Tell yourself, "I'm the man" even if in your heart of hearts you don't believe it.
Epiphany was that it is senseless to have low self esteem, self doubt and to partake in negative self talk. Instead one needs to be brimming with confidence and feel that they are attractive, smart and highly capable. Looking down on yourself serves you to no avail! You think highly of yourself for much better results! Tell yourself, "I'm the man" even if in your heart of hearts you don't believe it. Examples: Regarding asking a girl out Low self esteem attitude: I'm probably not attractive enough or good enough. She will probably turn me down and I will be embarassed. High self esteem attitude: I am the man. I am very attractive and am confident this chick wants very bad to go out with me. If she does happen to turn me down it's because she is a crazy messed up bitch that I wouldn't want to get involved with anyway.
I had a tuna sandwich yesterday.
If it had "mayonnaise" in it than you might have had an epiphany of a much higher scale than what this thread is about.
I deserve good things. I am entitled to my share of happiness. I refuse to beat myself up. I am an attractive person. I am fun to be with. I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and, doggonit, people like me!
Girls smell fear and insecurity a mile away so unless you believe in yourself and have true confidence then you will still fail and be a loser.
As I've gotten a little older I prefer to let the females come to me. Going on dates is for betas.
Today was the Feast of the Epiphany.A holy day of obligation for all Roman catholics in Ireland.
does everyone on this forum always go in circles of depression and confidence?? hahaha we always have threads like this... right on the money calfzilla... you have to believe in your ability to do something before you actually have the ability to do somehting... (most of the time, kinda)