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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: King Shizzo on September 27, 2014, 01:32:28 AM
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I am 33 years old. I have had no desire to get married in my life. I am seeing a trend with many people around my age group (around 10 years) that I am noticing a trend.
Marriage is dying a slow death.
A document "binding" people together means absolutely nothing these days.
Marriage is more convenience and "friend pussy" then anything.
Kids obviously provide some glue, but even then, douchebags are gonna douchebag.
Marriage is a conversation point. A sham.
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whens the last time you had sex
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I love being married and love being a dad to my daughter.
Nothing better than being with and taking care of my girls.
If some consider that corny, miserable or both I honestly could care less.
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baby mama was angry i didnt want to marriage her
i told her if we are going to marriage then it has to be in a way that you cant get my property etc after divorce
she was always angry for this
and in the end it was a big factor in the breakup i think
marriage has not a good distribution of risks and responsibilities between both parties, there fore i do not consider it
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whens the last time you had sex
shitzo is a Virgin.
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for me its up and down,theres times I really enjoy the married life than theres times I wanna take out my shotgun and shoot her in the living room and then turn the gun on myself and shoot myself
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shitzo is a Virgin.
His drinks aren't :D
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There is some report out correlating IQ levels with marriage.
Not saying you would have to be retarded to get married or anything.
Washing
Ironing
Fucking
Entertainment.
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His drinks aren't :D
I should correct myself. Shitzo's not an anal virgin... Only with women he is one. :D
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i'm married and would not trade this life for anything...
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The trend is obviously here, we'll see how it goes. Can say the same about me, even tho' I'm a lil' bit younger. If you have a good job you like, good money and decent genes - I can't see any sane reason to "get tied up" before age 40 (except when a person feels a "need" for a family from a young age, and there are such people, more power to them) if at all.
The best is - we don't have to worry about being left "alone" anymore, whatever age you are. Technology, globalisation and other stuff, if a person is left alone - there's probably a lot wrong with that person going on, otherwise - unlimited possibilities to meet other peope (who may be "alone" too :O). Just earn lots of money, the more, the better, it will enable you to live a lot healthier life as the time will go on, so it will be a nice life. Damn, it's very interesting to witness the dynamics of change in society. Many people (these who are "older", in the head, mainly) oppose to any changes, it's natural, but life was changing, it is changing and it will change in the future in so many ways - most of us can't even comprehend. Changing tides in a marriage institution is just a fraction of what's to come.
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I am 33 years old. I have had no desire to get married in my life. I am seeing a trend with many people around my age group (around 10 years) that I am noticing a trend.
Marriage is dying a slow death.
A document "binding" people together means absolutely nothing these days.
Marriage is more convenience and "friend pussy" then anything.
Kids obviously provide some glue, but even then, douchebags are gonna douchebag.
Marriage is a conversation point. A sham.
Let's face it, you are hardly 'a catch', sunshine.
So resigning to your fate is a good move.
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whens the last time you had sex
That involved another human?
Look at him, he'd need a helluva personality to get laid looking like that.
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i have the weid feeling schizzo made this exact thread once before
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That involved another human?
Look at him, he'd need a helluva personality to get laid looking like that.
He just tells chicks he has over 20,000 posts on getbig and the panties drop.
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I love being married. Love my wife, she loves me. I have a beautiful healthy daughter that have given us a beautiful healthy granddaughter. I have someone I can confide in, trust and love. I traveled for work the last 2 weeks and she put I love you cards in my suitcase both weeks and I sent her roses to her work.
Yea it is real terrible. ::) I know for some it is but you haven't had a girlfriend since.......oh wait, nevermind. Don't condemn something you know absolutely nothing about. You may consider it an opinion but in reality it just shows ignorance.
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I am 33 years old. I have had no desire to get married in my life. I am seeing a trend with many people around my age group (around 10 years) that I am noticing a trend.
Marriage is dying a slow death.
A document "binding" people together means absolutely nothing these days.
Marriage is more convenience and "friend pussy" then anything.
Kids obviously provide some glue, but even then, douchebags are gonna douchebag.
Marriage is a conversation point. A sham.
Marriage has never changed, the people have changed. It started with the baby boomers and high divorce rates. Today, many people refer to their signif others as "fiancé. The reasoning is that marriage has been so downgraded that people don't take it seriously.
Many women think of marriage as something to do---it's the wedding, and who they marry, well it doesn't matter, because there is always divorce. With men, men don't really give a damn, until they get the divorce papers.
In short, people today are more selfish, and don't care about the marriage itself or the people that they marry or the children that they create.
Uberman was right when he said that marriage is a survival technique.
Furthermore, these threads on marriage come up a lot on here, like people are subconsciously paranoid.
I think that you do secretly want to get married or settle down with someone, it's that you ask yourself "who wants to marry me?" And you reject the thought, because you don't want to deal with the rejection of the women. So, you reject them and "marriage" before people have a chance to do that to you.
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Furthermore, these threads on marriage come up a lot on here, like people are subconsciously paranoid.
I think that you do secretly want to get married or settle down with someone, it's that you ask yourself "who wants to marry me?" And you reject the thought, because you don't want to deal with the rejection of the women. So, you reject them and "marriage" before people have a chance to do that to you.
Or maybe....the ways of survival are simply changing. You know.. it happened many times in many fields of life in the past.
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THERE IS MORE QUESTION THAN ANSWER :D
vic richards explains
it's about being the right persin not find the right persin
secondly he says marriage is not for everyone
the lady on the show makes good points also
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Or maybe....the ways of survival are simply changing. You know.. it happened many times in many fields of life in the past.
As I said, the baby boomers. They are the ones where sky high divorce rates and single parenting. So, the children of these unions only really know what they see. And then society doesn't really hold marriage in high regard---the mantra of "do what you want" is championed, again by baby boomers. Women don't "need" men for financial support, and sometimes are earning more than the spouses, and men have become apathetic, and browbeaten. Many either don't care about the marriage, and if they do, they are with a partner who doesn't give a damn about them or the children. The children are used as pawns, when the divorce comes along. And the same woman who doesn't "need" the man, gets his money. So, men are becoming wary and are adapting. Now, since the woman doesn't care or need the man, men say that they don't need or care for the women. So, if the woman doesn't care, and the man doesn't, then who does?
What you are seeing is the not just the breakdown of marriage in part by Baby Boomers leading by their selfish example, but the breakdown of the family itself.
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As I said, the baby boomers. They are the ones where sky high divorce rates and single parenting. So, the children of these unions only really know what they see. And then society doesn't really hold marriage in high regard---the mantra of "do what you want" is championed, again by baby boomers. Women don't "need" men for financial support, and sometimes are earning more than the spouses, and men have become apathetic, and browbeaten. Many either don't care about the marriage, and if they do, they are with a partner who doesn't give a damn about them or the children. The children are used as pawns, when the divorce comes along. And the same woman who doesn't "need" the man, gets his money. So, men are becoming wary and are adapting. Now, since the woman doesn't care or need the man, men say that they don't need or care for the women. So, if the woman doesn't care, and the man doesn't, then who does?
What you are seeing is the not just the breakdown of marriage in part by Baby Boomers leading by their selfish example, but the breakdown of the family itself.
Simply put - the more autonomous people become - the less is the need to "live together". Family was best for times in the past (and western societies that were in the past), it's time for something different now, the life is changing at it's core, the ways of living, survining I mean. It's just a usual evolution in action, trying different options until a new best one is found.
This is funny AND brilliant at the same time (kids growing in communities would be an interesting way to rise them):
Oh, and wait till "Oculus rift" will evolve into a "Brain rift", lol.. We'll be able to witness quite some interesting ways to "live ones life".
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It feels strange to be a Christian man who thinks of the decline of Western matrimony a good thing, but that's what I am.
I can't bring myself to congratulate Facebook friends when they announce an engagement. The deacon at my old church is proposing to his girlfriend this weekend. :-\
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A friend of mine is being taken to the cleaners in his divorce. He'll lose 7 digits and will be lucky to see his daughters once a month. The deck is very stacked against men as the primary earner.
I love my wife and I love my life, but I am lucky. I find it hard to encourage young men to get married these days. It is impossible to see the future, so you are really just hoping that you've found "the one".
Well crafted pre-nuptial agreements seems to be one answer, although they are clinical. My friend above has another friend that's been married 4 times. The last 3 with prenups. His current wife signed the prenup that says she was out, with nothing, if she got fat. Now THAT'S a prenup!
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Oh, and wait till "Oculus rift" will evolve into a "Brain rift", lol.. We'll be able to witness quite some interesting ways to "live ones life".
This, in our lifetime it will be possible to stay in and bang prime Rachel Welsh, Pamela Anderson, Megan Fox, Jenna Jameson and Salma Hayek in a field of roses and unicorns and it feel totally real, being able to live there night and day.You don't think Marriage rates are going to plummet drastically when that happens?lol.
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Simply put - the more autonomous people become - the less is the need to "live together". Family was best for times in the past (and western societies that were in the past), it's time for something different now, the life is changing at it's core, the ways of living, survining I mean. It's just a usual evolution in action, trying different options until a new best one is found.
This is funny AND brilliant at the same time (kids growing in communities would be an interesting way to rise them):
Oh, and wait till "Oculus rift" will evolve into a "Brain rift", lol.. We'll be able to witness quite some interesting ways to "live ones life".
Unfortunately, humans are social beings, and if you look at today...the breakdown of families has help create rifts between one another, more people are lonely, and more mental health issues. More people kirking out, more women wanting to know "why can't they find a good man", when they never had a father figure in their lives. More men just creating kids and not taking care of them. The US is a nation spinning out of control.
As I said, if you don't care, and I don't care, then who does? No one.
It's ironic that the West is being attack by Muslims, who hold their religion and family (brothers) above everything else, and the West sees this as an attack on the "individualism" that it drills into our heads. Yet, wants a "united front" on terrorism.
Ah yes, Occulus Rift---it will grow into something where people would like to be stuck in a fantasy realm where reality is unattractive. A cheap version of the matrix. Already they are saying that porn will be a big driving factor in future development.
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I love being married. Love my wife, she loves me. I have a beautiful healthy daughter that have given us a beautiful healthy granddaughter. I have someone I can confide in, trust and love. I traveled for work the last 2 weeks and she put I love you cards in my suitcase both weeks and I sent her roses to her work.
Yea it is real terrible. ::) I know for some it is but you haven't had a girlfriend since.......oh wait, nevermind. Don't condemn something you know absolutely nothing about. You may consider it an opinion but in reality it just shows ignorance.
That's the spirit.
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Simply put - the more autonomous people become - the less is the need to "live together". Family was best for times in the past (and western societies that were in the past), it's time for something different now, the life is changing at it's core, the ways of living, survining I mean. It's just a usual evolution in action, trying different options until a new best one is found.
This is funny AND brilliant at the same time (kids growing in communities would be an interesting way to rise them):
Oh, and wait till "Oculus rift" will evolve into a "Brain rift", lol.. We'll be able to witness quite some interesting ways to "live ones life".
fascinatin
watched with great attention
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Unfortunately, humans are social beings
Yeah, but we get less social as we age. When you're young, you need other people to help you find your way. Not so when you're older.
I used to love hanging out with friends. Now, I dread hearing the phone ring.
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fascinatin
watched with great attention
I have to say that he makes some great points.
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Feminism ruined the Western World. Hope this helps.
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Osho used to get high on nitric oxide before his lectures!
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This, in our lifetime it will be possible to stay in and bang prime Rachel Welsh, Pamela Anderson, Megan Fox, Jenna Jameson and Salma Hayek in a field of roses and unicorns and it feel totally real, being able to live there night and day.You don't think Marriage rates are going to plummet drastically when that happens?lol.
People will go to work to be able to sustain their bodies, and pay the utility bills, just to get back from work and "plug-in" their REAL life. Sounds pretty unbelieveable, but that's the future. Many things will change, many, only for this reason alone.
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Yeah, but we get less social as we age. When you're young, you need other people to help you find your way. Not so when you're older.
I used to love hanging out with friends. Now, I dread hearing the phone ring.
I see a lot of older people hanging out and talking outside of Starbucks, or at golf courses at cigar shops.
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Unfortunately, humans are social beings, and if you look at today...the breakdown of families has help create rifts between one another, more people are lonely, and more mental health issues. More people kirking out, more women wanting to know "why can't they find a good man", when they never had a father figure in their lives. More men just creating kids and not taking care of them. The US is a nation spinning out of control.
As I said, if you don't care, and I don't care, then who does? No one.
It's ironic that the West is being attack by Muslims, who hold their religion and family (brothers) above everything else, and the West sees this as an attack on the "individualism" that it drills into our heads. Yet, wants a "united front" on terrorism.
Ah yes, Occulus Rift---it will grow into something where people would like to be stuck in a fantasy realm where reality is unattractive. A cheap version of the matrix. Already they are saying that porn will be a big driving factor in future development.
It's a process.. Marriage is not working for as a way of survival for many people due to changes in the survival itself. It will even out after new ways will be found.
And virtual reality will be a "real reality", just another version of it.. I can't go further as nor I, nor most people can really imagine or comprehend of what's comming. It'd blow our minds if we'd be able to have a glimpse of a future.
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People will go to work to be able to sustain their bodies, and pay the utility bills, just to get back from work and "plug-in" their REAL life. Sounds pretty unbelieveable, but that's the future. Many things will change, many, only for this reason alone.
There won't be any going to work, you'll either work in the field naked via brain waves to communicate and have some robot drone do anything physical that needs doing at whatever central hubs are left for business, or just use those brain waves to communicate to other workers in their sims.Most work in the future will be taken by AI, most people won't be working as there won't be enough jobs, so they will be subsidised.
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There won't be any going to work, you'll either work in the field naked via brain waves to communicate and have some robot drone do anything physical that needs doing at whatever central hubs are left for business, or just use those brain waves to communicate to other workers in their sims.Most work in the future will be taken by AI, most people won't be working as there won't be enough jobs, so they will be subsidised.
May be true too, it simply blows my mind too much to try to imagine stuff like that, but I'm sure that we have no idea of how "working" in the future will look in some cases, just like people couldn't imagine that someone will be a web designer, 30 years ago. Hell, I'm sitting in front of my monitor and coding a data base for a web project currently, and I did not even have an idea of what does it mean to be "coding" when I was 5.
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Marriage is a joke
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It's a process.. Marriage is not working for as a way of survival for many people due to changes in the survival itself. It will even out after new ways will be found.
And virtual reality will be a "real reality", just another version of it.. I can't go further as nor I, nor most people can really imagine or comprehend of what's comming. It'd blow our minds if we'd be able to have a glimpse of a future.
That's if it happens. America is rotting from within...said rotting will only stop when we stop doing what we are currently doing, and do the opposite. You can only go so far (left) until you end up (right). It's the natural order.
Balance is the natural order. You cannot do the perverse, and expect a balanced outcome.
Escapism is what it has always been. People used drugs before, and will technology along with drugs in the future. Expect more disillusionment, more depression, more unhappiness. Why? Well because that so called "real reality" that you talk about, doesn't exist when they unhook.
The physically ugly person is not the Adonis or Aphrodite that they are in their fantasy,
Lack of communication with each other becomes the norm, and higher rates of domestic violence due to the lack of communication and people frustrated with not getting what they believe that they deserve.
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That's if it happens. America is rotting from within...said rotting will only stop when we stop doing what we are currently doing, and do the opposite. You can only go so far (left) until you end up (right). It's the natural order.
Balance is the natural order. You cannot do the perverse, and expect a balanced outcome.
Escapism is what it has always been. People used drugs before, and will technology along with drugs in the future. Expect more disillusionment, more depression, more unhappiness. Why? Well because that so called "real reality" that you talk about, doesn't exist when they unhook.
The physically ugly person is not the Adonis or Aphrodite that they are in their fantasy,
Lack of communication with each other becomes the norm, and higher rates of domestic violence due to the lack of communication and people frustrated with not getting what they believe that they deserve.
I think you are underestimating the future, but that's natural, most people assume things will be somewhat similar to what they are now. It's how humand mind is designed - linear. Don't worry, the social dynamics will find a way out, they always does, even if some chaos emerges before. Your "reality" doesn't exist when you die, too, it's all just a big illusion. Enjoy it whatever way you are able to, marriage or no marriage. My point is - times are changing, and what you are calling "perverse" now, may be a "normal" tomorrow.. just like so many times in the past. Mind wants "stability", I understand that.. and it tries to hold onto "stable" stuff for as long as possible, as change means - effort and risk.
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I am 33 years old. I have had no desire to get married in my life. I am seeing a trend with many people around my age group (around 10 years) that I am noticing a trend.
Marriage is dying a slow death.
A document "binding" people together means absolutely nothing these days.
Marriage is more convenience and "friend pussy" then anything.
Kids obviously provide some glue, but even then, douchebags are gonna douchebag.
Marriage is a conversation point. A sham.
Does your aversion to marriage have more to do with a lack of female interests, you drunk bastard?
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I think you are underestimating the future, but that's natural, most people assume things will be somewhat similar to what they are now. It's how humand mind is designed - linear. Don't worry, the social dynamics will find a way out, they always does, even if some chaos emerges before. Your "reality" doesn't exist when you die, too, it's all just a big illusion. Enjoy it whatever way you are able to, marriage or no marriage. My point is - times are changing, and what you are calling "perverse" now, may be a "normal" tomorrow.. just like so many times in the past. Mind wants "stability", I understand that.. and it tries to hold onto "stable" stuff for as long as possible, as change means - effort and risk.
If you say so...
If one is observant, and look around, you'll see a world falling apart. It may reorganize,
But, people today are less happy, more depressed, more angry, more selfish. Technology is evolving...
But, the quality of people is degrading. And what is odd, is how you look to technology to improve humans. That is almost scary. Technology has become the new "god" to some people. I believe it can in some ways enhance life, but as I stated before, balance with all things is necessary.
Humans never change really, they are always looking for something or someone to worship.
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Does your aversion to marriage have more to do with a lack of female interests, you drunk bastard?
That is kinda what I was getting at.
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You dont have to be married to love a woman or your children.
People are saying: "I love my children!"
I hope so :D
I understand that there are some great marriages out there, but the divorce rate is at 50% or above, and that does not count all of the couples that just "exist" either for the kids or to keep the illusion of being happy.
Marriage is just another idea taken from religion.
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That is kinda what I was getting at.
At least hes not breeding!
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Does your aversion to marriage have more to do with a lack of female interests, you drunk bastard?
I do not see a correlation between the two.
I could have been married by now if I wanted.
Im sure Enzo has no problems with the ladies, and he thinks marriage is a joke.
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At least hes not breeding!
yet.
In some drunken, sweaty escape of self control, a Lil Shiz may come into this world. And when he or she does, the child will be badgered by "no on likes you Shiz" and "damn you are annoying".
And then, said Shiz-Spawn will turn to the only friend that doesn't turn him/her away. The friend that is always there and always listens...the bottle. And then try to make friends with his/her anti-friend, Getbig.
The Cycle continues.
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yet.
In some drunken, sweaty escape of self control, a Lil Shiz may come into this world. And when he or she does, the child will badgered by "no on likes you Shiz" and "damn you are annoying".
And then, said Shiz-Spawn will turn to the only friend that doesn't turn him/her away. The friend that is always there and always listens...the bottle. And then try to make friends with his/her anti-friend, Getbig.
The Cycle continues.
Lol!!!
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yet.
In some drunken, sweaty escape of self control, a Lil Shiz may come into this world. And when he or she does, the child will badgered by "no on likes you Shiz" and "damn you are annoying".
And then, said Shiz-Spawn will turn to the only friend that doesn't turn him/her away. The friend that is always there and always listens...the bottle. And then try to make friends with his/her anti-friend, Getbig.
The Cycle continues.
I've already purchased a baby shower gift.
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Now this is a proper Getbig thread.
Some insightful discussions and a little ass raping for the OP.
8)
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If you say so...
If one is observant, and look around, you'll see a world falling apart. It may reorganize,
But, people today are less happy, more depressed, more angry, more selfish. Technology is evolving...
But, the quality of people is degrading. And what is odd, is how you look to technology to improve humans. That is almost scary. Technology has become the new "god" to some people. I believe it can in some ways enhance life, but as I stated before, balance with all things is necessary.
Humans never change really, they are always looking for something or someone to worship.
This sounds like just your opinion. There is a tendency for people as they get older to become nostalgic and think things were better in the past. On a whole I think people today are happier, less angry and less selfish (things can always get better though, things have gone from shitty to less shitty.) If you take last century for instance, more human beings were killed from genocide and war than in the entire history of humankind. Doesn't sound like a generation of happy, relaxed and altruistic people.
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I've already purchased a baby shower gift.
The baby's first song, Beyonce's "Drunk In Love"
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If you say so...
If one is observant, and look around, you'll see a world falling apart. It may reorganize,
But, people today are less happy, more depressed, more angry, more selfish. Technology is evolving...
But, the quality of people is degrading. And what is odd, is how you look to technology to improve humans. That is almost scary. Technology has become the new "god" to some people. I believe it can in some ways enhance life, but as I stated before, balance with all things is necessary.
Humans never change really, they are always looking for something or someone to worship.
I guess we live amongst different kind of people then... To each his own reality, that sums it up. And only one thing is constant - change.
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This sounds like just your opinion. There is a tendency for people as they get older to become nostalgic and think thing were better in the past. On a whole I think people today are happier, less angry and less selfish (things can always get better though). If you take last century for instance, more human beings were killed from genocide and war than in the entire history of humankind. Doesn't sound like a generation of happy, relaxed and altruistic people.
it's not nostalgia, it's what I see. You see it on here.
Everybody is so damn miserable. And hell, don't go on Jezebel or Gawker---people who champion being individualistic, get pissed off if you have a different view, and are some generally unhappy people.
And let's us put forth the fact that not all records are available.
Mankind is the same as before, we kill and rape, kill and rape. Each generation just comes up with "better" (read more efficient) ways of doing it.
Each generation thinks its better and more enlightened than the generation before it, yet make the same mistakes, either from ignorance or hubris, or both.
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I guess we live amongst different kind of people then... To each his own reality, that sums it up. And only one thing is constant - conflict
fixed it for you.
We all have our own realities, men, women see things differently.
I see a future that needs to be balanced, I see a present that abhors balance, because balance means that people must collectively curb their wants and desires for the better good.
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you can tell the guys here who are married from their posts as they view marriage as companionship w a friend whereas the single guys look at it as a sexual contract w a very limited expiration date.
so to shizzo you think you have the parts to be single your whole life? grow old into your 50's 60's and beyond by yourself? I don't think you do. I think most guys who hate on marriage can be lumped into 2 categories those who have been hurt and are afraid, and those who truly don't give a fuck and could easily be alone.
if your in the first group you had better get over your reticence and suck it up cause you are going to be very lonely people at an age when most just want the comfort of companionship because at the end of the day when the looks fade and your test drops and youve been w the same woman for 20/30/40 years that's what it's all about.
I'm not married. don't ever plan on being. I think marriage with the right person could be an awesome lifelong experience.
but if your crying marriage sucks cause your a pansy who's afraid to get his heart broken suck it the fuck up cause shit happens and move on.
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Shizzo are your parents still married?
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Shizzo are your parents still married?
Yes Ronnie.
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This sounds like just your opinion. There is a tendency for people as they get older to become nostalgic and think things were better in the past. On a whole I think people today are happier, less angry and less selfish (things can always get better though, things have gone from shitty to less shitty.) If you take last century for instance, more human beings were killed from genocide and war than in the entire history of humankind. Doesn't sound like a generation of happy, relaxed and altruistic people.
I'll agree with this. There's the often asked question: If you could live during any time in history...
I would pick: now. Any other time I'd have to give up my Iphone.
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it's not nostalgia, it's what I see. You see it on here.
Everybody is so damn miserable. And hell, don't go on Jezebel or Gawker---people who champion being individualistic, get pissed off if you have a different view, and are some generally unhappy people.
And let's us put forth the fact that not all records are available.
Mankind is the same as before, we kill and rape, kill and rape. Each generation just comes up with "better" (read more efficient) ways of doing it.
Each generation thinks its better and more enlightened than the generation before it, yet make the same mistakes, either from ignorance or hubris, or both.
Who said life is about being happy? Sounds like some hippy ideology to me. What we see on here (GETBIG) is the way people have always been, they just haven't had the medium to express themselves as freely as what the Internet has provided. I think it reduces people's stress to be able to freely express themselves, rather than having to repress or deny their true thoughts and feelings. People from the past lived shitty quality of lives, just working day and night to provide the basics, people today have that burden somewhat reduced. I don't think people get pissed off at different views, just ones that they think cause unnecessary suffering. Like I don't care if someone holds some banal view that doesn't affect me (like aliens exist), but if someone holds a view and it is held by enough people that it causes suffering in my life, then yeah, people get pissed of at such views.(like if a man defends himself against an attacking woman he is still the criminal and she is the victim)
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you can tell the guys here who are married from their posts as they view marriage as companionship w a friend whereas the single guys look at it as a sexual contract w a very limited expiration date.
so to shizzo you think you have the parts to be single your whole life? grow old into your 50's 60's and beyond by yourself? I don't think you do. I think most guys who hate on marriage can be lumped into 2 categories those who have been hurt and are afraid, and those who truly don't give a fuck and could easily be alone.
if your in the first group you had better get over your reticence and suck it up cause you are going to be very lonely people at an age when most just want the comfort of companionship because at the end of the day when the looks fade and your test drops and youve been w the same woman for 20/30/40 years that's what it's all about.
I'm not married. don't ever plan on being. I think marriage with the right person could be an awesome lifelong experience.
but if your crying marriage sucks cause your a pansy who's afraid to get his heart broken suck it the fuck up cause shit happens and move on.
I never said I was against marriage. I just think the bulk of marriages are crocks of shit.
Lets not even mention the people who get married 3 or 4 times ::)
Kids and marriage will always be on my time and on my terms.
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you can tell the guys here who are married from their posts as they view marriage as companionship w a friend whereas the single guys look at it as a sexual contract w a very limited expiration date.
so to shizzo you think you have the parts to be single your whole life? grow old into your 50's 60's and beyond by yourself? I don't think you do. I think most guys who hate on marriage can be lumped into 2 categories those who have been hurt and are afraid, and those who truly don't give a fuck and could easily be alone.
if your in the first group you had better get over your reticence and suck it up cause you are going to be very lonely people at an age when most just want the comfort of companionship because at the end of the day when the looks fade and your test drops and youve been w the same woman for 20/30/40 years that's what it's all about.
I'm not married. don't ever plan on being. I think marriage with the right person could be an awesome lifelong experience.
but if your crying marriage sucks cause your a pansy who's afraid to get his heart broken suck it the fuck up cause shit happens and move on.
lot of wisdom in this post
the fear of being alone means a lot of men stay in bad relationships
its a better the devil you know mentality
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Growing old and alone is a scary thought.
Just growing old is a scary enough.
I have tons of respect for seniors who remain happy, even when most of who they knew growing up have passed away.
I can see how some turn bitter.
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Many people just aren't capable of being in a long relationship. The external forces that kept marriages together no longer exist. Women and men no longer need each other in the same way as the traditional division of labor between men and women within a marriage has disappeared. Women have the ability to sustain themselves and provide for their offspring either through their own work or government programs and don't require the physical and economic protection of men.
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What impact has social media played on marriage in the last decade?
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shitzo is a Virgin.
Of course that flabby fucker is anti-marriage - seeing happily married couples just drives home his inability to connect with a woman. THATS why he is on here so friggin much.
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well Shizzo why wont you answer my question?
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Growing old and alone is a scary thought.
Just growing old is a scary enough.
I have tons of respect for seniors who remain happy, even when most of who they knew growing up have passed away.
I can see how some turn bitter.
My Parents separated after 44 years of marriage, they have never been happier. Many of their friends remain committed to utterly miserable marriages. The thought of growing old in a miserable relationship should be dreaded far more than growing old alone. I believe in the old truism "No company is better than bad company". Being alone is a wonderful experience, I don't know why so many dread it.
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well Shizzo why wont you answer my question?
Because it is rediculous. What did your question have to do with the topic of marriage?
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what exactly do you perceive to be the 'ramifications of marriage'?
for most people in long-term relationships, the goal is to be married. i don't think this has changed at all.
hows married life going?
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Because it is rediculous. What did your question have to do with the topic of marriage?
getbigs ridiculous, come on spill the beans :)
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Of course that flabby fucker is anti-marriage - seeing happily married couples just drives home his inability to connect with a woman. THATS why he is on here so friggin much.
There is nothing wrong with happily married couples. They are just few and far between these days.
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I love being married. Love my wife, she loves me. I have a beautiful healthy daughter that have given us a beautiful healthy granddaughter. I have someone I can confide in, trust and love. I traveled for work the last 2 weeks and she put I love you cards in my suitcase both weeks and I sent her roses to her work.
Living the dream, brother. 8)
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getbigs ridiculous, come on spill the beans :)
It's been a few months. Happy?
Was there a place you were trying to take this?
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yes happy now
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It's been a few months. Happy?
Was there a place you were trying to take this?
have you considered rectifying the situation
you find yourself in
a girl friends might be the bump your life needs
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I love being married and love being a dad to my daughter.
Nothing better than being with and taking care of my girls.
If some consider that corny, miserable or both I honestly could care less.
Just out of curiosity, if you love your family so much why do allow yourself to be a shameless glutton? Shoveling down garbage food and ensuring your early demise?
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Divorce/Marriage % ratio
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have you considered rectifying the situation
you find yourself in
a girl friends might be the bump your life needs
A wonderful woman in anyone's life can only help my friend.
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Been thru a really bad split yet I still believe in soul mates. I'm a hopeful romantic.
Love will keep us alive. 8)
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My Parents separated after 44 years of marriage, they have never been happier. Many of their friends remain committed to utterly miserable marriages. The thought of growing old in a miserable relationship should be dreaded far more than growing old alone. I believe in the old truism "No company is better than bad company". Being alone is a wonderful experience, I don't know why so many dread it.
You see this so often
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Been thru a really bad split yet I still believe in soul mates. I'm a hopeful romantic.
Love will keep us alive. 8)
Must be hard to find other Tongan Jews.
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Must be hard to find other Tongan Jews.
True love doesn't discriminate, brother 8)
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True love doesn't discriminate, brother 8)
Are you Hulk Hogan's gimmick?
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see the rates are low in republic of Ireland.
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see the rates are low in republic of Ireland.
They are also low in Mexico.
Is it because of tradition? Do the Irish frown upon divorce bigro?
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yes they do because of our majority catholic culture.
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It's been a few months. Happy?
Was there a place you were trying to take this?
Nothing to be ashamed of my fat friend,
One day you will find a nice obese girl with a beautiful heart who will cook and clean your house and give you all the affection your heart desires as well as flabby sweaty fat couple sex and your life will be complete
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yes they do because of our majority catholic culture.
Now it makes sense.
It seems that the intended sanctity of marriage is all but lost around most of the world.
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Nothing to be ashamed of my fat friend,
One day you will find a nice obese girl with a beautiful heart who will cook and clean your house and give you all the affection your heart desires as well as flabby sweaty fat couple sex and your life will be complete
Lol!!! You guys would have me thinking that I am some obese hippo.
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It's been a few months. Happy?
Was there a place you were trying to take this?
You do realize that's not normal right??? Couple MONTHS??? How are you not fucking miserable? I understand that not everyone has the same sex drive but come on man that's ridiculous.
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You do realize that's not normal right??? Couple MONTHS??? How are you not fucking miserable? I understand that not everyone has the same sex drive but come on man that's ridiculous.
It's called a hand that knows what I like, and endless videos of beautiful women doing naughty things.
Who needs real women? ;D
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I should correct myself. Shitzo's not an anal virgin... Only with women he is one. :D
Lmao
;D
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what exactly do you perceive to be the 'ramifications of marriage'?
for most people in long-term relationships, the goal is to be married. i don't think this has changed at all.
It's like that saying, "It's not the fall that kills you. It's the sudden stop."
The ramifications are what happens if things don't work out.
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I love being married. Love my wife, she loves me. I have a beautiful healthy daughter that have given us a beautiful healthy granddaughter. I have someone I can confide in, trust and love. I traveled for work the last 2 weeks and she put I love you cards in my suitcase both weeks and I sent her roses to her work.
Yea it is real terrible. ::) I know for some it is but you haven't had a girlfriend since.......oh wait, nevermind. Don't condemn something you know absolutely nothing about. You may consider it an opinion but in reality it just shows ignorance.
Awesome. You are blessed and even better I suspect you know it and are grateful.
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Living the dream, brother. 8)
There are days where it is a dream and some that would consider be a nightmare. But the dreams outweigh the nightmares. Having someone like her stand by my hospital bed through 5 major surgeries, cancer, and now polycythemia (blood disorder)...well you cannot put a price on that. We went through a long period where we kinda took things for granted. I felt myself thinking about getting out. But nervously one night I sat her down and we had a heart wrenching talk. I think we are stronger now than ever. 27 years married and 30 years together. She is such a cool, beautiful woman and can pin test with the best of them. ;)
The best advice I can give is wait as long as you can, fuck as many sluts as you can, party with the boys as much as you can so you won't have any regrets. Then when you feel you can really put the work in that it takes for a marriage to work, it is time. Then hopefully she doesn't fuck your best friend a week after the ceremony. Lol
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There are days where it is a dream and some that would consider be a nightmare. But the dreams outweigh the nightmares. Having someone like her stand by my hospital bed through 5 major surgeries, cancer, and now polycythemia (blood disorder)...well you cannot put a price on that. We went through a long period where we kinda took things for granted. I felt myself thinking about getting out. But nervously one night I sat her down and we had a heart wrenching talk. I think we are stronger now than ever. 27 years married and 30 years together. She is such a cool, beautiful woman and can pin test with the best of them. ;)
The best advice I can give is wait as long as you can, fuck as many sluts as you can, party with the boys as much as you can so you won't have any regrets. Then when you feel you can really put the work in that it takes for a marriage to work, it is time. Then hopefully she doesn't fuck your best friend a week after the ceremony. Lol
Great post.
Hope you get well.
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You do realize that's not normal right??? Couple MONTHS??? How are you not fucking miserable? I understand that not everyone has the same sex drive but come on man that's ridiculous.
He is an alcoholic. He has no sex drive.
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You do realize that's not normal right??? Couple MONTHS??? How are you not fucking miserable? I understand that not everyone has the same sex drive but come on man that's ridiculous.
i did not have sex since 14 september
:(
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He is an alcoholic. He has no sex drive.
this
he is turning asexual
a low testosterone estrogen filled blob
he can still reverse this
but probably doesnt have the mental strength
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Who said life is about being happy? Sounds like some hippy ideology to me. What we see on here (GETBIG) is the way people have always been, they just haven't had the medium to express themselves as freely as what the Internet has provided. I think it reduces people's stress to be able to freely express themselves, rather than having to repress or deny their true thoughts and feelings. People from the past lived shitty quality of lives, just working day and night to provide the basics, people today have that burden somewhat reduced. I don't think people get pissed off at different views, just ones that they think cause unnecessary suffering. Like I don't care if someone holds some banal view that doesn't affect me (like aliens exist), but if someone holds a view and it is held by enough people that it causes suffering in my life, then yeah, people get pissed of at such views.(like if a man defends himself against an attacking woman he is still the criminal and she is the victim)
Life is not about being happy, or a constant state of it---which is what people today seek. Yet, they are miserable because what they seek is within them, not external....
Life is about living, the ups and downs, sunshine and rain. You have to take it all. But, people seems so damn miserable, mired in loneliness and dispare.
People today still pick shitty lives, and do so because they "have a right to", and at the same time want everybody else to accept it. In today's world, everybody wants to be accepted, loved, liked. They seek it yearn for it. But, the reality is, it cannot happen, and I believe that is the partial cause for people being miserable. Miserable that deep down, they are not accepted. And then they form groups, groups of "unaccepted" people. And as these groups get bigger, there are people within them that feel "unaccepted", and this more misery.
Hell look at the subgroup called "bodybuilders" and their enthusiasts. What can we gauge from looking at ourselves?
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what is hapenning is that white, WASPs stop breeding for all the reasons mentionned in this thread, but arabs, muslims, south americans and black dont. Which means white people who reached some kind of peak self consciousness/ intelligence level at some point stop wanting to live/reproduce. White people will get replaced by third worlders who are for the most part still "believers" (believe in their revenge against the old dying corrupt white man) but once these people live the same lifestyle as we did in our lands, they ll become materialistic atheists and will abandon their faiths to follow in the exact same path white people did, that's the irony. Basically the decline of white people -and interestingly japanese people- might in fact announce the beginning of the end for all mankind, people simply stop wanting to reproduce anymore at all once they ve reached full consciousness of the absurdity of life.
The Childfree religion taking over most belief systems until there are no humans anymore. Who would have thought mankind could simply disapear due to a lack of will to live. Forget about asteroids, solar flares, pandemias, global thermonuclear wars, we might actually simply not want to live anymore before any of those happen.
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Life is not about being happy, or a constant state of it---which is what people today seek. Yet, they are miserable because what they seek is within them, not external....
Life is about living, the ups and downs, sunshine and rain. You have to take it all. But, people seems so damn miserable, mired in loneliness and dispare.
People today still pick shitty lives, and do so because they "have a right to", and at the same time want everybody else to accept it. In today's world, everybody wants to be accepted, loved, liked. They seek it yearn for it. But, the reality is, it cannot happen, and I believe that is the partial cause for people being miserable. Miserable that deep down, they are not accepted. And then they form groups, groups of "unaccepted" people. And as these groups get bigger, there are people within them that feel "unaccepted", and this more misery.
Hell look at the subgroup called "bodybuilders" and their enthusiasts. What can we gauge from looking at ourselves?
Elaborate on this bro
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what is hapenning is that white, WASPs stop breeding for all the reasons mentionned in this thread, but arabs, muslims, south americans and black dont. Which means white people who reached some kind of peak self consciousness/ intelligence level at some point stop wanting to live/reproduce. White people will get replaced by third worlders who are for the most part still "believers" but once these people live the same lifestyle as we did, they ll become materialistic atheists and will abandon their faiths to follow in the exact same path white people did. Basically the decline of white people -and interestingly japanese people- might in fact announce the beginning of the end for all mankind, people simply stop wanting to reproduce anymore at all. Childfree religion taking over most belief systems until there are no humans anymore. Who would have thought mankind could simply disapear due to a lack of will to live.
Hi Alex Jones
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this
he is turning asexual
a low testosterone estrogen filled blob
he can still reverse this
but probably doesnt have the mental strength
:D
In the words of Mr. Halo, SOON.........
I am tired of living like this. Only my intelligence has saved me from becoming a complete wreck.
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Am I the Derek Jeter of Getbig?
Hunky bachelor? Check
All-time great? Check
Still can pull a game winning hit/100 post thread out of his ass? Check.
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Am I the Derek Jeter of Getbig?
Hunky bachelor? Check
All-time great? Check
Still can pull a game winning hit/100 post thread out of his ass? Check.
100 post threads won't get you laid
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100 post threads won't get you laid
I swear I am getting a beatdown today.
Dudes showing no remorse for human life.
Good show guys.
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:D
In the words of Mr. Halo, SOON.........
I am tired of living like this. Only my intelligence has saved me from becoming a complete wreck.
wes was able to stop killing himself with alcohol and so can you
believe to achieve
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I swear I am getting a beatdown today.
Dudes showing no remorse for human life.
Good show guys.
I'm trying to help
If you would rAther have a 100 post thread
Than a warm pussy round your cock
You need an intervention
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I'm trying to help
If you would rAther have a 100 post thread
Than a warm pussy round your cock
You need an intervention
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I'm trying to help
If you would rAther have a 100 post thread
Than a warm pussy round your cock
You need an intervention
i'm not sure
i often feel a night at home browsing the interwebs is more relaxing than chasing pussy
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Lack of intelligent response
Due to being a retarded blob of shit
Fake meltdown call meltdown
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Lack of intelligent response
Due to being a retarded blob of shit
Fake meltdown call meltdown
I have been more then fair with you in this thread. Do you have anything to add besides trolling?
Aren't you a married man? What is your personal take on marriage?
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I have been more then fair with you in this thread. Do you have anything to add besides trolling?
Aren't you a married man? What is your personal take on marriage?
Marriage is an outdated concept
It will die out
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Marriage is an outdated concept
It will die out
the white people will die out, marriage will not however
dont forget muslems are over taking europe by method of multiplication/breeding
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Marriage is an outdated concept
It will die out
What about you?
How is your marriage?
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the white people will die out, marriage will not however
dont forget muslems are over taking europe by method of multiplication/breeding
would you have preferred to be born a black man?
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What about you?
How is your marriage?
Like a rainbow in the dark
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would you have preferred to be born a black man?
of course yes
bigger cock bigger muscles etc
???
but i notice that everywhere i work, it's only white people in the offices, black people are rare but when they are there work as manual workers in every company i have been
so it's good to be white in that perspective
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Like a rainbow in the dark
Sounds both gay and racist at the same time.
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Like a rainbow in the dark
With this I dub thee a today's Getbig Poet Laureate. Profoundly hilarious. Well worded, my friend.
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With this I dub thee a today's Getbig Poet Laureate. Profoundly hilarious. Well worded, my friend.
Thank you sir
Went straight over shizzos head
Which is always a good sign
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This post is not for me to brag...... but I honestly think that I am in the discussion for the best Getbigger of all time.
How many posters get 100+ replies within a few hours? How many posters have been doing this for 5+ years?
Love me or hate me, I absolutely know the pulse of Getbig.
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I am 33 years old. I have had no desire to get married in my life. I am seeing a trend with many people around my age group (around 10 years) that I am noticing a trend.
Marriage is dying a slow death.
A document "binding" people together means absolutely nothing these days.
Marriage is more convenience and "friend pussy" then anything.
Kids obviously provide some glue, but even then, douchebags are gonna douchebag.
Marriage is a conversation point. A sham.
Brutal cry for help..
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Brutal cry for help..
Lol! says the guy who has been married 3+ times (?)
You are the reason I made this thread. You are a joke.
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This post is not for me to brag...... but I honestly think that I am in the discussion for the best Getbigger of all time.
How many posters get 100+ replies within a few hours? How many posters have been doing this for 5+ years?
Love me or hate me, I absolutely know the pulse of Getbig.
Here you go champ
(http://www.vmaweb.com/images/2008%20Special%20Olympics/Medal.jpg)
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schizzo only responds to people who attack him
i guess i will join in then
it seems to be what he enjoys
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schizzo only responds to people who attack him
i guess i will join in then
it seems to be what he enjoys
Lol, worry about your loss of gains from watching movie with inferior white female.
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schizzo only responds to people who attack him
i guess i will join in then
it seems to be what he enjoys
VP Ronnie Coleman fan club?
What happened to Phil Heath?
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VP Ronnie Coleman fan club?
What happened to Phil Heath?
the olympia is over, i will start pumping phil again near the next olympia. i work with him on an "as needed" basis, we spoke earlier this week and he thanked me for the spectacular campaign
i go back to my ongoing ronnie projects for the rest of the year
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the olympia is over, i will start pumping phil again near the next olympia. i work with him on an "as needed" basis, we spoke earlier this week and he thanked me for the spectacular campaign
i go back to my ongoing ronnie projects for the rest of the year
Ronnie destroys Phil, anyway
(http://musclemecca.com/imported-images/2012/11/eq2nw4-1.png)
(http://musclemecca.com/imported-images/2012/11/MTLrX-1.jpg)
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apples and oranges
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apples and oranges
Not at all. Two bodybuilders. One is clearly better than the other.
Apples and oranges would be comparing a bodybuilder to a physique mens competitor. Ronnie and Phil are both two IFBB pros.
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Not at all. Two bodybuilders. One is clearly better than the other.
Apples and oranges would be comparing a bodybuilder to a physique mens competitor. Ronnie and Phil are both two IFBB pros.
i have to go meet my gypsy woman
RC fan club will respond later
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-Old news, but next month my wife and I celebrate 50 years of marriage. If either of us had some regrets along the way, we have none now. All in all, marriage has been great. If marriage was not an institution, we probably would have stayed together all these years anyway. I don't think a marriage license is what keeps folks together, especially when divorce and separation is so easy.
Our neighbors have been together for at least 18 years and maybe longer. They have three sons. The oldest is 17 years old. They never married.
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whatabout all those people who wants to get married but never finds a person that says yes when they pop the question, lets think about them
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whatabout all those people who wants to get married but never finds a person that says yes when they pop the question, lets think about them
We can think about them, but what can we do for them?
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We can think about them, but what can we do for them?
what we as a society needs to do is allow people to marry multiple people then women could say yes to everyone who ask them and nobody would be left without
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what we as a society needs to do is allow people to marry multiple people then women could say yes to everyone who ask them and nobody would be left without
If you say so. -Seems rather complicated to me.
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I barely made it out alive.
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This post is not for me to brag...... but I honestly think that I am in the discussion for the best Getbigger of all time.
How many posters get 100+ replies within a few hours? How many posters have been doing this for 5+ years?
Love me or hate me, I absolutely know the pulse of Getbig.
Now that you've conquered the board, what's left? What could possibly top such an esteemed achievement?
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Married for almost 9 years here with one baby.... Here are my thoughts....
Marriage is not for everyone! Contrary to what society tells you, some people just don't have it in them, or they at least don't want to be in a situation where they don't put themselves First, because that's honestly an important aspect, it's not always about you in marriage! I'm not saying you have to be a door mat being walked all over, but you will have to compromise from time to time.
Some people like the comfort of having someone there for them, they like the stability of not having to go out and chase tail, and are just happy with a stable life. Works for some people, not for everybody!
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Married for almost 9 years here with one baby.... Here are my thoughts....
Marriage is not for everyone! Contrary to what society tells you, some people just don't have it in them, or they at least don't want to be in a situation where they don't put themselves First, because that's honestly an important aspect, it's not always about you in marriage! I'm not saying you have to be a door mat being walked all over, but you will have to compromise from time to time.
Some people like the comfort of having someone there for them, they like the stability of not having to go out and chase tail, and are just happy with a stable life. Works for some people, not for everybody!
The Maryland Muscle, The Beltway Behemoth has spoken. Heed his words...
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This post is not for me to brag...... but I honestly think that I am in the discussion for the best Getbigger of all time.
How many posters get 100+ replies within a few hours? How many posters have been doing this for 5+ years?
Love me or hate me, I absolutely know the pulse of Getbig.
If it is not for you to brag, then why post it? Truth is, you are bragging.
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Married for almost 9 years here with one baby.... Here are my thoughts....
Marriage is not for everyone! Contrary to what society tells you, some people just don't have it in them, or they at least don't want to be in a situation where they don't put themselves First, because that's honestly an important aspect, it's not always about you in marriage! I'm not saying you have to be a door mat being walked all over, but you will have to compromise from time to time.
Some people like the comfort of having someone there for them, they like the stability of not having to go out and chase tail, and are just happy with a stable life. Works for some people, not for everybody!
QFT
Being married for 4years .. my son is about turn 3 years in Oct..
It has its ups and downs but when both are willing to compromise..
Things work out.. my son is the greatest gift I will ever have / get.. ;)
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QFT
Being married for 4years .. my son is about turn 3 years in Oct..
It has its ups and downs but when both are willing to compromise..
Things work out.. my son is the greatest gift I will ever have / get.. ;)
everyone i know who has kids says said their child/ren is the best thing that has ever happened to them, and would do it again in a heartbeat if they could turn back the clock but not a one would ever get married again. and yes i have had this actual conversation with several of my married friends.
its like big ach said and others have said marriage not easy its a commitment of time and effort and in todays instant gratification society that becomes even more of a challenge because we can always find new highs at the press of a button. but sadly nothing these days seems built to last, and that includes marriages.
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I love being married and love being a dad to my daughter.
Nothing better than being with and taking care of my girls.
If some consider that corny, miserable or both I honestly could care less.
Be honest with yourself.
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A man would not have anything to say to a woman if they did not have sex in common.
Men who disagree with this are probably stuck in a marriage with a woman that would clean your fucking clock if you divorced her.
Marriage is nothing more than a financial arrangement. It is a legally binding contract.
There are rare exceptions, but it's women who benefit from marriage, not men.
Now we have multitudes of homos marching the streets for same sex marriage. Great, let them!
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Here's some advice that some horny Italian guy once gave me...
Don't marry the person you love, instead marry the person who loves you. You will save yourself from the emotional hardships, while that person will sacrifice their lives to keep you happy.
"1"
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A man would not have anything to say to a woman if they did not have sex in common.
Men who disagree with this are probably stuck in a marriage with a woman that would clean your fucking clock if you divorced her.
Marriage is nothing more than a financial arrangement. It is a legally binding contract.
There are rare exceptions, but it's women who benefit from marriage, not men.
Now we have multitudes of homos marching the streets for same sex marriage. Great, let them!
I would say that you are correct for the greater number of marriages out there. It may be sad but I think your words are true. I still think Robin Williams took his own life because the women took everything else from him.
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I've been married for 10 years , I've never cheated on my wife , if I had to do it all over again I wouldn't change a thing. ( no homo)
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Here's some advice that some horny Italian guy once gave me...
Don't marry the person you love, instead marry the person who loves you. You will save yourself from the emotional hardships, while that person will sacrifice their lives to keep you happy.
"1"
What is your current view on gay marriage?
Do you think gay couples rush into it, just to say they are married?
Is infidelity more common in a gay relationship?
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Is infidelity more common in a gay relationship?
Yes
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Being married/having kids seems like it reduces the choices and options that you can make in your life. Some people are fine with this, some like myself value our freedom too much and would feel trapped in such a situation.
Then there is the mental, emotional and financial risks of divorce, especially for the one with the most assets, usually the man. A woman with a good divorce lawyer can really ruin your life.
For me, another big factor is the fact that I don't feel the emotion of loneliness very strongly if at all. This seems to be one of the primary forces driving people into relationships.
I can quite easily go all weekend without seeing a single person and it is no big deal. I still need the occasional sexual closeness with a woman or to hang out with friends as I get a lot of enjoyment from this, but it is not something I need very often to be happy.
Apparently, this lifestyle has a name on the internets: MGTOW - men who go their own way.
I don't think marriage reduces one's options and choices, they are just different ones.
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Marriage is stupid for many folks until their looks go south, the party with friends ends or they meet the one they can't live without.
The only folks that truly never desire to be married are the tiny population of exceptions.....hence the word exceptions.
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Marriage is stupid for many folks until their looks go south, the party with friends ends or they meet the one they can't live without.
The only folks that truly never desire to be married are the tiny population of exceptions.....hence the word exceptions.
luckily there is always a new batch of young hookers around the corner
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Yes
I don't know enough gay couples to determine if infidelity is more of an issue with them. The few I know, I haven't asked because their personal life is none of my business. Historically, gay men in relationships, whether deserved or not, have a reputation for cheating on their partners. Folks also believe men are more likely to cheat then women. Some studies have reported otherwise.
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Yep those that prefer young bookers over marriage are in that tiny exception bucket.
Not surprising that a small discussion board for a cult activity full of drug using narcissists would produce a greater potential for exceptions.....the board is basically an exception in and of itself.
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Marriage is stupid for many folks until their looks go south, the party with friends ends or they meet the one they can't live without.
The only folks that truly never desire to be married are the tiny population of exceptions.....hence the word exceptions.
You are one of the few I respect here. I value your opinion and wish you well in life.
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Am I the Derek Jeter of Getbig?
Hunky bachelor? Check
All-time great? Check
Still can pull a game winning hit/100 post thread out of his ass? Check.
This is one of your greatest acheivements in life?
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This is one of your greatest acheivements in life?
I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night.
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You are one of the few I respect here. I value your opinion and wish you well in life.
I respect you too.
Nothing wrong with being single, but there's nothing wrong with being married either.
I still firmly believe the majority of people prefer marriage at some point in their lives.
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schizzo is a single man in his thirties who is supposed to be a SC manager for some major corporation
he must be pretty well off
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I respect you too.
Nothing wrong with being single, but there's nothing wrong with being married either.
I still firmly believe the majority of people prefer marriage at some point in their lives.
I agree. This was more of a discussion at the failure of marriage in recent history.
I am not against marriage at all.
Perfect example: I know a mid 20's guy, who recently married his long-time girlfriend.
Sounds great right? Not if you know that he cheats on his wife and brags about it.
Scumbags like this, shit all over marriage.
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What is your current view on gay marriage?
Why shouldn't gay folks suffer just as much as our hetero counterparts? Marriage is marriage and for those that value what it stands for between two people, it will have the same value to them.
Marriage is a lot like a business partnership. While everything is going the way you and your partner hoped it to go, it's perfect. Once things start to go sour, it can be a costly inferno filled with hatred and bitter legal disputes. It has its benefits if you look at it from the standpoint of taxation, as well as other financial angles.
Do you think gay couples rush into it, just to say they are married?
Not so much... Those that are getting married are doing it because they genuinely want to spend the rest of their lives with their loved ones. Being legally bound to another person that can divorce you for half of your wealth truly sucks when you think about it.
Is infidelity more common in a gay relationship?
I wouldn't say it's more common in gay relationships, but I will say that it's just as common as infidelity in hetero couples. Not every gay couple has infidelity issues. Some couples are very happy and don't stray from one another. Other couples can't help but to fool around. I think these dynamics are very common in hetero relationships as well.
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I am 33 years old. I have had no desire to get married in my life. I am seeing a trend with many people around my age group (around 10 years) that I am noticing a trend.
Marriage is dying a slow death.
A document "binding" people together means absolutely nothing these days.
Marriage is more convenience and "friend pussy" then anything.
Kids obviously provide some glue, but even then, douchebags are gonna douchebag.
Marriage is a conversation point. A sham.
I beg to differ. I've been married 12 years, one of the best decisions of my life.
But you're right about one thing: People DON'T realize the ramifications of marriage. They put more thought into buying a car, house, or IPhone than they do in choosing a wife.
Plus, they lack commitment. Despite what some folks think, shacking up first doesn't equate to compatibility insurance. On average, people who do such are more likely to divorce than those who don't.
Marriage has risks, like almost anything else. But the more you prepare, the less likely you are to make a poor choice. To me, marriage counseling should be mandatory. Things like finances (#1 cause of divorce is money problems), role of each spouse, religious/philosophical direction of life, kids, etc.
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I beg to differ. I've been married 12 years, one of the best decisions of my life.
But you're right about one thing: People DON'T realize the ramifications of marriage. They put more thought into buying a car, house, or IPhone than they do in choosing a wife.
Plus, they lack commitment. Despite what some folks think, shacking up first doesn't equate to compatibility insurance. On average, people who do such are more likely to divorce than those who don't.
Marriage has risks, like almost anything else. But the more you prepare, the less likely you are to make a poor choice. To me, marriage counseling should be mandatory. Things like finances (#1 cause of divorce is money problems), role of each spouse, religious/philosophical direction of life, kids, etc.
Solid post. I love it when people get engaged/married within a year.
Are they stupid? Are they desperate? How on earth can you gauge your compatibility to someone in such a short period of time?
For people who have a child/children together: Do not get married just for that.
You can still be good mothers and fathers regardless.
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QFT
Being married for 4years .. my son is about turn 3 years in Oct..
It has its ups and downs but when both are willing to compromise..
Things work out.. my son is the greatest gift I will ever have / get.. ;)
why do you say QFT??.... I love being married and I love having kids... So I don't get why that deserved a QFT? Pretty much in agreement with you... My daughter is the greatest thing in the world - I'm crazy about her, and my wife, is absolutely amazing.... But I'm saying, what I love in my life... its not for everyone, some people choose to have a different life, and there is nothing wrong with that IF THATS WHAT THEY WANT! They shouldn't have to get married because they think this is the societal requirement of them, they should get married because thats what they want! Being married is what I wanted, and I'm happy with the choices I've made - wouldn't trade it for the world!
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what is hapenning is that white, WASPs stop breeding for all the reasons mentionned in this thread, but arabs, muslims, south americans and black dont. Which means white people who reached some kind of peak self consciousness/ intelligence level at some point stop wanting to live/reproduce. White people will get replaced by third worlders who are for the most part still "believers" (believe in their revenge against the old dying corrupt white man) but once these people live the same lifestyle as we did in our lands, they ll become materialistic atheists and will abandon their faiths to follow in the exact same path white people did, that's the irony. Basically the decline of white people -and interestingly japanese people- might in fact announce the beginning of the end for all mankind, people simply stop wanting to reproduce anymore at all once they ve reached full consciousness of the absurdity of life.
The Childfree religion taking over most belief systems until there are no humans anymore. Who would have thought mankind could simply disapear due to a lack of will to live. Forget about asteroids, solar flares, pandemias, global thermonuclear wars, we might actually simply not want to live anymore before any of those happen.
I agree on most of that, tho' I suspect that white people doesn't want to stop reproducing/living, they want to not die (of an old age) and that's getting pretty obvious everywhere in western culture. It's pretty futile to try to "not die" by reproduction, it's a "poverty option" so to say.. That's why they try to overcome aging and this may be a main reason why whites will actually manage to keep over thirld worlders. But many can't imagine this scenario yet, due to it's extraordinary nature. Technology will change the tides once again. Kids, btw, will be a controlled process, thorugh which a society will be replenished in cycles, to create new members in place of these who die in accidents, due to illness, infection, etc...
General trend of technologies will change the way we think too. Hard to imagine exactly what will be, but we will be able to experience and understand world in millions more different ways so our thoughts and outlooks will change by a huge margin too. The quality of "life experience" will change substantially, but it's impossible to guess what it will be like. It will be very interesting for these who will be alive, that's for sure.
And it's in context of 20-30 years from now. SOunds ridiculous, but the speed of change is getting ridiculous too.
p.s. - in a few months after the last thread about this another one of my friends is being fucked in the butt roally, by his ex and her lawyer. Dude is loosing his mind over the costs and she doesn't want him to see the kids so is making up various shit about him being abusive, etc... A nightmare. Think 9 times before marrying, and if you still want after thinking it through well - it may be a success then.
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why do you say QFT??.... I love being married and I love having kids... So I don't get why that deserved a QFT? Pretty much in agreement with you... My daughter is the greatest thing in the world - I'm crazy about her, and my wife, is absolutely amazing.... But I'm saying, what I love in my life... its not for everyone, some people choose to have a different life, and there is nothing wrong with that IF THATS WHAT THEY WANT! They shouldn't have to get married because they think this is the societal requirement of them, the should get married because thats what they want! Being married is what I wanted, and I'm happy with the choices I've made - wouldn't trade it for the world!
Exactly my friend.
Redskins still suck as well.
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Exactly my friend.
Redskins still suck as well.
The Redskins are gonna turn things around!!! Just wait and see!!!! Just some early season hardship lol
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The Redskins are gonna turn things around!!! Just wait and see!!!! Just some early season hardship lol
RGIII or Cousins? Who do you like as your starter?
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RGIII or Cousins? Who do you like as your starter?
RGIII as the starter - but Play Cousins a lot more as well.... last year Cousins hardly saw any playing time, which pissed me off so much.... you have two great qb's, use them!!! Don't just work one exclusively, They were trying to make RGIII more than a man and thought that all their problems will go away with him, but they needed to focus on capitalizing on both of them!!!
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I personally hate the whole 'dating' thing as well as other forms of picking up chicks.
I left the UK 17 or so years ago at 27 and became somewhat of a 'novelty' wherever i went. Has to be said that getting into a womans knickers is a boring and repetitive task involving telling them what they want to hear and listening to their shite.
I've fucked girls i didn't like much because i'd already put in some effort, saw the end game in sight and decided it less effort to just ride this one out.
Then of course, it's pot luck as to whether the chick is a dud fuck or not.
Even when i got to Thailand, the whole p4p thing got tiresome too. All that "what your name? Where you flom?" bollocks you have to go through in the bars.
Getting laid just gets tiresome after a while. At 44 i am glad i no longer have to deal with all that nonsense when i am in the mood.
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I personally hate the whole 'dating' thing as well as other forms of picking up chicks.
I left the UK 17 or so years ago at 27 and became somewhat of a 'novelty' wherever i went. Has to be said that getting into a womans knickers is a boring and repetitive task involving telling them what they want to hear and listening to their shite.
I've fucked girls i didn't like much because i'd already put in some effort, saw the end game in sight and decided it less effort to just ride this one out.
Then of course, it's pot luck as to whether the chick is a dud fuck or not.
Even when i got to Thailand, the whole p4p thing got tiresome too. All that "what your name? Where you flom?" bollocks you have to go through in the bars.
Getting laid just gets tiresome after a while. At 44 i am glad i no longer have to deal with all that nonsense when i am in the mood.
this is so true
this is what i miss about having baby mama in the house, i could just fuck her when i wanted
going to prostitutes is the easiest solution but it's still a hastly, since i have to drive 30-40 minutes to get to red lights district which is not worth it anymor and also it's sex with a condom which is useless anyway
yes to have a woman in the house does have that one big advantage, you can fuck her anytime you want when you happen to be horny with a hard dick, no need to make it a project
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this is so true
this is what i miss about having baby mama in the house, i could just fuck her when i wanted
going to prostitutes is the easiest solution but it's still a hastly, since i have to drive 30-40 minutes to get to red lights district which is not worth it anymor and also it's sex with a condom which is useless anyway
yes to have a woman in the house does have that one big advantage, you can fuck her anytime you want when you happen to be horny with a hard dick, no need to make it a project
I dont know how it works in your neck of the woods but over here she usually has to want to do it as well for it to be legal.
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I dont know how it works in your neck of the woods but over here she usually has to want to do it as well for it to be legal.
i hear this from a lot of people
but in these 7-8 years not once she said no
well she said no sometimes but she never meant it, like when i just bear hug her from behind and dragged her to the bed while convincing her she would always let me
one woman told me this is actually what a woman wants, her man basically raping her while she is in the middle of cooking/cleaning
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I don't know enough gay couples to determine if infidelity is more of an issue with them. The few I know, I haven't asked because their personal life is none of my business. Historically, gay men in relationships, whether deserved or not, have a reputation for cheating on their partners. Folks also believe men are more likely to cheat then than women. Some studies have reported otherwise.
Kinda toolish, huh?
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she never went down on you Halo why do you still remorse her absence.
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I personally hate the whole 'dating' thing as well as other forms of picking up chicks.
I left the UK 17 or so years ago at 27 and became somewhat of a 'novelty' wherever i went. Has to be said that getting into a womans knickers is a boring and repetitive task involving telling them what they want to hear and listening to their shite.
I've fucked girls i didn't like much because i'd already put in some effort, saw the end game in sight and decided it less effort to just ride this one out.
Then of course, it's pot luck as to whether the chick is a dud fuck or not.
Even when i got to Thailand, the whole p4p thing got tiresome too. All that "what your name? Where you flom?" bollocks you have to go through in the bars.
Getting laid just gets tiresome after a while. At 44 i am glad i no longer have to deal with all that nonsense when i am in the mood.
we all get sick of that shit
pity we are controlled by our dicks
most men will put up with almost anything to bag that first fuck with a hot chick
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we all get sick of that shit
pity we are controlled by our dicks
most men will put up with almost anything to bag that first fuck with a hot chick
if they keep coming back?
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I dont know how it works in your neck of the woods but over here she usually has to want to do it as well for it to be legal.
Lol, this. Like a married guy can just roll his mindless wife on her back and use her like a f*ck doll whenever he pleases.
Many married guys end up jerking off because that is more enjoyable than looking into your wife's dead-eyes as she lays there waiting for you to finish.
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Lol, this. Like a married guy can just roll his mindless wife on her back and use her like a f*ck doll whenever he pleases.
Many married guys end up jerking off because that is more enjoyable than looking into your wife's dead-eyes as she lays there waiting for you to finish.
this is halo we are talking about. Lack of communication and halo go together like Ronnie Coleman and biceps.
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Lol, this. Like a married guy can just roll his mindless wife on her back and use her like a f*ck doll whenever he pleases.
Many married guys end up jerking off because that is more enjoyable than looking into your wife's dead-eyes as she lays there waiting for you to finish.
I am sure some couplings end up this way. Women do have a sexual appetite. You speak like only men get the urge.
That says more about you than it does about them
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this is so true
this is what i miss about having baby mama in the house, i could just fuck her when i wanted
going to prostitutes is the easiest solution but it's still a hastly, since i have to drive 30-40 minutes to get to red lights district which is not worth it anymor and also it's sex with a condom which is useless anyway
yes to have a woman in the house does have that one big advantage, you can fuck her anytime you want when you happen to be horny with a hard dick, no need to make it a project
Can't imagine having "supernatural" levels of test flowing thru me - I'm already a horn dog as it is. Definitely need to find a girlfriend before I decide to hop on.
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baby mama was angry i didnt want to marriage her
i told her if we are going to marriage then it has to be in a way that you cant get my property etc after divorce
she was always angry for this
and in the end it was a big factor in the breakup i think
marriage has not a good distribution of risks and responsibilities between both parties, there fore i do not consider it
In my opinion , here are the main problems within marriage :
1. Having kids = work, $$ and stress. I never had kids.
2. Thinking it must be for LIFE. WTF? Even a murderer gets a shot at parole.
It's best when viewed as a loving partnership. If drastic change occurs, move on with dignity.
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He just tells chicks he has over 20,000 posts on getbig and the panties drop.
LOL, hall of fame getbig, classic zinger. THAT was very funny ;D ;D ;D
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I love being married and love being a dad to my daughter.
Nothing better than being with and taking care of my girls.
If some consider that corny, miserable or both I honestly could care less.
Same here. Love my son and new born daughter more than life itself. Find the right woman and it makes your life even better. Wife is best friend and I love being a positive role model to my kids.
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shitzo is a Virgin.
Interesting, because if he's a virgin you're the exact opposite.
He's never has sex and you'll lick a dude's asshole if he says you're pretty
and let him fart in your mouth so your cheeks expand like a squirrel with a mouthful of nuts
but that's another story
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I would say that you are correct for the greater number of marriages out there. It may be sad but I think your words are true. I still think Robin Williams took his own life because the women took everything else from him.
He took his own life because of a mental illness. He had multi-millions. Wasn't broke at all. Drugs and cocaine and booze screwed up his brain and critical thinking. Really had nothing to do with paying his ex-wives. There was lots of money to go around. Was a combination of things, Parkinson's, not getting starring roles, failure of his TV show and a damaged brain from drugs/alcohol.
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I understand that there are some great marriages out there, but the divorce rate is at 50% or above, and that does not count all of the couples that just "exist" either for the kids or to keep the illusion of being happy.
Marriage is just another idea taken from religion.
Yup, most people have an out dated view of marriage based on some centuries old , religious values. Make your own rules!
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He took his own life because of a mental illness. He had multi-millions. Wasn't broke at all. Drugs and cocaine and booze screwed up his brain and critical thinking. Really had nothing to do with paying his ex-wives. There was lots of money to go around. Was a combination of things, Parkinson's, not getting starring roles, failure of his TV show and a damaged brain from drugs/alcohol.
Its true that he screwed himself up but the women in his life (and their scumbag attorneys and Kommifornia divorce courts) screwed him out of his livelihood. I think he took his life because they took everything else and in reality perhaps his current wife was preparing to take even more from her "best friend."
Drugs suck and again I agree that he destroyed his mind with them. I despise such crap but I also loathe how men in general are treated as a woman's personal trust fund in court. We shall have to agree to disagree on a few points. Not a problem.
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Can't imagine having "supernatural" levels of test flowing thru me cause I'm the biggest dork you'll ever meet. I'm already a horn dog and have sex with my blow up doll 3x a day. Definitely need to find a girlfriend because my family and my one friend already think I'm a faggat.
edited for accuracy, pansy.
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Yup, most people have an out dated view of marriage based on some centuries old , religious values. Make your own rules!
Howard, you may want to stay out of this....
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she never went down on you Halo why do you still remorse her absence.
last time we had sex on my birthday in february she actually did
it was the best sex i ever had
she was on top in 69 sucking my dick she was amazing at it and i was licking her golden pussy untill she orgasm then i fuck her raw no pulling out
typing this actually gave me serious erection
other women dont really excite me so much for sex ???
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today i had to attend a horrifyingly boring family party
on the way home i took direction to red light district
but i was fighting with my self several minutes and decided not to go
because i hate working and so i should not blow money on them whores
but the other part makes me think you only live once and should enjoy good whores
hmm
so much conflicts in my brain
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i hear this from a lot of people
but in these 7-8 years not once she said no
well she said no sometimes but she never meant it, like when i just bear hug her from behind and dragged her to the bed while convincing her she would always let me
one woman told me this is actually what a woman wants, her man basically raping her while she is in the middle of cooking/cleaning
Or it could be that it was just what this one woman wanted. While there are undoubtedly many women who enjoy being a conquest, not all women want this.
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I remember splitting up with my now wife.
Over some small shit. One night I got some chick back to my place at about 11pm, after taking her for dinner second date, didn't get my hole on the first date. You know how it is "I'll just stay for a short while" then "I'll stay but in the spare room" then "Ok, your bed but give me some clothes to wear".. etc. etc. etc.. so I ended up finally getting into bed with this chick at 3:30am and then she grabbed my dick. To be honest, at that point I was barely interested. It ended up being shitty sex.
The next morning I drove down to where my now wife lived, made up, whisked her to a hotel and fucked her brutally on the balcony and that sex was FANTASTIC.
So fuck dating.
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I remember splitting up with my now wife.
Over some small shit. One night I got some chick back to my place at about 11pm, after taking her for dinner second date, didn't get my hole on the first date. You know how it is "I'll just stay for a short while" then "I'll stay but in the spare room" then "Ok, your bed but give me some clothes to wear".. etc. etc. etc.. so I ended up finally getting into bed with this chick at 3:30am and then she grabbed my dick. To be honest, at that point I was barely interested. It ended up being shitty sex.
The next morning I drove down to where my now wife lived, made up, whisked her to a hotel and fucked her brutally on the balcony and that sex was FANTASTIC.
So fuck dating.
How long were you split before you had sex with someone else?
I wonder if your wife was with other men during that time.
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So for me, here's the breakdown.
10 years together.
4-5 months initially just as fuck buddies - in a non exclusive relationship - I was recently divorced, on test and not interested in a relationship (like a dog with 2 dicks basically)
Then something more serious when I lost interest in fucking other girls
We've been living together for 9 years
Had a daughter for almost 5 years
Got a house together 3 years ago
We have been married for a year and a half.
I would say that to some extent marriage is dated. I was basically well committed both emotionally and legally by the time we got married. In fact, the only reason we got married is 'cause she asked me too and she wanted the whole 'wedding' thing.
So we did that. We didn't sign any official marriage certificate but that's fairly normal in Thailand for married people to not do the legal side. Hardly makes any difference anyway.
So I am married and happy - but I think I did it the right way round. I think getting married after 1-2 years relationship is very tricky.
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How long were you split before you had sex with someone else?
I wonder if your wife was with other men during that time.
Me? Less than a week - we were not married at that point, it was early on and the relationship was 'tumultuous'
I never asked if she was with other men during that time. Not my business.
She does know I was with other women. She never let's me forget that but it's mostly good natured piss-taking than anything else.
So if she goes to stay with her mom for a week, she'll fuck me mercilessly the night before and ask me "Can you hold out for a whole week this time?"
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Me? Less than a week - we were not married at that point, it was early on and the relationship was 'tumultuous'
I never asked if she was with other men during that time. Not my business.
She does know I was with other women. She never let's me forget that but it's mostly good natured piss-taking than anything else.
So if she goes to stay with her mom for a week, she'll fuck me mercilessly the night before and ask me "Can you hold out for a whole week this time?"
Looks like she is still holding onto some resentment.
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Looks like she is still holding onto some resentment.
Nope - she's just a brutal piss taker. We both are.
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Nope - she's just a brutal piss taker. We both are.
You really think so? Im always under the assumption that the language we use is to articulate something very within us, even if its just a "joke" or "sarcasm."
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You really think so? Im always under the assumption that the language we use is to articulate something very within us, even if its just a "joke" or "sarcasm."
Yes - I would say that after 10 years, I know her much better than you do.
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Yes - I would say that after 10 years, I know her much better than you do.
Eh, length of time does not mean anything. There are people who are married for 30 years who still keep secrets from their spouse. People who have affairs for decades. Length of time means nothing. Its more about the quality of the time that matters, as opposed to the length.
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Eh, length of time does not mean anything. There are people who are married for 30 years who still keep secrets from their spouse. People who have affairs for decades. Length of time means nothing. Its more about the quality of the time that matters, as opposed to the length.
In general, I believe keeping secrets in a relationship creates barriers in communication and trust. With this in mind, I also believe there is no reason to burden your partner with information that could be hurtful to them.
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Eh, length of time does not mean anything. There are people who are married for 30 years who still keep secrets from their spouse. People who have affairs for decades. Length of time means nothing. Its more about the quality of the time that matters, as opposed to the length.
lol...
So let me get this right. You know my wife better than I do?
Really?
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lol...
So let me get this right. You know my wife better than I do?
Really?
Nope, I am not saying that at all. I made a general statement that in any marriage (or any relationship for that matter) quality (connection, intimacy) is more important than quantity (how many years you have known the person for) in terms of truly knowing someone.
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Nope, I am not saying that at all. I made a general statement that in any marriage (or any relationship for that matter) quality (connection, intimacy) is more important than quantity (how many years you have known the person for) in terms of truly knowing someone.
OK - then trust me, I know my wife way better than you do and if she has a problem, she'll just come out and tell me about it.
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OK - then trust me, I know my wife way better than you do and if she has a problem, she'll just come out and tell me about it.
I never said you didn't. ::) ::)
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SF is releasing his insecurities on pedros marriage
awkward
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SF is releasing his insecurities on pedros marriage
awkward
Replace "insecurity" with "care." :-\ :-\ :D :D
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Replace "insecurity" with "care." :-\ :-\ :D :D
haha yes i know what you're saying
but he is already marriaged anyway
we can only be here for him if it should ever fall apart (lets hope it never does )
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haha yes i know what you're saying
but he is already marriaged anyway
we can only be here for him if it should ever fall apart (lets hope it never does )
Yes, I would not want to see Pedros marriage fail. If it did, I would offer him a shoulder to cry on.
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Frequent ramification is the key to a happy marriage.
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i have boners all the day at work today and thinking of baby mama's pussy
it was a bad idea to cut finasteride from 5m to 2.5mg
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i have boners all the day at work today and thinking of baby mama's pussy
it was a bad idea to cut finasteride from 5m to 2.5mg
Is there any general rule on how much fin to take for amount of test?Like how much for 250mg etc.Thinking about doing low dose test, currently take fin 0.6mg per day,What dose would you advise for 250mg a week?
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Is there any general rule on how much fin to take for amount of test?Like how much for 250mg etc.Thinking about doing low dose test, currently take fin 0.6mg per day,What dose would you advise for 250mg a week?
see my posts on this in the hairloss thread, welll copy paste from my hairloss guru
he says generally no need for more than 2,5 even for up to 3g test
5mg can thicken it somewhat he speculated
beyond that would be a waste
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see my posts on this in the hairloss thread, welll copy paste from my hairloss guru
he says generally no need for more than 2,5 even for up to 3g test
5mg can thicken it somewhat he speculated
beyond that would be a waste
So 0.6 would be fine for 250mg a week?
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So 0.6 would be fine for 250mg a week?
1mg is the prescribed dose for naturals withhairloss
so no
try double
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So for me, here's the breakdown.
10 years together.
4-5 months initially just as fuck buddies - in a non exclusive relationship - I was recently divorced, on test and not interested in a relationship (like a dog with 2 dicks basically)
Then something more serious when I lost interest in fucking other girls
We've been living together for 9 years
Had a daughter for almost 5 years
Got a house together 3 years ago
We have been married for a year and a half.
I would say that to some extent marriage is dated. I was basically well committed both emotionally and legally by the time we got married. In fact, the only reason we got married is 'cause she asked me too and she wanted the whole 'wedding' thing.
So we did that. We didn't sign any official marriage certificate but that's fairly normal in Thailand for married people to not do the legal side. Hardly makes any difference anyway.
So I am married and happy - but I think I did it the right way round. I think getting married after 1-2 years relationship is very tricky.
I was with my wife on and off (mostly on) for 7 years prior to getting married, so we knew each other inside/out... And there were no surprises
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I was with my wife on and off (mostly on) for 7 years prior to getting married, so we knew each other inside/out... And there were no surprises
Has she ever placed an object, digit or tongue in your anus?
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Has she ever placed an object, digit or tongue in your anus?
I don't particularly enjoy things in my anus, but whatever floats your boat my friend ;D
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I feel if you can make a marriage work then great, good on ya. But for me, I get annoyed if I'm with the same person for more than a week. I'm just a loner by nature.
But this talk of marriage reminds me of my cousin whom went through all the bells and whistles of the engagement. The nice expensive pictures taken, fancy wedding shower, and the eventual wedding. Which was done with not a dime spared. Three months later they are getting divorced. She was banging some other dude the whole time. ;D
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I feel if you can make a marriage work then great, good on ya. But for me, I get annoyed if I'm with the same person for more than a week. I'm just a loner by nature.
But this talk of marriage reminds me of my cousin whom went through all the bells and whistles of the engagement. The nice expensive pictures taken, fancy wedding shower, and the eventual wedding. Which was done with not a dime spared. Three months later they are getting divorced. She was banging some other dude the whole time. ;D
Fuck all that noise.
My sister got divorced before my dad had finished paying for the wedding.
We never went for all that.
We did a traditional Thai ceremony in the AM (like 8am), then everyone ate & got shitfaced. Then we did a "white wedding" reception about 5pm when everyone had sobered up. Then everyone all ate & got shitfaced again. Well - everyone ate except me & the wife 'cause we were doing the rounds.
All done in 1 day.
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Marriage isn't for everyone. Some people never figured that out. They keep trying and trying and always end up disappointed. For those who don't want to be married I wish you well. You are probably going to be much happier. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be free and easy. All I ask is for you to help a brotha out and provide me with as many of the gory details of your exciting single life as you can.
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The Redskins are gonna turn things around!!! Just wait and see!!!! Just some early season hardship lol
Redskins will be last in the NFC east.
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Looks like the people of the USA are...
http://www.presstv.ir/detail/2014/09/24/379867/study-marriage-at-alltime-low-in-us/
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Killed his new wife within 24hours of his marriage
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/help-me-hes-guns-wedding-4399779 (http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/help-me-hes-guns-wedding-4399779)
(http://i3.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article4399418.ece/alternates/s615/newlywed-doctor-shot-wife-dead.jpg)
(https://tribktla.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/s038288987.jpg)
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I've fucked and turned down wayyy too many married chicks. Its just sad to think how many of these whores are cheating on their husbands. The guys probably act like little bitches at home doing anything she says and getting a pity fuck on Wednesday night between Modern Family and the Bachelor but on Saturday when she's out with the "girls" she's getting plowed balls deep licking up every drop of cum on my cock.