Maybe it's me, but I can tell the people that are at the gym to "socialize" and the ones that are there to get a serious workout and get the fuck out of there, and it seems to me that the chicks your describing are the ones that don't want to socialize at all. Then theres always the "front desk dudes" that are there everyday trying to pick up the chicks that work at the desk day in and day out, it never fails, and these dudes never get the digits......please don't be "that guy" Mon of Steele.