Current blacks have not felt the direct effects of slavery. Do you see Jews asking for reparations? Do they cry about everything?
They got some serious reparations. Billions of dollars of loot. And that is not including The many they were given by Swiss banks that the Nazis had hid. Or the paintings and jewelry that Nazi hid and stole in Austria and Switz. There were recently more judicials rulings within the last 8 yrs.
And lets not forget, pushing the Palestinians out of their land, creating Israel...when true Jews (jews of antueity) look more like the Palestinians (people of color) than Europeans. They have religious claims of the land, not genetic claim.
The relatives of japanese internment camp victims during WWII have received reparations as well.
Reconstruction was a quasi-way of creating government sponsored Reparation. Crating black colleges, schools. 40 acres and mule was not a law, but was mulled over. Essentialy, everything was stopped...Don't want those blacks to have true equality....hell, they're still slaves, "obsolete farm equipment"
I think it is stupid to think that I will get reparations for the free labor my ancestors did, back pay, if you will...It makes sense, but worthless to fight over, when there are other things more important. Never gonna happen. And would have never happened back when former slaves were still alive.
I ask you this, becuae you say your Italian and Spanish. Imagine if your culture, identity did not exist or was stripped away. One is mixed with this, that (Nigerian, Mali,Wolof, etc.) A Korean has his Korean heritage, a Chinese his, a Frenchman his. Af-Am's have none,even though we are an amalgam of Anglo and African. Nothing really to point to that says..."this came from such and such".
Then, to be taught, your hair texture is "bad" and believe that and come up with things to straigthen it. Anything is bad that is associated with you, and you teach that to your kids, hence the use of calling one's self nig**. I guess you can see where i am going with this, so i won't go further.
Would you still say, "Don't cry over this"
Or would understand a mentality that has, yes fostered a "victim mentality", Or a metality that gets pissed off when you get criticized, like your always being watched over more than others, and if you f-up, that's it.