milos i think you need to take a deep breath.
you have been screwed by your wife, she in clearly no longer in love with you, she has stolen from you and by the sounds of it there is nothing you can do about it without a good lawyer ( which you cannot afford unfortunately )
you have lost your gym, and are facing multiple charges for various crimes.
when/if you get away with this you need to seek medicine for your anger issues / bipolar tenancies first and foremost. then you need to start from the bottom, be a personal trainer in a well known busy gym i.e. golds Venice or some such, or perhaps trainer to hollywood stars - you know how to get fast results - use this to your advantage.
do not be so quick to rush things, take your time, try not to be so confrontational.
make peace with your ex, tell her she can have the gym, etc get your things and start again.
you have a lot to offer bodybuilding, do not just extinguish like a candle flame in a dark cave.
good luck.