.....of what I was talking about in the Trainer thread.
One of my clients told me about her soon to be ex-husband's premature ejaculation issue which precluded her from achieving orgasm during the tenure of their marriage.
I told her it was a mental block and had nothing to do with her persay, but probably stemmed from his upbrining in a repressive Christian household.
He had been the only man she'd had sex with, so she'd never experienced orgasm and no matter what tips she gave him, nothing worked.
Her response to me......."he tried".....
My response to her........"
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I feel bad for men who have neithe the equipment nor ability to please a female, because it should be innate, something you learn along the way.
I shake my head and tell her that she'll need to find a man who is experienced sexually if she ever wants to see what an orgasm is like...........get the feeling she's almost looking to me for that.
A subtle case of transference, but I'm only trying to mentor her, not have sex with her.
The hard part would be telling her no if she makes it clear later she wants sex from me.
DIV