so who is an alpha to you?
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there are no alphas or betas, as simple as that. No winners, no losers. There are people with values who take care of their families and sacrifice themselves for them, and others who have no values and sacrify their family in the pursuit of their own vain endeavours and pleasures. Destroying a couple, a family, is an act of war, of death.
Everything is change, and we all get old, weak and judged by everyone else for our actions in our life.
Old dominant chimpanzees and gorillas when they age have to step down cause they cant fight the younger dominant males. If they led peacefully, these new dominant males wont treat them badly, if they led by force, they ll end miserable.
This is how it worked for our ancestors too and how it works nowadays in our everyday life.
You guys are funny with all your "alpha male" thingy , but you ll think twice about it when you ll be in your 60s , abandonned by everyone with kids , family and friends not giving a damn about your sorry ass, worse, attempting to hurt you the way you hurt them in the past. The funny is at that point you have no more stamina left to repair much, too bad !
Again, causes, consequences....which became new causes that create new consequences and so on...