Exactly what I was talking about. That's just wrong.
Getting divorced is OK if it's early enough... I mean, kids you're gonna pay for either way, so that's not the issue... It's losing what you worked for, and if you divorce EARLY enough... like before 35, then you still have your things... It's those who get married and accumulate things for a long period of time that get totally screwed.
oh, and in the divorce... your friends wife won't be able to keep that house if she can't afford it.
Ask my Ex how difficult it is for her to get a house now?
She will probably rent for the rest of her life.