That is what i'm trying to do......don't be a douche bro, seriously.
You are just playing out the string, nothing good will come of it. Do you think you're the first guy who thought he was going to win his ex back?
When women fall out of love with you, it's permanent.....that's how their wired.
What's going to happen is she is going to get tired of your advances, always being all "deep" and talking about change. The other guy isn't like that...he's fun, they laugh and shit....have sex. he puts his tongue up her ass. You are the downer now. accept it
Dude, her and I went to Metallica a couple of weeks ago. All we did was have a good time. At the end of the night she said she missed THIS. I said what's THIS? She said you just be cool and fun and light. She was so impressed as to how I handled myself with her that night that she invited me over for supper the following Saturday night and I got all deep and heavy on her ass when I found out about the new guy, not realizing that up until THAT point I had been recreating some damn fucking attraction in her for me.
I fucking hate being this fucking deep, heavy and serious. I'm actually the fun loving guy normally and that side of me doesn't come out with her right now because I'm pissed, nervous, or down. When I actually don't give A SHIT, I loosed up and she comes nearer, but then I let my damn feelings take over!
That's what's kept her from coming back to me and my buddies said that she stuck around this long because she wanted you to get it fucking right.