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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #25 on: March 28, 2009, 12:13:50 AM »
I think the following two excerpts have to be read together:

Can a make take fire to his bosom,
And his clothes not be burned?
Can one walk on hot coals,
And his feet not be seared?


Proverbs 6:27-29

Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding;
He who does so destroys his own soul.
Wounds and dishonor he will get,
And his reproach will not be wiped away.


Proverbs 6:32-33

This is one promise that I see materialize on a regular basis.  How many times have you heard about a man who cheats on his wife and gets caught and outed?  Sometimes it takes a while, but they always get caught.  Just think about some of the public figures:  Clinton, Spitzer (NY Gov), Cosby, the Detroit Mayor, Newsome (SF Mayor), the LA Mayor, Dr. J, Jesse Jackson, Kobe, Stray-Rod.  The list is endless.  Our governor's chief of staff resigned a couple years ago over a problem that originated with an affair. 

I think it starts with "playing with fire" and ends with wound and dishonor.  Anytime a Christian friend talks to me about creeping, I tell them about these verses.         

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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #26 on: March 28, 2009, 09:48:27 AM »
I think the following two excerpts have to be read together:

Can a make take fire to his bosom,
And his clothes not be burned?
Can one walk on hot coals,
And his feet not be seared?


Proverbs 6:27-29

Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding;
He who does so destroys his own soul.
Wounds and dishonor he will get,
And his reproach will not be wiped away.


Proverbs 6:32-33

This is one promise that I see materialize on a regular basis.  How many times have you heard about a man who cheats on his wife and gets caught and outed?  Sometimes it takes a while, but they always get caught.  Just think about some of the public figures:  Clinton, Spitzer (NY Gov), Cosby, the Detroit Mayor, Newsome (SF Mayor), the LA Mayor, Dr. J, Jesse Jackson, Kobe, Stray-Rod.  The list is endless.  Our governor's chief of staff resigned a couple years ago over an problem that originated with a affair. 

I think it starts with "playing with fire" and ends with wound and dishonor.  Anytime a Christian friend talks to me about creeping, I tell them about these verses.         

I think that applies to anyone.  They always end up getting caught at some point.

But, Anthony Robbins can teach you how to walk on hot coals and not get your feet burned, yet he too was busted by his wife for cheating  ;D

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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #27 on: March 28, 2009, 11:14:32 AM »
I think that applies to anyone.  They always end up getting caught at some point.

But, Anthony Robbins can teach you how to walk on hot coals and not get your feet burned, yet he too was busted by his wife for cheating  ;D

True, except it seems like that message is more for men, because they are routinely embarrassed.  Don't hear about women nearly as much. 

You leave Anthony Robbins alone.  I've read two of his books.  He also did an okay job in Shallow Hal.  :)  But if he was outed for cheating on his wife then I'll say Proverbs strikes again.   :)

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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #28 on: March 28, 2009, 01:45:40 PM »
I'll testify to that.   :)

As will I!!!!

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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #29 on: March 28, 2009, 01:48:28 PM »
No, I'm not a parent, but I was a child, and my parents did not beat me, but did whipped me with a belt, or with a wooden spoon, or slapped my mouth if I disrespected them.  That's not beating.  It never left a mark or caused any damage to me, but it did put me in line.  I thank them for that, and always will.

My brothers and I all turned out to be law abiding citizen.

I am a parent. And I understand this verse quite well, which is why Deicide's quip is even more ridiculous than they appear on its face.

Spoken like someone who has never lived in the south and been beaten with a switch (stick).   :)

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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #30 on: March 28, 2009, 05:38:50 PM »
True, except I it seems like that message is more for men, because they are routinely embarrassed.  Don't hear about women nearly as much. 

You leave Anthony Robbins alone.  I've read two of his books.  He also did an okay job in Shallow Hal.  :)  But if he was outed for cheating on his wife then I'll say Proverbs strikes again.   :)

Was he exercising "certainty" that he wasn't going to get caught?

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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #31 on: March 28, 2009, 05:49:26 PM »
Was he exercising "certainty" that he wasn't going to get caught?

Nah.  He was probably just your garden variety horndog who couldn't keep his pants up. 

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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #32 on: March 29, 2009, 03:45:49 PM »
OK I'll beat you all to this one



Proverbs 21:9

Better to live on a corner of the roof
than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.


Not a wise proverb to quote to one's wife during a heated discussion. 
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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #33 on: March 29, 2009, 03:49:45 PM »
The proverb every GetBigger should memorize:

A fool's lips enter into contention, and his mouth calleth for strokes. (Prov 18:6 KJV)

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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #34 on: March 29, 2009, 04:32:21 PM »
I still like the one about beating your kid with a rod...good stuff...
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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #35 on: March 29, 2009, 07:39:04 PM »
I still like the one about beating your kid with a rod...good stuff...

ah yes, the religion of convenience....

But still there's lots of good stuff about it.   :)

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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #36 on: March 30, 2009, 12:57:22 AM »
I like this one because you get to beat the crap out of your kid as long as he doesn't die. That is awesome!

"Withhold not correction from a child: for if thou strike him with the rod, he shall not die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and deliver his soul from hell." (Proverbs 23:13-14)




Just to be fair, It could read:  "Withhold not discipline from a child: for if thou discipline , he shall not die. Thou shalt discipline  him  and deliver his soul from hell."





The Scriptures warn against CHILD ABUSE. While encouraging parents to bring up their children "in the discipline and mental-regulating of God," the apostle Paul warns: "Do not be irritating your children." (Eph. 6:4) In another place Paul counseled: "You fathers, do not be exasperating your children." (Col. 3:21) This would rule out BRUTAL BEATINGS or other physical torture, as well as badgering youngsters by continually screaming at them, belittling them or subjecting them to other psychological indignities. As a pattern of conduct pleasing to God the Bible points to the parent who "cherishes" and is "gentle' with the little ones. (1 Thess. 2:7).

I have read other renderings of (Proverbs 23:13,14) that use the word "punish" instead of, "beat". Obviously, the Bible doesn't teach parents to literally "BEAT" their children into a state of abuse.  :o



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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #37 on: March 30, 2009, 01:53:55 AM »







The Scriptures warn against CHILD ABUSE. While encouraging parents to bring up their children "in the discipline and mental-regulating of God," the apostle Paul warns: "Do not be irritating your children." (Eph. 6:4) In another place Paul counseled: "You fathers, do not be exasperating your children." (Col. 3:21) This would rule out brutal beatings or other physical torture, as well as badgering youngsters by continually screaming at them, belittling them or subjecting them to other psychological indignities. As a pattern of conduct pleasing to God the Bible points to the parent who "cherishes" and is "gentle' with the little ones. (1 Thess. 2:7).

I have read other renderings of (Proverbs 23:13,14) that use the word "punish" instead of, "beat". Obviously, the Bible doesn't teach parents to literally "BEAT" their children into a state of abuse.  :o



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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #38 on: March 30, 2009, 01:57:06 AM »
Muck of contradictions...


Uh huh.


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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #39 on: March 30, 2009, 02:53:13 AM »
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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #40 on: March 30, 2009, 07:09:31 AM »







The Scriptures warn against CHILD ABUSE. While encouraging parents to bring up their children "in the discipline and mental-regulating of God," the apostle Paul warns: "Do not be irritating your children." (Eph. 6:4) In another place Paul counseled: "You fathers, do not be exasperating your children." (Col. 3:21) This would rule out BRUTAL BEATINGS or other physical torture, as well as badgering youngsters by continually screaming at them, belittling them or subjecting them to other psychological indignities. As a pattern of conduct pleasing to God the Bible points to the parent who "cherishes" and is "gentle' with the little ones. (1 Thess. 2:7).

I have read other renderings of (Proverbs 23:13,14) that use the word "punish" instead of, "beat". Obviously, the Bible doesn't teach parents to literally "BEAT" their children into a state of abuse.  :o



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Strike, beat, punish.................  the point is using a "rod"   That's child abuse.

The Bible teaches chid abuse and warns against it.

business as usual.


Do not be irritating vs. "punishing" with a rod?   LMAO

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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #41 on: March 30, 2009, 04:32:35 PM »
Strike, beat, punish.................  the point is using a "rod"   That's child abuse.

The Bible teaches chid abuse and warns against it.

business as usual.

To many people disagree with this, including myself. It's clear to reasonable people as to what the Bible is teaching in this subject matter. Maybe pray a sincere prayer and ask for the "wisdom of Solomon".

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Do not be irritating vs. "punishing" with a rod?   LMAO

It sounds like you are trying to force your own teaching, rather than what the Bible teaches. Again, if you are really sincere about your belief in God, then ask for His guidance.



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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #42 on: March 30, 2009, 06:30:11 PM »
To many people disagree with this, including myself. It's clear to reasonable people as to what the Bible is teaching in this subject matter. Maybe pray a sincere prayer and ask for the "wisdom of Solomon".

It's clear to me, its suggested meaning.  Read at the beginning of the thread.   I'm just talking about "what it says"literally", because there are a great many people who believe  the bible is the literal word of God.  They like to use this literal translation when talking about the bible while preaching, witnessing, condemning, etc...   :)  So i think it's important, that we are clear on it.  Don't you?

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It sounds like you are trying to force your own teaching, rather than what the Bible teaches. Again, if you are really sincere about your belief in God, then ask for His guidance.

Not at all.  I'm using the english definitions of the words used.  They are not my teaching. 

What are you using?

Beating someone with a rod VERSUS  irritating someone.

Is that what prayer does GC?  Does it make me ignore the meaning of words?

PS:  This is from my dictionary on my mac:

exasperate |igˈzaspəˌrāt|
verb [ trans. ]
irritate intensely; infuriate : this futile process exasperates prison officials | [as adj. ] ( exasperated) she grew exasperated with his inability to notice anything | [as adj. ] ( exasperating) they suffered a number of exasperating setbacks.

irritate |ˈiriˌtāt|
verb [ trans. ]
make (someone) annoyed, impatient, or angry : his tone irritated her | [ intrans. ] his voice tends to irritate | [as adj. ] ( irritating) highly irritating remarks.
• cause inflammation or other discomfort in (a part of the body).
• Biology stimulate (an organism, cell, or organ) to produce an active response.

punish |ˈpəni sh |
verb [ trans. ]
inflict a penalty or sanction on (someone) as retribution for an offense, esp. a transgression of a legal or moral code : I have done wrong and I'm being punished for it.
• inflict a penalty or sanction on someone for (such an offense) : fraudulent acts would be punished by up to two years in prison.
• treat (someone) in an unfairly harsh way : a rise in prescription charges would punish the poor.
• [usu. as adj. ] ( punishing) subject (someone or something) to severe and debilitating treatment : the recession was having a punishing effect on our business.

beating |ˈbēti ng |
noun
1 a punishment or assault in which the victim is hit repeatedly : if he got dirt on his clothes, he'd get a beating | torture methods included beating.
2 pulsation or throbbing, typically of the heart.
3 a defeat in a competitive situation.

rod |räd|
noun
1 a thin straight bar, esp. of wood or metal.
• a wand or staff as a symbol of office, authority, or power.
• a slender straight stick or shoot growing on or cut from a tree or bush.
a stick used for caning or flogging.
• ( the rod) the use of such a stick as punishment : if you'd been my daughter, you'd have felt the rod.
• vulgar slang a penis.
2 a fishing rod.
3 historical a linear measure, esp. for land, equal to 51/2yards (approximately 5.029 m).
• (also square rod) a square measure, esp. for land, equal to 160th of an acre or 301/4square yards (approximately 25.29 sq m).
4 informal a pistol or revolver.

I wonder what definition of the word "rod" do you think the bible was talking GC?

At the very minimum, it's a contradiction if your irritating/exasperating definition were to apply.

If God was speaking clear he'd have just said:  Don't beat your child with a rod, it's abusive.  And the proverb even suggests not to worry about killing your child if you beat/punish him with a rod.  But to say:  irritate or exasperate?  Come on, could he be anymore vague and ambiguous?

Maybe he should follow his own advice:

He that hath knowledge spareth his words.
Proverbs, 17. 27

Disclaimer:  I very much believe in God.   :)

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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #43 on: March 30, 2009, 08:35:11 PM »
Oh good grief.  This was supposed to be a positive thread. 

That said, no the verse in Proverbs is not promoting child abuse.  That's silly.  Discipline is subjective.  Abuse to one parent might be plain old reprimands to another.  One parent might think slapping a kid in the mouth is abuse.  Another might not hesitate to smack a kid in the mouth if he is being disrespectful.  Some think any form of corporal punishment is abuse.  Others will use belts, shoes, or anything they can get their hands on to spank the kid.  Some of it is cultural too.  Remember the American kid from Singapore who got caned for graffiti?  Would never happen in this country. 

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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #44 on: March 30, 2009, 09:38:26 PM »
Oh good grief.  This was supposed to be a positive thread. 

That said, no the verse in Proverbs is not promoting child abuse.  That's silly.  Discipline is subjective.  Abuse to one parent might be plain old reprimands to another.  One parent might think slapping a kid in the mouth is abuse.  Another might not hesitate to smack a kid in the mouth if he is being disrespectful.  Some think any form of corporal punishment is abuse.  Others will use belts, shoes, or anything they can get their hands on to spank the kid.  Some of it is cultural too.  Remember the American kid from Singapore who got caned for graffiti?  Would never happen in this country. 


The verse is from proverbs.  I didn't put the verse there or chose its words.  Sorry proverbs isn't 100% positive.

I think beating a kid with a rod would surely earn a visit from CPS. 

That being said, the verse is VERY positive if you don't take it literally.   :)

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« Reply #45 on: March 31, 2009, 09:57:20 AM »
The verse is from proverbs.  I didn't put the verse there or chose its words.  Sorry proverbs isn't 100% positive.

I think beating a kid with a rod would surely earn a visit from CPS. 

That being said, the verse is VERY positive if you don't take it literally.   :)

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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #46 on: March 31, 2009, 10:58:25 AM »
Oak or Mahagony? :D

How about fiber glass to be more in the times?

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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #47 on: March 31, 2009, 11:10:20 AM »
The verse is from proverbs.  I didn't put the verse there or chose its words.  Sorry proverbs isn't 100% positive.

I think beating a kid with a rod would surely earn a visit from CPS. 

That being said, the verse is VERY positive if you don't take it literally.   :)

By "positive" I meant conveying words of wisdom, not the endless parsing of verses by people who obviously don't believe what they read.  Which makes me question why you and others read the Bible.  Your only goal appears to be to find supposed contradictions.  But hey it's only a message board.   :)

I take the verse literally.  It's telling you to discipline your kid.  If you put it in context, the "rod" is the equivalent of today's belt, or the "rod" used by many parents in the South.  I know of many a kid who had to "pick a switch" (i.e., a "rod") for a good old fashioned spanking.  And as I said, the "rod" is used on adults in Singapore.     
   

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« Reply #48 on: March 31, 2009, 11:20:54 AM »
By "positive" I meant conveying words of wisdom, not the endless parsing of verses by people who obviously don't believe what they read.  Which makes me question why you and others read the Bible.  Your only goal appears to be to find supposed contradictions.  But hey it's only a message board.   :)

I take the verse literally.  It's telling you to discipline your kid.  If you put it in context, the "rod" is the equivalent of today's belt, or the "rod" used by many parents in the South.  I know of many a kid who had to "pick a switch" (i.e., a "rod") for a good old fashioned spanking.  And as I said, the "rod" is used on adults in Singapore.     
   

Taking the verse literally would mean using a rod.  Seeing the verse for what it means would mean disciplining your child.





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Re: Proverbs
« Reply #49 on: March 31, 2009, 11:23:19 AM »
Taking the verse literally would mean using a rod.  Seeing the verse for what it means would mean disciplining your child.






Taking it literally means spanking your kid.  It didn't say "belt" because they didn't wear them when the verse was written.