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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #175 on: May 18, 2010, 06:42:52 PM »
I like a woman with a little backbone...makes for spirited boning sessions

Any more shots of your current lady, Groink?

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #176 on: May 18, 2010, 06:43:18 PM »
I like a woman with a little backbone...makes for spirited boning sessions

now that is true

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #177 on: May 18, 2010, 06:44:00 PM »
Any more shots of your current lady, Groink?
agreed...

face down, ass up if you could....

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #178 on: May 18, 2010, 06:45:08 PM »
 Wait until she calls you.

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #179 on: May 18, 2010, 06:48:26 PM »
nope....she aint stupid....she said "the only reason you want naked pics of me is to show your stupid friends on that dumb site"  She's got a point.

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #180 on: May 18, 2010, 06:49:51 PM »
nope....she aint stupid....she said "the only reason you want naked pics of me is to show your stupid friends on that dumb site"  She's got a point.

Smart lady

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #181 on: May 18, 2010, 06:51:28 PM »
nope....she aint stupid....she said "the only reason you want naked pics of me is to show your stupid friends on that dumb site"  She's got a point.
Got any more pics of that long hair big titty chick in the dress? Or a repost?

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #182 on: May 18, 2010, 06:53:06 PM »
nope....she aint stupid....she said "the only reason you want naked pics of me is to show your stupid friends on that dumb site"  She's got a point.

Eh, if she will not let you take pics of her.. there are problems.

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #183 on: May 18, 2010, 06:54:57 PM »
Ask yourself what you gain by knowing this information.  Anything?  I would say no.  If she's like "oh I've got a date" which is likely the case, you're just going to fret about it.  Or she'll make up some bullshit and you'll go in circles trying to analyze it.  Why stress yourself?  Just enjoy your get-together, and hopefully plan your own date.

Does it bother you that she's dating other people?  I generally don't bother with girls that aren't into me enough to immediately make me their top choice.

Does it bother me she's dating other people? Well, I met her on a single chat line, designed for that very purpose. We've had a total of one date. Do I expect her to be the virgin mary until she knows that I'm the one for her? Fact of the matter is, I could have asked her out when I was with her on Sunday night. I didn't and so someone else did. Dude, she could have blown me off entirely for tomorrow. I think have a good standing chance with this chick if I play my cards right.

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #184 on: May 18, 2010, 06:55:36 PM »
Yes....because all women are obligated to let their man show naked pics of them to the world LOLOL

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #185 on: May 18, 2010, 06:56:28 PM »
nope....she aint stupid....she said "the only reason you want naked pics of me is to show your stupid friends on that dumb site"  She's got a point.
did you tell her they were for benchmstr.....she might understand if you mention my name.....im kind of a big deal 8)



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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #186 on: May 18, 2010, 06:59:32 PM »
i'm not even telling her i know you dude....i'm not stupid

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #187 on: May 18, 2010, 07:00:21 PM »
i'm not even telling her i know you dude....i'm not stupid
hahahaha.....i love lamp....

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #188 on: May 18, 2010, 07:03:11 PM »
benchmaster has many leather-bound books.

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« Reply #189 on: May 18, 2010, 07:05:35 PM »
benchmaster has many leather-bound books.
and my apartment smells of rich mahogany........"i want to be on you" ;D

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #190 on: May 18, 2010, 07:06:26 PM »
Serious reply to Danimal...it sounds like you are putting this girl on a pedestal already bro....i'm not a "game player" and think you need to be an asshole, but you do need to remember that she is just a girl you like at this point

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #191 on: May 18, 2010, 07:11:59 PM »
Had a really good first date with this girl last night. Best one I've had in over 2 years. Broke up with my ex of 1.5 years last October. Been on this single chat line since December and I've had one and after another shitty dates with a string of different girls. So, last night, I went in with an open/positive attitude, but with NO expectations and DAMN son, I was blown the fuck away. We have a lot in common and the chemistry was there. It really felt 2-sided. I was the second guy she met off the site. She said she saw this other guy a few days earlier, but is having a lot more fun with me. She wanted to be honest and you know what? I respected her for it...

Anyway, it was fun, chill and easy going. She even came up to my place at the end of the date, but because I liked her, I made out with her and that was that, confident that there'll be more in the future..

Alright, so I'm here tonight, wondering what you guys think in regards to how long YOU would wait to call her? She is definitely the kind of girl who likes the guy to take the lead and initiate. Having spent 4 hours with her last night, I got that impression. So, the next move has to be from me. I want to see her again. I was thinking of this Wednesday night. Is calling the day of, for that night, too short notice? It's either that, or I call her tomorrow, asking her for Wednesday. Is waiting 2 days too eager?

Anyways, give me your thoughts guys. How long would you wait and how would you ask her out for a second date? Just direct? This girl has quality and gf material written all over her.





sounds like she is a player, she laid some game down on you who sounds desperate, and you ate it all up.  Fuck her before she moves on to the next guy and don't take her too seriously.

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #192 on: May 18, 2010, 07:12:15 PM »
Serious reply to Danimal...it sounds like you are putting this girl on a pedestal already bro....i'm not a "game player" and think you need to be an asshole, but you do need to remember that she is just a girl you like at this point

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #193 on: May 18, 2010, 07:13:34 PM »
I eagerly await an update tomorrow 8)

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #194 on: May 18, 2010, 07:16:32 PM »
Serious reply to Danimal...it sounds like you are putting this girl on a pedestal already bro....i'm not a "game player" and think you need to be an asshole, but you do need to remember that she is just a girl you like at this point

I agree with you man. when I was with her on Sunday night, I was busting on her and was a cool cat. How can I put this? I saw something in her (even in the short amount of time we spent together) that I haven't seen in all the women I've gone on dates with since December combined. That is why I am taking this shit a little more seriously.

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #195 on: May 18, 2010, 07:21:03 PM »
good for you dude....seriously.

Just be cool, don't act like a douche and you should be good. A woman, especially a quality woman who gets plenty of offers, can smell desperation a mile away....and desperation is pussy repellant

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #196 on: May 18, 2010, 07:23:36 PM »
I agree with you man. when I was with her on Sunday night, I was busting on her and was a cool cat. How can I put this? I saw something in her (even in the short amount of time we spent together) that I haven't seen in all the women I've gone on dates with since December combined. That is why I am taking this shit a little more seriously.
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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #197 on: May 18, 2010, 07:24:22 PM »
remember that she's 27.  and a teacher.


She's probably itching to find Mr Right.  She's looking at 30, has no man and no kids, and no prospects if she's on match.com hitting on getbiggers.

So while she holds the vajj power, you hold the power of being a single 32 year old (with standard getbigger qualities).  Treat her as an equal 100%, and you might get some place.  At this point, maybe she's looking for a partner with whom to take on the great challenges of life.  She wants a MAN she can show off to the other teachers.


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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #198 on: May 18, 2010, 07:28:42 PM »
There are some fine ass women on dating sites Roberto J wigglefrapp

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Re: How long do YOU wait to call a chick after a successful FIRST date?
« Reply #199 on: May 18, 2010, 07:28:51 PM »
remember that she's 27.  and a teacher.


She's probably itching to find Mr Right.  She's looking at 30, has no man and no kids, and no prospects if she's on match.com hitting on getbiggers.

So while she holds the vajj power, you hold the power of being a single 32 year old (with standard getbigger qualities).  Treat her as an equal 100%, and you might get some place.  At this point, maybe she's looking for a partner with whom to take on the great challenges of life.  She wants a MAN she can show off to the other teachers.



Yup. Women love to show off their man to their friends. Especially if the man is good looking, well educated, and has  a good job. Its almost like a competition.
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