well, let's assume that i have a big love muscle and make big money...do i still have to have a personality?
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as long as you have your muscles and money you can be attractive -to superficial people- and that is somewhat a kind of "personality" in itself, just it's a superficial one that attract the same kind of people. Basically you never change the kind of relationships you re in and it can get pretty boring after a while. Might sound reassuring to know what people want from you and what you have to offer, but what if these things you can offer are only based on material goods'? what do you have to offer when you dont own these material goods anymore? You might want to interact with some authentic people once you age but these people wouldnt be atracted to you cause you would be stuck, enslaved in your narrow personality you ve been reinforced over years, decades.
Also if you happen to lose everything on which is deeply rooted your personality, your personality will disapear with it. Basicaly your mental health depends of what you own and offer to others, and if you lose it your mental health starts declining and you enter in a depressive state of mind.
Having a personality that is not based on looks /money means that once you lose them (aging) you still have something singificant, useful to offer to others other than just money. People who have money also often to rely solely on it and have poor communication skills with their loved ones even if they re succesful at work. They produce a lot of spoiled kids who got everything and even more than what they needed on th ematerial plan, but almost nothing or not enough on the emotional plan.
But there are also rich, good looking people who are genuine and interesting, truly compasionate, caring about the others , of course. They re just -a lot- rarer(fewer) than the other kind of personalities i listed above.