So can anyone on here speak of my original fluorescence issue?
A GIA survey found that fluorescent diamonds were favored over non fluorescent diamonds in both the lower color range AND in the higher colors, (D, E, and F) which are usually discounted by the trade. Many years ago D-F colorless fluorescent diamonds were highly prized and referred to as "blue-white," but sales people abused the term by including any diamond with fluorescence. So, usage of "blue-white" was outlawed by US trade practice laws.
Discounting Fluorescent Diamonds
One may argue for discounting fluorescent diamonds, because the GIA lab grading lights actually emit a small amount of ultra violet light. Thus, fluorescent diamonds might be assigned a better color grade. It is difficult for graders to determine a diamond’s true body color with even a small amount of ultraviolet light in the mix. The counter-argument from the GIA Gem Trade Lab is that UV light is present in many viewing environments, so it follows that color should be graded in realistic lighting.
I just bought a GIA certified 3 stone ring from Jamesallen.com. I looked at bluenile and it does come highly recommended but the settings were limited for what I needed.
I wouldn't worry about the blue flouresence if it isnt overpowering. It's likely you won't even notice it.