thats the problem though hedge islam in its True form is COMPLETELY INCOMPATIBLE with democracy or the western way of life in general. we can try all the diplomacy we want. it wont change them. its NOT gonna happen no matter how hard bush tries.
also islam was a unifying force in the region LONG before oil or any form of western intrusions
Look, I'm not saying we should give in to Muslims, bend our laws to fit their culture. Of course not.
But it's been proven over and over again that aggression, confrontation, is only going to create more fundamentalist Muslims, and those Muslims who are of less faith, ie more moderate and modern, they will decrease in number.
The right way to go about it is to reach out to democratic and feminist elements in these cultures, small as they may seem. And help them.
But never support the enemy's enemy, if he's un-democratic.
Don't replace a dictator with another one.
Also, there is plenty of research on what will help democracy: organisations, clubs of different sorts (sports, culture, music). Help organise such activities in these countries. That will build the foundation for democracy and equality.
And of course, help re-build or build up their economy without plundering.
I hope Iraq will nationalize all the oil resources, and use them to build up the country again.
Russia has been able to turn around a lot of its economy due to its natural resources.
Norway is maybe the richest country in the world, and they own all their own natural resources.