Three years ago there was this girl at my college who showed a ton of interest in me. I haven't seen her since then but just found her on Myspace. She now lives out of state. This girl made me feel like I was some sort of celebrity the way she would act around me. Every time she would look at me it was either with a big smile, pupils dilated, or like a deer caught in headlights. I never smiled at her once even though I really liked her. We didn't know each other but we often saw each other in the hallways.
One time I was sitting by myself in the hallways reading my notes when all of a sudden I noticed her and her girl friends peaking at me. It was one of those moments where you just felt like you were being watched but i wasn't sure. Then all of a sudden she walks by from a bit of a distance but it looked like she was smiling in my direction. The professor for her class wasn't there yet so she shouts out "lets go down here." Her and her girlfriends come over and she then jumped up on to a wall about 6 - 8 feet away from where I was sitting. I was very shy at the time and I was in a relationship and wasn't thinking about making a move. After about a minute of her being there I look in her direction and she's glaring at me. I looked away quickly being the wuss that I am. A few minutes went by and the teacher finally showed up and they left. She didn't look in my direction as much after that but a few times we were in the same area she did things that made me think she was trying to make me jealous like tell other guys they are sexy. The very last time I saw her she was staring at me like she was sad and confused.
I found her on myspace while browsing other profiles just recently. I haven't seen her in 3 years but I decided to send her a message telling her that I wanted to talk to her then but I had a girlfriend at the time. I apologized for ignoring her. I said many nice things about her too and they weren't about her body or anything. She is completely ignoring my message. No response at all. I thought she would've been happy to talk to me and happy that I apologized and let her know that I liked her then. Why is she ignoring me? Is she ignoring me because I ignored her and now she's getting even? Does she just not like me now for whatever reason? Did I come off as creepy by finding her on myspace?
please any serious feedback will be appreciated
you know i dont visit this board often but i feel bad for this kid so let me throw in my thing,,erase it when hes done reading
wanocki my friend
do you remember when your girlygirl jumped on the wall? that was your time to get her,,even shy guys can talk to pretty girls when the pretty girls do a first move,, and she did MAJOR first moves,,you seemed to not show interest and made her feel like you are out of her leage,,it works my friend,,it works well,,pretty girls cant read your heart,,they dont know you were shy and was intimidated by their looks,,most of them dont know they look that good to begin with,,
if you wanted her that was your time,,to get a chic like that you most likley would have had to touch her pretty fast after initial introduction,,you always get a girl by eye contact and touch,,it was out of your character at that time,,
she wont get with you,,in her head she is less than what you want,,no internet words will be able to fix it unless you met her and talked to her face to face and touched!!!! her ,, even then 99% it wont work,,move on and learn for next time as much as it hurt
pretty girls are not aware of how pretty they are! ,,remember that for next time and do the move
