How do you feel when your ex has a new lover?

[Faust]

It's rather uncomfortable.

Sure i want her to be happy. In a nice prison cell or monastery.

[Playboy]

It's rather uncomfortable.

Sure i want her to be happy. In a nice prison cell or monastery.

Let go of the past, move on to bigger and better things.

PB

[Deedee]

She's your ex and you haven't run her over yet with your car? Is it uncomfortable because you're still "friends"?

[ToxicAvenger]

i usually feel good..


otherwise i keep worrying if she is ok..who is gonna take care of her etc etc..

when she finds someone else i usually breath a sigh of relief and then i can finally move on..

[Faust]

She's your ex and you haven't run her over yet with your car? Is it uncomfortable because you're still "friends"?

I'd love to run her over but i'm a bit worried about my car. 

It's not that bad actually. I already had some "flings" and i thought i was over her.
But we're still friends and kept in touch. Now when i saw her kissing with that guy i was happy for her, but also a bit sad. You know, that used to be my girl, now she's kissing his lips, holding his hand, laughing with his jokes,...
It's probably for the best cause subconsciously i was prob still hoping we'd get back togheter. Now the chance is zero.

[Option D]

i usually feel good..


otherwise i keep worrying if she is ok..who is gonna take care of her etc etc..

when she finds someone else i usually breath a sigh of relief and then i can finally move on..

Shittin me right?

[arigato]

sound like u got dumped... bro, just go find another girl!

[ToxicAvenger]

Shittin me right?

no i'm not..

god..this is gonna sound....well..fuck its gonna sound something..i cant put my finger on it..but i've only been dumped once.and even with her..i wished her the best of luck..and worried about her till i knew her new man ws treating her right...colleen..i posted a pic of her once..i think..anyhow..


if its not gonna work out between you and the perosn you r with and you break up..why wish em ill will?  even if i break up with someone i usually still care for em and want the best for em..just cause its not meant to be between me and her does not mean i wish you to suffer..

even the 1 girl that cheated on me..well kindsa cheated on me (long story) i have forgiven and wish her the best..   

[Option D]

no i'm not..

god..this is gonna sound....well..fuck its gonna sound something..i cant put my finger on it..but i've only been dumped once.and even with her..i wished her the best of luck..and worried about her till i knew her new man ws treating her right...colleen..i posted a pic of her once..i think..anyhow..


if its not gonna work out between you and the perosn you r with and you break up..why wish em ill will?  even if i break up with someone i usually still care for em and want the best for em..just cause its not meant to be between me and her does not mean i wish you to suffer..

even the 1 girl that cheated on me..well kindsa cheated on me (long story) i have forgiven and wish her the best..   

If you triedto make it work and it didnt because of her...F.UCK THAT BROAD...

[ToxicAvenger]

If you triedto make it work and it didnt because of her...F.UCK THAT BROAD...

ahh mayne..we all have just 1 life..and that too short of a time to go around with hate.. 

if it didn't work..then ya gotta look at the big pic..maybe something happen in her  or your life before that made you a certain way that didn;t make it work..orr..your personalities were too different to begin with..it happens..and it hurts...but you should expect to yourself to be able to reason eventually after the hurt is done man.. 



gawd..i sound like i hippie..buut..i mean what i said..

[Option D]

ahh mayne..we all have just 1 life..and that too short of a time to go around with hate.. 

if it didn't work..then ya gotta look at the big pic..maybe something happen in her  or your life before that made you a certain way that didn;t make it work..orr..your personalities were too different to begin with..it happens..and it hurts...but you should expect to yourself to be able to reason eventually after the hurt is done man.. 



gawd..i sound like i hippie..buut..i mean what i said..

Man this relationship is complicated....

[drkaje]

It's rather uncomfortable.

Sure i want her to be happy. In a nice prison cell or monastery.

What's the big deal? Just find another girl.

[Faust]

What's the big deal? Just find another girl.

Yeah i will. Just wanted to know if it bother others. Apparently everybody onhere is perfectly cool with it. 

[24KT]

Faust, you just need a little time to heal that's all. 

[Option D]

Yeah i will. Just wanted to know if it bother others. Apparently everybody onhere is perfectly cool with it. 

I am because when i break up with a woman - edited i usually hate them. for like maybe 3 yars after that. Just fuck one of her close friends. Youll be fine

[drkaje]

Faust, you just need a little time to heal that's all. 

Are you reading romance novels again, Jags?

[Faust]

I am because when i break up with a broad i usually hate them. for like maybe 3 yars after that.
Just fuck one of her close friends. Youll be fine

We'll all be fine. Seriously, i'm ok though, thx everyone for the concern. It just kinda took me by surprise.
We broke up a while ago and I've already been with some other girls, but when i love somebody i can't just turn off that switch. Maybe i should work on that. But in this case it's all cool, they look cute togheter too.

[24KT]

We'll all be fine. Seriously, i'm ok though, thx everyone for the concern. It just kinda took me by surprise.
We broke up a while ago and I've already been with some other girls, but when i love somebody i can't just turn off that switch. Maybe i should work on that. But in this case it's all cool, they look cute togheter too.

Faust, there's nothing wrong with you. In fact, ...I'd hazard a guess your relationships are probably more normal, more loving, and much healthier than most. It's unnatural to hate someone you once loved, ...although so many people do. That's simply lashing out in frustration, and it's the sign of an immature heart and one completely unworthy of the person in the first place. It's healthy to mourn the loss of a loved one, ...and if you didn't feel a tinge of pain at the prospect of what you had, being shared with someone else, ...I would suspect there was something wrong with you, ...especially if you're not completely over her. Just give it a bit of time, and you'll be ok.

[drkaje]

We'll all be fine. Seriously, i'm ok though, thx everyone for the concern. It just kinda took me by surprise.
We broke up a while ago and I've already been with some other girls, but when i love somebody i can't just turn off that switch. Maybe i should work on that. But in this case it's all cool, they look cute togheter too.

An uncle once gave me some advice that sounds pretty stupid on it's surface: "Stay with a woman until you hate her". Felt it was silly since I don't hate anyone but took the bait and asked why. Basically, he said unless you hang out a little longer you'll always be wondering what could have been. Hanging out longer will let a person see all that would have happened is more of the same. It's pretty hard to miss someone when you've hung around long enough to know things really wouldn't have gotten any better.

When things are done I try to remember the good things about the relationship without putting the other person on a pedestal. No one's perfect and if someone were perfect for you things would have worked out better.

Funny story. Met a guy once who was moaning and depressed about his gf dumping him. She was the 'perfect girl', I love her, won't find anyone else like her, etc... Was like find another girl (you know me) but no, he was determined to get her badk and was upset because she wouldn't return his calls. Morbid curiosity made me ask why she dumped him..... Yes, the asshole cheated on her. I said, if you loved her you wouldn't have cheated. Fkr actually got pissed at me. People are strange.

[gtbro1]

Faust, you just need a little time to heal that's all. 

   No, he just needs some  pussy.

[gtbro1]

An uncle once gave me some advice that sounds pretty stupid on it's surface: "Stay with a woman until you hate her". Felt it was silly since I don't hate anyone but took the bait and asked why. Basically, he said unless you hang out a little longer you'll always be wondering what could have been. Hanging out longer will let a person see all that would have happened is more of the same. It's pretty hard to miss someone when you've hung around long enough to know things really wouldn't have gotten any better.

When things are done I try to remember the good things about the relationship without putting the other person on a pedestal. No one's perfect and if someone were perfect for you things would have worked out better.

Funny story. Met a guy once who was moaning and depressed about his gf dumping him. She was the 'perfect girl', I love her, won't find anyone else like her, etc... Was like find another girl (you know me) but no, he was determined to get her badk and was upset because she wouldn't return his calls. Morbid curiosity made me ask why she dumped him..... Yes, the asshole cheated on her. I said, if you loved her you wouldn't have cheated. Fkr actually got pissed at me. People are strange.

   Well, if that  girlfriend of his was willing to let one little fuck come between their love,then she wasn't giving the relationship a chance,was she?

[24KT]

An uncle once gave me some advice that sounds pretty stupid on it's surface: "Stay with a woman until you hate her". Felt it was silly since I don't hate anyone but took the bait and asked why. Basically, he said unless you hang out a little longer you'll always be wondering what could have been. Hanging out longer will let a person see all that would have happened is more of the same. It's pretty hard to miss someone when you've hung around long enough to know things really wouldn't have gotten any better.

When things are done I try to remember the good things about the relationship without putting the other person on a pedestal. No one's perfect and if someone were perfect for you things would have worked out better.

Funny story. Met a guy once who was moaning and depressed about his gf dumping him. She was the 'perfect girl', I love her, won't find anyone else like her, etc... Was like find another girl (you know me) but no, he was determined to get her badk and was upset because she wouldn't return his calls. Morbid curiosity made me ask why she dumped him..... Yes, the asshole cheated on her. I said, if you loved her you wouldn't have cheated. Fkr actually got pissed at me. People are strange.

Interesting theory Jake, ...could explain why I've always been able to walk away and never look back.  

I've only ever pined away twice

[24KT]

   Well, if that  girlfriend of his was willing to let one little fuck come between their love,then she wasn't giving the relationship a chance,was she?

If he was willing to risk losing his girlfriend over a little fleeting piece of tail, he obviously wasn't committed to the relationship the way he should have been. It's not like they were married for years and had kids together. He threw it away on the roll of a dice. In relationships, Vegas rules should always apply:

You should never gamble with what you're not prepared to lose!

[gtbro1]

Interesting theory Jake, ...could explain why I've always been able to walk away and never look back.  

I've only ever pined away twice

   Because the dude stayed so long that he hated you?  

[gtbro1]

If he was willing to risk losing his girlfriend over a little fleeting piece of tail, he obviously wasn't committed to the relationship the way he should have been. It's not like they were married for years and had kids together. He threw it away on the roll of a dice. In relationships, Vegas rules should always apply:

You should never gamble with what you're not prepared to lose!

It was a joke from Eddie Murhy's stand up act     I have never believed in cheating.