I had an epiphany yesterday

[calfzilla]

Epiphany was that it is senseless to have low self esteem, self doubt and to partake in negative self talk.  Instead one needs to be brimming with confidence and feel that they are attractive, smart and highly capable.  Looking down on yourself serves you to no avail!  You think highly of yourself for much better results!  Tell yourself, "I'm the man" even if in your heart of hearts you don't believe it. 

Examples:  Regarding asking a girl out
  Low self esteem attitude: I'm probably not attractive enough or good enough.  She will probably turn me down and I will be embarassed. 

  High self esteem attitude:  I am the man.  I am very attractive and am confident this chick wants very bad to go out with me.  If she does happen to turn me down it's because she is a crazy messed up bitch that I wouldn't want to get involved with anyway. 

[marty31672]

i agree 100%

another way to do it too is to put things simply

example: applying to a competitive college, tell yourself
"the people that get accepted are the people that apply"

or the hot girl at the party
"the guy she will date is the guy that asks her out"

dont necessarily fixate on the low probability but rather what you know those who have accomplished what you wish to accomplish have done to get to that point

unless you're a pioneer like newton or someone 99% of life is simply imitating those who are already successful

[YoungBlood]

Tell yourself, "I'm the man" even if in your heart of hearts you don't believe it. 

If you really don't believe it, then it will show through no matter how much you tell yourself that you're the man. You could be blue in the face, but everything else about you will tell her that you really feel you don't think your worthy of yourself...so why would you be of her?
She'll sniff you out faster than a bloodhound on a hunt.

[LatsMcGee]

If you don't believe in yourself no one else worth a shit ever will either. 

[webcake]

I thought it was going to be about limiting yourself to only starting 50 threads per day or so.....

[bigdumbbell]

on this day, Jan 6, the 3 wise men saw the Christ child.

[Tapeworm]

I had a tuna sandwich yesterday.

[Samourai Pizzacat]

Epiphany was that it is senseless to have low self esteem, self doubt and to partake in negative self talk.  Instead one needs to be brimming with confidence and feel that they are attractive, smart and highly capable.  Looking down on yourself serves you to no avail!  You think highly of yourself for much better results!  Tell yourself, "I'm the man" even if in your heart of hearts you don't believe it. 

Examples:  Regarding asking a girl out
  Low self esteem attitude: I'm probably not attractive enough or good enough.  She will probably turn me down and I will be embarassed. 

  High self esteem attitude:  I am the man.  I am very attractive and am confident this chick wants very bad to go out with me.  If she does happen to turn me down it's because she is a crazy messed up bitch that I wouldn't want to get involved with anyway. 

Do me a favour and google the term 'self-efficacy'.

[MORTALCOIL]

I had a tuna sandwich yesterday.

If it had "mayonnaise" in it than you might have had an epiphany of a much higher scale than what this thread is about.

[CalvinH]

Flashing a stack of $100s helps.

[Tapeworm]

If it had "mayonnaise" in it than you might have had an epiphany of a much higher scale than what this thread is about.

Mayonnaise: Don't shuffle off to Buffalo without it.

http://freeculinaryschool.com/how-to-make-mayonnaise-aioli-and-their-derivatives/

[tendonitis]

I deserve good things. I am entitled to my share of happiness. I refuse to beat myself up. I am an attractive person. I am fun to be with.  I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and, doggonit, people like me!

[Tapeworm]

I deserve good things. I am entitled to my share of happiness. I refuse to beat myself up. I am an attractive person. I am fun to be with.  I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and, doggonit, people like me!

Yes!  I was trying to remember how this went, Stuart. 

[El Diablo Blanco]

Girls smell fear and insecurity a mile away so unless you believe in yourself and have true confidence then you will still fail and be a loser.

[Spike]

Girls smell fear and insecurity a mile away so unless you believe in yourself and have true confidence then you will still fail and be a loser.

this is true.....just like a dog

but if you are a confident young man.....this female will want you to instill this train of thought in her in someway

whether it be by compliments, gym or the way of the orgasm  

[Hulkotron]

As I've gotten a little older I prefer to let the females come to me.  Going on dates is for betas.

[Spike]

As I've gotten a little older I prefer to let the females come to me.  Going on dates is for betas.

I never go on dates.....i;m always broke

[El Diablo Blanco]

I once fucked a black ckick named Epiphany.  but she spelled it Epiffaknee

[Ursus]

Today was the Feast of the Epiphany.

A holy day of obligation for all Roman catholics in Ireland.

[bigdumbbell]

Today was the Feast of the Epiphany.

A holy day of obligation for all Roman catholics in Ireland.

i went to the 3 Kings Parade this morninghttp://ny1.com/5-manhattan-news-content/top_stories/111557/three-kings-day-parade-winds-its-way-through-harlem

[Ursus]

Looks like a cool family day regardless if religious feast day or not.

[BIG ACH]

I agree it will show if your are not confident deep down inside.

But sometimes "acting" confident will in turn start to make you feel confident on the inside - and this is when you can actually get somewhere!

[benchmstr]

Epiphany was that it is senseless to have low self esteem, self doubt and to partake in negative self talk.  Instead one needs to be brimming with confidence and feel that they are attractive, smart and highly capable.  Looking down on yourself serves you to no avail!  You think highly of yourself for much better results!  Tell yourself, "I'm the man" even if in your heart of hearts you don't believe it. 

Examples:  Regarding asking a girl out
  Low self esteem attitude: I'm probably not attractive enough or good enough.  She will probably turn me down and I will be embarassed. 

  High self esteem attitude:  I am the man.  I am very attractive and am confident this chick wants very bad to go out with me.  If she does happen to turn me down it's because she is a crazy messed up bitch that I wouldn't want to get involved with anyway. 

it took you this long to figure that shit out?.......you sir need to learn from master shake.......

http://video.adultswim.com/aqua-teen-hunger-force/i-am-extremely-motivated.html

http://video.adultswim.com/aqua-teen-hunger-force/im-about-to-whip-it-out.html

http://video.adultswim.com/aqua-teen-hunger-force/carl-shoots-himself.html

http://video.adultswim.com/aqua-teen-hunger-force/the-big-day.html

bench

[tbombz]

does everyone on this forum always go in circles of depression and confidence?? hahaha we always have threads like this...



right on the money calfzilla... you have to believe in your ability to do something before you actually have the ability to do somehting... (most of the time, kinda)

[benchmstr]

does everyone on this forum always go in circles of depression and confidence?? hahaha we always have threads like this...



right on the money calfzilla... you have to believe in your ability to do something before you actually have the ability to do somehting... (most of the time, kinda)

whats bad is i always have the confidence, if anything my confidence is way to high...almost assholish   ...i still get depression, but the confidence is still there...I AM A HYBRID

bench