In one thread you said that you were going to be spending Thanksgiving with this amazing, lit-chick, intellectually superior girlfriend of yours. Then this weekend you post that in fact, you've broken up with her two weeks ago, and that you've really been pursuing a relationship with the 19-year-old, whatever, gold-digger. In one thread, you say that you don't go for message board chicks because you prefer women who are "deeper," and yet you seek the advice of message board chicks when it comes to dating 19-year-old gold-diggers. In one thread, you tell Jodi she's too masculine in her thinking about relationships, and in the next, you say you wish more women were like her. And then you refer to women on a woman's message board as "bitches."
Deedee,
You need to take things in the context that they are meant.
It's unfortunate that I need to detail every single thing I say for fear that you won't understand it, but in this case........why not?
The breakup with my last girlfriend was a long time in coming, but we both were trying to make it work, probably against our better judgement. We are on good terms because it was a mutual decision and yes, she did invite me to Thanksgiving despite the breakup but I didn't feel it was appropriate so I declined. We like each other as people, but it just didn't work in a relationship context.....that is really what it boils down to. I'm better for the experience and I learned some things about myself that will help me in future relationships.
The nineteen year old is interesting and I don't really know if she's as mature as she claims to be, nor if a relationship is even tenable right now given my schedule. I'll talk to her and if we have common interests, perhaps......
Pertaining to Jodi, I've spoken to her offline in depth about several issues, so I know her decently well compared to those who have only interacted with her on the site. Ask her.....
I admire Jodi's honesty and straightforward approach to things, sans games, and yes she will have a tough time finding a man who can deal with her and appreciate her for who she is, without trying to dominate or change her.
The term "
bitch" is reserved for women who manipulate and deceive and I won't ever refrain from using that term in the appropriate context.
I honestly don't think you have good relationships with women, and I don't think you particularly like women. Sum total - I don't think you have a clue about women. Everything about the way you post is frontage, even though you are constantly telling other people they should "be real." I can't imagine why anyone would take anything you say about women seriously.
I appreciate women who are intellectual, honest and open. I don't respect women who play games and use vindictive means to get what they want. I don't respect that.
I've been as real as possible on here, but you don't know me, so how you take what I say isn't necessarily the intended context and I can't do anything about that.
Know me off-line and you'd understand.........
As it stands you are on the outside looking in......and obviously not understanding what you are seeing.
DIV
