Medford is white like white on rice, albino white
Medford is white, but has blue eyes.
That's a deal-breaker in the land of DIV.
Once again you miss the boat. It's not about being fearful. It's about not liking nosey people. When I meet someone for the first time whether it be male or female, I don't immediately start interrogating them. So, I don't expect it to be done to me.
Tell me Jag, what do I have to gain by revealing my private affairs to a complete stranger?
As far as your confrontation question, men tend to be more respectful than women because men realize that they can get KTFO.
I go against the grain in this respect.
I won't even bother talking to a woman I don't find attractive, nor answer her questions.
What's the point?
If I'm engaging and answering it means I think she has potential, in which case I'll answer just about anything.
I'm not worried about being "
KTFO" because at that point it's about me, not her and either she will accept who I am or she won't.
It also works both ways.
If I don't like the answers I'm getting or her intelligence, body language etc., I'll end the conversation and move on.
I do have a specific type (pale), but even if I find it, there's no way I'm going to settle if I don't like her.
In that same fastion, I wouldn't have sex with a blond, tan girl even if she flirted shamelessly.
There's no point in it for me.
DIV