Hi Stella, you've been like a big sister (and even mother) for many of us. I have 2 questions I need your help with.
1- My neighbour has a cute dog. The dog seems to like me very much, allways runs at me, jumps the fence, straight for my crotch then face (they do that). She (the dog) doesn't seem to care much for the owner and he has made the remark a couple of times but today I could feel resentment and jealousy when she ran straight in my garage. He even said "she must care for big muscles bastards but not so much for losers like me". I told him not to be so hard on himself. I suspect he abuses her or worse.
My dogs love some of my neighbors and will run to them too when they first spot them but they only stay for a bit of petting (and maybe sniffing) and then run back home. Does this dog do the same or does this guy have to come get her and take her home?
Are you serious that you think this guy could abuse her or worse? Are there any marks on her like cuts or scars?
If it were me and I really thought that guy was abusing her I would ask him if he abuses his dog. If he said no then I would probably sneak around my house peering out my windows through a crack in the curtains and spy on him like Gladys Cravitts w/my video camera over the course of a few days. If I saw something I'd run out there and put a stop to it and call the cops and the Humane Society.
2- I noticed my girl has been getting a little chunky lately, I do love her more than life itself and am the happiest man in the world that she married me, she does hit the gym regularly of the late but the second we get home she hits the starchy carbs and Popsicles. She also won't let me check her out on the scale. Not sure how to approach this either. I'm only concerned for her health because she is stunning no matter what her weight!
Please help.
Maybe when you two get home you can say "Hey baby, lets take a romantic walk!" Then take her on a 10 mile hike and she'll be too tired when she gets home to get into the chips....she'll just want to shower and hit the sack. Then you can give her a nice massage not expecting anything in return and she'll go to sleep w/o having dinner. Do this 4-5 times a week.
janelle read that and will now tell my sister.
uh oh Alex quick edit your post to match my above quote from you