Advice to the lonely flotsom and jetsom on Getbig.

[Mr Nobody]

Vince Basile posting pictures of me is as routine as a kid gone missing in the Australia area.

LMAO

[Vince B]

Melvin, you can't handle the truth so use the lowest dirty trick possible even for Getbiggers. You should be ashamed of yourself. I swear you behave like a sheila around these boards.

[Vince G, CSN MFT]

Melvin, you can't handle the truth so use the lowest dirty trick possible even for Getbiggers. You should be ashamed of yourself. I swear you behave like a sheila around these boards.

The truth???  Please explain

[io856]

not really sure fat women are that hard to "get" I mean chubby chasers are not that common I take

[Vince B]

The truth is that you are a complete nincompoop, buffoon, and ass. You are the epitome of being delusional on Getbig and other muscle forums. When people like me and Keith call you out you retaliate by calling us names. I give you credit for having the thickest hide seen on the internet but you don't play fair. I merely point out your foibles and bullshitting but you play dirty and hint at the pedo card. I mean, Melvin, that is despicable even for you. I guess if you live in a trailer park you can end up behaving like the trash we often see on Jerry Springer.

[io856]

why do the guys on here have soooo much trouble finding woman to have sex with?

women are half the population

the guys here I assume good looking too? (train with weights, vain etc...)

what the fuck...  

[Vince G, CSN MFT]

The truth is that you are a complete nincompoop, buffoon, and ass. You are the epitome of being delusional on Getbig and other muscle forums. When people like me and Keith call you out you retaliate by calling us names. I give you credit for having the thickest hide seen on the internet but you don't play fair. I merely point out your foibles and bullshitting but you play dirty and hint at the pedo card. I mean, Melvin, that is despicable even for you. I guess if you live in a trailer park you can end up behaving like the trash we often see on Jerry Springer.

This is Getbig, nothing is fair around here.  If you don't like it then don't throw garbage in my direction.    

[calfzilla]

Calfie , have you got your eyes on a victim yet?

yes I do. 

Tapeworm: LoL at Punjabi fever!    

No I haven't asked her out yet.    I tend to work real slow.  Other bullet points are, I will be finishing my degree this March and I really don't want to try to juggle work, school and a relationship, so I think I will ask her out after school.  Probably sounds funny but I have anxiety issues when I have too much on my plate.  In the meantime my plan of attack is to semi ignore her, but when we do talk try to make her laugh (humor is one of my strengths) and do as QB said and watch closely for non verbal signs of interest ie. playing with hair and such. 

Thanks to all who have put so much effort into this thread.  And guys, if she turns me down don't worry, I will get back on it and find another.   

[Topskin69]

Melvin actually being entertaining for a change.

Still...the pedo card is a bit low. Even by Getbig standards.


Nonetheless it is amusing.

[Vince B]

The depths that Goodrum and Josh descend to in bagging me reveals more about them than me. I don't make fun of the fact that Melvin is gay. So what? I don't make fun of Josh's mental problems. I think it is foolish to post detailed reports and or photos of dates on the internet and especially on Getbig. In the past I was trying to help both these blokes but they didn't see it that way so lash out. Like I said, some people can't handle the truth. Mentioning that one is bipolar and has BDP is also a worry. Especially the latter. Read "Stop Walking on Eggshells" to get a glimpse of what Borderlines are like. They have a tendency to lash out at others and have acute problems with relationships. Even psychiatrists have trouble helping those with that disorder.

[WillGrant]

The depths that Goodrum and Josh descend to in bagging me reveals more about them than me. I don't make fun of the fact that Melvin is gay. So what? I don't make fun of Josh's mental problems. I think it is foolish to post detailed reports and or photos of dates on the internet and especially on Getbig. In the past I was trying to help both these blokes but they didn't see it that way so lash out. Like I said, some people can't handle the truth. Mentioning that one is bipolar and has BDP is also a worry. Especially the latter. Read "Stop Walking on Eggshells" to get a glimpse of what Borderlines are like. They have a tendency to lash out at others and have acute problems with relationships. Even psychiatrists have trouble helping those with that disorder.

I think calling you a pedo is low..
Josh knows he has issues so is in a good position to confront them , goodrum however does not which makes him a very dangerous ni66er

[disturbia]

The depths that Goodrum and Josh descend to in bagging me reveals more about them than me. I don't make fun of the fact that Melvin is gay. So what? I don't make fun of Josh's mental problems. I think it is foolish to post detailed reports and or photos of dates on the internet and especially on Getbig. In the past I was trying to help both these blokes but they didn't see it that way so lash out. Like I said, some people can't handle the truth. Mentioning that one is bipolar and has BDP is also a worry. Especially the latter. Read "Stop Walking on Eggshells" to get a glimpse of what Borderlines are like. They have a tendency to lash out at others and have acute problems with relationships. Even psychiatrists have trouble helping those with that disorder.

thats fair---I apologize and will quit

[Tapeworm]

she's hot, but fucking annoying at the same time. def just a one night kinda thing. seems like she isn't worthy of attending this new years eve do. how do i get rid of her afterwards?

Tell her that point blank.  If the convo goes south, you know she's not the girl for you.

[webcake]

hmmmm, i can't see that going down to well. So yeah, i will certainly try it out. 

[WillGrant]

hmmmm, i can't see that going down to well. So yeah, i will certainly try it out. 

Remember the dirty sanchez 

[webcake]

How could i forget, william. 

[Vince B]

Hi Josh. You come across as a complex and sensitive guy with problems. If you have BPD then you might want to read the forums and resource material on http://www.bpdcentral.com/index.php. I had a friend who had the disorder plus suffered from depression and it was a challenge being around her at times. Sometimes they lack empathy and they have acute problems sustaining relationships. They have a habit of turning on friends and family. One can only imagine how they deal with perceived threats on the internet.

[Tapeworm]

I'm semi serious, assuming she really needs to make some changes and you're not just an easily annoyed guy.  She might be aware of her offputting behavior and already know it needs to stop.  At the very least you'll get to see how she handles a topic with some meat to it or if she just immediately freaks out when her ego gets dented.  Either way you'll have done her a favor that few others would do.

Unless it's "I don't like the way you chew your food" kind of stuff in which case the issue lies with you, you intolerant bastard.

[disturbia]

Hi Josh. You come across as a complex and sensitive guy with problems. If you have BPD then you might want to read the forums and resource material on http://www.bpdcentral.com/index.php. I had a friend who had the disorder plus suffered from depression and it was a challenge being around her at times. Sometimes they lack empathy and they have acute problems sustaining relationships. They have a habit of turning on friends and family. One can only imagine how they deal with perceived threats on the internet.

pretty much sums me up.  Im aware of it and try hard to deal with it. Its off and on

[@Brandon]

stay home and go on the internet instead of dating and having normal fun. Get a life and go out and get laid

I never thought I would say I agree 100%
with Basile but I do agree about this.

[Vince B]

Josh, Borderlines will be unlikely to cure themselves no matter how much they read and know. It is a very complex disorder but there are professionals who can help you. You are unlikely to get what you need from the internet. It could explain why you have trouble with women in your life. They would be afraid of you and your mood swings.

[webcake]

Just an annoying person. She's a bit of a snob too, which is off putting.

Though admittedly i am quite easily annoyed. Perhaps the issue lies woth both of us. We might be a better match with each other than i originally imagined.  

[disturbia]

Josh, Borderlines will be unlikely to cure themselves no matter how much they read and know. It is a very complex disorder but there are professionals who can help you. You are unlikely to get what you need from the internet. It could explain why you have trouble with women in your life. They would be afraid of you and your mood swings.

I am aware that is the reason. I do see a shrink and a counsellor. I have gotten a ton better over time, but still have miles to go.

[Vince B]

That's great, Josh. I read your posts and you are a funny guy. You do have a temper but it might not be your fault because of BPD. I am not someone who is against you in any way so I hope in the future you don't turn on me because of something I post here. I will certainly keep your issues in mind and hope you improve over time.

[Tapeworm]

Just an annoying person. She's a bit of a snob too, which is off putting.

Though admittedly i am quite easily annoyed. Perhaps the issue lies woth both of us. We might be a better match with each other than i originally imagined.  

If you really struggle to enjoy her company, I'd say pass.  There's plenty of good looking women around.

I'm going to take my chances on NYE instead of taking up a bad idea invite.