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Title: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Army of One on October 28, 2014, 09:52:06 AM
Oh lawd

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Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: gracie bjj on October 28, 2014, 10:01:04 AM
i can give u 1000 reasons not to get married, broads r all evil and want to control us by pussy power.once u are able to break the spell of pussy power u r indeed a free man and the truth shall set u free
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: TheShape. on October 28, 2014, 10:01:42 AM
What a fucking slut...
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 28, 2014, 10:07:48 AM
i can give u 1000 reasons not to get married, broads r all evil and want to control us by pussy power.once u are able to break the spell of pussy power u r indeed a free man and the truth shall set u free


x1000. Am 30 and plan on NEVER getting married. I've seen too many dudes lives fucked by divorce. No thanks.

Love women, but don't love them enough to marry them. FUCK THAT !
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: WalterWhite on October 28, 2014, 10:10:23 AM
I'll give you 2m reasons why not to marry..
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: oldtimer1 on October 28, 2014, 10:10:48 AM
I have seen it so many times.  A man gets divorced and loses his house and the good car to his wife. He has to dish out monthly money to his wife and kids. Now he's broke he goes from living in a nice house to living like a rat in poorly furnished apartment.

 Now he's an older guys with little disposable income and no house. The women barely look at him. He finds most of his friends fall to the way side because their wives side with his ex.

The wife on the other hand starts dating like mad going on dating sites and getting fixed up from her girlfriends. She has a nice house and money coming in from the husband. Whenever she wants to have wild weekends she drops off the kids to her husband if the kids are young. Her face book blows up with pictures of her partying at clubs, restaurants, casinos, male strip clubs, and weekend getaways. She is smiling like a lunatic in all her pictures as she loves the attention from all the younger men that want to bang her.

When the husband goes to pick up the kids he waits while they get ready. Her boyfriend pulls up in his car that he had to give up in the divorce with a 12 pack of beer. He sits in his favorite spot and opens beer watching the game on the big screen tv that ex husband worked over time to afford.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: gracie bjj on October 28, 2014, 10:13:57 AM

x1000. Am 30 and plan on NEVER getting married. I've seen too many dudes lives fucked by divorce. No thanks.

Love women, but don't love them enough to marry them. FUCK THAT !

no matter how cool a girlfreind is they all change bro when u get married, its like they think a ring on their finger means u r a prisoner in jail and they r the warden. if i could do it all over i would never get married man,i envy u bro caus u r still free, i got 8 yr old son that loves me,hes not old enough to realize his old man is a loser so he looks up to me,im ready to split cause when he realizes im a fucking failure he will turn on me also. wish i could get the balls up to slice my wrist and end this shit
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Shockwave on October 28, 2014, 10:14:24 AM
Social media and the internet are the #1 cause of the skyrocketing divorce rate.

Makes it super easy for sluts to slut, and there 10 million guys willing to fawn over ever woman for a chance of pussy, regardless of how ugly or fat she is. Suddenly every woman thinks theyre a 10 and are entitled to everything theyve ever wanted because theres 60 dudes on their facebook telling them how hot they are..

That said, if a slut is going to slut, better off she does it and the guy finds out sooner rather than it happening after 20 years if marriage.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 28, 2014, 10:18:38 AM
I have seen it so many times.  A man gets divorced and loses his house and the good car to his wife. He has to dish out monthly money to his wife and kids. Now he's broke he goes from living in a nice house to living like a rat in poorly furnished apartment.

 Now he's an older guys with little disposable income and no house. The women barely look at him. He finds most of his friends fall to the way side because their wives side with his ex.

The wife on the other hand starts dating like mad going on dating sites and getting fixed up from her girlfriends. She has a nice house and money coming in from the husband. Whenever she wants to have wild weekends she drops off the kids to her husband if the kids are young. Her face book blows up with pictures of her partying at clubs, restaurants, casinos, male strip clubs, and weekend getaways. She is smiling like a lunatic in all her pictures as she loves the attention from all the younger men that want to bang her.

When the husband goes to pick up the kids he waits while they get ready. Her boyfriend pulls up in his car that he had to give up in the divorce with a 12 pack of beer. He sits in his favorite spot and opens beer watching the game on the big screen tv that ex husband worked over time to afford.

Jesus christ, man !! What a downer post ! But so fuckin true !!! :D

Work with a couple of guys who were successful business owners, and lost EVERYTHING after the divorce. Had to start from the ground up. Feel really sorry for them both because they're both great guys. :/

One of them told me, "Only marry if you are CERTAIN you want to have kids with her. " But I'm not even certain that's the best course of action these days ...

Single now, but have been in quite a few relationships throughout my life. And I'm NOT perfect, but I SWEAR to god every single one of my exes is fuckin loopy ! And every single one of them changes for the worst after the " romance " period. Less sex, more demands, more attitude.

Go figure !!
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: oldtimer1 on October 28, 2014, 10:18:54 AM
no matter how cool a girlfreind is they all change bro when u get married, its like they think a ring on their finger means u r a prisoner in jail and they r the warden. if i could do it all over i would never get married man,i envy u bro caus u r still free, i got 8 yr old son that loves me,hes not old enough to realize his old man is a loser so he looks up to me,im ready to split cause when he realizes im a fucking failure he will turn on me also. wish i could get the balls up to slice my wrist and end this shit

Worried about you after that post.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Skorp1o on October 28, 2014, 10:19:09 AM
Her husband is (off course) not nailing her...she's in her 50's lets be honest if he's 55 and they've been together for 20/25 years, there's only so many years you can enjoy the pussy. Women get bored, but chances are her husband has been nailing some young girls on the side for a loooong time.

Moral of the story is don't keep all your eggs in one basket. Always give any relationship you're in 90%, that's ample and more than enough, that 10% save it, have a boys holiday once a year, go out here and there and be proper lad once in a while to replenish your instincts and when a 10/10 fit girl comes up hit it like there's tomorrow, make sure if she breaks up with you tomorrow, you're financially unscathed.

It's a simple formula.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 28, 2014, 10:22:04 AM
no matter how cool a girlfreind is they all change bro when u get married, its like they think a ring on their finger means u r a prisoner in jail and they r the warden. if i could do it all over i would never get married man,i envy u bro caus u r still free, i got 8 yr old son that loves me,hes not old enough to realize his old man is a loser so he looks up to me,im ready to split cause when he realizes im a fucking failure he will turn on me also. wish i could get the balls up to slice my wrist and end this shit

Don't say that !! Jesus, man !! What the fuck ?!?!

I don't know you personally, but you seem like a really cool cat. I highly doubt you're a loser. Highly doubt it !!

Hell, I feel like a loser some days because everyone on the planet seems to have a kid but me. So you ARE lucky in that regard. And that kid needs ya. Assuming he will turn on you is negative thinking, brother. Your his Dad. His blood. Can't change that.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 28, 2014, 10:27:23 AM
I was always not very pro-marriage, but recent events in the circles of people I know just makes me cringe. Let's say - you are a very happy person if you've managed to have and keep the good marriage, if not - some cases are very extreme, it's tough to witness of how people suffer just because they decided to tie themselves to another person for the rest of life (foolishly so).
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Skorp1o on October 28, 2014, 10:29:05 AM
Don't say that !! Jesus, man !! What the fuck ?!?!

I don't know you personally, but you seem like a really cool cat. I highly doubt you're a loser. Highly doubt it !!

Hell, I feel like a loser some days because everyone on the planet seems to have a kid but me. So you ARE lucky in that regard. And that kid needs ya. Assuming he will turn on you is negative thinking, brother. Your his Dad. His blood. Can't change that.

Don't be so confident, he posts on Getbig  ::)
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Rudee on October 28, 2014, 10:32:46 AM
I went to my 25 hear High School reunion a while back.  The number of divorced people greatly outnumbered the married ones.   Most were bitter and financially messed up for many years to come. 
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 28, 2014, 10:34:00 AM
Don't say that !! Jesus, man !! What the fuck ?!?!

I don't know you personally, but you seem like a really cool cat. I highly doubt you're a loser. Highly doubt it !!

Hell, I feel like a loser some days because everyone on the planet seems to have a kid but me. So you ARE lucky in that regard. And that kid needs ya. Assuming he will turn on you is negative thinking, brother. Your his Dad. His blood. Can't change that.

You are just 30, no reason to feel like a loser because of no kids lol.. Just have one at 40 if you'll feel like it, till then - try to become as rich as possible and enjoy life (it will get better for these who are rich, due to many reasons, mainly technological ones. Just most doesn't yet realize this.).
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Archer77 on October 28, 2014, 10:36:08 AM
Shit like that doesn't just happen out of nowhere.  Odds are high she was running around on him before ever signing up for Tinder.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Thong Maniac on October 28, 2014, 10:38:23 AM
That article is pretty off IMO. Almost seems hoaxy. I mean i know guys on tinder and its still a process to get a girl. 2 weeks of texting, photos to prove who you say you are, playing th game, etc. unless im missing something, i never read a profile on tinder saying "hi im married and DTf any hot dude". They all start with .", im not here for sex ..."

I am marrried and enjoyig being married but we argue about kids often. I literally have ZERO interest in kids. My wife wants them in a couple years and i dont. Its a pressure that i wish was gone. It makes me dread the future, but I love my wife and As I get older I seem to grow fonder of her. There are lots of unstable women out there and im glad im not dating in that world.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 28, 2014, 10:40:29 AM
That article is pretty off IMO. Almost seems hoaxy. I mean i know guys on tinder and its still a process to get a girl. 2 weeks of texting, photos to prove who you say you are, playing th game, etc. unless im missing something, i never read a profile on tinder saying "hi im married and DTf any hot dude". They all start with .", im not here for sex ..."

I am marrried and enjoyig being married but we argue about kids often. I literally have ZERO interest in kids. My wife wants them in a couple years and i dont. Its a pressure that i wish was gone. It makes me dread the future, but I love my wife and As I get older I seem to grow fonder of her. There are lots of unstable women out there and im glad im not dating in that world.


You're a lucky man. I have yet to find stable.




You are just 30, no reason to feel like a loser because of no kids lol.. Just have one at 40 if you'll feel like it, till then - try to become as rich as possible and enjoy life (it will get better for these who are rich, due to many reasons, mainly technological ones. Just most doesn't yet realize this.).


Appreciate it, man. Definitely my primary focus at this point. Money, money ! :) Just got to take of bills, bills ! :D
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Parker on October 28, 2014, 10:54:40 AM
On Kelly Ripa's show, they were talking about a study that showed the correlation between people who have expensive or large weddings, and those who have cheap weddings and the longevity of their marriages. The study found out that those who were cheap, were focused on the marriage, not the wedding.
Kelly Ripa said that her wedding was $175 (It was around that number), and she can show people how to hav a cheap wedding.

Many of today's women tend to want to get married in huge extravagant weddings, with that whole "Princess" atmosphere. But, many don't care about who they are marrying or are focused on the future---the marriage.
And the men, they just go along with it. So, you have many women pretending the whole damn time, and the man is either glad to get it over with, or having the wool pulled over his eyes.
As an older dude told me, and someone on here said that they were told by an older person, "marry a cheap woman".

It's all about me, me...
And that woman said it. Maybe she feels unappreciated, who knows. But, she comes off as selfish. But, reality will hit hard...
The thing is, she is 51, what type of men or quality of men is she pulling? By the time she is 55, 60...those young guys are going to dry up, because they will be after younger women. And these older women have to compete with younger women.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: gracie bjj on October 28, 2014, 10:55:53 AM
a buddy of mine got a great chimney business,  his wife of 15 yrs just sits home and drives brand new car every year and has tons of cash to spend. she goes to gym 2 times a day and has everything a women can want,guess what tho? he caught her sucking a guys cock at the gym in the parking lot ???he gave her everything and thats what she does in return,messed up stuff right there
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: mazrim on October 28, 2014, 11:15:33 AM
I love being married and my wedding was cheap. Also I legitimately thought she was going to be mad at me for how much I spent on her wedding/engagement rings as we are both very similar in that regard and the idea that it is so dumb to spend as much money as people do on that sort of stuff. The rings were less then $1000 combined as opposed to the inordinate amount that people spend nowadays on that.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: MikMaq on October 28, 2014, 11:17:42 AM
You guys can complain, but you had no issue taking all those financial advantages over the years.

Dual income rules Canada right now.

You can pretty much triple your disposal income by living together.

Everything becomes cheaper.

Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Wolfox on October 28, 2014, 11:20:43 AM
I have seen it so many times.  A man gets divorced and loses his house and the good car to his wife. He has to dish out monthly money to his wife and kids. Now he's broke he goes from living in a nice house to living like a rat in poorly furnished apartment.

 Now he's an older guys with little disposable income and no house. The women barely look at him. He finds most of his friends fall to the way side because their wives side with his ex.

The wife on the other hand starts dating like mad going on dating sites and getting fixed up from her girlfriends. She has a nice house and money coming in from the husband. Whenever she wants to have wild weekends she drops off the kids to her husband if the kids are young. Her face book blows up with pictures of her partying at clubs, restaurants, casinos, male strip clubs, and weekend getaways. She is smiling like a lunatic in all her pictures as she loves the attention from all the younger men that want to bang her.

When the husband goes to pick up the kids he waits while they get ready. Her boyfriend pulls up in his car that he had to give up in the divorce with a 12 pack of beer. He sits in his favorite spot and opens beer watching the game on the big screen tv that ex husband worked over time to afford.

 :(

Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: _aj_ on October 28, 2014, 11:21:21 AM
I have seen it so many times.  A man gets divorced and loses his house and the good car to his wife. He has to dish out monthly money to his wife and kids. Now he's broke he goes from living in a nice house to living like a rat in poorly furnished apartment.

 Now he's an older guys with little disposable income and no house. The women barely look at him. He finds most of his friends fall to the way side because their wives side with his ex.

The wife on the other hand starts dating like mad going on dating sites and getting fixed up from her girlfriends. She has a nice house and money coming in from the husband. Whenever she wants to have wild weekends she drops off the kids to her husband if the kids are young. Her face book blows up with pictures of her partying at clubs, restaurants, casinos, male strip clubs, and weekend getaways. She is smiling like a lunatic in all her pictures as she loves the attention from all the younger men that want to bang her.

When the husband goes to pick up the kids he waits while they get ready. Her boyfriend pulls up in his car that he had to give up in the divorce with a 12 pack of beer. He sits in his favorite spot and opens beer watching the game on the big screen tv that ex husband worked over time to afford.

I am going to go gargle my .38 now...
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: BigRo on October 28, 2014, 11:22:49 AM
no matter how cool a girlfreind is they all change bro when u get married, its like they think a ring on their finger means u r a prisoner in jail and they r the warden. if i could do it all over i would never get married man,i envy u bro caus u r still free, i got 8 yr old son that loves me,hes not old enough to realize his old man is a loser so he looks up to me,im ready to split cause when he realizes im a fucking failure he will turn on me also. wish i could get the balls up to slice my wrist and end this shit

dont think of yourself this way. If your a good person who has love in his heart that is enough, why let society tell you who you are...
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: _aj_ on October 28, 2014, 11:25:34 AM
Lately have had a few friends have their marriages turn into thermonuclear divorce war. Never seen such hatred before.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: MikMaq on October 28, 2014, 11:28:06 AM
Have children can be an amazing fulfilling experience for fathers

But once you have a child, the mother of the child owns your wallet for the next 18 years regardless of whether you are in a relationship with her or not.

Mothers often spend their child support money on handbags and shoes to wear to their next date with their new boyfriend.
Whatever dude there are more than a few dudes dropping $200 a month which won't even cover the kids food.


Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Wolfox on October 28, 2014, 11:28:43 AM
no matter how cool a girlfreind is they all change bro when u get married, its like they think a ring on their finger means u r a prisoner in jail and they r the warden. if i could do it all over i would never get married man,i envy u bro caus u r still free, i got 8 yr old son that loves me,hes not old enough to realize his old man is a loser so he looks up to me,im ready to split cause when he realizes im a fucking failure he will turn on me also. wish i could get the balls up to slice my wrist and end this shit

You're not a loser bro. Don't say stuff like that. You're a king like all fathers are to their children so you gotta be strong for him.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Wolfox on October 28, 2014, 11:33:04 AM
dont think of yourself this way. If your a good person who has love in his heart that is enough, why let society tell you who you are...

This. You don't need money or material possessions to be a good person.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 28, 2014, 11:37:26 AM
Whatever dude there are more than a few dudes dropping $200 a month which won't even cover the kids food.




I've dated a couple moms who were getting child support. And very rarely did I see that much go towards the child. Completely and totally fucked up. :/
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: CDel19 on October 28, 2014, 11:50:18 AM
I am in the middle of a divorce w two young children-I had a good sex life w a good woman who I wasn't in love with and had affairs-we own a house together and at first made it out like I was a pot smoking juicehead using trt against me and my joy of marijuana after the gym LOL-anyway we becoming civil-I don't mind living in my parents basement where I grew up to afford keeping the house for my kids in the meantime-I live w my gf and her son 60 miles away on weekends and I basically left for her as eventually it would have been someone else I guess-but we have great connection-she is divorced from a man who cheated on her and had a kid w his gumada-i get depressed that things aren't the same w my kids but it will get better and actually enjoy being alone a few days a week-I Felt I got married because I had kids already-no more kids w the gf and idk if we get married one day but we will be domestic partners def -I love here enough to get married romantically but marriage is no doubt a benefit to a woman....If you saw her tits and ass youd understand why..but if it all goes to shit one day ill always have my test deca weed and right hand w many woman who wanna fuck me for my muscles and that will be enough cause im 42 now and this will be my last serious relationship    wish me luck  ;)
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: CDel19 on October 28, 2014, 11:51:57 AM
I've dated a couple moms who were getting child support. And very rarely did I see that much go towards the child. Completely and totally fucked up. :/
my gf ex is a bar owner who is finally doing the right thing after fucking her financially and it goes to her rent after she had to foreclose -so its not always the woman who is f up
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Parker on October 28, 2014, 12:02:27 PM
I've been married 5 years and while Oldtimers post scares the shit out of me as I too have seen that happen, I think there are a few things that must be done to as best as you can ensure a decent marriage:

1- Live together before marriage. A must to see if you mesh.
2- Gauge her willingness to do anal.
That's what most people do. And many of those same people are getting divorce. Also, don't buy a house together if you two are not married. Watch Judge Judy for the answer.

Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Wolfox on October 28, 2014, 12:08:54 PM
I am in the middle of a divorce w two young children-I had a good sex life w a good woman who I wasn't in love with and had affairs-we own a house together and at first made it out like I was a pot smoking juicehead using trt against me and my joy of marijuana after the gym LOL-anyway we becoming civil-I don't mind living in my parents basement where I grew up to afford keeping the house for my kids in the meantime-I live w my gf and her son 60 miles away on weekends and I basically left for her as eventually it would have been someone else I guess-but we have great connection-she is divorced from a man who cheated on her and had a kid w his gumada-i get depressed that things aren't the same w my kids but it will get better and actually enjoy being alone a few days a week-I Felt I got married because I had kids already-no more kids w the gf and idk if we get married one day but we will be domestic partners def -I love here enough to get married romantically but marriage is no doubt a benefit to a woman....If you saw her tits and ass youd understand why..but if it all goes to shit one day ill always have my test deca weed and right hand w many woman who wanna fuck me for my muscles and that will be enough cause im 42 now and this will be my last serious relationship    wish me luck  ;)

Good luck, brother. I hope you find happiness with this new woman.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: nzmusclemonster on October 28, 2014, 12:16:12 PM
no matter how cool a girlfreind is they all change bro when u get married, its like they think a ring on their finger means u r a prisoner in jail and they r the warden. if i could do it all over i would never get married man,i envy u bro caus u r still free, i got 8 yr old son that loves me,hes not old enough to realize his old man is a loser so he looks up to me,im ready to split cause when he realizes im a fucking failure he will turn on me also. wish i could get the balls up to slice my wrist and end this shit

Lol  ;D
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: anabolichalo on October 28, 2014, 12:35:20 PM
what the fuck is tinder anyway

i see it on getbig mentioned a lot the last few months
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Nails on October 28, 2014, 12:40:17 PM
51yr old wizard size sleeve slit  :-X :-X
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Shockwave on October 28, 2014, 01:01:53 PM
On Kelly Ripa's show, they were talking about a study that showed the correlation between people who have expensive or large weddings, and those who have cheap weddings and the longevity of their marriages. The study found out that those who were cheap, were focused on the marriage, not the wedding.
Kelly Ripa said that her wedding was $175 (It was around that number), and she can show people how to hav a cheap wedding.

Many of today's women tend to want to get married in huge extravagant weddings, with that whole "Princess" atmosphere. But, many don't care about who they are marrying or are focused on the future---the marriage.
And the men, they just go along with it. So, you have many women pretending the whole damn time, and the man is either glad to get it over with, or having the wool pulled over his eyes.
As an older dude told me, and someone on here said that they were told by an older person, "marry a cheap woman".

It's all about me, me...
And that woman said it. Maybe she feels unappreciated, who knows. But, she comes off as selfish. But, reality will hit hard...
The thing is, she is 51, what type of men or quality of men is she pulling? By the time she is 55, 60...those young guys are going to dry up, because they will be after younger women. And these older women have to compete with younger women.
yup.

My wife and i didnt evem have a wedding, i was a broke college kid.. we went down to the courthouse and got married and her ring cost 750 at the time.

We may do a small family wedding and renew our vows on our 5th anniversery or before my grandparents pass away, but its more for our family than anything.

When we met we both had next to nothing, so it was all about US, and not what we could give each other.

In fact, she worked and paid the bills while i finished college.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Thong Maniac on October 28, 2014, 01:06:37 PM
yup.

My wife and i didnt evem have a wedding, i was a broke college kid.. we went down to the courthouse and got married and her ring cost 750 at the time.

We may do a small family wedding and renew our vows on our 5th anniversery or before my grandparents pass away, but its more for our family than anything.

When we met we both had next to nothing, so it was all about US, and not what we could give each other.

In fact, she worked and paid the bills while i finished college.

Nice man, that is how it should be.
My wife was surrounded by wealth and was an only child so of course we had the dream wedding of sorts, cliche as hell and awful. Was more for my bitch mother in law than either of us. Lookig back, my wife is much more simple now and less princessy which i attritube to her growing up alot and also moving away from her folks to the other side of the country. Not sure what it is, but breaking your wife away from the restraints and opinions of the mom, does wonders for growth and maturity
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: _aj_ on October 28, 2014, 01:10:40 PM
yup.

My wife and i didnt evem have a wedding, i was a broke college kid.. we went down to the courthouse and got married and her ring cost 750 at the time.

We may do a small family wedding and renew our vows on our 5th anniversery or before my grandparents pass away, but its more for our family than anything.

When we met we both had next to nothing, so it was all about US, and not what we could give each other.

In fact, she worked and paid the bills while i finished college.

My wife and I were doing great financially and we decided to have a small wedding. Who am I to argue with a woman that wants to elope? We ended up with 6 people at the wedding, including the priest. Cost me about $1000 with dinner.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on October 28, 2014, 01:14:40 PM
a friend of mine married a total kunt who was a single mom.  After two years they divorced, now he has to pay for her and the fucking kid.  As long as she doesn't remary he has to pay her alimony checks.  She ends up meeting some other dude and they date for a while and he wants to marry her but she refuses to get married because she's getting the free checks.  What a fucked up situation.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: anabolichalo on October 28, 2014, 01:22:29 PM
a friend of mine married a total kunt who was a single mom.  After two years they divorced, now he has to pay for her and the fucking kid.  As long as she doesn't remary he has to pay her alimony checks.  She ends up meeting some other dude and they date for a while and he wants to marry her but she refuses to get married because she's getting the free checks.  What a fucked up situation.
;D ;D ;D ;D

Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Voice of Doom on October 28, 2014, 01:33:10 PM
She'll run out of steam after a few years and then regret her decision to throw away marriage on a mid life crisis.  I thought the articles last line about "this is her reward for 20 years of service" was a bunch of bullshit.  Would they have written that if it was the husband breaking up the family for new young pussy?   ::)

Nothing wrong with marriage if that's what you want.  My advice is don't do it with a woman raised in Western European/North American cultures.  Pick a woman from a more traditional background.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: gracie bjj on October 28, 2014, 01:42:15 PM
I am in the middle of a divorce w two young children-I had a good sex life w a good woman who I wasn't in love with and had affairs-we own a house together and at first made it out like I was a pot smoking juicehead using trt against me and my joy of marijuana after the gym LOL-anyway we becoming civil-I don't mind living in my parents basement where I grew up to afford keeping the house for my kids in the meantime-I live w my gf and her son 60 miles away on weekends and I basically left for her as eventually it would have been someone else I guess-but we have great connection-she is divorced from a man who cheated on her and had a kid w his gumada-i get depressed that things aren't the same w my kids but it will get better and actually enjoy being alone a few days a week-I Felt I got married because I had kids already-no more kids w the gf and idk if we get married one day but we will be domestic partners def -I love here enough to get married romantically but marriage is no doubt a benefit to a woman....If you saw her tits and ass youd understand why..but if it all goes to shit one day ill always have my test deca weed and right hand w many woman who wanna fuck me for my muscles and that will be enough cause im 42 now and this will be my last serious relationship    wish me luck  ;)

wow man sorry to hear that,when kids r involved it changes everything from being somewhat easy to really really hard,just hang in there man and everything will work out,remember that your kids r number one and thats all that matters,u will b ok trust me bro
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: anabolichalo on October 28, 2014, 01:43:08 PM
She'll run out of steam after a few years and then regret her decision to throw away marriage on a mid life crisis.  I thought the articles last line about "this is her reward for 20 years of service" was a bunch of bullshit.  Would they have written that if it was the husband breaking up the family for new young pussy?   ::)

Nothing wrong with marriage if that's what you want.  My advice is don't do it with a woman raised in Western European/North American cultures.  Pick a woman from a more traditional background.
this was my first thought

bunch of idiots these women


their bodies have expired on them so they can never find tru love again

just a few horny dudes looking for a cock hole
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Natural Man on October 28, 2014, 01:43:21 PM
99.9% of marriages end cause woman doesnt want to suck dick.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Costanza on October 28, 2014, 01:44:12 PM
In the last week I've spotted two women on Tinder who are married to mates of mine, both of which have kids....torn as to whether or not I should tell them. Personally if I was married and my friends knew my wife was whoring around I'd want them to tell me.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: bigmc on October 28, 2014, 01:47:07 PM
Social media and the internet are the #1 cause of the skyrocketing divorce rate.

Makes it super easy for sluts to slut, and there 10 million guys willing to fawn over ever woman for a chance of pussy, regardless of how ugly or fat she is. Suddenly every woman thinks theyre a 10 and are entitled to everything theyve ever wanted because theres 60 dudes on their facebook telling them how hot they are..

That said, if a slut is going to slut, better off she does it and the guy finds out sooner rather than it happening after 20 years if marriage.

Truth
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Palpatine Q on October 28, 2014, 01:48:26 PM
I have seen it so many times.  A man gets divorced and loses his house and the good car to his wife. He has to dish out monthly money to his wife and kids. Now he's broke he goes from living in a nice house to living like a rat in poorly furnished apartment.

 Now he's an older guys with little disposable income and no house. The women barely look at him. He finds most of his friends fall to the way side because their wives side with his ex.

The wife on the other hand starts dating like mad going on dating sites and getting fixed up from her girlfriends. She has a nice house and money coming in from the husband. Whenever she wants to have wild weekends she drops off the kids to her husband if the kids are young. Her face book blows up with pictures of her partying at clubs, restaurants, casinos, male strip clubs, and weekend getaways. She is smiling like a lunatic in all her pictures as she loves the attention from all the younger men that want to bang her.

When the husband goes to pick up the kids he waits while they get ready. Her boyfriend pulls up in his car that he had to give up in the divorce with a 12 pack of beer. He sits in his favorite spot and opens beer watching the game on the big screen tv that ex husband worked over time to afford.

Sorry about that dude.  i didn't know you were going to be there that fast.

That is a nice TV  :D
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: _aj_ on October 28, 2014, 01:52:20 PM
99.9% of marriages end cause woman doesnt want to suck dick.

Since 75% of marriages recently ending in divorce are initiated by the woman, is it because the husband won't stop showing her the dick and asking for a blow? And since 100% of those women will blow the first guy they date after the divorce, isn't that hypocritical?
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Natural Man on October 28, 2014, 02:02:18 PM
http://www.tmz.com/2014/10/21/david-arquette-fiancee-fight-christina-mclarty-baby-breastfeeding/
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Costanza on October 28, 2014, 02:38:36 PM
So I just sent this to a female friend of mine and this is her response.

Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Natural Man on October 28, 2014, 02:47:09 PM
What next, another reason to be gay?
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: flinstones1 on October 28, 2014, 03:53:03 PM
Social media and the internet are the #1 cause of the skyrocketing divorce rate.

Makes it super easy for sluts to slut, and there 10 million guys willing to fawn over ever woman for a chance of pussy, regardless of how ugly or fat she is. Suddenly every woman thinks theyre a 10 and are entitled to everything theyve ever wanted because theres 60 dudes on their facebook telling them how hot they are..

That said, if a slut is going to slut, better off she does it and the guy finds out sooner rather than it happening after 20 years if marriage.

the problem these days is every chick has a KIK and a  snapchat too....for you older guys snapchat  is a mobile appointment where you can send pictures of videos of yourself on your phone to people and they automatically self  destruct the first time  its viewed.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Mr Anabolic on October 28, 2014, 04:08:15 PM
I've been married 5 years and while Oldtimers post scares the shit out of me as I too have seen that happen, I think there are a few things that must be done to as best as you can ensure a decent marriage:

1- Live together before marriage. A must to see if you mesh.
2- Gauge her willingness to do anal.

1- Living together does not help because they just "acting" to get your name on that marriage contract.  Once signed, you are legally and financially bound to her.  Pre-nups?... they can be circumvented by any crafty divorce lawyer.

2 - No fuck hole is worth 50% of everything you have.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Mr Anabolic on October 28, 2014, 04:12:14 PM
What next, another reason to be gay?

As long you don't get married.  This gay marriage thing makes no sense to me.  Marriage (straight or gay) has NOTHING to do with love.  It's a financial arrangement.  The person making the least money is the one who benefits the most.  Gay divorce lawyers are going to be all the rage in the coming years. 
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: _aj_ on October 28, 2014, 04:26:08 PM
the problem these days is every chick has a KIK and a  snapchat too....for you older guys snapchat  is a mobile appointment where you can send pictures of videos of yourself on your phone to people and they automatically self  destruct the first time  its viewed.

I must be really old, because I have no fucking clue what a "mobile appointment" is.

"Older guys" ::) yeah, ok whippersnapper.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: flinstones1 on October 28, 2014, 04:33:07 PM
Jesus christ, man !! What a downer post ! But so fuckin true !!! :D

Work with a couple of guys who were successful business owners, and lost EVERYTHING after the divorce. Had to start from the ground up. Feel really sorry for them both because they're both great guys. :/

One of them told me, "Only marry if you are CERTAIN you want to have kids with her. " But I'm not even certain that's the best course of action these days ...

Single now, but have been in quite a few relationships throughout my life. And I'm NOT perfect, but I SWEAR to god every single one of my exes is fuckin loopy ! And every single one of them changes for the worst after the " romance " period. Less sex, more demands, more attitude.

Go figure !!

Im not defending women or anything but Why wouldn't they? She doesn't have to work  to get you, by marrying or even entering a relationship with a chick your beta to a degree.

No woman will fall out of love with you for cheating on her, but she'll probably lose respect for you if you don't. Never stop spinning plates....the only times in my life I've ever been fucked over by women was when i was genuinely comfortable iand satisfied n the relationship and stopped gaming other women. Bitches can sense when they have you wrapped around their finger and that's when they lose respect.

Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Primemuscle on October 28, 2014, 04:48:04 PM
At this very moment, my wife of 50 years and I are sitting in our hotel room which overlooks the Pacific Ocean in Cannon Beach, Oregon. The weather is windy, so the ocean is choppy. There is a Seagull on the balcony unsuccessfully looking for us to feed him. He keeps watching us an squawking at us. Oops, he just gave up and flew away.

We had a nice lunch this afternoon. Now we are just relaxing. Later we may get in the private hot tub or just lay around in bed and watch TV. Life is good.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: che on October 28, 2014, 05:00:31 PM
At this very moment, my wife of 50 years and I are sitting in our hotel room which overlooks the Pacific Ocean in Cannon Beach, Oregon. The weather is windy, so the ocean is choppy. There is a neagull on the balcony unsuccessfully looking for us to feed him. He keeps watching us an squawking at us. Oops, he just gave up and flew away.

We had a nice lunch this afternoon. Now we are just relaxing. Later we may get in the private hot tub or just lay around in bed and watch TV. Life is good.


Is he well endowed ?
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Primemuscle on October 28, 2014, 05:12:24 PM

Is he well endowed ?

If you've ever seen a Seagull you know that this is impossible to tell. Truth is, it could have been a female. Of course it didn't have inflated tits like some human females we all know.  :o
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: APE907 on October 28, 2014, 05:24:50 PM
no matter how cool a girlfreind is they all change bro when u get married, its like they think a ring on their finger means u r a prisoner in jail and they r the warden. if i could do it all over i would never get married man,i envy u bro caus u r still free, i got 8 yr old son that loves me,hes not old enough to realize his old man is a loser so he looks up to me,im ready to split cause when he realizes im a fucking failure he will turn on me also. wish i could get the balls up to slice my wrist and end this shit

Dude stop.

Your kid doesn't see you that way.  He needs you.

I have feeling we living parallel lives. My boy 7 and his mother destroyed me after 10 year marriage both legally, financially and figuratively.

Don't let the c*nt get you down.  Your kid needs you and see you as his biggest hero. 
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 28, 2014, 06:02:59 PM
I am in the middle of a divorce w two young children-I had a good sex life w a good woman who I wasn't in love with

Two kids with a female you did not love? Why?
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Natural Man on October 28, 2014, 06:12:30 PM
As long you don't get married.  This gay marriage thing makes no sense to me.  Marriage (straight or gay) has NOTHING to do with love.  It's a financial arrangement.  The person making the least money is the one who benefits the most.  Gay divorce lawyers are going to be all the rage in the coming years. 
any kind of relationship is a financial arrangement... no need to be married for that.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Mr Anabolic on October 28, 2014, 06:17:49 PM
any kind of relationship is a financial arrangement... no need to be married for that.

Yes, but you can leave the relationship anytime you want... no strings. 

A marriage makes it legally and financially binding... you can't just get up and leave without huge financial ramifications.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Shockwave on October 28, 2014, 06:42:58 PM
Im not defending women or anything but Why wouldn't they? She doesn't have to work  to get you, by marrying or even entering a relationship with a chick your beta to a degree.

No woman will fall out of love with you for cheating on her, but she'll probably lose respect for you if you don't. Never stop spinning plates....the only times in my life I've ever been fucked over by women was when i was genuinely comfortable iand satisfied n the relationship and stopped gaming other women. Bitches can sense when they have you wrapped around their finger and that's when they lose respect.


uh, no. Shitty, stupid, young girls do this, or if they sense youve become their bitch.

You dont have to cheat on them to wear the pants in the relationship man, thats like the guy that thinks he has to treat the woman like shit to keep her around.

Just be confident and be in charge, and dont let her push you around. Shell be fine.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: The Abdominal Snoman on October 28, 2014, 06:49:55 PM
The chick is 51 years old. Her hatchet wound most likely looks like it was destroyed by an ISIS chopping squad. Women this old don't fukcing matter...
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: che on October 28, 2014, 06:55:58 PM
I have seen it so many times.  A man gets divorced and loses his house and the good car to his wife. He has to dish out monthly money to his wife and kids. Now he's broke he goes from living in a nice house to living like a rat in poorly furnished apartment.

 Now he's an older guys with little disposable income and no house. The women barely look at him. He finds most of his friends fall to the way side because their wives side with his ex.

The wife on the other hand starts dating like mad going on dating sites and getting fixed up from her girlfriends. She has a nice house and money coming in from the husband. Whenever she wants to have wild weekends she drops off the kids to her husband if the kids are young. Her face book blows up with pictures of her partying at clubs, restaurants, casinos, male strip clubs, and weekend getaways. She is smiling like a lunatic in all her pictures as she loves the attention from all the younger men that want to bang her.

When the husband goes to pick up the kids he waits while they get ready. Her boyfriend pulls up in his car that he had to give up in the divorce with a 12 pack of beer. He sits in his favorite spot and opens beer watching the game on the big screen tv that ex husband worked over time to afford.
Haha  ,  awesome.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: anabolichalo on October 29, 2014, 04:25:38 AM
i've got to the point where i'm very bitter

in fact too bitter for hookers too


soon too bitter for porn too


Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Ronnie Rep on October 29, 2014, 05:04:55 AM
no matter how cool a girlfreind is they all change bro when u get married, its like they think a ring on their finger means u r a prisoner in jail and they r the warden. if i could do it all over i would never get married man,i envy u bro caus u r still free, i got 8 yr old son that loves me,hes not old enough to realize his old man is a loser so he looks up to me,im ready to split cause when he realizes im a fucking failure he will turn on me also. wish i could get the balls up to slice my wrist and end this shit
Just be the best father you can to him, he will love you for that.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Simple Simon on October 29, 2014, 05:08:55 AM
I know a guy who was going through a divorce but didnt want to, still loved her, he turned up at court and she said she was willing to give it another go if he agreed to say he had been abusive in the relationship in court.
Numbnuts did and she got awarded everything.
When he walked out of court she was getting in the car with her new boyfriend and they waved as they drove past him.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: O.Z. on October 29, 2014, 05:18:07 AM

Is he well endowed ?


 ;D
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Rhomboids on October 29, 2014, 05:58:38 AM
Marriage is a ridiculous proposition.  Especially if you have money and you're a man.  More than 50% of marriages fail they say.  But how many people do we know just stay in it even though they're miserable?  So the other 50%, which is being generous, maybe more than half are already miserable.  Probably another half are cheating on each other, a quarter of them are only together for kids, and half of a quarter of them are probably fags trying to stay on the low by having a family.

Who in their right mind would go into something that has about a 5% chance of succeeding?
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 29, 2014, 06:08:33 AM

Who in their right mind would go into something that has about a 5% chance of succeeding?

Humans...lol..
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 29, 2014, 06:11:06 AM
I know a guy who was going through a divorce but didnt want to, still loved her, he turned up at court and she said she was willing to give it another go if he agreed to say he had been abusive in the relationship in court.
Numbnuts did and she got awarded everything.
When he walked out of court she was getting in the car with her new boyfriend and they waved as they drove past him.


I hope you're kidding. That is truly fucking depressing.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: CDel19 on October 29, 2014, 06:26:11 AM
wow man sorry to hear that,when kids r involved it changes everything from being somewhat easy to really really hard,just hang in there man and everything will work out,remember that your kids r number one and thats all that matters,u will b ok trust me bro
thx but don't be sorry-its what I chose -she didn't want it
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: BigCyp on October 29, 2014, 06:28:54 AM

I hope you're kidding. That is truly fucking depressing.

I have a feeling that this guy wouldn't last too long in the woods.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 29, 2014, 06:30:39 AM
I have a feeling that this guy wouldn't last too long in the woods.

Agreed
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: CDel19 on October 29, 2014, 06:33:45 AM
how do you guys feel about a domestic partnership if allowed in your state?
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Natural Man on October 29, 2014, 06:35:34 AM
Marriage is a ridiculous proposition.  Especially if you have money and you're a man.  More than 50% of marriages fail they say.  But how many people do we know just stay in it even though they're miserable?  So the other 50%, which is being generous, maybe more than half are already miserable.  Probably another half are cheating on each other, a quarter of them are only together for kids, and half of a quarter of them are probably fags trying to stay on the low by having a family.

Who in their right mind would go into something that has about a 5% chance of succeeding?
There is no perfect marriage; even the good looking rich stars/elites divorce. Perfection isnt what you re supposed to look for. A strong marriage, is what you should aim at. Strenght. There are poor, ugly people, with strong ties.
Marriage is an alliance to increase both male and female odds of survival until they can produce an offspring, then rest of life is spent making sure you give the best odds of survival to your offspring so it can beat the competition and so on. Power is the only thing that matters, as power equal better odds of survival. We re all fighting for power, we re all suposed to produce powerful offsprings that will defeat weaker opponents and who will ally with powerful mates once adults. Power, domination, it's what we all run after, and there s nothing worse than losing power -at work, in your family- which is often a death sentence. Failing = death. In other animal species, when an animal fail, it dies. This is why failing makes us depressed, cause we re animals. It reminds us that in a long gone past, we would probably have died. Also noone is interested in losers, losers stink death, this is why we re naturally attracted by powerful people, because we want to learn from them their best strategies of survival to include them in our own panel of strategies of survival.

An alpha male dominate at work, in his family and raise alpha kids who will keep the tradition going. He obviously is with one or several alpha women.




http://www.tmz.com/2014/10/21/david-arquette-fiancee-fight-christina-mclarty-baby-breastfeeding/

watch this vid.

I bet he wanted her to suck his dick and she said no. Look at the result. 99.9% of marriages fail cause woman doesnt care about pleasing man sexually. Sex is 50% of a relationship, everything else = the other 50%. In all mamals sexual intercourses serve as a very powerful anti depressant. Refusing it to your partner means you dont really care about him/her.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: BigCyp on October 29, 2014, 06:37:52 AM
Agreed

Sometimes I will judge a man purely on how long I think he will last in the wild.

Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Mr Anabolic on October 29, 2014, 06:47:03 AM
I know a guy who was going through a divorce but didnt want to, still loved her, he turned up at court and she said she was willing to give it another go if he agreed to say he had been abusive in the relationship in court.
Numbnuts did and she got awarded everything.
When he walked out of court she was getting in the car with her new boyfriend and they waved as they drove past him.

She'll just do the same things to that new boyfriend in the future.  

During a divorce a woman has many tools at her disposal... claiming she was abused, claiming her children were abused, she can cry, etc.  She will lie and say anything to get what she wants.

A friend of mine is about to get divorced.  He's been married 15 years.  His wife is 40 and her new boyfriend is 26.  She's always been somewhat of a sociopath and he knew this before marrying her, but he did it anyway.  I told him she was nuts when he first met her, but I guess critical thinking and logic cannot compete with a tight wet pussy.

Men are absolutely insane to get married today.  Why marry a cow when you can get the milk for free?  It makes no fucking sense at all.  Societal/religious traditions and peer pressure ruin lives.  
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 29, 2014, 06:47:47 AM

Look at the result. 99.9% of marriages fail cause woman doesnt care about pleasing man sexually.




100 MOTHERFUCKIN % SPOT ON !!

And not just marriages either. Relationships in general. And this I've, unfortunately, experienced personally. :/

Hell, in my last relationship I came home after having bought dinner, asked my girlfriend for a kiss in a playful manner,  and was denied AND basically told to go fuck myself. I left her that night.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Natural Man on October 29, 2014, 06:56:02 AM

100 MOTHERFUCKIN % SPOT ON !!

And not just marriages either. Relationships in general. And this I've, unfortunately, experienced personally. :/

Hell, in my last relationship I came home after having bought dinner, asked my girlfriend for a kiss in a playful manner,  and was denied AND basically told to go fuck myself. I left her that night.
most women are ignorant of the importance of pleasing their man sexually because often their own mother or female advisers didnt understand it. They just dont understand how it works. Somewhat they re immature, it's not their fault.  You have to teach her how important sex is for the stability of the relationship. I'm not talking about having "great sex" everytime you have sex, im talking about HAVING SEX  great or less great, everytime man feels the urge. It will always be great for man to empty his nuts anyways. And woman will be please to have been able to calm him. Yeah, we re barely evolved chimpanzees, deal with it.
Often women dont understand sex, its purpose; they have to be taught. Then they learn giving sex to their man = calm and stability , at this point they start giving more of it without you asking cause they finally understand how it works. And they ll "love" -be attached to you- even more for that.
 They might find it being a sign of submission,and it is, but hey, that's how nature works, men didnt choose any of it. Men have to work and are stressed to face the competition daily, the least they deserve in return is to be pleased sexually. A woman who accept to submit to her man during sex accept her natural place and finds solace in embracing it. If she doesnt, well she s the one who has a problem. She refuses the natural way of things.

For a man sex, is sex; it will always blow man's mind and calm him, it's the most natural and powerful antidepressant that exists. Refusing to administer it is looking for trouble.
 Women who come from stable, religious families often know the importance of sex to reassure/calm their husband.
If a healthy, happy man is with the same women for decades, you can be sure his wife is giving him all the sex he always needed whenever he needed it.

This is why it is very important to make sure the woman you want to live with, comes from a stable family where her mother was able to keep her husband happy in bed. Look at the mother to know what kind of woman you re going to have to deal with. So many women have been brainwashed by feminist mothers/aunts/friends and they keep propagating these bullshits among themselves. Fact is a woman who please her man sexually and dont play games using sex to make him feel miserable has greater chances of keeping him than the other witches.
Find a woman who has a mother who knew how to please her man and was submissive in sex, or find a woman who doesnt understand it but is willing to learn. If a woman come from a dysfunctional family where parents separated cause mother didnt want to suck fahter's dick, ask their daughter if she wants to repeat it.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Mr Anabolic on October 29, 2014, 06:56:34 AM

100 MOTHERFUCKIN % SPOT ON !!

And not just marriages either. Relationships in general. And this I've, unfortunately, experienced personally. :/

Hell, in my last relationship I came home after having bought dinner, asked my girlfriend for a kiss in a playful manner,  and was denied AND basically told to go fuck myself. I left her that night.

Sex is just a tool for women to get what they want from men.  Their goals are: 1. To have a kid(sperm donation) at some point before their biological clock stops and  2. To have financial security via the mans earnings.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Natural Man on October 29, 2014, 06:59:00 AM
Sex is just a tool for women to get what they want from men.  Their goals are: 1. To have a kid(sperm donation) at some point before their biological clock stops and  2. To have financial security via the mans earnings.
It's up to you to dont let your woman use her body as her own tool to bully you and let her know she is, her body is, Your tool.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Natural Man on October 29, 2014, 07:01:12 AM
Sex is just a tool for women to get what they want from men.  Their goals are: 1. To have a kid(sperm donation) at some point before their biological clock stops and  2. To have financial security via the mans earnings.
most women have no conscious "goals" in mind, they just replicate what they ve been exposed to in their family, what they ve been, are, advised to do by mother figures or what they hear/see on tv/radio. Often you have teach them what you want from them, but it requires one to know what he wants in the first place and be able to communicate it with tact.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Cutlet767 on October 29, 2014, 07:03:32 AM
There is no perfect marriage; even the good looking rich stars/elites divorce. Perfection isnt what you re supposed to look for. A strong marriage, is what you should aim at. Strenght. There are poor, ugly people, with strong ties.
Marriage is an alliance to increase both male and female odds of survival until they can produce an offspring, then rest of life is spent making sure you give the best odds of survival to your offspring so it can beat the competition and so on. Power is the only thing that matters, as power equal better odds of survival. We re all fighting for power, we re all suposed to produce powerful offsprings that will defeat weaker opponents and who will ally with powerful mates once adults. Power, domination, it's what we all run after, and there s nothing worse than losing power -at work, in your family- which is often a death sentence. Failing = death. In other animal species, when an animal fail, it dies. This is why failing makes us depressed, cause we re animals. It reminds us that in a long gone past, we would probably have died. Also noone is interested in losers, losers stink death, this is why we re naturally attracted by powerful people, because we want to learn from them their best strategies of survival to include them in our own panel of strategies of survival.

An alpha male dominate at work, in his family and raise alpha kids who will keep the tradition going. He obviously is with one or several alpha women.




http://www.tmz.com/2014/10/21/david-arquette-fiancee-fight-christina-mclarty-baby-breastfeeding/

watch this vid.

I bet he wanted her to suck his dick and she said no. Look at the result. 99.9% of marriages fail cause woman doesnt care about pleasing man sexually. Sex is 50% of a relationship, everything else = the other 50%. In all mamals sexual intercourses serve as a very powerful anti depressant. Refusing it to your partner means you dont really care about him/her.

Fantastic post
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: CDel19 on October 29, 2014, 07:07:39 AM
whats up with these women not putting out anymore-my ex always pleased me and I miss that at times-my gf had very low test and is now on the test cream and is back on track sexually-is it a hormonal thing/??
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 29, 2014, 07:15:39 AM
Jesus, Uberman is crushing this thread out of the park. SOLID posts !!
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 29, 2014, 07:17:10 AM
whats up with these women not putting out anymore-my ex always pleased me and I miss that at times-my gf had very low test and is now on the test cream and is back on track sexually-is it a hormonal thing/??


It's more than that. It's a " power " thing, in my opinion.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: CDel19 on October 29, 2014, 07:19:33 AM
meaning power in the relationship-to have the upper hand since they are insecure etc-at least my gf is older -I couldn't imagine how it is w these 20 or 30 yr olds instagram whores
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: CDel19 on October 29, 2014, 07:21:56 AM
forget about sex for a minute-what about affection-like taking care of the man-cuddling -basic comforting-I never wanted that from my ex but I love it now-does that stop too lol
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 29, 2014, 07:26:18 AM
meaning power in the relationship-to have the upper hand since they are insecure etc-at least my gf is older -I couldn't imagine how it is w these 20 or 30 yr olds instagram whores

Pussy = Power


forget about sex for a minute-what about affection-like taking care of the man-cuddling -basic comforting-I never wanted that from my ex but I love it now-does that stop too lol

Who knows. Depends on the chick. How old are you ? 19 ?
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Natural Man on October 29, 2014, 07:41:53 AM
forget about sex for a minute-what about affection-like taking care of the man-cuddling -basic comforting-I never wanted that from my ex but I love it now-does that stop too lol
well  why not have both? in any normal stable relationship there s an alternance of cuddling and sex. One often leading to the other.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: CDel19 on October 29, 2014, 07:43:56 AM
oh totally agree with that gotta have both
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: anabolichalo on October 29, 2014, 09:23:34 AM
I know a guy who was going through a divorce but didnt want to, still loved her, he turned up at court and she said she was willing to give it another go if he agreed to say he had been abusive in the relationship in court.
Numbnuts did and she got awarded everything.
When he walked out of court she was getting in the car with her new boyfriend and they waved as they drove past him.
sad story bro
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Primemuscle on October 29, 2014, 11:06:46 AM
Yes, but you can leave the relationship anytime you want... no strings. 

A marriage makes it legally and financially binding... you can't just get up and leave without huge financial ramifications.

Have you never heard of common law marriage or palimony?
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Thong Maniac on October 29, 2014, 11:09:11 AM
Its 2014....

a huge red flag if your wife/gf has no career aspirations or career. My wife makes double the amount of money I do, which is great. however, she will want kids by the time in 34. i am not looking for that. Literally have zero interest in it.

If you are planning to get married, make sure she has a job and plans on working for a living. My mother in law is a stay at home idiot and I think my wife was smart enough to see how pathetic that was growing up with a mom who valued lunch dates with girlfriends to gossip as something important
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: eastonb on October 29, 2014, 11:11:09 AM
I have never believed in marriage
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Shockwave on October 29, 2014, 11:17:48 AM
Its 2014....

a huge red flag if your wife/gf has no career aspirations or career. My wife makes double the amount of money I do, which is great. however, she will want kids by the time in 34. i am not looking for that. Literally have zero interest in it.

If you are planning to get married, make sure she has a job and plans on working for a living. My mother in law is a stay at home idiot and I think my wife was smart enough to see how pathetic that was growing up with a mom who valued lunch dates with girlfriends to gossip as something important
dont understand why one is any more valuable or important than another.

My wife is going to school online, but shes staying home and raising our son full time as i make enough to support us.

Shes going to school for the possible eventuality that she may have to go to work at some point in the future to provide for us; but right now we both prefer that she stays home.. it just matches both of our more traditional values, that she stays home and takes care of our son and the home, and i provide.

She doesnt do lunch gossip dates, she doesnt do 'girl time', or any of that stupid bullshit though. The extent of what she does is meeting another mom from our gym for a playdate for our son.

I think its great if a woman has career aspirations; but thats not really the type of woman i want. I want one that values family and spending time with loved ones... i dont want a woman i see 2 hours a day since shes putting in 14 hour days at the office sacrificing her home life for her career. No thanks.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: _aj_ on October 29, 2014, 11:25:12 AM
dont understand why one is any more valuable or important than another.

My wife is going to school online, but shes staying home and raising our son full time as i make enough to support us.

Shes going to school for the possible eventuality that she may have to go to work at some point in the future to provide for us; but right now we both prefer that she stays home.. it just matches both of our more traditional values, that she stays home and takes care of our son and the home, and i provide.

She doesnt do lunch gossip dates, she doesnt do 'girl time', or any of that stupid bullshit though. The extent of what she does is meeting another mom from our gym for a playdate for our son.

I think its great if a woman has career aspirations; but thats not really the type of woman i want. I want one that values family and spending time with loved ones... i dont want a woman i see 2 hours a day since shes putting in 14 hour days at the office sacrificing her home life for her career. No thanks.

My wife had a great career in software, but we could live comfortably on my salary so she could raise our son, so that's what we did.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Primemuscle on October 29, 2014, 11:27:03 AM
dont understand why one is any more valuable or important than another.

My wife is going to school online, but shes staying home and raising our son full time as i make enough to support us.

Shes going to school for the possible eventuality that she may have to go to work at some point in the future to provide for us; but right now we both prefer that she stays home.. it just matches both of our more traditional values, that she stays home and takes care of our son and the home, and i provide.

She doesnt do lunch gossip dates, she doesnt do 'girl time', or any of that stupid bullshit though. The extent of what she does is meeting another mom from our gym for a playdate for our son.

I think its great if a woman has career aspirations; but thats not really the type of woman i want. I want one that values family and spending time with loved ones... i dont want a woman i see 2 hours a day since shes putting in 14 hour days at the office sacrificing her home life for her career. No thanks.

I agree. So often both parents are so busy working they have no time for their children which is why so many children seem to be raising themselves. It is great if at least one parent can be their for the kids, especially when they are young.

My wife worked as did I, but our kids were I first priority and not our careers. Both my daughter-in-law and daughter were stay at home moms when their kids were growing up.

There is nothing wrong with traditional values.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Thong Maniac on October 29, 2014, 11:31:06 AM
Im merely pointing out that a girl who comes out of college and is just looking to get knocked up and married and stay at home is a red flag for young guys. I wasnt really talking about 30 somethings with kids who need to take care of them.

Lol at traditional values though, whatever the fuck that means. Sounds like a sarah palin campaign ad. When i hear "values" i want to barf
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Primemuscle on October 29, 2014, 11:45:19 AM

Lol at traditional values though, whatever the fuck that means. Sounds like a sarah palin campaign ad. When i hear "values" i want to barf

It's a term which means different things to different people. I'd hardly call Sarah Palin and her family traditional, unless one thinks of basic white trash as being traditional. Of course, we all know the campaign adds are fabrications and lies designed to make the politician look good.

Another thing that's interesting is when folks suggest there is something wrong with ladies who lunch, but think it is just fine that guys have guy time with their friends.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Shockwave on October 29, 2014, 11:51:05 AM
Im merely pointing out that a girl who comes out of college and is just looking to get knocked up and married and stay at home is a red flag for young guys. I wasnt really talking about 30 somethings with kids who need to take care of them.

Lol at traditional values though, whatever the fuck that means. Sounds like a sarah palin campaign ad. When i hear "values" i want to barf
im most cases i agree, although my wife isnt a 30 something, shes 22 and we have a 2 year old son.

Traditional values in this case means i go to work and make the money, and she stays home, cleans the house and changes diapers. Basically she does the house wifey shit i dont want to do and in return i pay the bills and takr out the trash.

Works out great for us both.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Natural Man on October 29, 2014, 12:10:10 PM
im most cases i agree, although my wife isnt a 30 something, shes 22 and we have a 2 year old son.

Traditional values in this case means i go to work and make the money, and she stays home, cleans the house and changes diapers. Basically she does the house wifey shit i dont want to do and in return i pay the bills and takr out the trash.

Works out great for us both.
"thong maniac" probably think he ll have a harem of 10s working for him as a family.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Tedim on October 29, 2014, 12:14:55 PM
Beta male behavior in this thread, be a whiny cunt and your woman will leave and fuck someone else....

I would be be in a muff diving threesome 1 hr after any divorce threat. Women want BAD men, be a good guy and finish last.....the second they smell your independence gone, they are too. 
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Tedim on October 29, 2014, 12:17:44 PM
also the quality of the woman is very important....some uneducated, fugly, talentless skunt from a trash family is a sure bet for slutism.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on October 29, 2014, 12:24:44 PM
I don't know if I'm old fashioned or not but I don't want a woman I marry to blow me unless it's something she likes doing.  I love dirty whores to suck me off but not my wife. 
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Natural Man on October 29, 2014, 12:28:39 PM
I don't know if I'm old fashioned or not but I don't want a woman I marry to blow me unless it's something she likes doing.  I love dirty whores to suck me off but not my wife.  
so your wife doesnt give you blowjobs, and you cheat on her with mistresses/whores on the side? Is that your definition of being "old fashioned" ? As i stated numerous times on here, why not have both, a private whore that will also take care of home and kids -and work part time- ?
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Tedim on October 29, 2014, 12:30:20 PM
so your wife doesnt give you blowjobs, and you cheat on her with mistresses/whores on the side? Is that your definition of being "old fashioned" ?

no its a joke from the Billy Crystal - Dinero movie.... "she kisses my kids with that mouth"
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 29, 2014, 12:38:00 PM
so your wife doesnt give you blowjobs, and you cheat on her with mistresses/whores on the side? Is that your definition of being "old fashioned" ? As i stated numerous times on here, why not have both, a private whore that will also take care of home and kids -and work part time- ?


HAHAHA !! Some idea of " old fashioned " I suppose !! :D

Totally agree with Uber. Dated a woman that was a complete lady outside the bedroom. Inside the bedroom she made Jenna Jameson seem like something off a Disney movie.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Natural Man on October 29, 2014, 12:43:01 PM
no its a joke from the Billy Crystal - Dinero movie.... "she kisses my kids with that mouth"
well if more wives/mothers breaths were smelling of daddy's semen in the morning there would be way fewer kids without a father.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: gracie bjj on October 29, 2014, 12:50:14 PM
Just be the best father you can to him, he will love you for that.

u r right,i was working nights at the gym when he was born then watching him all day till my wife got home from work at 7pm.i started at 12 midnight and finished at 8am,id go home and the wife is getting ready to leave and i take over and hang with him. i never looked at it as hard cause i had so much fun with him it was great,kinda like lifting,its a labor of love. i was tired tho sleeping 3 hrs or less aday but i never complained,my wifes on this trip now where shes trying to get him to side with her on everything, for instance i forgot she was picking him up from school last week so i show up also,my son goes running full speed to my car and blows right by my wife not saying anything,she gets mad at me for that ???shes says whats up with that to him,he says(mommy i like driving in daddys corvette and your car is slow and u drive like old lady :o i felt bad and told him dont be so raw and be more respectful toi mommy,anyway she gets mad at me cause of that. its like she doesnt want him loving me more than her,i dont know
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: BigNJ on October 29, 2014, 12:51:07 PM
Marriages don't work for many reasons including:

1- Sex becomes boring
2- Sex sessions from the woman become fewer
3- Monogamy is not natural
4- Finance problems
5- Lots of women let them selves go after they get married, in short they start looking like bums
6- Men always want to fuck something new and something young
7- Women are fucking psychos
8- Women look like shit when they age as opposed to men
9- Jealousy
10- They don't cook for you

If you are single do not get fucking married!!! If you do you are one stupid mother fucker.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: mazrim on October 29, 2014, 12:59:43 PM
Marriages don't work for many reasons including:

1- Sex becomes boring
2- Sex sessions from the woman become fewer
3- Monogamy is not natural
4- Finance problems
5- Lots of women let them selves go after they get married, in short they start looking like bums
6- Men always want to fuck something new and something young
7- Women are fucking psychos
8- Women look like shit when they age as opposed to men
9- Jealousy
10- They don't cook for you

If you are single do not get fucking married!!! If you do you are one stupid mother fucker.

Sounds like you made some "stupid" relationship/dating choices in life...
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: gracie bjj on October 29, 2014, 01:04:02 PM
Marriages don't work for many reasons including:

1- Sex becomes boring
2- Sex sessions from the woman become fewer
3- Monogamy is not natural
4- Finance problems
5- Lots of women let them selves go after they get married, in short they start looking like bums
6- Men always want to fuck something new and something young
7- Women are fucking psychos
8- Women look like shit when they age as opposed to men
9- Jealousy

holy shit man u musta been married to my wife before me cause u just described r life to the T
10- They don't cook for you

If you are single do not get fucking married!!! If you do you are one stupid mother fucker.

man u really described everything to the T,i was reading everything from 1 to 10 and u where right on pretty much all of them, my wife was naturally thin so the fatso witch hasnt come thru yet but i can see her little by little turning into that :'( for u unmarried guys listen and take notes cause we r trying to save u guys that arent screwed yet.ofcoarse some of u  may be the lucky ones that find a perfect partner but the odds r slim,very slim.i never listened to good advice on marraige and now im depressed as hell and looking to get out of this shit,my sons the thing i feel bad about in all of this tho
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Tedim on October 29, 2014, 01:12:03 PM
Found out recently through my wife's really chatty best friend a thing or two about my wife's past. Initially when we were dating she told me certain things were things she had never done before and didn't want to try.

Turns out she did them with her exboyfriend. I talked to her about it, she told me she did them back then and enjoyed it. But doesn't want to do them with me. (anal/bdsm/threesome)

And when I asked she didn't really give me any reasoning. She just said she didn't want to.

I can't help but be hurt over this it has damaged my ego and self confidence. She knows I am hurt over this, but hasn't really given me an answer. So I am looking to you guys.

Don't tell me divorce we have been together for 20 years, and she is the mother of my two children. I am not going to leave her over this.

I am not saying that I feel entitled to those acts, but I do feel entitled to an explanation of why.

those END relationships thats why she doesnt want to do them
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on October 29, 2014, 01:12:47 PM
man u really described everything to the T,i was reading everything from 1 to 10 and u where right on pretty much all of them, my wife was naturally thin so the fatso witch hasnt come thru yet but i can see her little by little turning into that :'( for u unmarried guys listen and take notes cause we r trying to save u guys that arent screwed yet.ofcoarse some of u  may be the lucky ones that find a perfect partner but the odds r slim,very slim.i never listened to good advice on marraige and now im depressed as hell and looking to get out of this shit,my sons the thing i feel bad about in all of this tho

7- Women are fucking psychos


That's the only list needed.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: anabolichalo on October 29, 2014, 01:27:56 PM
Marriages don't work for many reasons including:

1- Sex becomes boring
2- Sex sessions from the woman become fewer
3- Monogamy is not natural
4- Finance problems
5- Lots of women let them selves go after they get married, men often go bald and in many cases get fat, in short they start looking like bums
6- Men always want to fuck something new and something young
7- Women are fucking psychos
8- Women look like shit when they age as opposed to men
9- Jealousy
10- They don't cook for you

If you are single do not get fucking married!!! If you do you are one stupid mother fucker.
i edited your post for fair completion
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: anabolichalo on October 29, 2014, 01:29:10 PM
Another example of how many women are fake and manipulative.

The hair, the makeup, the clothes. Like a used car salesman putting a fresh coat of paint over a rust bucket and selling for top dollar.

Acting all pure and innocent like an angel in day to day life, but behind closed doors is into being degraded like a whore.

All smoke and mirrors.
so true  :-\
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Shockwave on October 29, 2014, 01:52:39 PM
those END relationships thats why she doesnt want to do them
well, anal doesnt... everything else does.

I concur, those are things that can take relationships to bad places, 3somes are something you do when you dont care about losing the woman..... that shit tears people apart. Women get super jealous, men want to chase the new pussy, etc.

Sometimes women are differently sexually with someone they love than they are when theyre young and fucking around, because their feelings and insecurities override their lust.

Its a shitty situation.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: gracie bjj on October 29, 2014, 02:01:36 PM
I know a guy who was going through a divorce but didnt want to, still loved her, he turned up at court and she said she was willing to give it another go if he agreed to say he had been abusive in the relationship in court.
Numbnuts did and she got awarded everything.
When he walked out of court she was getting in the car with her new boyfriend and they waved as they drove past him.

thats messed up,a person should never play with another persons feelings cause bad things can happen like that.ive been hurt like that before and man its hard as hell to get thru it,TIME is the only healer,good freinds and some PUSSY on the side never hurt either :Di wasnt eating,listening to radio,afraid to go near her area cause i was afraid id see her with other guy ect,its pure hell and dont wish that on anyone.but once u feel better u look back on it and laugh,trust me fellas u will get thru it and b that much better for it.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Viking11 on October 29, 2014, 02:25:36 PM
I did once and wasted 11 years  .....bOnly got two kids who are so brain washed they dont talk to me, but they are grown, so whatever.  I was broke when we divorced so I didn't lose a house etc.. she treid to get my car but I bought her out... she bought a crap car with the money...   I stayred single for 10 years, but I'm glad I found someone who is failry frigid..lol......... well not a generation nothing slut. I would fuck those girls but never marry one... Oh got w housemm but it was though inheritnce, so I keep it no matter what...  good things come to he who waits..
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: anabolichalo on October 29, 2014, 02:28:44 PM
one of the super main reason baby mama bailed is because i told her explicitally

I WILL NOT MARRY WITHOUT SEPARATION OF PROPERTY, MONEY AND ACCUMULATIONS THEREOF

gave me the typical "you dont trust me" balonie to which i said indeed i do not


i think all in all the current situation is much better than what could have would have happen eventually if there was a dumb fuck marriage
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Viking11 on October 29, 2014, 02:33:59 PM
one of the super main reason baby mama bailed is because i told her explicitally

I WILL NOT MARRY WITHOUT SEPARATION OF PROPERTY, MONEY AND ACCUMULATIONS THEREOF

gave me the typical "you dont trust me" balonie to which i said indeed i do not


i think all in all the current situation is much better than what could have would have happen eventually if there was a dumb fuck marriage
Smartest thing you have ever posted..  Nicely done!
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 29, 2014, 02:59:33 PM
After these threads on marriage ... well, I don't ever think I'm gettin married. Haha. Seriously !!
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 29, 2014, 03:01:03 PM
So....some of you imply (esp. these who married at a young age) that you made a conscious choice, at your OWN will, to......fuck the same one female for the rest of your life, right?  ::)
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 29, 2014, 03:02:44 PM
After these threads on marriage ... well, I don't ever think I'm gettin married. Haha. Seriously !!

Marriage is going thorugh a very tough times... something different should be "invented" as time and time again life shows that it usualy does not work. (but probably always has been the best of the worst).
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Natural Man on October 29, 2014, 03:09:54 PM
After these threads on marriage ... well, I don't ever think I'm gettin married. Haha. Seriously !!
Doesnt mean you cant spend most of your life with one significant woman and have kids with her.

 I spent 8 years with my gf before we decided to have our kid, 4 years ago when we were both 29. We had a civil marriage mostly for her to be able to handle all the administrative stuff easier.

What matters is the authenticity of the relationship, and as i mentioned earlier, that you have strong ties from the getgo being of a similar background.  Too many differences equal too many odds one of them or all of them are going to ruin it all when times get tough.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: no one on October 29, 2014, 03:11:54 PM
Found out recently through my wife's really chatty best friend a thing or two about my wife's past. Initially when we were dating she told me certain things were things she had never done before and didn't want to try.

Turns out she did them with her exboyfriend. I talked to her about it, she told me she did them back then and enjoyed it. But doesn't want to do them with me. (anal/bdsm/threesome)

And when I asked she didn't really give me any reasoning. She just said she didn't want to.

I can't help but be hurt over this it has damaged my ego and self confidence. She knows I am hurt over this, but hasn't really given me an answer. So I am looking to you guys.

Don't tell me divorce we have been together for 20 years, and she is the mother of my two children. I am not going to leave her over this.

I am not saying that I feel entitled to those acts, but I do feel entitled to an explanation of why.

ok. look at it like this.

maybe she loves/ loved you dude. loved you and honestly didnt want her past to damage any future you guys might have.

i have no doubt thats a part of her life she know longer wanted to re visit, and wanted her relationship with you to be based on 'her' and not what shed do for / with you.

instead of looking at it like her being shady about her past, look at it like her wanting her past to be just that, so she could have a good future with you.

this kind of shit will undermine a relationship. will cause tension and doubt where none needs to exist. id suggest you put yourself in her shoes. you have nothing to be hurt or shamed about. in fact, id look at it in the exact opposite light.

the second piece of advise i will give you is to not take relationship advise from anyone on this board :D
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Natural Man on October 29, 2014, 03:14:40 PM
Marriage is going thorugh a very tough times... something different should be "invented" as time and time again life shows that it usualy does not work. (but probably always has been the best of the worst).
We re not designed by nature to have several mates in one life... we re designed to adapt and create a new family once or twice in a lifetime... IF NECESSARY if something bad happen, doesnt mean a long lasting stable strong relationship with one person isnt the best thing to look after. This will always be the deeply embeded ideal we all have, simply because it IS the ideal realtionship evolutionary speaking, that guarantee a couple of humans will raise the strongest offspring.
 It has always and will always be the best compromise, cause actually it 's what 's best to raise a strong confident dominating stable offspring.  Kids coming from dysfunctional families where everyone fight each others and are unable to unite are unbalanced, anxious, hateful and unproductive.
At some point a grown up human adult has to care more about the offspring than his or her self.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: anabolichalo on October 29, 2014, 03:16:16 PM
i think the best in life is to win the lottory

move to thailand

sleep late every day

bodybuild

sit on the beach sipping on cocktails with some hookers


post on getbig some pictors of you living this dream


forget about relationships
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 29, 2014, 03:28:58 PM
We re not designed by nature to have several mates in one life... we re designed to adapt and create a new family once or twice in a lifetime... IF NECESSARY if something bad happen, doesnt mean a long lasting stable strong relationship with one person isnt the best thing to look after. This will always be the deeply embeded ideal we all have, simply because it IS the ideal realtionship evolutionary speaking, that guarantee a couple of humans will raise the strongest offspring.
 It has always and will always be the best compromise, cause actually it 's what 's best to raise a strong confident dominating stable offspring.  Kids coming from dysfunctional families where everyone fight each others and are unable to unite are unbalanced, anxious, hateful and unproductive.
At some point a grown up human adult has to care more about the offspring than his or her self.

If we are animals, we are designed to have as MANY mates as possible (or so it is in absolute majority of animal species). Unless you speak of utopia, when all people find the "right" person from a get go (esp. in a world and daily life that has became as complicated as it is). But just how often does it happen? Or maybe people should stay with an uncompatible partenrs for the sake of it? Or maybe everyone are able to understand well of what they want when they are 20? That does not happen, sorry.
Just because it has always been the "best" option, doesn't mean it will not change. Don't be so sure about "absolute truths" in a constanlty changing universe.

Not to mention that is doesn't make any sense anyway, it just does not matter. Bunch of ants...

Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 29, 2014, 03:29:58 PM
i think the best in life is to win the lottory

move to thailand

sleep late every day

bodybuild

sit on the beach sipping on cocktails with some hookers


post on getbig some pictors of you living this dream


forget about relationships

(http://www.dezinfo.net/images4/image/12.2013/tim_sharky_ward/tim_sharky_ward_13.jpg)
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Natural Man on October 29, 2014, 03:36:21 PM
If we are animals, we are designed to have as MANY mates as possible (or so it is in absolute majority of animal species). Unless you speak of utopia, when all people find the "right" person from a get go (esp. in a world and daily life that has became as complicated as it is). But just how often does it happen? Or maybe people should stay with an uncompatible partenrs for the sake of it? Or maybe everyone are able to understand well of what they want when they are 20? That does not happen, sorry.
Just because it has always been the "best" option, doesn't mean it will not change. Don't be so sure about "absolute truths" in a constanlty changing universe.

Not to mention that is doesn't make any sense anyway, it just does not matter. Bunch of ants...


well if people get together in the firstplace, it's because they are compatible... but for various reasons, it evolves to the point they get uncompatible with each others.

We are animals, and in our specie, you need 20 years of decent upbringing to raise a dominant and confident offspring. And you need to stay united and strong to keep contributing to your offspring 's family and strenghten the legacy so they can stay at the top or keep climbing.
Animals or not, there are rules to follow if you want power, power meaning better odds of survival.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 29, 2014, 03:47:10 PM
well if people get together in the firstplace, it's because they are compatible... but for various reasons, it evolves to the point they get uncompatible with each others.

We are animals, and in our specie, you need 20 years of decent upbringing to raise a dominant and confident offspring. And you need to stay united and strong to keep contributing to your offspring 's family and strenghten the legacy so they can stay at the top or keep climbing.
Animals or not, there are rules to follow if you want power, power meaning better odds of survival.


Yeah.. just like these times I got together with hot girls, who turned out to be way too stupid in their ways of doing things in life for me to continue. We WERE compatible...sexually, but life is a lot more complicated these days. People get in groups (just like animals) because it's easier to survive that way. In countries (like Japan) where many a rich enough to sustain themselves well are making a conscious choice to live alone.


 
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Natural Man on October 29, 2014, 03:53:03 PM
Yeah.. just like these times I got together with hot girls, who turned out to be way too stupid in their ways of doing things in life for me to continue. We WERE compatible...sexually, but life is a lot more complicated these days. People get in groups (just like animals) because it's easier to survive that way. In countries (like Japan) where many a rich enough to sustain themselves well are making a conscious choice to live alone.


 
there is definitely a generation of anti natalist /childfree people who want to see the human specie disapear and who just cruise thru life while nurturing this nihilistic goal, mostly in western, advanced societies. Life sucks too much to have kids, but still not enough for them to consider suicide tho.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 29, 2014, 04:02:43 PM
there is definitely a generation of anti natalist /childfree people who want to see the human specie disapear and who just cruise thru life while nurturing this nihilistic goal, mostly in western, advanced societies. Life sucks too much to have kids, but still not enough for them to consider suicide.

Suicide is in case life gets SO bad and uncomfortable that it's just pointless to continue. And these "antinatalists" you speak of will enable people to live a lot longer one day so the desperate act of "having kids" (to save half of the "code") will be of benefit just when society will need to replace these who died of illness or got killed somehow. And even these kids will be preengineered genetically (this is comming soon btw anyway). Yeah, that's very "unusual", but this is happening for a reason, these western atheists just start to want to continue living themselves as that's the main goal of evolution, an INDIVIDUAL who manages to survive so effectively that it "cheats" death too (and there ARE examples of this in animal species already. It took billions of years for some species, of effective survival, it will take shorter for humans as they are starting to direct their evolution consciously).

And OSHO's way of a "family" and raising kids, relathionships, etc.. is way more in tune with our ANIMAL brain. It sounds way too harsh in a current reality, but current reality is not working as promised either. A bummer.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Fortress on October 29, 2014, 04:05:35 PM
I truly believe a majority of men would be happier, overall, not getting married OR living with a girl. I understand few women will tolerate "only" dating a guy, but this is how I see it, regardless.

Men might be assholes, but women are insane (some only slightly, and some in an alarming way). No matter how much she pleads her great love for you, somewhere down the line your relationship with her will be your potential undoing.

I hate feeling this way. Truth is, I am a romantic. LOVE the idea of "being in love". However, experience and wisdom points to a different reality than what is presented by tradition/societal expectation.

Without question, DO NOT even contemplate marriage before hitting, say, 35, minimum. MINIMUM.

In my line of work, I see that there are a couple of things that are almost always responsible, directly or indirectly, with destroying a man's life, legally-speaking: a) drugs/booze; b) WOMEN.

Never completely trust any woman unless she's your mother (and a decent one, obviously) or your sister.

When you let down your guard with a woman in a romantic relationship, you're already heading towards disaster. (And allowing a woman to live with you is a surefire way to slowly extinguish romance and open yourself up to heartache and trouble the likes of which you've never thought possible.)

 
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: NarcissisticDeity on October 29, 2014, 04:08:44 PM
I truly believe a majority of men would be happier, overall, not getting married OR living with a girl. I understand few women will tolerate "only" dating a guy, but this is how I see it, regardless.

Men might be assholes, but women are insane (some only slightly, and some in an alarming way). No matter how much she pleads her great love for you, somewhere down the line your relationship with her will be your potential undoing.

I hate feeling this way. Truth is, I am a romantic. LOVE the idea of "being in love". However, experience and wisdom points to a different reality than what is presented by tradition/societal expectation.

Without question, DO NOT even contemplate marriage before hitting, say, 35, minimum. MINIMUM.

In my line of work, I see that there are a couple of things that are almost always responsible, directly or indirectly, with destroying a man's life, legally-speaking: a) drugs/booze; b) WOMEN.

Never completely trust any woman unless she's your mother (and a decent one, obviously) or your sister.

When you let down your guard with a woman in a romantic relationship, you're already heading towards disaster. (And allowing a woman to live with you is a surefire way to slowly extinguish romance and open yourself up to heartache and trouble the likes of which you've never thought possible.)

 


Listen up all you young guys , this is experience talking. especially this part
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 29, 2014, 04:10:21 PM

Without question, DO NOT even contemplate marriage before hitting, say, 35, minimum. MINIMUM.



This too. The life is changing faster then ever so all the processess are being postponed to later time compared to how it was "back then". Life will have to become longer too, and it will, no doubt. Some people just are stagnated and does not want to accept changes. But this is expected.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: gracie bjj on October 29, 2014, 04:34:47 PM
This too. The life is changing faster then ever so all the processess are being postponed to later time compared to how it was "back then". Life will have to become longer too, and it will, no doubt. Some people just are stagnated and does not want to accept changes. But this is expected.

i got married at 38 yrs old,atleast i had alot of fun before i got married
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 29, 2014, 04:46:14 PM
i got married at 38 yrs old,atleast i had alot of fun before i got married

Yes. Otherwise you could repeat the "Grass is not greener on the other side" just to calm yourself down... (as sometimes it is, and by a big margin lol).
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Primemuscle on October 29, 2014, 04:52:07 PM
so your wife doesnt give you blowjobs, and you cheat on her with mistresses/whores on the side? Is that your definition of being "old fashioned" ? As i stated numerous times on here, why not have both, a private whore that will also take care of home and kids -and work part time- ?

I'm confused. Are you calling your wife a whore? Or are you advocating that guys hire a whore to service them sexually and take care of their kids while the wife is at work? Is that like a nanny with benefits? This certainly isn't Nanny McPhee.

There is nothing wrong with both parents working and sharing the responsibilities at home, including caring for the kids. It is when both parents work and have no time for their children that problems arise.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Primemuscle on October 29, 2014, 05:01:54 PM
i got married at 38 yrs old,atleast i had alot of fun before i got married

It seems like a lot of people are waiting to get married these days. My stepfather was 35 when he and my mom got together. He was pretty set in his ways.

There is something to be said about folks being mature enough to approach marriage knowing pretty much what they are getting into. Of course, these people miss the fun in marrying younger and maturing together.

My wife and I married young. We have no regrets. Our kids married young too, their marriages have been pretty solid and by today's standards, long term. One thing to think about when waiting to marry until you are well into your thirties is if you have children when you are in your late thirties or early forties, you'll be grandfather age by the time they are grown.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Thong Maniac on October 29, 2014, 05:15:32 PM
I posted this earlier on another subreddit but it ended up getting removed because of fighting in the comments. I’ll sum up what happened thus far.

I met my wife 7 years ago, she was extremely picky when it came to sex. She told me she only has been with 1 other guy before. She would never give a blow job, only would do certain positions and found almost every sex act degrading. I was frustrated by this, but I really liked her and hoped over the years she would open up sexually.

Over the years, it never got any better but I learned to get over it. Well I ended up finding an old video from her college days of her engaging in group sex with 6 other people 5 guys 1 girl. In the video she has anal sex, oral sex, gets double teamed, and yells multiple times in the video she is a “I am a filthy whore.”

All of it she was enthusiastic about it. I ended up feeling really sad. I can understand certain stuff people don’t want to do, but it wasn’t the fact she didn’t want to do them. She didn’t want to do them with me but every other guy she was their whore. I was angry hurt and I ended up saying some stupid shit to my wife.

I asked her if she could drop our daughter off at her sister’s house because I wanted to talk to her. She asked why, I told her we’d discuss after she came back.

I ended up leaving my wife kept trying to stop me. She kept on begging saying I could do anything I wanted with her, it was truly pathetic and I lost all respect for my wife the way she was trying to manipulate me with sex.

I am staying at a motel right now; I have been getting constant calls from my wife. She has been asking me where I am, if I tell her than she is going to confront me and I don’t feel like I am ready for that. I feel so fucking drained. I feel bad saying those things to my wife but I don’t know what else to do I am so fucking hurt over this.

As I said before I wouldn’t care if she had a promiscuous past, seriously, wouldn’t care but the fact she did all those things for other guys but doesn’t do them for me hurts me the deepest.

Dude, wtf. Is this real? How and WHY was a video laying Around of this?
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: f450 on October 29, 2014, 06:02:15 PM
Dude, wtf. Is this real? How and WHY was a video laying Around of this?

Bump for answer. How very weird.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 29, 2014, 08:29:21 PM
It seems like a lot of people are waiting to get married these days. My stepfather was 35 when he and my mom got together. He was pretty set in his ways.

There is something to be said about folks being mature enough to approach marriage knowing pretty much what they are getting into. Of course, these people miss the fun in marrying younger and maturing together.

My wife and I married young. We have no regrets. Our kids married young too, their marriages have been pretty solid and by today's standards, long term. One thing to think about when waiting to marry until you are well into your thirties is if you have children when you are in your late thirties or early forties, you'll be grandfather age by the time they are grown.

You either cheated many times or just are asexual/low testosterone. Well there's another option - your wife was your first AND last female you've slept with so you don't have a comparison and so it was "fun" maturing together.
 And there's nothing to think about having a kid in late 30's or early 40's for younger generations as most of them (these who'll have money) will be quite different grandfathers that you are (due to medicine) physically. I see that most are completely obvlivious to these changes that are comming. Well it will be interesting shift of paradigmas world wide...
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Teutonic Knight on October 29, 2014, 08:47:36 PM
i think the best in life is to win the lottory

move to thailand

sleep late every day

bodybuild

sit on the beach sipping on cocktails with some hookers


post on getbig some pictors of you living this dream


forget about relationships

U a not internationally street wise, Thai whores would clean U up to yours underpants, no passport , no coins & cops wouldn't care !.
'Baby mama' is total amateur in comparison with Go Go bar girls .
 ;D
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: G_Thang on October 29, 2014, 09:12:26 PM
i can give u 1000 reasons not to get married, broads r all evil and want to control us by pussy power.once u are able to break the spell of pussy power u r indeed a free man and the truth shall set u free

getbig's homo broke the spell many moons ago. maybe you should join them.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Dave D on October 29, 2014, 10:04:38 PM
man u really described everything to the T,i was reading everything from 1 to 10 and u where right on pretty much all of them, my wife was naturally thin so the fatso witch hasnt come thru yet but i can see her little by little turning into that :'( for u unmarried guys listen and take notes cause we r trying to save u guys that arent screwed yet.ofcoarse some of u  may be the lucky ones that find a perfect partner but the odds r slim,very slim.i never listened to good advice on marraige and now im depressed as hell and looking to get out of this shit,my sons the thing i feel bad about in all of this tho

Bro I'm always wondering if the stuff you put on here is real, you remind me of that dude Rocky19....,  anyways assuming you're being honest....

I'm saying this with all respect, I dont know your wife or anything about your life other than what you post, that being said your biggest problem is yourself.  It sounds like you define yourself by your short comings and failures. Failure is a part of life it's OK and most often times it's beneficial to fail, learn from it don't let it hold you back. 

You've got to learn to love yourself and give yourself some credit. You've made it this far in life and have a son who loves and adores you; there's a lot more good things in your life than you know.

You've probably had a rough childhood and were verbally and physically abused, and that crap has set in it your head your worthless; because you learned that your worldview is screwed and so is your self esteem.

The good news is you can learn new thoughts and learn how to find your true value!
 Praying for you to see this man.

Stay strong
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: anabolichalo on October 30, 2014, 05:10:56 AM
U a not internationally street wise, Thai whores would clean U up to yours underpants, no passport , no coins & cops wouldn't care !.
'Baby mama' is total amateur in comparison with Go Go bar girls .
;D

lord jehova el shaddai HAVE MERCY!

Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Voice of Doom on October 30, 2014, 10:04:34 AM
Marriage is going thorugh a very tough times... something different should be "invented" as time and time again life shows that it usualy does not work. (but probably always has been the best of the worst).

I would say that marriage, as it's now defined and done in the West, isn't working out.  Go to more traditional countries and the divorce rate is much different.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 30, 2014, 10:41:27 AM
I would say that marriage, as it's now defined and done in the West, isn't working out.  Go to more traditional countries and the divorce rate is much different.

Well type/way of life differs too, so it's not surprising. It's really simple - westerners either will manage to prolong their health and life spans siginificantly or they will be replaced by third worlders.


btw - I will repeat a question: So some of you (esp these who married at a young age) made a conscious choice to fuck one and only female for the rest of your life? Am I right?  ::)
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Teutonic Knight on October 30, 2014, 01:08:07 PM
lord jehova el shaddai HAVE MERCY!



But U a Cuban communist  :D
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: anabolichalo on October 30, 2014, 01:31:48 PM
But U a Cuban communist  :D
american diplomat in cuba


in Jehova we trust$$$
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Parker on October 30, 2014, 01:33:14 PM
I would say that marriage, as it's now defined and done in the West, isn't working out.  Go to more traditional countries and the divorce rate is much different.
It doesn't mean the marriages are better. In many of those same countries, domestic violence is very prevalent. You just don't hear about it...unless they come over here and the police are called one night. Next thing you know, they are telling you how prevalent it is over "there", yet one is expected to "take it" and shut up.
In the West, the people have changed. Their expectations have changed.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Zillotch on October 30, 2014, 01:43:20 PM
You either cheated many times or just are asexual/low testosterone. Well there's another option - your wife was your first AND last female you've slept with so you don't have a comparison and so it was "fun" maturing together.
 And there's nothing to think about having a kid in late 30's or early 40's for younger generations as most of them (these who'll have money) will be quite different grandfathers that you are (due to medicine) physically. I see that most are completely obvlivious to these changes that are comming. Well it will be interesting shift of paradigmas world wide...

STFU, you clueless twat - you're an idiot.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: gracie bjj on October 30, 2014, 01:53:19 PM
im getting ready to leave my wife cause its to hard,my sons gonna be sad but i cant let that keep me in a place where i dont wanna be. shes a control freak and im tired of it,i can only bend so far and i finally just said fuck this shit.i told her i rather sleep in a park than be hearing her bullshit,dont get me wrong im not the easiest person to deal with,especially the last 12 months cause of my drug usage.BUT i always pay the mortgage and bills and buy my son what i can afford,sometimes i can only get him afew matchbox cars from walmart or whatever but i always get him something. my wifes always talking about how much money her freinds husband makes and shit like that,i told her i got no problem with her going out and find someone like that with money and i wont bother her if she does that,she gets pissed at me and starts screaming calling me a jerk off cause i said that ???
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Parker on October 30, 2014, 01:54:55 PM
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: anabolichalo on October 30, 2014, 01:55:46 PM
im getting ready to leave my wife cause its to hard,my sons gonna be sad but i cant let that keep me in a place where i dont wanna be. shes a control freak and im tired of it,i can only bend so far and i finally just said fuck this shit.i told her i rather sleep in a park than be hearing her bullshit,dont get me wrong im not the easiest person to deal with,especially the last 12 months cause of my drug usage.BUT i always pay the mortgage and bills and buy my son what i can afford,sometimes i can only get him afew matchbox cars from walmart or whatever but i always get him something. my wifes always talking about how much money her freinds husband makes and shit like that,i told her i got no problem with her going out and find someone like that with money and i wont bother her if she does that,she gets pissed at me and starts screaming calling me a jerk off cause i said that ???
tell her she's a loser for not having a rich husband and laugh
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Natural Man on October 30, 2014, 02:11:53 PM
im getting ready to leave my wife cause its to hard,my sons gonna be sad but i cant let that keep me in a place where i dont wanna be. shes a control freak and im tired of it,i can only bend so far and i finally just said fuck this shit.i told her i rather sleep in a park than be hearing her bullshit,dont get me wrong im not the easiest person to deal with,especially the last 12 months cause of my drug usage.BUT i always pay the mortgage and bills and buy my son what i can afford,sometimes i can only get him afew matchbox cars from walmart or whatever but i always get him something. my wifes always talking about how much money her freinds husband makes and shit like that,i told her i got no problem with her going out and find someone like that with money and i wont bother her if she does that,she gets pissed at me and starts screaming calling me a jerk off cause i said that ???
buy a shotgun, some ammo and show her who s the boss.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Quickerblade on October 30, 2014, 02:12:23 PM
im getting ready to leave my wife cause its to hard,my sons gonna be sad but i cant let that keep me in a place where i dont wanna be. shes a control freak and im tired of it,i can only bend so far and i finally just said fuck this shit.i told her i rather sleep in a park than be hearing her bullshit,dont get me wrong im not the easiest person to deal with,especially the last 12 months cause of my drug usage.BUT i always pay the mortgage and bills and buy my son what i can afford,sometimes i can only get him afew matchbox cars from walmart or whatever but i always get him something. my wifes always talking about how much money her freinds husband makes and shit like that,i told her i got no problem with her going out and find someone like that with money and i wont bother her if she does that,she gets pissed at me and starts screaming calling me a jerk off cause i said that ???

Just walk away, you deserve a quality lifestyle, she is stealing your life and breaking your spirit.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Quickerblade on October 30, 2014, 02:22:28 PM

100 MOTHERFUCKIN % SPOT ON !!

And not just marriages either. Relationships in general. And this I've, unfortunately, experienced personally. :/

Hell, in my last relationship I came home after having bought dinner, asked my girlfriend for a kiss in a playful manner,  and was denied AND basically told to go fuck myself. I left her that night.

I would of slammed her head against the coffee table. This happens to the best of us, you did the right thing, the losers hang back.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: gracie bjj on October 30, 2014, 02:49:50 PM
buy a shotgun, some ammo and show her who s the boss.

 ;)
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: flinstones1 on October 30, 2014, 04:24:14 PM
tell her she's a loser for not having a rich husband and laugh

lmao
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: anabolichalo on October 30, 2014, 04:26:14 PM
lmao
baby mama would always tell me i'm a loser for not having a high paying job

but she dont even have a job and never will ::)
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: gracie bjj on October 30, 2014, 04:30:21 PM
baby mama would always tell me i'm a loser for not having a high paying job

but she dont even have a job and never will ::)

why are the broads so evil?are they all possesed by evil spirits or is just come naturally?
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: anabolichalo on October 30, 2014, 04:33:16 PM
why are the broads so evil?are they all possesed by evil spirits or is just come naturally?
i'm not sure

the whole thing is disappointing to say the least

one thing is certain

women are over rated


good for sex thats about it

Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Palpatine Q on October 30, 2014, 04:52:42 PM
Well type/way of life differs too, so it's not surprising. It's really simple - westerners either will manage to prolong their health and life spans siginificantly or they will be replaced by third worlders.


btw - I will repeat a question: So some of you (esp these who married at a young age) made a conscious choice to fuck one and only female for the rest of your life? Am I right?  ::)

Yes.

For someone so "enlightened" and thinks he's going to be a robot....what's the big deal about such a base, primitive act as reproduction of a "useless" species ?  ;)
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: BigRo on October 30, 2014, 05:01:01 PM
i'm not sure

the whole thing is disappointing to say the least

one thing is certain

women are over rated


good for sex thats about it

Do you really believe this?


Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 30, 2014, 05:06:22 PM
i'm not sure

the whole thing is disappointing to say the least

one thing is certain

women are over rated


good for sex thats about it




Nah. They're good for cooking and cleaning, too.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Quickerblade on October 30, 2014, 05:11:52 PM

Nah. They're good for cooking and cleaning, too.

The generation of 30 yr olds aint cleaning or cooking. No chance of this 'up and coming' bunch doing much either.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: che on October 30, 2014, 05:15:11 PM
why are the broads so evil?are they all possesed by evil spirits or is just come naturally?

No offense bro but  you can't call your wife a control freak ,she's dealing with a 50 years old drug addict loser , she has to take control, what else  is she supposed to do?
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 30, 2014, 05:16:05 PM
The generation of 30 yr olds aint cleaning or cooking. No chance of this 'up and coming' bunch doing much either.

Isn't that the truth. My ex ( 28 ) cooked for me once and bitched the whole time about it. Asked her to make me a fuckin omlette with cheese, for fucks sake. Lol. Cleaning ? Sheeeeiiiiiit. Looked like she lived out of her car.

Pussy smelled great though !! :D

Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Shockwave on October 30, 2014, 05:24:01 PM


btw - I will repeat a question: So some of you (esp these who married at a young age) made a conscious choice to fuck one and only female for the rest of your life? Am I right?  ::)
i married at 25, wife was 18.

I made a conscious decision to fuck one vagina for the rest of my life, in trade for a lifetime of companionship and sexual exploration with a partner thay can grow sexually with me.

Just because you choose to fuck 1 vag doesnt mean your sex instantly becomes stale or boring.... you CAN keeo growing and evolving sexually, i believe moreso witg 1 partner vs fucking different randoms. You never have time to really explore each other and peak.

Also, i got tired of fucking random sluts and going through life alone. Having a partner to experience life and grow together is an amazong experience.

Sure we fight, but having one partner that grows with me instead of going through life alone and fucking chicks on and off is far preferential for me. Its a whole different world.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 30, 2014, 05:36:33 PM
STFU, you clueless twat - you're an idiot.

So I guess you're one of these virgins who put a ring on a first one that provided some pussy... Okay.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 30, 2014, 05:39:06 PM
im getting ready to leave my wife cause its to hard,my sons gonna be sad but i cant let that keep me in a place where i dont wanna be. shes a control freak and im tired of it,i can only bend so far and i finally just said fuck this shit.i told her i rather sleep in a park than be hearing her bullshit,dont get me wrong im not the easiest person to deal with,especially the last 12 months cause of my drug usage.BUT i always pay the mortgage and bills and buy my son what i can afford,sometimes i can only get him afew matchbox cars from walmart or whatever but i always get him something. my wifes always talking about how much money her freinds husband makes and shit like that,i told her i got no problem with her going out and find someone like that with money and i wont bother her if she does that,she gets pissed at me and starts screaming calling me a jerk off cause i said that ???

Lol... I'm baffled when I read stories like this. I know one fella, he goes to his attic to "calm down" regulary, sometimes doesn't even want to come back home. Very nice eh..
 Today I spoke with my neighbour who's succesfully married, about this same topic. He's about 50currently, his words were "Do not even think about it before 35 and make sure your wife is younger at about 10 years (but not much more).". Everyone has their own experience I guess...
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 30, 2014, 05:40:34 PM
Yes.

For someone so "enlightened" and thinks he's going to be a robot....what's the big deal about such a base, primitive act as reproduction of a "useless" species ?  ;)

You did not do that at 20-something, so it doesn't count.

as for a "robot", not as funny actually: http://rt.com/usa/200251-googlex-nanoparticle-pills-diagnose-diseases/, and this is just a begining.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 30, 2014, 05:43:16 PM
i married at 25, wife was 18.

I made a conscious decision to fuck one vagina for the rest of my life, in trade for a lifetime of companionship and sexual exploration with a partner thay can grow sexually with me.

Just because you choose to fuck 1 vag doesnt mean your sex instantly becomes stale or boring.... you CAN keeo growing and evolving sexually, i believe moreso witg 1 partner vs fucking different randoms. You never have time to really explore each other and peak.

Also, i got tired of fucking random sluts and going through life alone. Having a partner to experience life and grow together is an amazong experience.

Sure we fight, but having one partner that grows with me instead of going through life alone and fucking chicks on and off is far preferential for me. Its a whole different world.

18? Oh geez... I wish you that she'd never get "curious" as the time will go on. At least you fucked quite some before doing that (but wanted someone who did not do the same I see  :D ).
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Zillotch on October 30, 2014, 05:46:59 PM
So I guess

Of course you do. Like I said -

clueless twat
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 30, 2014, 05:51:15 PM
Of course you do. Like I said -


Come on Prime, you are too old for gimmics... These are not arguments, sorry. Kthxbye.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Fortress on October 30, 2014, 06:07:12 PM
I married at 25; wife was 18. I made a conscious decision to fuck one vagina for the rest of my life, in trade for a lifetime of companionship and sexual exploration with a partner (who) can grow sexually with me. Just because you choose to fuck one vag doesn't mean your sex instantly becomes stale or boring ... You CAN keep growing and evolving, sexually, I believe. More so with one partner versus fucking random (people). You never have time to really explore each other and peak.

Hate to say it, but your wife will most certainly cheat at some point ... or wanna bail when she finally comes to realize she's been with one guy for, like, 30 years, and she is still only 48. And the whole "sexual exploration" comment makes me want to hurl. Unless you're a seriously twisted fucker, hell bent on discovering ever-new and degrading sexual acts, this is horseshit of the first order.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: che on October 30, 2014, 06:11:51 PM
Hate to say it, but your wife will most certainly cheat at some point ... or wanna bail when she finally comes to realize she's been with one guy for, like, 30 years, and she is still only 48. And the whole "sexual exploration" comment makes me want to hurl. Unless you're a seriously twisted fucker, hell bent on discovering ever-new and degrading sexual acts, this is horseshit of the first order.

 ::)
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Zillotch on October 30, 2014, 06:12:47 PM
Come on Prime, you are too old for gimmics... These are not arguments, sorry. Kthxbye.

Its interesting the way you stupid types wrongly perceive me to be a different poster. Its a great gauge of intelligence.

My post is commentary; accurate observation.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Zillotch on October 30, 2014, 06:16:55 PM
Hate to say it, but your wife will most certainly cheat at some point

No thanks to dickheads like you that cant keep their hands to themselves -

Many times I have given female co-workers hugs and cheek kisses and never have these ever been met with anything but returned affection and smiles.

Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Fortress on October 30, 2014, 06:18:15 PM
No thanks to dickheads like you that cant keep their hands to themselves -

 :D
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Shockwave on October 30, 2014, 06:22:16 PM
Hate to say it, but your wife will most certainly cheat at some point ... or wanna bail when she finally comes to realize she's been with one guy for, like, 30 years, and she is still only 48. And the whole "sexual exploration" comment makes me want to hurl. Unless you're a seriously twisted fucker, hell bent on discovering ever-new and degrading sexual acts, this is horseshit of the first order.
Believe what you want man. She had her fun and i had my fun before we were married. And weve grown together sexually in ways neither of us ever did beforehand.

Its highly amusing when people try to tell me whats going to happen in my marriage when they have no clue whats going on besides the 10% i choose to share.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 30, 2014, 06:28:03 PM
Its interesting the way you stupid types wrongly perceive me to be a different poster. Its a great gauge of intelligence.

My post is commentary; accurate observation.


Well probably you just like to post ad hominem bullshit instead of arguments, that's usualy how gimmics operate here, but you know it by yourself.

Go away now.

Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Palpatine Q on October 30, 2014, 06:32:29 PM
Hate to say it, but your wife will most certainly cheat at some point ... or wanna bail when she finally comes to realize she's been with one guy for, like, 30 years, and she is still only 48. And the whole "sexual exploration" comment makes me want to hurl. Unless you're a seriously twisted fucker, hell bent on discovering ever-new and degrading sexual acts, this is horseshit of the first order.

Shockwave is a noted member of "Team Mighty"

therefore no woman shall ever cheat on him, those are regular people problems
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Fortress on October 30, 2014, 06:38:15 PM
Believe what you want man. She had her fun and i had my fun before we were married. And weve grown together sexually in ways neither of us ever did beforehand.

Its highly amusing when people try to tell me whats going to happen in my marriage when they have no clue whats going on besides the 10% i choose to share.

I hope for you the best with your marriage. Sincerely. But the chance of you or her, or both, NOT cheating, or NOT divorcing, or NOT becoming bored as all hell, at some point, is slim.

If you two come to be swingers or that type of thing, well, that might help lessen the boredom factor, sure.

 
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 30, 2014, 06:44:20 PM
I hope for you the best with your marriage. Sincerely. But the chance of you or her, or both, NOT cheating, or NOT divorcing, or NOT becoming bored as all hell, at some point, is slim.

If you two come to be swingers or that type of thing, well, that might help lessen the boredom factor, sure.

 


Very very slim. Look at how much energy Uberman spends into convincing HIMSELF that he must be faithful to his wife. It's not easy and I kind of respect anyone who manages to pull that off over the years. A real self discipline.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Shockwave on October 30, 2014, 06:45:29 PM
Man, there really are some jaded motherfuckers on getbig. :D
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Quickerblade on October 30, 2014, 06:47:05 PM
Isn't that the truth. My ex ( 28 ) cooked for me once and bitched the whole time about it. Asked her to make me a fuckin omlette with cheese, for fucks sake. Lol. Cleaning ? Sheeeeiiiiiit. Looked like she lived out of her car.

Pussy smelled great though !! :D



Yet to see a girl that has a clean car.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: che on October 30, 2014, 06:52:14 PM

Very very slim. Look at how much energy Uberman spends into convincing HIMSELF that he must be faithful to his wife. It's not easy and I kind of respect anyone who manages to pull that off over the years. A real self discipline.
I hope for you the best with your marriage. Sincerely. But the chance of you or her, or both, NOT cheating, or NOT divorcing, or NOT becoming bored as all hell, at some point, is slim.

If you two come to be swingers or that type of thing, well, that might help lessen the boredom factor, sure.

 
Relationships based only on looks or lust  often fail .
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 30, 2014, 06:54:32 PM
Relationships based only on looks or lust  often fail .

It's more about being able to restrain yourself in this case..
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: cephissus on October 30, 2014, 07:30:27 PM
Believe what you want man. She had her fun and i had my fun before we were married. And weve grown together sexually in ways neither of us ever did beforehand.

Its highly amusing when people try to tell me whats going to happen in my marriage when they have no clue whats going on besides the 10% i choose to share.

Man do I ever know that feeling... not with regard to marriage in particular, of course, but anything.  Every now and then I mention I don't think I have a very strong sense of smell -- some of my friends then think they know exactly what I can / can't smell at all times ::)

Extremely annoying

Also, I swear this thread happens like every two weeks, and it always plays out the same way:

1.  Someone gets bored and has the novel idea to shit on marriage
2.  The mostly-nameless, largely non-married chorus echoes their agreement
3.  Groink, BigCyp, Shockwave, Che, and like the two other married people on this board collectively roll their eyes

:D
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: WalterWhite on October 30, 2014, 07:58:05 PM
Man do I ever know that feeling... not with regard to marriage in particular, of course, but anything.  Every now and then I mention I don't think I have a very strong sense of smell -- some of my friends then think they know exactly what I can / can't smell at all times ::)

Extremely annoying

Also, I swear this thread happens like every two weeks, and it always plays out the same way:

1.  Someone gets bored and has the novel idea to shit on marriage
2.  The mostly-nameless, largely non-married chorus echoes their agreement
3.  Groink, BigCyp, Shockwave, Che, and like the two other married people on this board collectively roll their eyes

:D

Don't forgot my usual complaint about the seven figures I had to transfer my ex after a very long marriage. I had a marriage many envied but there are many things that can happen to derail a marriage that don't include cheating.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: da_vinci on October 30, 2014, 08:09:24 PM
Don't forgot my usual complaint about how the seven figures I had to transfer my ex after a very long marriage. I had a marriage many envied but there are many things that can happen to derail a marriage that don't include cheating.

Truth shall be QFT!
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Grape Ape on October 30, 2014, 08:18:20 PM
Man do I ever know that feeling... not with regard to marriage in particular, of course, but anything.  Every now and then I mention I don't think I have a very strong sense of smell -- some of my friends then think they know exactly what I can / can't smell at all times ::)

Extremely annoying

Also, I swear this thread happens like every two weeks, and it always plays out the same way:

1.  Someone gets bored and has the novel idea to shit on marriage
2.  The mostly-nameless, largely non-married chorus echoes their agreement
3.  Groink, BigCyp, Shockwave, Che, and like the two other married people on this board collectively roll their eyes

:D

This post is perfect.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: BIG ACH on October 30, 2014, 08:45:51 PM
Married at 23 here... Wife is same age... (We met when we were 13)

Been happily married for over 8 years and have a one year old... Couldn't be happier in my situation.

To each their own I guess!
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: cephissus on October 30, 2014, 09:14:54 PM
Married at 23 here... Wife is same age... (We met when we were 13)

Been happily married for over 8 years and have a one year old... Couldn't be happier in my situation.

To each their own I guess!


Do you still lift heavy every day for 2+ hours?
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: BIG ACH on October 30, 2014, 09:55:12 PM
Do you still lift heavy every day for 2+ hours?

1 hour now, 5 days a week... But still as heavy as ever... This has more to do with my new job which is pretty demanding than it does with the family life... Luckily my company just opened a new kick ass gym at the office which I can use for free and they also pay for my membership at Golds Gym so if I'm working from home on any given day I don't have to drive all the way to the office to work out!  Gives me options and flexibility. But normally I train during lunch!

Plus they also sell muscle milk at my work cafeteria for a dollar so the protein keeps on flowing :-D
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: el numero uno on October 30, 2014, 11:01:14 PM
There's a difference between not wanting to get married and not being able to get laid.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Master Blaster on October 30, 2014, 11:04:35 PM
Quote
3.  Groink, BigCyp, Shockwave, Che, and like the two other married people on this board collectively roll their eyes

yeah add me to that list   ::)

marriage is kind of a key to family, which is kind of the point of life  ::)
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on October 31, 2014, 01:27:38 AM
yeah add me to that list   ::)

marriage is kind of a key to family, which is kind of the point of life  ::)


Uhhhhhhh .... nooo. Who told you this ?!?
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: kreator on October 31, 2014, 03:39:38 AM
i love it when people try to justify being with 1 person for 50 + years with things like u have to try hard to make it work etc., while there is no way we are monogamous lol, once ur sex interest in ur partner fades away it's simply time to move on
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Shockwave on October 31, 2014, 04:03:52 AM
i love it when people try to justify being with 1 person for 50 + years with things like u have to try hard to make it work etc., while there is no way we are monogamous lol, once ur sex interest in ur partner fades away it's simply time to move on
::)
my grandfather ceased being able to have sex when he was 50 due to prostate cancer.
Theyre now both 85, they married at 17 and have no udea whay theyd do without each other. They havent had sex in nearly 35 years of the nearly 70 years theyve beem together.

My parents have been married 42 years.

My uncles have been married 40 years and 30 years respectively

I could go on and on..

If you cant stand the idea of being monogomous, by all means, just say so, but dont act like its inherent in our nature that we MUST fuck around. Its a relatievly new idea pushed by people who dont like the idea of committment and/or who fear getting fucked by a shitty woman they cant control.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Simple Simon on October 31, 2014, 04:22:38 AM
::)
my grandfather ceased being able to have sex when he was 50 due to prostate cancer.
Theyre now both 85, they married at 17 and have no udea whay theyd do without each other. They havent had sex in nearly 35 years of the nearly 70 years theyve beem together.

My parents have been married 42 years.

My uncles have been married 40 years and 30 years respectively

I could go on and on..

If you cant stand the idea of being monogomous, by all means, just say so, but dont act like its inherent in our nature that we MUST fuck around. Its a relatievly new idea pushed by people who dont like the idea of committment and/or who fear getting fucked by a shitty woman they cant control.
Been with my current partner 18 years, dont fuck around, would never fuck around, if I wanted anyone else I would out of respect end the relationship, sure I flirt with other women, she is aware of that, she knows what Im like, I like women, I enjoy their company but thats as far as it goes.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Kim Jong Bob on October 31, 2014, 04:48:17 AM
no matter how cool a girlfreind is they all change bro when u get married, its like they think a ring on their finger means u r a prisoner in jail and they r the warden. if i could do it all over i would never get married man,i envy u bro caus u r still free, i got 8 yr old son that loves me,hes not old enough to realize his old man is a loser so he looks up to me,im ready to split cause when he realizes im a fucking failure he will turn on me also. wish i could get the balls up to slice my wrist and end this shit
thia ia one of the saddest posts i ever read on getbig =/
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: anabolichalo on October 31, 2014, 04:52:26 AM
no matter how cool a girlfreind is they all change bro when u get married, its like they think a ring on their finger means u r a prisoner in jail and they r the warden. if i could do it all over i would never get married man,i envy u bro caus u r still free, i got 8 yr old son that loves me,hes not old enough to realize his old man is a loser so he looks up to me,im ready to split cause when he realizes im a fucking failure he will turn on me also. wish i could get the balls up to slice my wrist and end this shit
a few month ago i contempletad to marriage baby mama

i asked even getbig how much for marriage ring $$$$$$$


but in the end i decithe her pussy may be golden but i want to have coin$ and fr€€doms and mu$cle$ and 18 years babes
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Grape Ape on October 31, 2014, 05:20:27 AM

If you cant stand the idea of being monogomous, by all means, just say so, but dont act like its inherent in our nature that we MUST fuck around. Its a relatievly new idea pushed by people who dont like the idea of committment and/or who fear getting fucked by a shitty woman they cant control.

Exactly.  Anyone with the right girl knows all these guys are clueless in respect to this category.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Tedim on October 31, 2014, 05:23:33 AM
::)
my grandfather ceased being able to have sex when he was 50 due to prostate cancer.
Theyre now both 85, they married at 17 and have no udea whay theyd do without each other. They havent had sex in nearly 35 years of the nearly 70 years theyve beem together.

My parents have been married 42 years.

My uncles have been married 40 years and 30 years respectively

I could go on and on..

If you cant stand the idea of being monogomous, by all means, just say so, but dont act like its inherent in our nature that we MUST fuck around. Its a relatievly new idea pushed by people who dont like the idea of committment and/or who fear getting fucked by a shitty woman they cant control.

This
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: CDel19 on October 31, 2014, 10:16:37 AM
i married at 25, wife was 18.

I made a conscious decision to fuck one vagina for the rest of my life, in trade for a lifetime of companionship and sexual exploration with a partner thay can grow sexually with me.

Just because you choose to fuck 1 vag doesnt mean your sex instantly becomes stale or boring.... you CAN keeo growing and evolving sexually, i believe moreso witg 1 partner vs fucking different randoms. You never have time to really explore each other and peak.

Also, i got tired of fucking random sluts and going through life alone. Having a partner to experience life and grow together is an amazong experience.
agreed-even though I left her basically for another woman after I wasn't happy inother ways we had great sex and it got better
Sure we fight, but having one partner that grows with me instead of going through life alone and fucking chicks on and off is far preferential for me. Its a whole different world.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: gracie bjj on October 31, 2014, 10:28:25 AM
i had the right girl back in 88 but i fucked that up,i was into running around with my freinds and partying.i put her second and that was a mistake. i was young though n didnt think about anything seriously as far as broads go
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: kreator on October 31, 2014, 12:03:16 PM
i had the right girl back in 88 but i fucked that up,i was into running around with my freinds and partying.i put her second and that was a mistake. i was young though n didnt think about anything seriously as far as broads go

If u didn't care so much back then, don't sweat it, people's priorities change with time, just let go
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Deadlifted on October 31, 2014, 01:06:13 PM
i had the right girl back in 88 but i fucked that up,i was into running around with my freinds and partying.i put her second and that was a mistake. i was young though n didnt think about anything seriously as far as broads go
Well at least something like that can be a learning experience in hindsight
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: oldtimer1 on October 31, 2014, 06:27:20 PM
Sorry about that dude.  i didn't know you were going to be there that fast.

That is a nice TV  :D

That hurt.  ;D  Just do me a favor. Bang that slut ex wife up the ass dry for me until she cries. It's the least you can do for me.
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Slapper on October 31, 2014, 07:21:28 PM
I made a conscious decision to fuck one vagina for the rest of my life

Bet your dick is looking up at you like this:

(http://assets.sbnation.com/assets/2372295/kansasmelting.gif)
Title: Re: Another reason not to get married
Post by: Shockwave on October 31, 2014, 07:36:37 PM
Bet your dick is looking up at you like this:

(http://assets.sbnation.com/assets/2372295/kansasmelting.gif)
fuck no man, my dick sees more action now than it ever did before and the sex, on average, just keeps getting better. Sure there are average times where we just bang it out, but on average our sex life is constantly improving.

We fuck almost everyday.