Some day?
I know many middle-class blacks now. The "black community" views them negatively and call them "oreos".
And the middle class blacks, the smart ones at least, want nothing to do with the majority "black community" and their gangsta-wanna-be's. Like everyone else, they think they're just a bunch of stupid niggers.
When Condoleeza Rice and Clarence Thomas are criticized by people in the black community it has more to do with their POLITICS and ideologies than the fact that they are successful. Whites from opposing parties are not above criticizing each other. Many republicans stooped to attacking the "American-ness" of democrats, post 9-11 if the President was questioned. The situation involving Condi and Clarence is no different.
An overwhelming majority of blacks are democrats. Smart, successful black democrats- even "the good, clean ones" that white people like - are admired in the community.
Cases in point- people like Corey Booker and Barrack Obama.
Barrack, the middle-class, Harvard educated lawyer, has a wide base of support from the black community ( and just to point out that blacks are not necessarily voting by the race card, Hilary's support is actually a little higher.)
Then there's Corey Booker, the Yale educated, middle class mayor of the mostly black city of Newark. He has a favorable Q rating among blacks from across the nation. After a failed mayoral run a few years ago, Booker secured the mayoral seat during the last election with more than 70% of the vote.
These are just a few examples: You've got guys like Harold Ford, H. Carl McCall, "clean cut" politicians who enjoy alot of support from both whites and blacks . Oprah is one of the most successful PEOPLE ever, whose empire goes well beyond entertainment, and despite what 50 Cents says, I dare you to find a young black woman who does not idolize her.
You can probably find online examples of any of these folks being called "Uncle Toms" or sellouts, but that's just anecdotal. There's always gonna be ig'nant fools. I can probably find a good many examples of them being called "####" or worse by whites.
I say all of this to say that I don't agree with your assertion that there is a backlash against upwardly mobile blacks from the majority of the black community. I'm sure you know what you know and there's no way for me tell you what you know, but my experiences with blacks have been a lot different than yours.