remember that she's 27. and a teacher.
She's probably itching to find Mr Right. She's looking at 30, has no man and no kids, and no prospects if she's on match.com hitting on getbiggers.
So while she holds the vajj power, you hold the power of being a single 32 year old (with standard getbigger qualities). Treat her as an equal 100%, and you might get some place. At this point, maybe she's looking for a partner with whom to take on the great challenges of life. She wants a MAN she can show off to the other teachers.