I am still trying to figure Bay out.
There are different kinds of gays out there, and he is one of the kind who is probably not too gay acting, and likes to hang out with straight guys.
I know a few gays like that and they are nice guys. Where it gets aquward though is when they start telling you stuff, like "I'm not really gay, but there was this guy that I fucked last weekend and he ...". That's the kind of stuff I prefer not to hear.
So I wonder if there is a kind of category of gay that likes to genenerally hang out with normal guys, do normal stuff like working out, having beers etc, but then also enjoys making guys feel squeemish when he tells gay stories, but then pretends to be worried that he might offend us, when really he is enjoying all the attention.