once in a while ruffle her feathers. Let her become complacent with you and she starts testing you.
Obviously this wouldn't go for all girls, just most of them.
this hightlighted stuff is true. In other words, she starts taking dominant control of the relationship. 80% of women will do this if you let them.
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Just be a good guy and treat girls right. Girls are also human beings.
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I've always been a "nice guy" but I've never had a complex because of it, So I can't really say that I have "nice guy syndrome".... because I wasn't ever bitter about it... never really had a problem getting girls... I'm not saying that girls flooded towards me or anything like that, but I did alright for myself. Its all about confidence in my opinion and I've always been pretty confident.
Like Groink, I was always very straight up, didn't play any games, and was just real and got straight to the point. That's the best way to be I think!
That's the spirit!
:D
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I always get ragged on for thinking I'm the shit or whatever, but the truth is i never played these games.
I read these posts and I see that people have put a lot of thought into what's the right way to handle women, how to get them, etc. and it's obviously something they feel very strongly about.
I dunno man.....if I like someone, I like someone. i can't be bothered playing fucking games. And I've said that to many a girl's face.."Look, we can play "the game" , or we can hang out and have fun...you tell me"
it usually cuts right through the bullshit, and I would say most women would be happy to hear that.
And the thing is , i hear guys say "act as if you don't care" ....i DON'T care, it's not an act. and it's not because i'm "good looking", I can't be bothered with negative and difficult people, life is too short.
if you want to play baby games, and "test" me and all of that high school bullshit....have a nice day, I won't give you another thought. and that's not posturing. I erase people from my mind at will. I like being happy
I concur ... I have the same attitude and it weeds out the bullshit
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if there are, its bc the women are insecure and want one idiot who dont run away while shes looking for the next best one.
very simple.
women want looks and be fucked.
what do women really want?you will find out when you look at their choices after theyre divorced rich.
Good answer.
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crimewave by the coen brothers had some awesome nice guy vs bastard scenes
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Back for more.
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Found RAtard's account
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Half of these lot look like they've been in a famine, the other half look they caused it.
LOL'd! Solid burn.
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Must have an account here and post in the Politics section
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amazing individuals
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Person who created these images must be a woman. Only a woman would find any correlation between strong feeling about women being obliged to shave their legs and lack of success in opposite sex relationships. WTF?
These are not genuine nice guys, they are sycophantic suckups, that's a difference. I think they are just as "nice" to everyone else as they are towards women. Some people swallow the bait, but 99% of us sense that something is wrong about them right after. That's propably the reason why women don't want to get involved in a relationship with them. They are "nice" because they have low self esteem and for them that's the only way they could live in a society. There's nothing remarkable about them except from being "nice".
My flatmate was a genuine nice guy. He was cool with everyone, smiling, happy person back then. Long story short, 90% of school wanted to fuck him and many had meltdowns when he rejected them. I had few fights with him, mostly because he was devout catholic (there goes another myth) but he was NEVER a douchebag when it comes to man-woman relationships.
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I'm glad you've managed to decipher the entire point of the thread, readily apparent from the very first post.
I'm afraid I don't have any prizes to offer.
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solid work in this thread, syntax