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dj181 · « **Reply #4875 on:** May 19, 2013, 09:25:28 AM »

Quote from: DroppingPlates on May 19, 2013, 09:13:38 AM

Find your place in this modern world. There are only now-moments, the past is done.

but what's this mean exactly?

it's a pretty vague statement man

btw, a very dear ladyfriend asked me a rather hard question the other day, and she said something like...

"answer this honestly and be man enough to have the courage to answer it with all your honestly"

whew man! that was rough

you know me with my temporary charm and she knows it too, and she rather sees through my bullshit from time to time

DroppingPlates · « **Reply #4876 on:** May 19, 2013, 09:53:54 AM »

Quote from: dj181 on May 19, 2013, 09:25:28 AM

but what's this mean exactly?

it's a pretty vague statement man

btw, a very dear ladyfriend asked me a rather hard question the other day, and she said something like...

"answer this honestly and be man enough to have the courage to answer it with all your honestly"

whew man! that was rough

you know me with my temporary charm and she knows it too, and she rather sees through my bullshit from time to time

You should thank that woman for being honest. Confrontation is like heavy weight, it will make you grow/get stronger, unless you walk away from it. Sometimes it's good to talk to a woman, like you talk to a man. Just tell it like it is, in just a few words.

Regarding that 'vague statement', do you refer to finding your place? Life in the now, not the past. None of them is 'better' than the other.

dj181 · « **Reply #4877 on:** May 19, 2013, 10:00:28 AM »

Quote from: DroppingPlates on May 19, 2013, 09:53:54 AM

You should thank that woman for being honest. Confrontation is like heavy weight, it will make you grow/get stronger, unless you walk away from it. Sometimes it's good to talk to a woman, like you talk to a man. Just tell it like it is, in just a few words.

Regarding that 'vague statement', do you refer to finding your place? Life in the now, not the past. None of them is 'better' than the other.

i do thank her, but we have a long and difficult past so it's not easy

but i did answer her as best and honest as i could, although i couldn't answer all of it since i don't know for sure myself part of that answer $:-\$

DroppingPlates · « **Reply #4878 on:** May 19, 2013, 10:14:54 AM »

Quote from: dj181 on May 19, 2013, 10:00:28 AM

i do thank her, but we have a long and difficult past so it's not easy

but i did answer her as best and honest as i could, although i couldn't answer all of it since i don't know for sure myself part of that answer $:-\$

In general, relationships/close friendships aren't 'easy', you aren't 15-17 anymore, when everything was fun, no drama.
It's understandable that you can't answer every question, but try to answer them later for yourself.