people aren't ment to screw same person forever

[big L dawg]

when are people gonna realize this.human beings have a genetic predisposition to spread there seed.I'm sick of hearing all this shit in the news about this person having an affair,or that couple is getting a divorce.Like this latest shit with Gov.Sanford.or the whole john & Kate shit.everyone just shut the fuck up...people don't want to fuck the same person there entire lives.get over it.and you suckers for love that think you and your wife,girlfriend are different...no your not.It's in a bitches DNA to always move up the Alpha male latter.More $,more muscle,more security,more everything.And guys...please don't even start.they can't get enough pussy it's in our genetic makeup.......meltdown bitches.

[Mars]

[Matterhorn]

Thanks for the valuable input. Now I make a Power Point presentation for my girl friend. I'm sure she'll understand.

[lax]

Marriage, for many, is the breeding ground of tragedy.

Your wife has the unilateral power to simply
one day
awken, turn to you in bed and say:

"I don't know what I want..."

"I need some time..."

"Give me some space..."

All of which= you have already gotten the 'heave-ho', and she is banging elsewehere.

And

she deprives you of all of your possessions

not good business

[Mars]

[uberman09]

if you are impressionable and watch too much tv, have very poor understanding of the human spirit and poor communication skills like most people in occident nowadays you are more prone to cheat or be cheated on by the woman you live with.

Basically the supidest, the more superficial you are, the lesser are the chances you'll ever be able to build and maintain an healthy relationship with a woman.

The smartest men on earth often have the skill to live with the same woman for their whole life. Because they have superior communication skills. Everything can be solved by communicating and convincing other people. These people also often develop a strong capacity to check themselves, to question themselves. They dont just ask othe rpeople to change but they are also able to change themselves, even if they dont look like they do.
Also, creating, maintaining a sane and positive relationship with someone becomes more and more productive the longer the relationship lasts.

But again, not everyone has the capacities to do so.

A lot of people involved into bodybuilding/fitness also often think that they re body is everything and that because they have a nice looking body it means they don't have to muscle their brains.
A lot of stupid people also think that the most important things in life are money, looks and for most on here, muscles.

When in fact it's your communication skills that allow you to get what you need and be satisfied with it on all levels.


It's pretty annoying to read the comments/ lame one liners on the subject from people who think on the subject mainly with what they see on TV .

There are strong minded people who build life long relationships and they get rarer by the day. You just dont hear/see em a lot because nowadays it's all about consuming people liek you consume material goods.
People throw each others thru the windows for nothing just because they sometimes face the fact that you have to work with the person you live with to go ahead of your common issues.
But people prefer to flee and start it all again over and over, just because they are not able to change themselves, or transform their relationships and adapt it when needed.

And if you can't get your girl to change, or if you can't get yourself to change when necessary to balance your couple, then you should go read some books.

[Croatch]

Face it, no matter how hot your girl, you always want to nail at least a dozen other pussies you see that day.  Welcome to being a man.  It's rough, but we somehow manage.  Remember, porn doesn't count as cheating.  Nail 10s all day long.

[polychronopolous]

Carpenters screw.

I prefer the term "make love" or "fuck".

[uberman09]

Face it, no matter how hot your girl, you always want to nail at least a dozen other pussies you see that day.  Welcome to being a man.  It's rough, but we somehow manage.  Remember, porn doesn't count as cheating.  Nail 10s all day long.

this constant attraction to different things /people is only promoted by the modern world we live in. If you look at the sources that motivate people to look elsewhere, wether we're talking about buying new stuff or develop a strong desire for someone else,  it's always TV, movies etc.

Porn is absolutely not the answer, as it is part of the problem. Long term and constant porn viewing deeply alters your mind in the long run. Being quite a recent phenomena , it is abolutely certain that in some decades (psychological) studies on generations of "users" will point how bad its influence is and how bad it affects relationships between men and women.

When people had no accesses to all these medias constantly promoting adultery, drama and deviant behaviors, they were a lot less prone to reproduce these behaviors or cognitive schemes. The current modern society is the reason number one why people keep feeding themselves unconsciously with very bad influences on a daily basis.

Most people nowadays think life is all about instant satisfaction, and that a relationship is all about sex and money.  That's because it is exactly the message sent 24/7 by TV and medias. This is also what sells best. That everything is either black, or white, and that if it doesnt work, why fix it? just go to the "supermarket" and pick a different person/experience. You can't build anything doing this over and over, but it's exactly the kind of behavior that the occidental society promotes. Our moden occidental societies are factories that produce schyzoid people. We re building our own despair.

Often you hear people saying that what they re doing is ok , cause "everyone else does it" and because it's what they see on TV.

Take a look at how loyal people are in third world countries, where being stable and trustworthy toward your couple, familly and community is still deeply important.

That's because everythign is way too easy, that's because people are spoiled in occident, that they forgot about all these values and keep destroying em on a daily basis. It's no wonder the shock between people from other parts of the world where values are still important and spoiled occidentals is and will become increasingly violent.

[polychronopolous]

Show me a hot woman and I will show you someone who is tired of fucking her.

[Army of One]

this constant attraction to different things /people is only promoted by the modern world we live in. If you look at the sources that motivate people to look elsewhere, wether we're talking about buying new stuff or develop a strong desire for someone else,  it's always TV, movies etc.

Porn is absolutely not the answer, as it is part of the problem. Long term and constant porn viewing deeply alters your mind in the long run. Being quite a recent phenomena , it is abolutely certain that in some decades (psychological) studies on generations of "users" will point how bad its influence is and how bad it affects relationships between men and women.

When people had no accesses to all these medias constantly promoting adultery, drama and deviant behaviors, they were a lot less prone to reproduce these behaviors or cognitive schemes. The current modern society is the reason number one why people keep feeding themselves unconsciously with very bad influences on a daily basis.

Most people nowadays think life is all about instant satisfaction, and that a relationship is all about sex and money.  That's because it is exactly the message sent 24/7 by TV and medias. This is also what sells best. That everything is either black, or white, and that if it doesnt work, why fix it? just go to the "supermarket" and pick a different person/experience. You can't build anything doing this over and over, but it's exactly the kind of behavior that the occidental society promotes. Our moden occidental societies are factories that produce schyzoid people. We re building our own despair.

Often you hear people saying that what they re doing is ok , cause "everyone else does it" and because it's what they see on TV.

Take a look at how loyal people are in third world countries, where being stable and trustworthy toward your couple, familly and community is still deeply important.

That's because everythign is way too easy, that's because people are spoiled in occident, that they forgot about all these values and keep destroying em on a daily basis. It's no wonder the shock between people from other parts of the world where values are still important and spoiled occidentals is and will become increasingly violent.

Your arguments are great and very on the nail but too intelligent to be posted here.

[Matterhorn]

Show me a hot woman and I will show you someone who is tired of fucking her.

Well said!

[kiwiol]

Who you "screw" is an act of choice, so it's silly to talk about what is "meant to be" in this context. There are people who stay with one person their whole life, just like there are others who go through many partners - whether they are happy or sad or content or miserable or faithful or a cheat depends on a whole lot of circumstances that varies from person to person, time to time and relationship to relationship.

Like any other human behavioral trait, relationships and people's view of them as well as what they get out of them runs the whole gamut.

[polychronopolous]

Well said!

 

polychronopolous the Greek Philosopher!!

[uberman09]

Show me a hot woman and I will show you someone who is tired of fucking her.

Show me a "hot" man and...

it obviously means you cant just feed yourself with the body or money of someone else, more important things have to happen/take place between a man and a woman. Like.... discussions and constant self questionning with the help of each other. A strong, shared Will to better each other too. This is how a man learn to become a real man and a woman also learns how to become a real woman. And how they should both learn how to become useful parents.


answers to all the questions are into educating yourself reading some philosophy/psychology related books, all of this is very old and the solutions have always been the same. Think by yourself, become conscious of the conditionings that make you ruin your own life folowing bad principles everyoen else follow because it's the "norm" .  Again it's just another proof that you can get as muscular/ good looking/rich you want, if you're not smart enough you're going to miss a lot important of things that only reading/thinking can allow you to access to.

Hapiness, alone or living with someone, can only be accessed by self questionning instead of following massively and deeply spread trends without any after thoughts.

[big L dawg]

if you are impressionable and watch too much tv, have very poor understanding of the human spirit and poor communication skills like most people in occident nowadays you are more prone to cheat or be cheated on by the woman you live with.

Basically the supidest, the more superficial you are, the lesser are the chances you'll ever be able to build and maintain an healthy relationship with a woman.

The smartest men on earth often have the skill to live with the same woman for their whole life. Because they have superior communication skills. Everything can be solved by communicating and convincing other people. These people also often develop a strong capacity to check themselves, to question themselves. They dont just ask othe rpeople to change but they are also able to change themselves, even if they dont look like they do.
Also, creating, maintaining a sane and positive relationship with someone becomes more and more productive the longer the relationship lasts.

But again, not everyone has the capacities to do so.

A lot of people involved into bodybuilding/fitness also often think that they re body is everything and that because they have a nice looking body it means they don't have to muscle their brains.
A lot of stupid people also think that the most important things in life are money, looks and for most on here, muscles.

When in fact it's your communication skills that allow you to get what you need and be satisfied with it on all levels.


It's pretty annoying to read the comments/ lame one liners on the subject from people who think on the subject mainly with what they see on TV .

There are strong minded people who build life long relationships and they get rarer by the day. You just dont hear/see em a lot because nowadays it's all about consuming people liek you consume material goods.
People throw each others thru the windows for nothing just because they sometimes face the fact that you have to work with the person you live with to go ahead of your common issues.
But people prefer to flee and start it all again over and over, just because they are not able to change themselves, or transform their relationships and adapt it when needed.

And if you can't get your girl to change, or if you can't get yourself to change when necessary to blance your couple, then you should go read some books.

I've lived with my girlfriend for quite a few years my friend.And I know family and friends that have coexisted with there spouse for decades.....not sure what that has to do with having sex with the same person for your entire life though.

[Matterhorn]

Show me a "hot" man and...

it obviously means you cant just feed yourself with the body or money of someone else, more important things have to happen/take place between a man and a woman. Like.... discussions and constant self questionning with the help of each other.


answers to all the questions are into educating yourself reading some philosophy/psychology related books, all of this is very old and the solutions have always been the same. Think by yourself, become conscious of the conditionings that make you ruin your own life folowing bad principles everyoen else follow because it's the "norm" .  Again it's just another proof that you can get as muscular/ good looking/rich you want, if you're not smart enough you're going to miss a lot important of things that only reading/thinking can allow you to access to.

Hapiness, alone or living with someone, can only be accessed by self questionning instead of following massively and deeply spread trends without any after thoughts.

Women who read are hot.

[noworries]

Tell Goodrum that

[ksa_triceps]

great posts uberman09.

I'm monogamous and lovin' it!
IMO men are less influenced by the media when it comes to relationships. they tend to cope/settle with what they have once they reach a certain level. i may be wrong but that's how i see it.

[tbombz]

New pussy is always superior to old pussy, as long as all the other variables are equal.

[StickStickly]

this constant attraction to different things /people is only promoted by the modern world we live in. If you look at the sources that motivate people to look elsewhere, wether we're talking about buying new stuff or develop a strong desire for someone else,  it's always TV, movies etc.

Porn is absolutely not the answer, as it is part of the problem. Long term and constant porn viewing deeply alters your mind in the long run. Being quite a recent phenomena , it is abolutely certain that in some decades (psychological) studies on generations of "users" will point how bad its influence is and how bad it affects relationships between men and women.

When people had no accesses to all these medias constantly promoting adultery, drama and deviant behaviors, they were a lot less prone to reproduce these behaviors or cognitive schemes. The current modern society is the reason number one why people keep feeding themselves unconsciously with very bad influences on a daily basis.

Most people nowadays think life is all about instant satisfaction, and that a relationship is all about sex and money.  That's because it is exactly the message sent 24/7 by TV and medias. This is also what sells best. That everything is either black, or white, and that if it doesnt work, why fix it? just go to the "supermarket" and pick a different person/experience. You can't build anything doing this over and over, but it's exactly the kind of behavior that the occidental society promotes. Our moden occidental societies are factories that produce schyzoid people. We re building our own despair.

Often you hear people saying that what they re doing is ok , cause "everyone else does it" and because it's what they see on TV.

Take a look at how loyal people are in third world countries, where being stable and trustworthy toward your couple, familly and community is still deeply important.

That's because everythign is way too easy, that's because people are spoiled in occident, that they forgot about all these values and keep destroying em on a daily basis. It's no wonder the shock between people from other parts of the world where values are still important and spoiled occidentals is and will become increasingly violent.

Uberman with some laser like precision here owning all the tv drones.

[uberman09]

knowing deeply the same person you spent decades with is also beneficial to both your own survival, and this is how it was meant to be in the first place.

[big L dawg]

great posts uberman09.

I'm monogamous and lovin' it!
IMO men are less influenced by the media when it comes to relationships. they tend to cope/settle with what they have once they reach a certain level. i may be wrong but that's how i see it.

sooooooo.......you've only had sex with one girl?

[big L dawg]

how bout you Uberman...One lifetime partner?

[uberman09]

how bout you Uberman...One lifetime partner?

two. And a lot of good books.